What are all these spots around my pubic area?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl. I just wanted to ask for some advice. I don't shave down there but it's always sore and has red spots everywhere down there and sometimes they even bleed. What do you think it is? ...
A. 8 February 2008: have you brought this to your parents attention yet? You should not be afraid to do so, it could be a few things there is no way to tell you unless it is seen by a medical doctor, Are you sexually active? Does it itch? if yes to both of these could ... (read in full...)
Should I do something or wait for him.
Q. Okay, so I fancy this boy that I do theater with in town. We don't go to the same school, but we are friends. I asked him to my semi formal dance and we went together and had so much fun! We are always talking and flirting...but he also flirts with ...
A. 6 February 2008: ask him out! whats the worst that could happen? ... (read in full...)
Why am I still in love with him?
Q. I fell in love back in high school. This guy is imprinted on my brain. I love him. It gives me chills to be in his presence. I try and get the message across that I love him. He talks to me and responds but he never initiates a relationship that ...
A. 6 February 2008: There is always that one person who we sorta feel got away.... the good guy who we left behind, for one reason or another! You are a relationship and you state that you "should" appreciate so i suppose you do not? Did you ever have a relationship ... (read in full...)
Should I confront him at school tomorrow?
Q. I have been going out with this wonderful girl for a couple weeks now. We are in a pretty good relationship. But today after school an aquatance of mine was hanging around with My girl and I and she went to reach to move him away so she could mo...
A. 6 February 2008: pushing him and swearing at him is enough...he should get the point! If his behavior continues...then take him aside and tell him you dont appreciate his behavior...try to talk and aviod a fight.... good luck!... (read in full...)
Hes with a gf, she abuses him, I mailed her, now he wont speak to me!!!
Q. I have been in a realtionship for 2 yrs with an man witha GF. He says he loves me and he is leaving her. She hits him, calls him down and abuses him. He says he is scared of her finacilly and what she will do to his posessions. They own a house ...
A. 1 February 2008: he doesnt sound worth it! if he was leaving her for you then the fact that you called his girlfriend shouldnt be an issue should it?... (read in full...)
His contact with other women is killing my feelings & desires towards him
Q. I'm a little embarrassed, but I need advise again. My boyfriend continues to have contact with his ex's and I have gotten to the point that I am becoming so resentful towards him, that I am beginning to feel like I am not attracted to him anymore....
A. 1 February 2008: It's so hard to give good advice without all the pieces. But yeah when we get so mad at someone its true we become very unattracted to that person, completly normal. If he is different in the bedroom that might indicate a problem or an infideli... (read in full...)
He hates condoms!
Q. I've recently began having sex with my boyfriend, and I went on the pill, so we could have unprotected sex together (as we know we have no STIs and are regularly checked anyway). Yet, now I've decided to not be on the pill, as its easier if he just ...
A. 1 February 2008: lots of men dont prefer condoms but its your body your choice!... (read in full...)
I want to send this girl roses, but what do I write on the note?
Q. I decided to order some roses for this girl I like. (It's this package deal thing my school is doing to generate funds for some charity) It comes with a message but I don't know what to write exactly. Any suggestions would be helpful. ...
A. 1 February 2008: I like the first guys response! ... (read in full...)
What can I do about my boyfirends constant lying??
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now. I am 16 and he is 17. When we first started to go out he was constantly lying to me and said he only done it so people would like him. But it was affecting our relationship so he ...
A. 1 February 2008: the boyfriend is the least of your problems right now...you need to work on you. your boyfriend may tell lies but this is not his fault that you cut up. this is an issue within yourself, there will be many times in your life that people will lie and ... (read in full...)
Cut or uncut, what do girls prefer?
Q. Do women prefer foreskin or no foreskin?...
A. 1 February 2008: honestly if we're attracted to you then it doesnt matter.... (read in full...)
I'm 8 months pregnant and 16 yrs old, but I want to have a singing career, any advice?
Q. I have a problem, i wonder if any of you can help. Im 16 years old almost 17 and (foolishly!) im 8 months pregnant. However ive just noticed that i have a real talent for singing and i would love to pursue this career. i dont want to be tied d...
A. 1 February 2008: well you sound a little selfish!!!! did you think of this before you got pregnant? I mean a baby is a life long commitment. A baby is not a death sentence however. If you want to become a singer than you need to practice at home when your with the ... (read in full...)
Is my partner finding fault in my sexual performance, if she wants a vibrator?
Q. My girlfriend wants a vibrator, but I don't want her to. Why does she want one? Is it becuase I'm terrible in bed? Will she ever want sex again?...
A. 1 February 2008: your cute,,,dont take it personal, toys are just added excitment, no match for you im sure. lots of woman have toys, doesnt mean we like em better than our men! men do lots of things that vibrators cant match,,,, i completly agree with a taste of ... (read in full...)
I get the hots for older teachers, do you think I should seek therapy?
Q. It's hard to explain, but i'll try to make it as simple as possible. Okay, i've liked a teacher of mine for about four years now. Of course i'm aware that it's just a crush. Im also aware that it's probably fetish for me considering that...
A. 31 January 2008: well lots of girls have crushes on older men,I know cause I found one of my teachers hott when i was younger!! but importantly you need 2 give boys your age a chance! try to date your own age, might not be that bad!i dont think u need therapy but ... (read in full...)
19, I totally lost my sexual desire 2 years ago. Any advice?
Q. I am now 19 years and I totally lost my sexual desire 2 years ago. I also consulted a doctor who checked my hormone that appeared to be normal. Whats my problem and how can I solve it? ...
A. 31 January 2008: r u on any meds?... (read in full...)
He found messages from another guy on my phone, but I'm innocent, how can I get things back to normal?
Q. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about two months (I’m 27, he’s 25). Everything has been going really, really well, until about 3 days ago. He went into my cell phone and found text messages from another guy. There were two series of ...
A. 31 January 2008: was it really innocent? if it was then theres nothing else you can do about it. he has to drop it. youve only been with him two months and hes this jealous? maybe hes insecure or maybe hes been burned before whatever ...the reason hes gotta let it ... (read in full...)
I have a huge crush on my teacher, and I think he likes me too. What should I do?
Q. I really like a teacher at my school and he dosent actually teach me but we talk and we get on really well. I also think he likes me too. What should i do? Do i tell him or just keep talking to him and act as if i don't? ...
A. 31 January 2008: oh no........... dont go there.... (read in full...)
We don't have a good sex life because of a bad experience in my past, help me!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend now for 5 years and recently got engaged! the problem is that we dont have a great sex life! I had a bad experience with an ex boyfriend (which i dont relly want to go into). I dont really think about it any mor...
A. 31 January 2008: watch out antidepressants can afffect your sex life!!!!watch for side effects!!... (read in full...)
Together 7 years, still only 22 , now a guy and my girl's work is making her think about things, should I cut her out to make her appreciate me more?
Q. I am so incredibly confused. I'm 22 years old and my girlfriend and I have been together since we we're 15. I always thought that we would be together forever, however about a month ago i noticed a slight change in her behaviour as she seemed to be ...
A. 31 January 2008: oh boy!! tough one, see I hate to say it but in my opinion these sort of relationships rarely work out, few do but most ive heard of dont and to be perfectly blunt, I believe people get CURIOUS they want to explore life outside of what they know, it ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend likes her jerk Ex as a friend
Q. Ok, I just want a general opinon from people to see if I'm out of line. My girlfriend of a few years has a platonic relationship with her ex. The ex and I don't like each other because, I feel he harbors resentment for me taking her away and because ...
A. 29 January 2008: your definatly not unreasonable1 Im a girl and I think your girl is crossing the line big time! how would she feel if you did this to her? she should have respect for you, and thats not the way to show it! put your foot down, and if she doesnt agree ... (read in full...)
I'm in the Navy , she wants to take it slowly, is this a real relationship?
Q. Here is my situation, I am currently in the Navy, which i dont think that this is a problem. But within the last 6 months i have started talking to a girl that i dated in high school, i was very much in love with her at the time. Over the time we ...
A. 28 January 2008: maybe shes afraid of your up and leaving on her. army, navy they do that and its hard on the partner to wait around.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to remain jobless, but I want to work. How do I get past this?
Q. Hey I was wondering if I could get some help from some people to help me solve my problem. My Boyfriend and I want to get married. We aren't getting married anytime soon and know mostly everything we want. He wants to graduate and be a lawyer....
A. 28 January 2008: Why does he not want you to work, did he state?? Maybe he is old fashion, thats all. But if you really want to work then you need to straighten that out before wedding bells occur. ... (read in full...)
I'm a single mom, and I need help getting over my ex.
Q. I want to move on helllllllllp! I am a single mum of three girls. A set of young twins and a four year old with special needs. I am finding it tough caring for the children and am still trying to move on from my ex. We split up last year as he ...
A. 28 January 2008: Wow I'm so sorry!!! I also find it hard to be alone (my mans in the army)! but you need to go out, have fun... find a sitter and go out with friends. Keep busy or start a new class,college course. A good man is hard to find! But, you shouldn't feel ... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend have a low sex drive or is there more to it?
Q. I have a lovely boyfriend for over a year now and we get on great only problem is we don't have sex very often. He is very shy about his body and to be honest i don't know why as he has a lovely lean body. Anyway, he insists that he has a low sex ...
A. 28 January 2008: The ex girlfriend story sounds like an excuse. Maybe he has low self esteem but he should be comfortable with you by now and realize you love him! Do you tell him you find him sexy? Men love that and believe me it'll be a big payoff for you too! ... (read in full...)
If I took antibiotics, what are the chances of me falling pregnant?
Q. Okay.....first off let me say that I know I made a mistake. But, my boyfriend and I have been having sex for a while. I am on the pill. We both have been tested, so we do not use condoms. However, I took an antibiotic Thursday and one Friday. I ...
A. 28 January 2008: Thats hard to tell antibiotics lowers the strength of the pill. But, if you made this mistake within the last 72 hrs., you can go get the emergency contraceptive pill...basically its a heavy duty dose of birth control! Good luck... (read in full...)
Why don't I fancy anyone anymore?
Q. about a year ago I really fancied a guy but he didn't even know i existed in that way. A little while before that I had a huge 6 month long crush on a fit mate and he never liked me or even considered me. Before that I have had crushes on countless ...
A. 28 January 2008: Sounds like your just going through a faze and your a little down on yourself because youve been rejected. You're very young, worry about your future right now not boys. First of all you need to feel good about yourself before someone else can feel ... (read in full...)
What happens when you take the pill?
Q. I'm considering going on the pill, but I'm not fully sure what happens. Do I have to stop taking it for a week, or something, to have my period? I'm confused where to get it from too. Can any of you give me some advice on where to get the pill, an...
A. 28 January 2008: Hi there, First of all there are many different birth control pills, many diffferent strengths. This is a decision that you should make with your own physician. There are so many options out there you need to find the right one for you. Keep in ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin. How can I get a boyfriend?
Q. I really need help. I've never had sex, I'm at the age of 23, and never really had a bf. Well, I kind of did, but it lasted only 2 weeks and he split with me. He was 34 and had loads of relationships. I never told him that I was a virgin.(I wish i ...
A. 28 January 2008: Just be yourself, you cant or should i say shouldnt change yourself for anyone. Sounds like the relationship you were in might have failed for other reasons,, and besides do you wanna lose your virginity to someone who leaves you at the drop of a ... (read in full...)
I fantasize about sex with other girls, whats wrong with me?
Q. I have a boyfriend that I really love, and we have a great relationship together, but I love the thought of a girl licking me out, possibly more than a guy... I'm so worried because the thought seems to turn me on more. It wouldn't feel right if a ...
A. 28 January 2008: nothing wrong with you many girls and guys feel this way. And even if you were a lesbian....so what! imagination is a gift so be lucky you have one and have the ability to make ordinary things feel ...well any way you want....dont worry about it.... (read in full...)
Penis problems, I need advice
Q. Hey, about a year ago, I came to the conclusion that my foreskin on my penis was tight. I now have realised its partially true, because the real reason is of the smegma on my penis head. The sperm and whatever else caught under the foreskin, has ...
A. 28 January 2008: I am in the medical field...do not do this yourself!!!! that area is very sensitive and at risk for many infections. You need medical attention(circumsision). when the skin is to tight you impede circulation to the area, from there swelling and pain ... (read in full...)
Wondering if I'm fantasizing
Q. My bf and I had been together for about 4 years now. We've known each other for more than that, but only be seriously dating for that time. We've had some really bumps on the road, and I had always been the one trying to salvage our relationship. ...
A. 28 January 2008: men and woman so different. let me tell you, we really do live on different planets! 4 yrs.? hard not to love someone after all that time no? maybe its just not his personality to be all those things you want from him, doesnt mean he dont love ... (read in full...)
What are our chances to have a baby?
Q. Hi, I am 38-39 years and desperately want a child with my new found love and husband to be shortly. He is 38 years, but I think he has a low sperm count since he keeps taking supplements like zinc and folic acid and even prepared to buy other ...
A. 28 January 2008: you think he has a low sperm count? has he been checked?... (read in full...)
I want more from this relationship..should I push for it or leave it, as is?
Q. I've started to see a guy I met about 3 weeks ago, it's still in the casual stages but i'm hoping that it might be more. We have been honest with eachother.. both saying that we are happy to stay single for nowand not push things too far. But i g...
A. 28 January 2008: dont tell him yet,,wait a little bit youll scare him especially if hes already told you hes not looking for anything serious right now. seems like your off to a good start cooking, shopping etc.Although im with you and would not like the talking in ... (read in full...)
Do Mum's appreciate honesty about the sexual behaviors of their teens?
Q. I know all about different types of contraception and the effects and side-effects and popularity of all different types of contraception. I'm trying to be very open with my mum about everything but obviously not too much detail and i was just won...
A. 28 January 2008: wow im a mom and id be proud to know my son/daughter was informed about the dangers of unprotected sex!I appreciate honesty and a well informed kid is more likely to earn more freedom. so yes I like honesty.... (read in full...)
Mind games have me nuts
Q. Hello, If you can give me some advice that would be great. Let me briefly summarize my story- it's rather complicated! So to begin with about 2 years ago I started dating/talking to "Bob" although we never labeled it a rel...
A. 28 January 2008: laura gave great advice listen to it!... (read in full...)
I lent him some money, he wants to pay it back but I feel I've been used and manipulated?
Q. Will try to put this as simple as poss, just wanted opinions really. Got back with someone last november after being split for 3 months. Previous to that we were together a year. He lied about something, nothing major, but it caused a wedge b...
A. 26 January 2008: doesnt sound like hes trying to hard to get you your money back! sounds like from your description of him thats hes a bit immature maybe selfish. I bet you can bring him to court,,why dont you try? sounds like your relationship is pretty much over ... (read in full...)
He wants to break-up and for us to experience other people but I have given all my heart to him.
Q. My boyfriend and I met each other about 5 months ago. In the time we have been with each other we have fallen deeply in love and have spent every free moment possible with one another. I truly and honestly believe that he is the one -- I had never ...
A. 26 January 2008: set him free if he returns it was ment to be if not it never was.........your boyfriend is obviously confused and probably scared. Try to be his friend right now and give him time, maybe hell come around. Times like what your going through is hard ... (read in full...)
She does not want me to be a reason of her break up but we have slept together behind her boyfriend's back. What next? I love her...
Q. I have fallen in love with a girl I've known for a year now the problem is she has a boyfriend almost the same amount of time. we have discussed the issue and her excuse is she doesnt want me to be the reason they break up but we have slept ...
A. 26 January 2008: sounds like shes playing you!!!!! using you! dont allow her to treat you like that stand up for yourself, put your foot down tell her you wont put up with it, she might dump her man she might not but really when you finally do get her will you ever ... (read in full...)
Did he cheat on me?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for 4mnths, i was a virgin b4 i met him but he's had quite a few partners b4 me. Recently i have found out that ive got chlamydia. He told me b4 we had sex that he was clean, and he got tested for STIs in december b4 i got ...
A. 26 January 2008: its hard to tell how long hes had this infection. he could have had it before he met you and just never knew,,maybe he was never tested, maybe he just said that to ease your mind. either way you caught it from him and now he hasnt been around ... (read in full...)
Can I get him back?
Q. i have been in a relationship for 7 months about 5 days ago he finished with me, we had plans to have babies go on holiday an live together. i dont know y he has finished with me i love him so much he means the world 2 me. how do i get him back....
A. 26 January 2008: he dumps you with NO explanation??? good thing you never had his baby,,,would he just take off on his child too? Your probably better off...sorry
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Why won't he touch me? Am I being selfish?
Q. The trouble is im in a long distance relationship and only get to see my BF for about 4 days a month or even 2 months. So when i'm home i cant keep my hands off him i want to kiss him and hold him and be intimate with tell him how much i miss him ...
A. 26 January 2008: you didnt state how long youve known this guy, if its been a while and your in love maybe you should ask him to go see a therapist. It is not selfish of you to want some attention especially since you dont see eachother everyday, I would do the ... (read in full...)
The thought of her having sex with another man gets me depressed...can we ever have normal sex again??
Q. Hi there aunts! I have a problem. Me and my girlfriend (2 years an a half) had a relationship breakdown quite some time ago. She went to another guy and she told me that she used the moment when she was weak and kissed her. She hinted that they had...
A. 26 January 2008: getting over it all depends on you,,,If you trully love this girl and wanna make it work then you really need to put it behind you,,if you cant then you need to move on. Maybe it would help if she was more honest with you, she at least owes you ... (read in full...)
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