The thought of her having sex with another man gets me depressed...can we ever have normal sex again??
Q. Hi there aunts! I have a problem. Me and my girlfriend (2 years an a half) had a relationship breakdown quite some time ago. She went to another guy and she told me that she used the moment when she was weak and kissed her. She hinted that they had...
A. 26 January 2008: getting over it all depends on you,,,If you trully love this girl and wanna make it work then you really need to put it behind you,,if you cant then you need to move on. Maybe it would help if she was more honest with you, she at least owes you ... (read in full...)
Why did she keep hold of my things??
Q. I was in a relationship for almost a year and a half with a woman that i loved dearly. One day (over the phone) she basically broke up with me; told me that she did not loved me and needed some room to figure things out. after a week, i called h...
A. 25 January 2008: Warning! most of the time when a woman tells you that they "need time" its over. Seems your still hooked on her. Could be a couple of reasons why she didnt return your stuff either she just wanted them for herself(what were they?) or she wanted to ... (read in full...)
We love each other, but are on opposite sides of the earth. Can this love be true, and is this worth pursuing?
Q. I live in the United States and have been in a relationship with a girl from the Philippines. We have known each other for over two years now and have often expressed how much we love and appreciate each other through mainly IM and email, and on a ...
A. 25 January 2008: hi! im happy you found someone who you feel connected to. You seem to have alot in common and share some sort of bond. Have you ever had any close contact with this woman? I dont believe long term relationships work,,,I believe that people need ... (read in full...)
Marriage problem - midlife crisis or age difference?
Q. Hi I have been with the same (only) woman for nearly 30 years - she is older than me and has children from her first marriage. I love her very dearly, but aargh! I'm experiencing a real sense of restlessness - looking at other women, wanting t...
A. 22 January 2008: wow thats a tough one! How much older is she? You want to have children now? Were you aware when you met her that she did not want to bear children with you? I believe people change and sometimes grow apart, unfortanatly. But on the other hand, it ... (read in full...)
We have hurt each other very much and now she has left. I love her though...advice?
Q. Help, my wife has left me! We have hurt each other very much and now she has left. I love her very much and I know she loves me, but the pain is to big at this point. We have children and I also don't want them to hurt. I am feeling depressed and I ...
A. 22 January 2008: You dont share many details on why she left, so advise is hard to give. ... (read in full...)
I want him to love me more! So much so that he's be scared to leave me...
Q. i want to make my boyfriend love me so much so that he gets scared to leave me, but i dont know how....
A. 22 January 2008: This is not possible!just Be yourself, love comes naturally. If you try to push yourself on him,, youll most likely make him run! He should love you for you!... (read in full...)
I'm not getting enough sex from my partner and an ex wants to see me. What do I do?
Q. Hi I am a highly sexed 25 year old and preferably like to have sex every night however my boyfriend (who's 40 by the way) of six years (whom I do love so much) has recently started a job with a contractor and has to work Monday right through to...
A. 21 January 2008: you have needs!!!! sorry girl...that sucks,,,sometimes love just aint enough!!! no but seriously,,hes tired thats exhausting! can he switch jobs,,,will he ?? have you told him how you feel?? he might think twice! try to make him understand your ... (read in full...)
What can I do about my long-distance gf going cold??
Q. Hello there, i am in a long distance relationship that is going very very sour. I have fallen in love with a girl i met on holiday we have been going out for about 5 months and i get to see her a couple of times a month due to her work (cabin c...
A. 21 January 2008: well give her space,,sorta make her think your not chasing her around and if shes into you she'll come to you trust me!!! Be strong!!!... (read in full...)
What can I do about my long-distance gf going cold??
Q. Hello there, i am in a long distance relationship that is going very very sour. I have fallen in love with a girl i met on holiday we have been going out for about 5 months and i get to see her a couple of times a month due to her work (cabin c...
A. 21 January 2008: hi,,long distances do make things very difficult,,im sorry this is happening to you! To me it seems that she lost interest and this could be for a variety of reasons, only she knows and only she can give you the answer you need. If I were you I ... (read in full...)
He's not in the mood anymore! Should I stay or leave?
Q. Should I stay or should I leave? My boyfriend and I have been together for close to 15 months now. Ou physical intimacy has been non-existent for the last 3-4 months. But we still have a great time when we are together. There is no tension, whenever...
A. 20 January 2008: could be soooo many reasons for this!! is he on any new meds?? high blood pressure?? maybe hes deppressed??? If he was not into you any more than he would not be going out with you having fun, there seems to be a bigger problem good luck.... (read in full...)
What do you get for a new boyfriend for Valentines Day?
Q. I've been dating this guy a couple of weeks. We've known each other 6 months or so, so I do know his likes and dislikes well-ish. (He's into cars, BMW's, enjoys drinking and going out, quite into his appearance - meaning he likes to look good/do ...
A. 20 January 2008: how about a nice sexy outfit from victorias??? he definatly like it and youll like his reaction.... (read in full...)
Could I be being used?
Q. hello im 33 and i am married to a muslim guy. we married after knowing him only 3 months or so. we married islamically.i think he is using me but his actions say otherwise. we argue a lot and he says he is in love with me , i would love a bab...
A. 20 January 2008: You seem very confused, do you have any hard evidence that hes using you? you state he treats your son well, which is a very positive thing. Does he cheat on you? different cultures make people act different than what you might be use to. sit down ... (read in full...)
I'm so sick of how boring our sex is!
Q. I have a problem that's really getting on my nerves. Me and my boyfriend have just recently lost our virginity to each other, and have been having sex a lot... A LOT! since that time. The only thing is, we're both (obviously) quite inexperi...
A. 20 January 2008: Sorry, why dont you try to watch like a porno or something educational??? there are many sex videos out there, you could both learn something! or try to push him down next time before he climbs on top! You cannot put the blame souly on him. Work ... (read in full...)
Advice on sex in hot tub please!
Q. Hiya abit of an awkward question but me and my wife are going to my sisters soon and she has a hottub thats normally outdorrs but it can be brought indoors which is what they have done in the winter. They have onverted one of the garages into a room ...
A. 20 January 2008: Hi,,bubbles could cause your girlfriend a yeast infection,,so leave the bubbles out if possible. But there is absolutuly nothing wrong with sex in the hot tub. Matter of fact the thought of being caught could be exciting, go for it youll love it.... (read in full...)
I love another man - should I stay in the relationship and work things out?
Q. I'm in a bit of a mess right now. I have a boyfriend of over five years and our relationship is really important and special to me. We have been through a few rough patches, which have all been from him wanting to get out, but we ended up resolvin...
A. 20 January 2008: You dont seem thrilled with your current boyfriend, maybe because of his "off and ON" feelings, sounds like you fought to keep him, and now the chase is done you won. Its all about if your willing to take the chance grass may be greener on the other ... (read in full...)
How should I go about making our relationship something more?
Q. ok so im 17 now before u think "oh he's got a problem" please read everything. I really like a girl and we get on really well but my problem is that she is only 12 atm. Honestly, we just get on so well, we always make each other laugh and see lots...
A. 20 January 2008: please hunny your human. im trying to tell you honestly your making a mistake. working in a prison i see many young men put away for this....only trying to help good luck.... (read in full...)
Is my Male friend to old for this Girl?
Q. hi everyone i have a bit of a problem with my best mate i dont know what to do he is 36 nearly 37 and recently confided in me that he has been having a relationship (mainly just sexual) with a 16 year old... ok this sounds alot worse its making...
A. 20 January 2008: dammm if it was my daughter id be pissed!!! if i was the girlfriend id be pissed!!!! shes barely legal and what could they have in common? maybe shes looking for a father figure, poor thing. and maybe hes looking for his youth again? I dont know, ... (read in full...)
How should I go about making our relationship something more?
Q. ok so im 17 now before u think "oh he's got a problem" please read everything. I really like a girl and we get on really well but my problem is that she is only 12 atm. Honestly, we just get on so well, we always make each other laugh and see lots...
A. 20 January 2008: You need to stop dead in your tracks......your looking at jail time and a reputation of a sex offender. trust me with this one i work at a prison...walk away. ... (read in full...)
FRIENDS
Q. Life can be hard, So many lessons to learn. A friend of a friend was introduced to me as he had depression and on going drug problems my friend thought I may be able to help, So I took him under my wing so to speak. He was going on a holid...
A. 20 January 2008: glad you were of some help and you seem to feel good about it. Just be carefull i work with drug addicted people all the time.And god forgive me but few want help and few want to better themselves, and worse off theyll rob you blind.... (read in full...)
When Does The Hurting Stop
Q. I have known this guy for about eleven years and we seen each other for the first five. He was my first love and I have never been able to get over him a hundred percent. I have moved on and found someone else and I love him very much, we are ...
A. 20 January 2008: so you really love the guy your with? Sounds like you do. You still have time to back away though. If this guy keeps popping in and out there might be a reason. Hell my boyfriend says you make your own destiny, not sure i agree. Is this other guy ... (read in full...)
What if the grass isn't greener on the other side?
Q. Need a little advice...it may be long. I apologize in advance, but it's best to tell the whole story. Okay, I am in over my head...I have this absolutely wonderful boyfriend who i would never deliberately hurt, but about a month ago a good...
A. 20 January 2008: there is no garantee in life. why dont you sit down with the friend and have a one on one talk tell him your concerns and listen to his, you may think hes mature but is he really playing head games?? wants you dont want you,which is it if hes so ... (read in full...)
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