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writes:I've started to see a guy I met about 3 weeks ago, it's still in the casual stages but i'm hoping that it might be more.We have been honest with eachother.. both saying that we are happy to stay single for nowand not push things too far. But i get the feeling I like him more than he likes me... I know he is talking to other girls (i myself am talkin to another person) but he has had convrsations with them over the phone while I'm with him, something I wouldnt do...I've stayed round his house a couple of times and we do certain coupley things.. cooking for eachother, shopping together etc... We see eachother quite often.. at least once a week but usually its twice a week.I'm not looking to excel the relationship into something really serious but i would like to know that there is a possibility of that happening somewhere down the line...Should I just treat this as a casual relationship , not push it and leave it up to him or should i try and make it clear that im hoping for more once we kow eachother better?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (28 January 2008):
 His talking to the other girls on the phone in front of you shows that he has nothing to hide from you. He is quite honest about it. They are just platonic friends.
I would say that your kind of relationship is no more casual even if you won't admit it.You are more like a couple , save for that official declaration.
Someday it will just happen, when the magic fairy comes and spray those love dust on you both.
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reader, speedcat  +, writes (28 January 2008):
dont tell him yet,,wait a little bit youll scare him especially if hes already told you hes not looking for anything serious right now. seems like your off to a good start cooking, shopping etc.Although im with you and would not like the talking in front of me, at least you can say hes not being sneaky by hiding it from you.give it some time then let him know how you feel, seems he will have no problem telling you how he feels! good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2008): well first of all, you are only seeing each other 3 weeks, and you knew at the start that you were getting into a casual thing. if you try and push things further you are just confusing him because you both agreed that you were on similar ground. if you are uncomfortable with him taking calls with other girls while your there then say it to him. but just remember that you've only be seeing eachother for 3 wks, so dont expect too much. give it some time, you never know he may feel the same way in time. just try not to rush things or you may scare him away.
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