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writes:My boyfriend and I broke up about 2 1/2 weeks ago, (our anniversary is in about 20 more days) He did the whole not talking thing to me, and I couldn't bottle it in anymore that I wasn't over him, so I finally called, just to find out that he's back with his ex. I'm holding onto sand, cause I don't know what else I can do. Everything I try to, just ends up reminding me of him in some way. Please help :(
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (7 August 2007):
 The reason we form romantic relationships is to see whether or not we're compatible with another. You and him obviously weren't as compatible as you first thought and him getting back with the ex only confirms this.
You need to keep busy now, tell yourself he wasn't worth it, he's a nice guy an' all but just now for you. Out there is someone far more suited for you and only when you close the door on your ex once and for all will you find him. Here's a link that will help you move on.
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Over-a-Break-Up
The old adage is very true... "time IS a great healer". You'll look back on this in a year or so and laugh at how upset you felt, just look to it as a learning curve, you'll be fine. You're ego is a little bruised just now and yes, you're hurt but you will get over him, trust me on that.
Eve
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reader, Skeez +, writes (7 August 2007):
 Im very sorry to here that sweety.
Im not sure what else there really is you can do.
Maybe hes not sure whether he wants you back yet.
My ex did the same thing to me.
As soon as we broke up he went straght back to his ex who still wanted him, then a few days later calls me up telling me he wants me back.
Now I dont want to put your hopes up darling, but he may turn around soon.
If not then you should try and move on, even though I understand its hard. But one day youll find someone else.
Goodluck sweetheart
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (7 August 2007):
 HiIts awful isnt it when they go back to their ex. I had a guy do that to me when i was very young. My 'first love' and all that. She was older than me and was into things obviously i wasnt at 15. But you just have to dust yourself off and get out there and have fun again.Whats the alternative?Stay strong and thank your lucky stars you found out the guy is unstable enough to keep going back to the past, and find yourself someone nice in time.C xxxxxx
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