I'm worried I might lose my wife due to my erection problems
Q. Im 29 year old, everytime i sex with my wife i loose erection half way i dont know what is going on, im afraid i might loose her for this problem im having please help. ...
A. 12 May 2010:
Are you able to maintain an erection, and ejaculate when you are on your own? If you are then your problem is psychological. This means you need to address whatever it is that is stopping you from relaxing and enjoying being physical with your wife... (read in full...)
I couldn't be bothered to have sex with him anymore, will he cheat?
Q. hi i'm laura and i'm in an interracial relationship with my Fiancée for 7 years he still find me sexy but i can't be bother to have sex with him much now , at first we used too be at it like sex craved teenagers the slightest touch would turn me ...
A. 11 May 2010: If you no longer want to have sex with him - that is the problem. Not that he may cheat on you.
The fact you can't be physical with him indicates, on some level, that you do not want to be with him. When women are attracted and emotiona... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is very sensitive and I accidentally offended her! How can I make things right?
Q. Hey all. Thanks for checking out my question. Okay, so my girl is VERY sensitive. Yesterday, I called her and everything was okay. We talked about this and that until the point where her friend called when i was talking to her. Her friend made ...
A. 11 May 2010: Apologise in a way that you sincerely mean it, and then move on and forget about it. Concentrate on having good times and not getting in to any more issues. If your girlfriend continues to find it a problem or seems like she can't move on, it is h... (read in full...)
Since we slept together he has been in touch less
Q. dear all... i have been chatting and phoning a guy for the last 2 weeks....every day...at length.. and we met at the weekend....the date was great... and we both said we wanted to meet again.... we did sleep together and it felt very natural.......
A. 10 May 2010:
2 weeks is a short time before sleeping with someone if you are expecting a relationship out of it. This is especially true if it was the first time you had met.
I suspect he hadn't got to know you well enough to see you as a potential gi... (read in full...)
I am feeling very unattractive at the moment
Q. I was just wondering about what some of the biggest turn ons and turn offs for single girls are? I'm just not feeling very attractive at the moment! So i want to do something about it. I dont mean to change who i am, i just want to change the way i ...
A. 8 May 2010:
I would suggest physical exercise, like a sport, running, or the gym. I exercise regularly (4 - 5 times a week) this in combination with buying new clothes, keeping well groomed (hair styled, clean short nails, healthy skin) keeps me feeling attr... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and a father
Q. I'm 15, and going to job corp with my gf. I got her pregnant and job corp allows pregnant woman to live there with benefits and I know i'm going for sure because well I love her, and she has my kid. I refuse whoever suggests to terminate the ...
A. 8 May 2010: I can see how you must be both excited and scared. Any guy whether he is 15, 30 or 50 feels this way when he hears that he is going to be a dad.
You know, in life usually when you work hard at something, it will pay off. If you work at being a ... (read in full...)
He has issues with my past
Q. I've read a good number of posts on the subject, but I want to see if anyone can give me a little insight on what I can do. A few days ago my boyfriend questioned my past. We had a long talk about it, not going into any specifics, and things seeme...
A. 8 May 2010: Hey
You seem really insightful and responsible in handling this situation. You are right, some guys can react to the past badly and this includes them getting angry. Anger can often be out of frustration of not being able to communicate feelings... (read in full...)
Why do people in happy relationships cheat?
Q. A close friend of mine recently confessed in secret he is cheating on his fiancee. However, he's been in a loving, committed relationship with her for 7 years...so I want to know why it is that people in happy relationships cheat?...
A. 7 May 2010: I don't think people in loving, committed relationships do cheat. Why would they want to?
I think your close friend is not telling you the full story.
Clearly there is something missing from his relationship that he has either not tried to res... (read in full...)
His ex's texts are making it hard for me to trust him
Q. Hi, I'm 18 and have been at university since September last year. I started going out with a boy I met here in October, the whole thing has been so intense from the start and now he practically lives with me. I have serious trust issues with him ...
A. 6 May 2010: I agree with the below.
You've really got to be strong and let this one go. There will come points in your life, where you have to make difficult decisions, knowing that in the greater scheme of things, it is in your best interest. This is one o... (read in full...)
Am I grasping at a decomposing relationship?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for just over ten months (April 27th was the 10th). Recently, her mood towards our relationship has completely polarized. Initially, we've been very close and we even admitted to loving one another ...
A. 5 May 2010: You are being too intense. She said herself that you were smothering her. Smothering someone is BAD! Listen to her carefully. The way you are behaving, is destroying your relationship.
She needs to be able to MISS YOU when you're not around. ... (read in full...)
Will she tell me she wants anal?
Q. Will women just come out and say what they want? My wife originally was anti-anal, wouldn't even let me get close. As time has gone on, things have progressed and it was first playing around the outside of her anus, then pinky penetration, then ...
A. 29 April 2010: Try and man up about it. When you are next having sex, tell her you what you are going to do "I'm going to put my finger in your ass" and then tell her how it feels "ooh that feels so good" "you make me feel so turned on" and then, if she seems to ... (read in full...)
I just don't know how to walk away from him!
Q. well, my Bf keep cheating, dating chatting on facebook. he denied that we are actually together once. i walked out and i came back to him.it's like there's something dragging me to him all the time. He hurts me badly, he doesn't care, he chat with ...
A. 29 April 2010: "it's like there's something dragging me to him all the time"
That would be your lack of self-esteem. Look at this rationally sweetie, why would anyone stay with someone that always hurts them? That is not love. You, as you say, are afraid o... (read in full...)
Boyfriend angry we broke up and says "Once a whore, always a whore!"
Q. I need your help. I have no one else to turn to about this. I can't talk to my family and I no longer am able to talk to my best friends. This is alittle complicated, my boyfriend and I dated in highschool for 2 years and during that time I did some ...
A. 21 April 2010: I was going to say that your boyfriend seems immature about handling "life" issues, but when I got on to the bit about him stopping you from seeing your family, and friends, it became immediately apparent that you are in an abusive relationship, and ... (read in full...)
Can't let go of a past one night stand, he had...am I being too paranoid?
Q. I posted a similar question a few days ago but I'm still a bit confused on how to handle this situation. Sorry for the long post guys. In July last year I met two guys I was intersted in. I went out with both of them on dates, no sex or anything ...
A. 20 April 2010: You seem an insightful person and although you mention about being a virgin before being with him, I think in all honesty, most people, guy or girl would be a little curious about the dates not matching, and having an unsettling need to want to ... (read in full...)
He said he's going through difficult times but I don't want to let him go
Q. im in love with this guy. ive liked him for 8 months. but we were all over each other at this party and he told me he liked me no he told me he loved me, but then the next day he said he wasnt sure. he said he was going through some sh*t and didn...
A. 20 April 2010: I agree with CindyCares. If you create a little distance, he will feel that distance, and will be more likely to want to resolve whatever problems he is having, and then get close to you. You don't have to be totally off with him, just try an... (read in full...)
I want to stop thinking about my girlfriend's past...
Q. i met my girlfriend 2 years ago. we've been together for 9 months now. i really love her. she had sex for the first time 6 months before we got together. she had sex a second time maybe 2 weeks to a month before we got together. th...
A. 16 April 2010: Wow, it sounds like the damage is done and I wonder if there is any going back, it doesn't sound like it - if I'm really honest.
Why did you get those graphic details from her? no wonder you are going through hell now. See this as a lesson l... (read in full...)
Does who you lose your virginity to really matter?
Q. Well,now I have another dilema.I want to get over my teacher and feel that another guy would help.He's 18 and can drive iv known him for 5 years and he proposed that we have some 'fun',I'm up for it or at least would be if my sister hadn't given him ...
A. 13 April 2010:
You will remember whoever you lost your viginity to for the rest of your entire life!
That sounds rather important to me =)
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I feel used and cheap
Q. So my boyfriend and I had an argument. And I'm extremely pissed right now. We have been dating for 3 months. Off and on. We have not had sex since wednesday night, well we had sex on sunday (but that doesnt count he says). We got into an argument ...
A. 13 April 2010: I think you really need to try and let him know how you feel without getting in to an argument about it as then he will understand that it is not about him getting rejected, but because simply it is how you have always been and it doesn't change how ... (read in full...)
Problem with agressive sex!
Q. I have been dating a guy for over 4 months now, from the 1st time we met we have either seen each other or talked on the phone every night. From the beginning he has told me about his past, which involved sleeping with a lot of girls. He feels a ...
A. 11 April 2010: I do think there could be some kind of problem going on here in that it is more than him just being scared. I could understand if it was just the first couple of first times, but to me it seems there is a bigger problem about his character that he ... (read in full...)
We're both rubbish kissers!
Q. Hello, I've been going out with my boyfriend for a little over a year...and despite that, we haven't really been able to get the whole 'kissing' thing right...for example, our goodbye kisses are often nervous, rushed and awkward. Neither him or me ...
A. 11 April 2010: Check out kissing on YouTube. There are quite a few videos on there to give you tips on how to do it. Once you've both watched some videos together and got some practice in, I'm sure you will both become great kissers for each other!... (read in full...)
Are men just 'wired' to want to sleep around?
Q. Sandra Bullock. Elin Woods. Shania Twain. Jennifer Aniston. Sienna Miller (both the cheater and the cheatee). Today's news brings information on Gabrielle Beauvouis (can't spell her name) also being cheated upon for 5 years. Kate fucking Gosselin. ...
A. 9 April 2010: "Honestly, should ordinary women just give up?" I honestly don't think we can apply what happens to celebrities and public figures to ordinary people. "Ordinary" women attract "ordinary" men, and visa versa. That being said, I don't this ei... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that I am taken aback by my wife admitting how many people she has slept with?
Q. me and my wife are both 30 and been together for 12 months. we recently did the "how many people have you slept with" conversation and she confessed to sleeping with 36 people, mine is 12. am i wrong to feel slightly taken aback by her sleeping with ...
A. 9 April 2010: Wow, what a mistake to ask that question, especially as you are already married!
36 not a high number if that person is OK with having sex outside of committed long term relationships.
You've slept with 12, so I assume you've slept with a mix... (read in full...)
I'm about to get caught out for lying to my girlfriend.
Q. I'm going to make this short, Recently I told my girlfriend I've been going to Painting class when I have really been drinking with my friends and just doing guy stuff, Anyhow She wants too see some of my work, Well I cant paint at all, I See this ...
A. 9 April 2010: Open up and tell her the truth, try and explain why you felt the need to lie but DON'T make out like it was her fault, put the fault entirely on yourself, say you are sorry and that you will be honest and open in future.
If she loves you, I think ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got another girl pregnant!
Q. I am going through a really hard time and im looking for some guidance or advice. im sorry if my questions seem all over the place but here i go. I have been dating my boyfriend since march of 2007... we have been through so much togethor and that...
A. 9 April 2010: WALK AWAY. You are just 19, you so MANY MANY years left ahead of you where you can date and eventually find the perfect man for you. It is all too easy to think that you have already found "family" as you say but do you think you want to have a ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is begging to not lose me... I need as much advice as possible!
Q. Recently, I posted an a thread about me and my ex having some issues with other people in our relationship. This is the last post I wrote..Okay so, me and my girlfriend got back together after a 1 month split up and we are doing great. Before t...
A. 31 March 2010: Definitely don't ask for a break! If this guy is so heavily in to her life already, you will be almost certainly offering her in to his arms.
I think the core of this problem is that you don't actually know WHY she is spending so much time tal... (read in full...)
What is stopping my boyfriend having sex with me???
Q. Hello everyone, My partner and I have been together for three years now and he has still not had sex with me. I am a virgin and he has had a lot of past experiences. However, a year ago I felt ready to have sex so I let him know only for h...
A. 30 March 2010: Hey, just a suggestion but maybe you would be happier with someone else? It sounds like you have some big problems in the relationship and someone at your age especially shouldn't need to be be dealing with such drama! Good to hear you are in ... (read in full...)
Help this stressed out hubby whose wife was sending naughty texts to another man!
Q. A few months ago I started suspecting my wife was sending naughty messages to one of the truck drivers that delivers to her work. I asked her about it and she said it was just a friend and they talk about their day and nothing more then that. We ...
A. 29 March 2010: Listen. Man up about this, and see it this way. Assuming she hasn't done anything physical with this guy, you can turn this situation around and use it to strengthen your marriage.
Your wife is obviously missing something from your marriage... (read in full...)
He's going to tell me to take down the facebook picture!
Q. my boyfriend starts fights over my face book dp! there is absolutely NOTHING slutty or anything about the picture i put up, it was actually a picture where i was in the background and i thought i looked good so i put it up as my dp.. now he is angry ...
A. 29 March 2010: Say "No, why should I, you're just a controlling looser who doesn't want any one to see that I actually look hot! Hey by the way, you're dumped! I think I'll get a better boyfriend who will actually treat me in the way I deserve to be treated - your ... (read in full...)
Met someone while broken up with boyfriend. Boyfriend is trying to work things out with me, but can't stop thinking about new guy...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years. We never had any major problems but my boyfriend surprised me by saying he doesn't know if he loves me anymore and wanted to take a break to get his head together. In the meantime, I met ...
A. 29 March 2010:
It's understandable you fell for another guy whilst you were on a break, it must have hurt that your boyfriend rejected you.
I think you definitely should try and work things through if your relationship as otherwise been good. 6 years is a l... (read in full...)
I didn't say no, but I was pushing him away and then I passed out. Was it rape?
Q. Last night i went to a small party of about 20 people. We played beer pong and all of us got really really hammered. My friend put me to bed and another male friend ended up sleeping in the same bed as me. At first we just talked and we cuddled, but ...
A. 29 March 2010:
He doesn't sound like any kind of friend to me. He really took advantage of you and yes it sounds like rape to me.
I think you would be best off staying well away from this man ever again and seeing this as a lesson learnt. Perhaps you can conf... (read in full...)
Who do I choose, my husband or my lover?
Q. I'm married but start loving to anish my boyfriend.My husband also love me but i never like his attitude and arguments ? I can't divorced with my husband because our family not permitted this they try to solve the problem between me and my husband ...
A. 29 March 2010:
You'll never be able to sort out your marriage whilst Anish is around. Maybe you should concentrate on trying to sort out your marriage first? Perhaps your husband and you can resolve your problems and live a happy marriage together.
If you've... (read in full...)
How can I learn to be less emotional?
Q. Okay I'm a very, VERY emotional person, I always have been and I'm very sensitive. I've had at least 3 people say I'm the most sensitive person they've met. Anyway.. it's actually really annoying and I have a boyfriend who I love alot. I was alwa...
A. 29 March 2010: I don't think you can just learn to be less emotional, no matter what people tell you.
As you get older, you tend to become more mature and experienced in dealing with life conflicts, so can handle events that happen differently so in that way... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is upset wont tell me whats making her upset
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend who I'm deeply in love with. We've been dating for about 7 months now and have had our ups and downs but recently, just a couple of days ago, she got really moody towards me; answers my ...
A. 26 March 2010: I think you need to pull back from this situation and give her space and time. The more you push the issue, the more reason she will be able to turn the issue on to you. It does sound suspicious, in that maybe something happened with someone else, ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend ready to hear the important details about my affair?
Q. Ok, so I cheated on my boyfriend 5 months ago and told him almost immediately, but left out details as he didn't want to know them. All he knows is that I cheated on him, we didn't have sex, and it was a one-time thing. The guy I cheated with lived ...
A. 26 March 2010: I think it is in the interest of both of you for you to tell the truth. It sounds like you really love him, and that he loves you. When two people love each other, they will rarely give up on that even when something like what has happened with you ... (read in full...)
I fell asleep on her and am really embarrassed about it. How do I approach her now?
Q. Last night me and my girlfriend were watching a film and I fell asleep on her. Anyway I woke up on the sofa under a blanket. She left a note saying 'good to see you found my company so interesting, sleep well babe". I'm really embarrassed and I ...
A. 25 March 2010: Aww, that's really sweet. Why are you embarrassed? She sounds a caring girlfriend, and she has a sense of humour to go with it.
Why don't you thank her for the blanket and say if you ever boring her to death then she is welcome to fall asleep o... (read in full...)
He takes Cialis for sex with me... but can watch hours of porn?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We also live together. In the beginning, the sex was great, and he told me I am the best lover he's ever had. However, the past couple of months, the sex has been declining rapidly. I ...
A. 22 March 2010: It sounds like he is over-exposed to pornography. He needs to abstain from porn for the time being - at least a few weeks - so that he can concentrate on you and your needs. I guess he is probably emotionally distant to you too? Sounds like he needs ... (read in full...)
Should cunnilingus be reserved for relationships only, or something you do with any sexual partner?
Q. My boyfriend has told me that he likes going down on a woman. And in the past has gone on all women he has been with even one noght stands! This disgusts me. I don't really like a being gone down on and any way what my boyfriend has told me turns...
A. 15 March 2010: That is a really good way of looking at it Miamine :)... (read in full...)
Should cunnilingus be reserved for relationships only, or something you do with any sexual partner?
Q. My boyfriend has told me that he likes going down on a woman. And in the past has gone on all women he has been with even one noght stands! This disgusts me. I don't really like a being gone down on and any way what my boyfriend has told me turns...
A. 15 March 2010: I can see what you mean, as oral sex in some ways can "seem" more intimate than penetrative sex. I haven't had many one night stands but I'd go down on a girl if she smelt good and was trimmed or shaved down below, it turns me on sucking and licking ... (read in full...)
I am still sleeping with my ex, and he is happy with the way things are
Q. Ok so I need some advice – am I being a complete idiot here?? Me and my ex got together in July 2004, and we split up in March 2009. He had cheated on me a couple times early in the relationship and I forgave that, we broke up because we just ...
A. 15 March 2010: Sorry to say this but I bet he won't hang around in your life if you stop having sex with him. He is using you, and I think the longer you stay in this situation the more it is going to really hurt you in the longer term. Not to mention when one... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's ex-girlfriend was kinkier/better in bed.
Q. *OP's own title* So I've been dating this wonderful guy for a couple months now, and everything's great. We have great sex which we both enjoy, but he has mentioned in passing a couple times the more adventurous things he did with his last girl...
A. 15 March 2010: I agree with the other advice. Another thing is, if you have the confidence that this relationship is going to last then you don't need to rush in to anything to prove yourself. Take things slowly, introduce new things SLOWLY. If you feel it is a ... (read in full...)
If a guy goes that far with you on a first date, what does it mean?
Q. ok, so i met this guy and we talked and flirted for about a week. then we were hanging out and he asked if he could kiss me....i said yes and we started to kiss. it was great at first but then he started touching me everywhere and he asked me to ...
A. 15 March 2010: A lot of guys will probably go as far as they can get with a girl. If you want him to see you as girlfriend material then don't go all the way with him. Show him you have boundaries and limits as to how far you will go with him. If he is a decent ... (read in full...)
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