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I keep telling myself that I don't like him but it keeps getting harder... there are two problems!

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Question - (2 June 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 June 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

There is his boy who i think that i may like, but im not too sure. He's sweet and funny and last night we talked on msn for 8 hours! I keep telling myself that i dont like him but its getting harder now. Also there are two problems. One is that i think my friend may like him and two is that he isnt exactly "Prince Charming" in the looks deparment so my friends dont approve. What should I do?

Please Help!!!

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A female reader, rachal  United States +, writes (13 June 2007):

rachal  agony aunti think that you should follow your heart. i used to like a guy that everyone( including my parents) thought was ugly. i shouldn't have listened to them because their thoughts andopinions became MY thoughts and opinions. just do what you think is right. good luck.

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A female reader, Princess~Abz United Kingdom +, writes (3 June 2007):

Princess~Abz agony auntno offence or nothing but that sounds kind of shallow ... looks arent the important thing in a relationship ... its how well u get on with the person ... and if you have to keep telling yourself u dont like him u obviously do!

Your friends opinions dont matter to be honest with you ... they cant control who u date!

So listen to your heart gal!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2007):

The most important thing is that you know in yourself that you truly can appreciate him for what he is, if you can do this then it shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks...also, talk to him in person, really get to know him, if you two can be good friends then go for it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2007):

Well, it sounds like he wants to be your friend if he spent 8 hours typing to you on should not matter to you that he is not devestatingly handsome, if your friends don't approve then they are most likely jealous that he likes you....looks are not as important as other qualities like being sweet and funny and kind, besides one of your friends likes him, and this you are worried about.

At your age, boyfriends come and go, just relax and try to enjoy having a new friend, it will all be fine at the end of the day....there will be other boys to chat with and be friends with, too.

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