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writes:Well am only 17 years old this year am going to be 18. I'm the only girl my parents have out of 5 kids so they take care of me alot. But I've been dating this guy for about 1 and half year. My parents don't really like him so at first we both agreed to make them think that we were friends and up to now they think we are still just friends. He has tried to talk to them about it but it never works out they change the subject. But now my problem is that when I finish high school we want to move in together but he wants to talk to my parents first and I want him to do it to but how do we tell my parents that we want to move in together if they don't even like him? Reply to this Question
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reader, Olivia(Y).  +, writes (14 March 2009):
 When your 18 you are legaly an adult and you can do what you like without your parents consent.
I would invite your boyfriend over and sit them down and calmly explain that you are together and love each other very much. Make sure your boyfriend has alot of contact with your parents as they will walm to him better that way.
After time and they are growing to see that he is responsible and caring say to them that you are thinking about moving in with him. As of you being 18 soon they can't really do anything about it. Just talk to them about it and make sure they know exactly what you want to do.
Do more things around the house and prove to your parents that you can be responsible and can look after yourself.
Good luck
Olivia
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