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writes:I dont; know what to do..I have a boyfriend and im in love with him hes my age and everything. But then ever since i joind an acting class i have fallen in love with a guy who is five years older than me! I am obbesedded with this guy! I cant stop thinkin talking dreaming abou thim!We are best friends together but i know it can never be more because he is gay! i ve tried everything to stop these feeling so i dont loose my boyfriend but there just there. Now my last resort is to leave this acting class but i dont want to because I love to act and im doing really well...Plese give me your adviceIt will be apretiated! x
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reader, rambini +, writes (13 April 2010):
 you have to either leave the acting class, or spend some special time with your boyfriend, do something fun together. try to rekindle the fun and excitement and dont let this guy get in the way of your relationship as it is never going to amount to anything. best of luck
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reader, laurenb12313 +, writes (13 April 2010):
The Only Option Is To Leave Him Or The Acting Class, Because Its Never Going Too work, He Wont Change How He Is, You Wont Be Able To Change It Either. Have You Ever Heard The Saying 'Never leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love? ' Theres Nothing Else You Can Do, Just Try And Stay Happy With Your Boyfriend, Hopefully It Will all Work Out In The end, Theres Nothing Much You Can Do, Unless You Just Make Really Close Friends With Him, Then You'll Like Him More As A Bestfriend Than a Boyfriend Good Luck x
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reader, laurenb12313 +, writes (13 April 2010):
Well, There Is No Other Way Too explain Things Like This, But Your Guna Have To Just Leave The Acting Clas or learn Too Control What Your Doing, Because You Cant Change The Way He Is + You Cant Leave Your Boyfriend For SomeOne who You Cant Be With. You ever Heard The Saying 'never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love x
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reader, laurenb12313 +, writes (13 April 2010):
Well, There Is No Other Way Too explain Things Like This, But Your Guna Have To Just Leave The Acting Clas or learn Too Control What Your Doing, Because You Cant Change The Way He Is + You Cant Leave Your Boyfriend For SomeOne who You Cant Be With. You ever Heard The Saying 'never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love x
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reader, natmarie +, writes (13 April 2010):
 Hi. I totally understand your problem. I have had this tiwce in ly life, and I am now 41!! it is really hard, but you must must try and respect the fact that he is gay, and cannot be any other way. leave the acting calss if you have too - there are others to go too. I actully left a job I was working in for over a year, as I could not bear to see my gay freind any more, as it was too painful, because I was in love with him, and I could not stand to see him every day, but now when i bump inot him in the street - it's ok. We love each other but in a freindship way. it took a long long time to move on tough. It;s very hard, as all we see is an attractive man of the opposite sex who acts like our freind but does not come on to us. Well done for recogizing that you are infact obsessed with him - try to do whjtever it takes to distance yourself from him if only for a while and spend more time with your boyfreind. Just tell yourself you do not want to suffer anymore about this guy. Has it also ever occured to you that he might be going through the smae thing ? eg: I love this girl but she is straight! I wish she was a gay man!!!! Just leave if you have too in order to move on. All the best. Love NAtx
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