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Why cant he treat me at least as a friend in front of other people?

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Question - (21 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 July 2010)
A female India age 36-40, *smiasd writes:

Hi

Me and my bf are dating for the past 6 months. We usually talk in phone in daily basis and we work in the same company but different location. I know his friends, they know me too. Whenver i visit his office he bahaves as if he doesnt know me. His friends used to talk to me, but he never acknowledge me even as his friend. We were close friends before dating. Whenever i ask about that he says guys talk worst things about us if they know this and btw we are indians. I am not sure whether i need to trust him or not. It just kills me the way he ignores me in front of his friends and fight with me whenever i vist his location even for official reasons. He never takes me much anywhere and i need to prester him a lot for outings and it happens like once in a month or something. Even if we meet for lunch, he never walks me till my office, he says someone might see us together which will create problem. I dont understand why that should create problem. Friends used to go together often for lunch. Why cant be treat me at least as a friend in front of other people. This really hurts me a lot

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010):

Dump this dude! Pretending not to know you is profoundly disrespectful. If he loved you and cherished you like he should, he would be proud to introduce you as his girlfriend to all the people in his life.

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A female reader, natmarie United Kingdom +, writes (21 July 2010):

natmarie agony aunthe is out of oder doing this, and disrespecting you. I think you should take your courage and ask him why he is doing this, and tell him how you feel. It is not good enough and you deserve better than this. Is he hiding something do you think? if he cannto stop doing it - then move on. xx

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