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writes:So i work with a girl, we've been very good friends for a long time and we had been growing close but i hesitated to make a move before i was more sureso after a night out she offered me the chance to crash at hers. I said no thinking it meant just that - sleeping in the spare room, but since i said no for the past 2 weeks she has been more distant with me, doesnt make the effort to chat or text anymore. i know my question sounds a bit trivial but i'm hoping anyone can offer some advice or their interpretation of this. she is quite shy. have i blown my chance?
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (18 June 2010):
 Not completely. Ask her out to do something interesting, have a good time and then have her crash at yours.
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reader, natmarie  +, writes (18 June 2010):
 You might have done, as she thinks yo have rejected her. if you are serious - ask her our for a drink, or meal.. Quickly!! GOOD LUCK - but MOVE FAST before she loses interest comepletley. XXX Nat MAriexx
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