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writes:Hi, I've been in a world of hysterics, and I'd really appreciate your help. Lately my boyfriend has been acting very strange. He and I first started going out a few months ago, and he was really nice to me and was very loving. Things have since changed; he doesn't seem like himself. He pushes me around a lot, and forces me into things. He gets angry more than easily, and I've noticed that sometimes his pupils dialate so far that he almost has no more green. I'm really scared because I know that his family has no religion, and I hope it's not that he has some kind of spirit in him. Please, I don't know what to do without seriously getting myself or my family hurt. Reply to this Question
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reader, amarid1 +, writes (25 September 2010):
Also my exes eyes went from black to red. They used to be light brown. That is a sign!
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reader, amarid1 +, writes (25 September 2010):
I just wanted to let you know that you are not alone. I am not crazy or anything but my ex was possessed. I want you to get away from him a soon as you can. I see your post was a long time ago and I hope you are still safe and healthy. I am going to pray for you because whatever is inside your boyfriend will hurt you. It doesn't matter what kind of person he used to be it will try to hurt you because he cares about you and it wants him to suffer. If you do not run away you will lose everything. Everything you love, ever aspiration you have, every dream and desire. The love you have for him will do nothing but hurt you because he will not get better he will only get worse. You cannot help him through this. The only person who can help him is him, he would have to try to help himself, fix himself find answers for himself. I had my doubts before about religion but now I am a very strong Christian and I thank God I had a little bit of faith because he will kill you. I mean he will take your light, your spirit, whatever thing that makes you, you. He will take it and you will either try to kill yourself, he will try to kill you, or he will make you like him and there will be nothing left of you. I almost died, do not take this lightly, don't think its just mental illness the people that say that probably havent seen or dealt with the things you have, they have no point of reference. This is the real him my Grant was an angel... at least I thought... it turns out he was monster. Don't believe the facade, also see if he has been lying to you about things, if you arent a jealous or suspicious person turn into one! but if you were smart and I hope you are you will run as fast as your legs can carry you. To the girl from August 3rd It was like that in my Ex's house. You need to get as far away from there as possible. You need to RUN. you are in danger as well. This shit is real!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2010): I forgot to add, there is no medication or drugs involved because I know that it sounds like that could be his or my problem but im positive I am not, & he had been through that situation when we were younger so I know how he acts & then it was spacy & paranoid & yes agitated easy but this is so different
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2010): Hi,
I have been with my boyfriend for 4yrs now. This past year everything has changed in the beginning he was amazing, sweet, loving, & respectful. He had his faults like everyone else but nothing crazy. It has gotten progressivly worse as time goes on & the past couple of months it is like he is someone else a totally different person, but not all the time, he will be ok then out of nowhere he is horrible. He will be ok we will be having a normal conversation & out of nowhere he gets very angry and screaming, yelling, cussing telling me that I just said or did something to him that never happened, or he will say something to me & swears up & down I said it & he cant believe im telling him that he said it, im crazy & delusional & its funny thats the way I saw it& we will get in a huge argument & he swears up & down that never happened. Then the next day he will not remember parts of it, & the parts he doesnt remember r when he is being hateful. He has always been hard headed & thinks if he is right about a subject that no matter what anyone else says he knows that he is right, but nothing like this. The past couple of months his whole face changes, he will be looking straight at me but its like he isnt seeing me. His eyes are completely different, empty looking. I tell him at the time he is acting different & what is going on & he just cannot see it. He honestly really does not remember or see it how it really is. The way he talks to me is very aggressive, hateful, & heartless. He is 30 now and I have known him since I was 13, & not just knew him from school or something, we were always very very close, so I know this is not him!!!! I finally decided last week I couldnt handle it anymore, that I will never be able to get him to understand or see what he is doing & it breaks my heart bc like I said he has not only been my boyfriend but my best friend since I was a kid. I never considered anything like possession or demons or anything but I had a friend visit on saturday from out of town which I have not told her anything about his actions she just knew we were having problems no specifics. She had never been to my house which I have lived in for a little over 4yrs. She got up to get a drink & went down the hall when she got to where the bedrooms were 1 on left 1 on right she turned around almost running & had a terrified look on her face. I asked her what was wrong & she just kind of stared into space then was just like oh nothing nevermind, she went back down the hall & it happened again, i was really freaked out now & worried about her she would not tell me anything she just looked very scared. She left immediately after that, she has always been one to be driving by a house & out of nowhere say eww that house makes me sick it gives me a horrible feeling & then I find out a family was murdred in the house. I always thought she was just messing with me & knew that had happened so she just said it, but she knew nothing about anything that I was going through. The next day I called her to make sure she was ok & she said yes I just felt something very angry & mean when I walked by the room on the right. The room on the right is the only bedroom left from the original house, the left room, living room, and master bed are new. I know I sound absolutely crazy & believe me I have questioned myself so many times thinking maybe he didnt say it or I just took it the wrong way or didnt hear him right but the things that are going on I could not possibly be imagining. I have always seen things out of the corner of my eye like a shadow of something but then it disappears when i turn my head to look, recently I was able to see it more descriptive & it was in the middle of the day in a completely lit room & i thought I saw a man sitting straight up & it looked like he had a hat on like the amish wear. I have never seen it like that, not where it actually was a shadow outline of a person. & random things are happening in the house, things moved, little stuff & it is always in the back part of the house(the original structure). I could go on & on, I am extremely freaked out and confused. I honestly never thought anything about the little stuff just thought well thats odd I thought I put the washer lid down or something like that. I need help!, am I crazy or what is going on, & the way he acts I am not the only one that notices so I know im not completely delusional, but the thing is he is completely ok when were out or away from our house. its when we have been home for a while that it happens. Please, please someone tell me something, no matter what it is I need opinions bc I cant go to anyone else without them probably admitting me to a hospital, thanks for your time
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reader, natmarie  +, writes (2 June 2010):
 I think he has serious mental health issues. Please get out of this relationship now, and save yourself, meaning no more contact, changing your number, and informing the police if he stalks you. Please get out now. Nat Marie
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 June 2010):
No, he's not possessed. This is the man he is, and you need to end it NOW. He clearly has major league anger issues, so it would be better for you end it.
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reader, annder +, writes (2 June 2010):
this sounds more like drugs, people who are going through this problem act very irritable and angry always looking for that high, not only is he acting strange (angry) but u say his pupils are always dialated, talk to him and ask him point blank if he is doing drugs and let him know why u suspect this. Unless he has been playing with the occult i think it may be a more physical issue rather than a spiritual one.
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