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How far does the penis have to be in, in order to get pregnant?

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Question - (1 March 2009) 10 Answers - (Newest, 2 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex a couple of hours ago, (the worst idea we've ever had) but when he comed he didn't fully pull out but he wasn't anywhere near totally in, it was as he pulled out he did. What are the chances of becoming pregnant from that? i know i need to get the morning after pill really just incase, but 1 i don't know where to get it or how to get there and 2 i have absolutley no time to get it.

advice anyone?


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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States + , writes (2 March 2009):

Tisha-1 agony auntHere's a video for your sex education:

You've had some good advice here. Please be sensible from now on! I hope things turn out well for you. Take care.

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A male reader, kllgunner United States +, writes (1 March 2009):

kllgunner agony auntim sry this was a really bad idea truthfully a man with a penis 12 inches long has just as much chance of getting you preagnent as a man with a penis 1 inch long so i hope your one of the lucky ones but your chances of not getting preagnent are very slim and the penis can be out side of the vagina as long as the sperm is on the vigina or around it u have a chance sperm are ment to swim to the philopian tubes so your chances are very high for getting preagnent think next time (cover the stump before you hump) hope your lucky

-madly in love

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A male reader, mirrorimg361 United States +, writes (1 March 2009):

You should definitely find some way of getting the pill soon. Your boyfriend does not even need to be inside you AT ALL for to get pregnant, any seminal fluid touching near there can cause pregnancy. If you need anything else, message me and I'll try to help. Good luck.

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (1 March 2009):

natasia agony auntIf he was not totally in but still in a bit, then you definitely need to take the morning after pill.

You can call yr doctor first thing, get an appointment and get it. Or you can go to a pharmacy and ask for a private interview and get it, I think. Either way, you need to get it asap.

As for not having time - you need to MAKE TIME. Just making a bit of time tomorrow will save a hell of a lot of awful trouble later, if you are pregnant. Do it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks for the quick replies,

but just to add me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year now, this is the first time we've done it unprotected and we lost out virginity to each other so theres no risk of STI.

anyways, your answers helped alot,

thanks x

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (1 March 2009):

Go to ANY chemist. You may have to pay for it but you chose not to pay for condoms so you get to lose £20. It's a lot cheaper than a baby.

Or go to ANY doctor, who can prescribe it. Or go to the hospital and there will be a clinic where you can get it.

Or go to the family planning clinic who can give it to you.

You had sex, he came in you, you WILL get pregnant from this. This was a very stupid thing to do.

You also need to get checked for STI's since he's willing to risk your health and ruining your life by having sex without a condom, so he's probably not the most trust worthy type.

Having no time is not an excuse. No matter what you have on between the now and tomorrow night you HAVE to get that pill.

Do you really want to have to tell your parents that you had under age, unprotected sex, and you might be pregnant?

Get the morning after pill. And get some condoms.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, jessica04 United States +, writes (1 March 2009):

jessica04 agony auntGo to any pharmacy and ask whether they can give you a single prescription. In the US we have 'planned parenthood' clinics that can give it out. You local pharmacist should know. If you have to, walk. Make the time, because you have on 72 hrs for the morning after pill to be effective.

(sorry, I had just realized there was more to your question)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009):

You're just as likely to get pregnant with him part of the way in as if he were all the way in. The sperm can easily swim the extra inch. Yes, a morning-after pill wouldn't be a bad idea. Are you in the fertile part of your cycle? If you've just finished your period, or if you expect your period soon, you have less to worry about.

If you were my daughter, I'd want you to talk to me about this. If you have a decent relationship with either parent, you might want to think about talking to them.

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A female reader, jessica04 United States +, writes (1 March 2009):

jessica04 agony auntGet the morning after pill. You can become pregnant from him even cumming on the outside of the vagina. Sperm only needs to be able to swim up the vagina, and the surest way is if it finds a wet trail.

Get the pill, do not rely on pulling out as most guys give out a "precum". "Precum" is seminal fluid that can carry sperm in it. If you can, get on the pill. Always use a condom, and get the morning after pill TODAY! The sooner you take it after having unprotected sex, the better that chances are that it will work.

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A female reader, MonksDaBomb United States +, writes (1 March 2009):

MonksDaBomb agony auntGeez, girl, sounds like you put the cart before the horse here....

Of course I've never really had a boyfriend so don't quote me on this but I don't think it matters. Regardless of how far in it's inside you or not, it still counts.

Not sure about the morning after pill. You're underage, so not sure if you have to have an adult get it for you or not. Hopefully someone here can answer that part better.

And, honey, please think next time.

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