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My names Myesha aka Myp, Chitza or LaLeila
i became an "Agony Aunt" on Dear Cupid because helping people is something that i love... it gives me great satisfaction to know that advice i might have given could help someone in need.
i currently reside in the bay area, caliornia... u s of a.[YEE!]
im single but i've got my eye on someone :]. i love art, im a painter, sculptor, singer, dancer, designer, entrepreneur and future business mogul lol i love money, not so much for materialistic reasons but for the security of it.... ive been poor [not a good look]. im a compassionate individual but i speak it like i peek it... ill tell you like it is. im extremely self aware, independent and ambitous and i love to listen and be heard so if you want to talk hit me up!!!
Much love and happiness
-Myesha
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He knows that I hate porn... so when he came home with two videos on his mobile phone I hit the roof!
Q. Hi..... I have a little prblem.. It may seem silly to most but to me its a big deal.. I hate porn or any form relating to porn weather its a girl stripping or full sex I just hate it. My views on this is if a guy or a lassie has pron in thei...
A. 8 August 2007: ok wll he needs to respect your wishes and get over his macho trip. If u dont like it then you need to have a long talk about where u draw the lines in your relationship and whats acceptable to both of you. If he cant respect your request and jus ... (read in full...)
I'm furious about pornography!
Q. The statement that some women make that they have no problem with their man watching porn as they know he CHOOSES to be with them seems ridiculus to me...Dont these women realise that their man probbly has as much chance of being with a porn star as ...
A. 8 August 2007: ahhh tellulah and dr. pete said just about all of it. Ok first off, why do u care? if u dont want ur man watchin porn thats your business, your prerogative and your personal issue. I cant say i want my man to watch porn but in all honesty it doesnt ... (read in full...)
I'm too young to have sex, but my boyfriend wants to
Q. Hello I'm 15 Years Old 16 Soon And Am Scared Too Have Sex I Really Like This Boy But We Are Not Goiny Out We Have Done Everything Apart From Sex But I Think He Is Using Me Is There Any Advice You Could Give Me x...
A. 8 August 2007: ok first off yall aint even in a relationship and hes already tryin to get the goodies, BAD SIGN!!!!!
second if he really likes you he'll wait if you tell him youre not ready, sleeping with him wont make him like you, this is a hit it and quit it s... (read in full...)
Is it safe to have sex while pregnant?
Q. Hello everyone :) currently i am in my 2 week wait, and yes it is killing me. I have 6 more days to go to see if my period comes. My husband will be back from a business trip on friday, so we would want to have sex, would it be safe for the implated ...
A. 8 August 2007: usually u can have sex till ur in ur third trimester, however if u've had previous issues with pregnancy/miscarriage u should probably ask ur doctor.
best of luck,
if ur preg then CONGRATS!!
-Myesha... (read in full...)
My mom's friend's son stares at my chest, what should I say?
Q. My mom's friend has a son. He is 3 years older than me. I see him a lot. Whenever I'm around him, I feel uncomfortable. He always stares at my chest. Should I say something to him? If so, what should I say?...
A. 8 August 2007: If you want to say something then just be really forward, it usually scares them off. Just say what's on your mind..."Do you HAVE to stare at my chest/boobs/tits all the time? My face is north of that region..." or "Why do you keep staring at my ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex before I'm married?
Q. Okay I need help from all the other Christians!! I have a problem and it is really worrying me. I am a Christian and I really want to wait until I am married to have sex, but, I am worried that I will be tempted. And I want to do the right thing by ...
A. 6 August 2007: its up to you, i personally think it has more to do with love then it does with marriage because in my mind love is basically an emotional marriage. I understand ur predicament though, religion or "temptation" so to speak. I would be worried ... (read in full...)
Could I be a lesbian?
Q. me and my bestfriend were having a sleep over at her house the other night. she is bisexual, and i have been confused on if im straight, or if im lesbian. ok so we were sleeping on her bed. and we ended up talking about experimenting. s...
A. 6 August 2007: sounds like your bi to me, just because u like lesbian sex doesnt mean u cant enjoy traditional man-woman intercourse, u dont have to choose between straight and lesbian. best of luck, message me if u wanna talk :] -Myesha... (read in full...)
I get jealous when the girl I like flirts with other guys
Q. I get jealous of someone I'm not even going out with. There is this girl that I like, who I've flirted with regularly for a few months, and there was a chance of a relationship one time. Now it's kind've filtered off, but I still like her, and ej...
A. 31 July 2007: you're normal, jus jealous cuz u like her... ask her out!
-Myesha... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin at 18 because i want to wait for the right person, is this a silly idea?
Q. Hi, I'm a virgin at 18, because I'm waiting for the right person to have my first time with. Do you think this is a silly thing to do, and that I should have done it differently? I've had the opportunity to, but would rather have it with another ...
A. 31 July 2007: no its not silly at all, waiting for the right person is great. they dont necessarily have to be someone ur going to marry, but they should definitely be someone u have some kind of emotional connection with. Matter of fact i hope u lose it before u ... (read in full...)
We have had sex five times and she still has not had an orgasm.
Q. Hi, im 15, and have had sex with my girfriend 5 times. And so far, i have not been able to get her to have an orgasam. I think this is because i cum first. I am getting very frustrated, And it feels like i am letting her down. How can I "last ...
A. 31 July 2007: quite frankly its easier for a girl to have an orgasm when shes masturbating by herself bcuz she knows what she likes, that has nothing to do with you being a good partner or not. But the other two are right foreplay prepares her for u and gets her ... (read in full...)
I masturbate and search up porn. I really want to stop.
Q. Hi guys. I know that what I am going to say is kind of not right because I am only 12, but as part of puberty we all get sexual feelings. And so do I. I have dreams about having sex, I masturbate and search up porn. I really want to stop. I really ...
A. 31 July 2007: theres nothing wrong with that its completely normal and natural, most girls start masturbating around your age or even earlier. However be careful with the porn u can get computer viruses...
best of luck
-Myesha... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend, but i want his mum.
Q. hi there, i am young and scared and also confused! i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years now and for the past year i have had sexual fantasies abou his mum. my question: am i gay ...or am i not? i dont know how to tell! you...
A. 30 July 2007: well if u want women and men, that makes u bi. -Myesha... (read in full...)
If i don't have sex with him, then i have really lost him.
Q. I recently wrote about my husband cheating and going back and forth undecided who he wants to be with me (his wife) or his lover. And i know its obvious that i should leave him and I'm being strong and I'm trying to move on with my life, BUT when he ...
A. 30 July 2007: when he comes over to see your children, leave the area, go read a book or an art project like flower girl suggested. If ur still sleepin with him, hes gettin everything, the lover and the wife, and ur getting nothing. Go out and have fun, take a b... (read in full...)
I'm having a hard time finding a man who will respect my beliefs!
Q. Hey I'm a 21 year old virgin female, I'm strongly believe in christ, but I'm having a hard time finding a man who can accept and respect that. Any tips?????...
A. 30 July 2007: find a man at church, best way to do it...
-Myesha... (read in full...)
Her older step brother is molesting her! What can she do?
Q. i really worried about my mate. the other day she told me that when her and her step-brother are alone in the house, he comes into her room and touches her private parts. and told her that if she tells anyone he will rape her!! i told her to phon...
A. 30 July 2007: CALL THE COPS ON HIS ASS!!, tell her to tell her parents...
get it out there in the open, once she says something, ppl will be watching so he wont have an opprtunity to rape her.
Once hes in custody, things should be better, her mother or fa... (read in full...)
He wants her-he wants me-now he wants her again.I am devastated. Any advice is appreciated!
Q. My husband of 7 years cheated on me and when i found out i told him i would forgive him and that if he wanted we can just move on and be a family with our two daughters. He said no that he wanted to be with the other woman. It did hurt but i said ...
A. 30 July 2007: Divorce him, cheating is unacceptable. You deserve someone faithful, loving, and respectful. Not someone who cant make up his mind, about who he wants to be with when the answer is friggin obvious...HIS FAMILY!! Jus the fact that he had the nerve to ... (read in full...)
I can't believe he punched me again! Why did he do this?
Q. my partner of over 15 years used to hit me and verbally abuse me. but over the last 7 years he had not really hit me anymore as i got stronger and would leave him for long periods of time. and he said that hes changed now and wont hit me anymore ...
A. 30 July 2007: GET RID OF HIM!! KICK HIS ASS TO THE CURB!!, if he hit u at all, then he doesnt deserve u in the least, even the threat of violence shouldnt be present in ur relationship, drop him with a quickness because he is not the kind of person u want in ur ... (read in full...)
He took my virginity and went back to his ex gf! Now he's back in contact..what should I do?
Q. I really need peoples opinions on this, so please help if you can.....i went out for 4 months last year with this guy lets call him A. I was head over heels in love with him, even though we didnt have the greatest relationship, anyway i lost my ...
A. 30 July 2007: it doesnt hurt to say hi...
maybe he got his priorities straight, and maybes hes just an asshole lookin to get some, but youll never know unless u call him.
so call him up, try to look at the situation objectively, and asses ur feelings and his ... (read in full...)
I know I should have gone to the police but I couldn't. I felt so ashamed, and feel it's my fault for being drunk.
Q. Hiya, I would just like some advice if possible. I went on holiday for 2 weeks with my sister. The first night wewere out there we went out and had a few too many,(it was actually the only night we got drunk, other nights just merry). We have been ...
A. 27 July 2007: Its not your fault AT ALL... ppl get drunk all the time and dont get molested, its that S.O.B.'s fault for being an asshole and a perv, golden rule: unconcious or asleep = unwilling, point blank period, no friggin exceptions, if you dont feel ... (read in full...)
How do I lower my expectations and be more realistic about life?
Q. My expectations of life have always been quite high, ie I have always assumed things would be perfect and everything would turn out well in the end etc etc. ( like a film) However this has meant that life has let me down a lot. Nothing has ever gone ...
A. 27 July 2007: youre right, life isnt like a movie, you have to put in work... a lot of work. Relationships and friendships are a 50/50 deal, but if you put in your work you definitely deserve the happy ever after. The problem is often times lifes a bitch and shit ... (read in full...)
I want to ask her out, only problem is I fear her rejection...
Q. I'm 17 and there is a girl who I like, 2 years younger. My famly don't like her, and I personally used to hate her, and she like wise, yet the other day when I saw her, I just longed for her. We only talked for a minute but we had matured. I want to ...
A. 27 July 2007: if ur nervous, flirt with her, make suggestive comments... haha not too suggestive, if she reciprocates, then ask her out if she says no then she says no, if u dont ask youll never have a chance...
plus if she doesnt flirt with you at all then u kn... (read in full...)
Recently my wife lost a close family member and I would just like some advice on how to be there for her and how to try and cheer her up...
Q. Recently my wife lost a close family member and I would just like some advice on how to be there for her and how to try and cheer her up and also what to say to her in situations like the one I was in yesterday, heres what happened. Her mum came...
A. 9 July 2007: just hold her, u dont have to say anything, when shes ready shell talk to you but if u pressure her shell just get angry. let her go at her own pace, it seems work helps her cope with her grief so if she feels she needs to, let her. Just sit down ... (read in full...)
Is running the best for weight loss and overall toning for the body?
Q. Is running the best for weight loss and overall toning for the body?...
A. 9 July 2007: runnings the best way to lose weight, i personally hate running but it works the fastest.
-Myesha... (read in full...)
Do women like a tough boyfriend or a sensitive boyfriend?
Q. Hi, I was just wondering... do women prefer a manly man or a sensitive guy for a boyfriend? Not to sound bigheaded but I'm reasonably muscley and quite strong but I'm also really sensitive and I cry at sad films and other sad stuff that a lot of ...
A. 9 July 2007: neither...and both, dont try to work on either, women are very intuitive and will sense that your trying to change yourself to fit their standards and a guy thats not comfortable with himself is a serious turn off. Some girls like sensitive guys, ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and she is 12; is this age difference a problem?
Q. Dear All I'm 14 and I have feelings for this 12 (nearly 13) year old young lady and vice versa, she is very mature. Do you feel it's appropriate to have such an age difference, I don't mean this in an inappropriate way I mean to be loving one ...
A. 4 July 2007: 2 years is NOTHING. Its perfectly fine to be her boyfriend.
As far as "loving", if your gong to do anything of a sexual nature wait till shes at least 13, and make sure your both absolutely ready.
best of luck
-Myesha... (read in full...)
What's best for having safe sex?
Q. Hi! ... What is the best for safe sex, the morning after pill or condoms? ...
A. 4 July 2007: The morning after pill is EMERGENCY contraception. My friend said she used it once after a condom broke and she vomited profusely and got her period right away, its NOT fun. And these are the typical side effects of the EC pill.
SO for ever... (read in full...)
I can't get past her past--help!
Q. Hi everyone, I've been seeing my girlfriend now for about 18 months - we're very much in love, and are now living together. So, all good on that front! But...my problem is that, at the start of our relationship she used to talk about her "past...
A. 3 July 2007: i absolutely totally agree with dr.pete, but you also need to remember that she picked YOU, shes with you becuse she likes you better, and if that wasnt the case then you two wouldnt be together. best of luck -Myesha... (read in full...)
How do I ask my girlfriend for sex?
Q. hi i am a 15 yr old boy and i really want to have sex or at least get a bj from my gf but im to scared to ask her to what do i do...
A. 3 July 2007: Be open with her, tell her how you feel, you have to have honesty in your realtionship, but if shes not ready then dont pressure her.
#1 thing USE PROTECTION!!!
you do not want to be a 15-16 year old dad
ive got some friends like that...safe ... (read in full...)
If I dump him, no one will be my friend - but I don't love him.
Q. elloo I have been with my boyfriend for ages now. And it's the 5th time I've dumped him and I got back with him 3 days ago and i don't love him. But if i dump him nobody will be my friend. please help me quick xxx...
A. 29 June 2007: if they wont be your friend because you dumped your boyfriend then they're NOT REALLY YOUR FRIENDS. If you dont love him then drop him like hes hot because youll only make yourself miserable. YOu deserve someone who you love and loves you in return, ... (read in full...)
He found out he has leukemia and the stress caused me to lose our baby
Q. hi i recently found this GREAT guy and he's really sensetive and handsome so after a few dates we finaly had sex and i pregnant and were both happy so were gonna get married in a few years when we both have more money not long away so we se...
A. 26 June 2007: If you love him stay with him. He'll need someones emotional support in the future, and if your willing to provide that then you should stay.
-Myesha... (read in full...)
I want to wait until she is old enough to date
Q. Following up from my previous question whereby I asked for advice concerning the 4 and a half year gap (14/19)between myself and the girl I met I just want to thank everyone for reassuring me about how I am no 'monster' as I put it. Going on the a...
A. 26 June 2007: no, being attracted to a 14 yr old isnt a sin, or illegal. I used to talk to a guy who was 20 when i was 15, its fine.
You havent broken any laws, nor any moral laws, so relax. Just waiting for her shows that your not a "monster" of any kind, and ... (read in full...)
I want to please my girlfriend--can anyone tell me where the G-spot is?
Q. Hi, I really need help! My girlfriend came round the other day and we tried to improve on what we'd kind of achieved already. She tossed me off and I came, but when I fingered her I don't think I got her anywhere near! I keep reading that the "vag...
A. 25 June 2007: G-spots great but if you want to be consistent your best bet is her clit.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vagina
go down to the sexual activity part and you can read about g-spots.
http://www.infosex.com/pics/clit.jpg
this is your best bet... (read in full...)
He said we had a connection--but now nothing. What does it mean?
Q. I was in a relationship with this guy for 3 years. We broke up really badly--I left him for someone else. Yikes. Then we pretty much ignored each other for months.. until a party came around. He got really drunk and told me we have a "connection" ...
A. 25 June 2007: hes attempting to get over you, and hes hurt by what you have done to him and doesnt want to be hurt further. When he got drunk he was telling you what he felt in his heart not in his mind. I think he might still love you, but he doesnt want to be ... (read in full...)
I got her to kiss me, but now I don't kow what to do!
Q. Dear cupid, First time I have written; I really like my friend a lot, even though she has just gotten with someone recently. The thing is I told her and she wanted me to kiss her so I did. She felt guilty afterwards because of our friendshi...
A. 25 June 2007: its sounds like she likes you, she acts like she likes you, so she must like you. I dont think pursuing a romantic relationship would damage your friendship. if you guys break up you just have to end it on good terms. Dry humping on the dance floor ... (read in full...)
She broke up with me because she didn't want a relationship, now she's coming out with signs that could be flirtacious! What am I to think?
Q. My girlfriend and I recently broke up as she felt she wasn't ready to be in a relationship. She still feels strongly about me, but says she's trying to force herself to get over me due to her not wanting a relationship at the moment. Howeve...
A. 25 June 2007: It sounds like she wants you to chase her. She wants you to be so enamored by her that you cant help but go and find her. Its all games, if shes really flirty then give her an ultimatum, either you're together or your not and if your not then she ... (read in full...)
He said he was a nice guy, but then he asked for a sexy pic--is he just trying it on?
Q. 9 times out of 10 when I'm walking home I always see this lad and he always smiles at me. I never really noticed til the other week then I realised he has always smiled at me. The other day I was on a friend's profile and I found his, so i added ...
A. 25 June 2007: yeah, for sure. But maybe hes a nice guy trying to get into your knickers. =) If you wanted i think you guys could still have a relationship, all this means is that hes a sexual person that definitely has the hots for you.
If your not comf... (read in full...)
I feel no-one likes me because of my race
Q. I feel liek no one pays attention to me. All teh girls seems to go for the light skined guys. I'm mexican and can't seem to fit in. I've had troble finding that someone. I don't feel very atracted to my own kind. I need help. I don;t know what to ...
A. 25 June 2007: Jeez thats hard. You have to make a move, you cant expect girls to come to you...they wont, they almost never do. If you like somebody (even if their not mexican) go say hi or make them laugh. Its perfectly fine not to be attracted to your own race. ... (read in full...)
I have a mole on my face that makes me shy
Q. I need help bulding courage and faith in telling this girl how i feel? This may seems pretty stupid but I have a (black)mole on my face and it isn't really noticeable (2mm radius) that is the only thing I hate about myself. it seems that because of ...
A. 25 June 2007: If you MUST get rid of it go to a dermatologist and they can take it off. Either way you have to learn to love yourself, if you dont then even if you do get it taken off youll have self-esteem issues. -Myesha... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and my boyfriend sometimes denies it's his; I think he may be cheating too
Q. I am almost 8 months pregnant. Me and my boyfriend have been together for around 11 months. He has an ex who says that they are still having sex. One day I seen he had a hickey on his neck and I could still swear that i didn't do. If i did I don't ...
A. 25 June 2007: if hes cheating on you leave him. He can still be a part of the childs life. However if hes denying the child get a paternity test done so hes forced to accept its his child, otherwise hell always be an asshole about it. Youre not bad for not ... (read in full...)
I have faded stretch marks on my breasts; is this a turn-off for men?
Q. Um, well the thing is, is that im super insecure about my breasts. I have a nice set, or so Im told, but the have stretch marks on them because they grew so fast. The stretch marks arent that visible they are a white color but Im always afraid that ...
A. 25 June 2007: stretch marks are nothing, i have them and have had 0 complaints. check out http://www.007b.com/breast_gallery.php A LOT of girls have em -Myesha... (read in full...)
I'm in a loveless marriage; should I leave?
Q. Do I abandon a passionless marriage? He loves me, I know -- but he's not in love with me, never has been. And he's trying, he knows we're in deep stuff here. But it's been 20+ years of little romance, an ever-decreasing amount of sex, and such a ...
A. 25 June 2007: If youre not happy, leave. You deseve to be in a relationship where the other person really loves you. The real kind.
-Myesha... (read in full...)
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