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Could I be a lesbian?

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Question - (5 August 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 August 2007)
A female age 30-35, *exylove5 writes:

me and my bestfriend were having a sleep over at her house the other night. she is bisexual, and i have been confused on if im straight, or if im lesbian.

ok so we were sleeping on her bed. and we ended up talking about experimenting. so we ended up kissing and making out, and ended up having sex. the next morning we were talking about what happened to us last night. and then later that night we went swimming in her pool. and as we were swimming, i was standing up, and she was swimming under water, and she hit into me and came up out of the water, we then ended up making out and taking off are bikinis, then we went into her house and took a shower together.

i mean, i like intercourse with men, but there was something about the lesbian sex i had with her, i really need help on finding out what i really am, can anyone help me, i really need help

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (6 August 2007):

love-him agony auntHey bbe, I know your feeling.. bi sexual is what i think, from what you said..

Have fun bbe, and mail me if you would like to talk x x x x x

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A male reader, Uncle Trev United Kingdom +, writes (6 August 2007):

I would say you are probably bi-sexual but at the age you are, many people experiment as they become enlightend into a world of sexual activity.

Curiousity would certainly have driven you but if you are comfortable doing this and your friend is too then why not. There is nothing whatsoever wrong with this.

It is possible to like both - many people do - you do not have to quit guys to like girls or vice versa - if this is what floats your boat so to say have the best of both worlds and go for it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2007):

No one at this time believes in my theory on Human-Sexuality, perhaps someday that will all change. Lots of people will tell you that at your age you shold know what your Sexual-Prefference shoud be, not so. Some of us don't discover our true Sexual-Prefference until late in our lives. And the only Gender that I recognize is that of a Bisexual-Nature. And that Bisexual Nature allows us to love same sex, opposit sex. or both gender at the sametime. And loving both gender, for some people, can be the best of two sexual worlds for them.

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A female reader, myp United States +, writes (6 August 2007):

myp agony auntsounds like your bi to me, just because u like lesbian sex doesnt mean u cant enjoy traditional man-woman intercourse,

u dont have to choose between straight and lesbian.

best of luck,

message me if u wanna talk :]

-Myesha

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