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writes:I am almost 8 months pregnant. Me and my boyfriend have been together for around 11 months. He has an ex who says that they are still having sex. One day I seen he had a hickey on his neck and I could still swear that i didn't do. If i did I don't remember... I am so confused, i was my baby to have a father and he is very responsible. I love him, but don't trust him. One minute he'll say the kid is his and the next deny her. Am I bad for feeling this? I am not sure what is to happen next, will you please help me??? Reply to this Question
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (25 June 2007):
 Get a paternity test to prove to him the child is definetly his. Alo if you don't trust him your relationship could be in serious trouble. Quiz him about the hickey and say you don't remember giving it to him so who did. Don't let this guy play away from his responsibility of being a father. He can't pick and choose when he wants to be and when he doesn't!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (25 June 2007):
 You're not bad for feeling this way. It's a tough situation you're going through. Your man is a bad man, dear. I do believe he's cheating on you. This is not the man you would like to have around.I agree with Myesha: If he should continue to deny the child is by him, have a paternity test. That will teach him. And, don't let him continue to hurt you.You want your baby to have a father, and I understand that. Now, if he's unwilling to be a man, let him go. You need to know who you can rely on, and, if you can't count on him, then he should better go to hell. And I say this for the baby, too: In my opinion, it's worse to have a pseudo-father than not to have a father at all.See it this way: If he should leave, well, you'll be free to follow your own way.I hope this helps.
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reader, myp +, writes (25 June 2007):
 if hes cheating on you leave him. He can still be a part of the childs life. However if hes denying the child get a paternity test done so hes forced to accept its his child, otherwise hell always be an asshole about it. Youre not bad for not trusting him, you saw him with a hickey that might not have been yours.Sue him for child support, and get out of this relationship.best of luck-Myesha
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