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*eaper1101
writes:Hi, im 15, and have had sex with my girfriend 5 times. And so far, i have not been able to get her to have an orgasam. I think this is because i cum first. I am getting very frustrated, And it feels like i am letting her down. How can I "last longer" and insure her having an orgasm? (also, she does masturbate, and has givin herself an orgasm before)Also, she wants to also have anal sex, what should we know about this for our first time?Thank you
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reader, Reaper1101 +, writes (1 August 2007):
Reaper1101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlright everyone. im very happy. I was just coming home from vacation with her, and i started fingering here. and she had an orgasm. Yes, im very happy, lol.
Thanks for the help i will try those things.
And i will get back to you.
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reader, nevets122  +, writes (31 July 2007):
i agree with the other two about the foreplay but as for the anul when me and my boyfreind tried it for the first time it killed me. the second time was a great experience. dont ever start to do it cold turkey you must both pleasure each other first so your girlfreind can relax and loosen up, also use a lubricant so it makes it easier to insert your thing. you can either do it with her bending over if you want to be dirty or have her laying on her back if you want to really close and intimate.
do expect some blood on the first go. dont worry about its only a little bit but i didnt want you to be worried if you found some. its just like if your a virgin doing it for the first time you tend to bleed a little its the same for you bum for the first time.
hope i was some help
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reader, myp +, writes (31 July 2007):
 quite frankly its easier for a girl to have an orgasm when shes masturbating by herself bcuz she knows what she likes, that has nothing to do with you being a good partner or not. But the other two are right foreplay prepares her for u and gets her hot and bothered so to speak, by the time ur actully inside her she should already be 1/2 way to an orgasm if she hasnt already had one by then, this will make things easier on u and more pleasurable for her. As for the anal sex, if ur comfortable with it and she wants to then go ahead. Experiment, its natural.
best of luck
-Myesha
message me if u want to talk :]
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reader, babygirl2727 +, writes (30 July 2007):
I think you should follow the advice below. Foreplay is a very big part of having sex with someone. Try touching her boobs, lickng or sucking her pussy, sticking your fingers in her vagina or anus. Make out for a while or dance to some romantic music. Hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): Hi I had the same problem when i was your age, I was getting frustrated and upset because i thought i was letting her down so i decided to play with her first - meaning touching and that first ( this would get her hornier and more pleasable)
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