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I am skinnny and my family's rude comments about that, really hurt. What can I do?

Q.   I am very tall and naturally quite skinny-I do not exercise or diet and eat what I want. I am so fed up on everyone putting down slim people and making statements about "real womanly bodies" - as if being a size 0 somehow makes you less of a woman. ...

A.   23 July 2007: Hi there, I think if you are naturally skinny, tall and can eat whatever you want and 98% of your family is overweight, there must be some envy on their part. Who wouldn't be envious, aren't all models skinny and tall and don't we wish we could eat ... (read in full...)

I am skinnny and my family's rude comments about that, really hurt. What can I do?

Q.   I am very tall and naturally quite skinny-I do not exercise or diet and eat what I want. I am so fed up on everyone putting down slim people and making statements about "real womanly bodies" - as if being a size 0 somehow makes you less of a woman. ...

A.   23 July 2007: Hi there, I think if you are naturally skinny, tall and can eat whatever you want and 98% of your family is overweight, there must be some envy on their part. Who wouldn't be envious, aren't all models skinny and tall and don't we wish we could eat ... (read in full...)

My attractive friend is harming my confidence; she even said I need plastic surgery!

Q.   My friend is making me very insecure. She's a very attractive model and tells me because of her "looks, boobs and personality" her boyfriends have never looked at other women, at porn, cheated on her or even thought about other women (how could she ...

A.   25 June 2007: Thanks for your comments - you're right, she definitely has some bad issues. I'm just not going to listen to her anymore. I guess I would feel guilty dumping her as a friend because she has no other female friends...gee, I wonder why!!!... (read in full...)

Could I have caught a disease from unprotected anal sex?

Q.   i am really really REALLY worried and i need some help, or just support. straight to the point- i am gay, and the other night i was at my friends house, it was just us there. basically it was very hot, he took his shirt off. we started kissing and ...

A.   24 June 2007: I'm sorry, I didn't read your question correctly - you cannot get any diseases if he does not have any. Early symptoms of exposure to hiv are flu-like symptoms - but don't freak out if you do experience it because you could be psychologically ... (read in full...)

Could I have caught a disease from unprotected anal sex?

Q.   i am really really REALLY worried and i need some help, or just support. straight to the point- i am gay, and the other night i was at my friends house, it was just us there. basically it was very hot, he took his shirt off. we started kissing and ...

A.   24 June 2007: Yes. Yes! You can get something with unprotected sex and the risk is even higher if there is any breakage and blood. Don't ever have sex unprotected again unless you are in a monogamous relationship with a partner you can trust and you both have ... (read in full...)

Anti-depressants have killed my sex drive but he's very sexual; I'm afraid we're going to break up

Q.   Hello Cupid, I'm a newbie here but I have some relationship problems. My guy loves me very much we've been together for 6 years now in July. We are the point where we are ready to give up and split and I don't want that to happen. He does love me ...

A.   24 June 2007: For the low sex drive, you can ask your doctor about other antidepressants. I am on Wellbutrin which is known for having low sexual side effects and it hasn't affected my drive at all. There are also natural antidepressants that you can find out ... (read in full...)

Here is my list of the "perfect" boyfriend! What do you think?

Q.   Here is my list of the perfect boyfriend. Are there any men like this? 1. Shares all email and IM passwords 2. Has none, or only one, female friend 3. Tell's me when his only female friend calls 4. Tell's me when he goes basically anywher...

A.   23 February 2007: That is definitely a list that describes a perfect boyfriend - make that a perfectly insane boyfriend. Unless he is masochistic and will enjoy living under your rule, you will smother him and drive him away! I agree, counselling would be a good ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend has gained weight, but if I say something she'll hate me! How do I tell her?!

Q.   My girlfriend is gaining weight and won’t do anything about it. I need help with my communication. How can I help her? I have a wonderful girlfriend whom I’ve been dating now for the past 13 months. Since the day we met she has slowly been gaining ...

A.   22 February 2007: Yikes! My ex-boyfriend had the same issue with me and it not only made me feel very insecure but made me wonder if he really loved me for me. I wanted to lose weight immediately, but because I was resentful, I only ended up gaining more weight, in ... (read in full...)

So, girls--is anal sex pleasurable for the female? Is there a lot of pain?

Q.   So, um, girls...is anal sex any fun? I am considering having anal sex with my boyfriend sometime in future, depending on whether or not he can get me drunk enough to do it. I'd like to know if the female experiences any pleasure - I've heard tha...

A.   22 February 2007: Thanks, Easass23! That really helps. Now get your wife to post here. Actually, I was kidding about the hooker and the clonopin and all that. I'm very much in love with this guy; he's the sweetest, gentlest, best guy I've ever been with, wh... (read in full...)

He still logs on to the dating service even though we are together now! Should I mention to him that I know or leave it?

Q.   Hi. I've been with a man I met online for about seven months. I love him and he's told me he loves me. Everything seems fine - except... I know he still logs on and talks to people on the dating site we met on. He doesn't talk about it and I only ...

A.   18 February 2007: People would say it would be best to talk to him about it and get it out in the open, but if it were me and my boyfriend claimed it was all innocent I would constantly wonder if he was lying since he never told me about it in the first place. I had ... (read in full...)

So, girls--is anal sex pleasurable for the female? Is there a lot of pain?

Q.   So, um, girls...is anal sex any fun? I am considering having anal sex with my boyfriend sometime in future, depending on whether or not he can get me drunk enough to do it. I'd like to know if the female experiences any pleasure - I've heard tha...

A.   18 February 2007: Thanks, everyone. If I do do it, I'll pop a few clonopin to relax and warn my b.f. if he hears me sobbing he should probably stop with the sodomy. I'm still curious about this thing I hear about some women having orgasms during anal sex! I keep ... (read in full...)

So, girls--is anal sex pleasurable for the female? Is there a lot of pain?

Q.   So, um, girls...is anal sex any fun? I am considering having anal sex with my boyfriend sometime in future, depending on whether or not he can get me drunk enough to do it. I'd like to know if the female experiences any pleasure - I've heard tha...

A.   18 February 2007: Thanks, Doc. I checked out the sites and they were very informative. And somewhat gross. So unless some women write in to tell me about the pleasures and wonders of anal sex, I will be searching for a hooker that looks like me.... (read in full...)

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