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My names Myesha aka Myp, Chitza or LaLeila
i became an "Agony Aunt" on Dear Cupid because helping people is something that i love... it gives me great satisfaction to know that advice i might have given could help someone in need.
i currently reside in the bay area, caliornia... u s of a.[YEE!]
im single but i've got my eye on someone :]. i love art, im a painter, sculptor, singer, dancer, designer, entrepreneur and future business mogul lol i love money, not so much for materialistic reasons but for the security of it.... ive been poor [not a good look]. im a compassionate individual but i speak it like i peek it... ill tell you like it is. im extremely self aware, independent and ambitous and i love to listen and be heard so if you want to talk hit me up!!!
Much love and happiness
-Myesha
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He says he likes me but doesn't act like he does
Q. He told me he likes me yet, he doesnt talk to me. We were at our friends watching movies and playing games and everything was awesome, we were holding hands and cuddling and stuff. He said he was gunna call me, but he didnt. Today he was on AIM but ...
A. 19 June 2007: Ask him straight out, thats the only way youll ever know why hes acting so weird. If he changes his story about liking you then forget him but if hes tryin to be hard to get then flirt with him when you see him, and dont try to IM him or call him, ... (read in full...)
I fancy a girl who's two years younger than me. I'm scared of being rejected and I don't know how to find out whether she's taken or not. Any advice?
Q. I'm beginning to like this girl 2years younger than me. I'm 16. It really dont know what to do in order to find out if she has boyfriend, or if she'll go out with me? How do i find out this information? What i can say is everyday online she says tha...
A. 19 June 2007: If you like her, go for it. If your really worried about her having a boyfriend, ask one of her friends, or ask her yourself. If you do get rejected, which i seriously doubt will happen just because of the fact that shes 2 years younger (girls like ... (read in full...)
Ladies! What do you think of Latin American partners?
Q. This isn't really a question about relationships in itself. I just would like to ask girls and women what thing would come first to their minds if they were asked to give an opinion about Latin American men as partners....
A. 17 June 2007: Latins, hot stuff man.
especially the whole spanish thing. I know i should probably tell you that its all got to do with personality but latin men? yum yum
-Myesha... (read in full...)
I have mild Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) and I find it so hard to form relationships with guys.
Q. I've recently met someone, and we both really like each other. The only problem is, is that I have BDD mildly (Body Dysmorphic Disorder) and I find it so hard to form relationships with guys. I want to actually get somewhere in a relationship, in...
A. 16 June 2007: if you have problems with body image, then try to find the beauty in yourself. Remember if a guy is even trying to be intimate with you he must find you attractive, have faith in yourself. Your personality plays a big part in that too, if your ... (read in full...)
Over the last couple of weeks I've started to see girls in a different way and I think I'm turning lesbian
Q. Over the last couple of weeks I've started to see girls in a different way and I think I'm turning lesbian, I'm scared to tell anyone how I feel because am scared how they will react has anyone got advice for me x x x x x...
A. 16 June 2007: Im bi myself and i still havent told my parents so i can understand where your coming from. If you really need to tell someone, tell someone you can absolutely trust and whos not homophobic. However if you just want to experiment thats up to you, i ... (read in full...)
I have been going out with my boyfriend for 10 months now and he still does not want to have sex with me.
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 10 months now and he still does not want to have sex with me. I have brought this up a number of times and his answer is that he does not want to dissapoint me. I have tried to make he feel comfortable in ...
A. 16 June 2007: is he a virgin? he sounds like he has real self-esteem issues. Talk about it, he seems open to communication he jus sounds scared hes not going to be enough for you.
best of luck
-Myesha... (read in full...)
She called me to say she couldn't meet me, she was 50 miles away to be with her dad but I saw her an hour later in town!
Q. what do u think is going on? i've been dating my girlfriend a little over 3 1/2 months i planned for today friday 15th June to spend it hanging out together but this morning at 11.40am she text me 2 say she couldn't meet me friday or satur...
A. 16 June 2007: she might be hiding something from you but i dont think its another guy. Maybe shes got family issues shes not ready to talk about, but it doesnt sound like shes cheating at all. Give her some time and talk about how you feel she might not be ... (read in full...)
He said the only way we could be together again is if I let him sleep with my friend.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years and we have 2 children together. We have battled through cheating in our relationship. I left him about 6 months ago and met someone new. It killed him. We made our way back together but seem to fight all ...
A. 16 June 2007: ooooh buddy, bad bad situation. Him sleeping with your friend will solve nothing, its more like throwing a malotov cocktail into a lumberyard. Nothing good could possibly come from him sleeping with your friend. Matter of fact whatever friend he ... (read in full...)
Before we started going out we were so close, we trusted each other with everything and I'm scared if we break up we may ruin that.
Q. hiya i posted a question earlier about my boyfriend wanting to have sex and me not being ready and him saying i let him down coz i sed no. he rang me earlier and he had calmed down and said sorry and then after about 3 mins he said we're still going ...
A. 16 June 2007: If you do feel like you need to break up and still want to be close friends, then you guys need to sit down and have a very serious talk about where ou stand in your relationship, friendship wise and romantically. If you want to stay with him then ... (read in full...)
She wants to have sex with me but I don't feel ready yet, I'm 13 she's 15.
Q. Hello guys, I got great advice last time I needed help so I wondered if I could have some advice again. You know that gal I loved on line before, well she is down here at the moment and my mum is okay with it now but the thing is she wants to hav...
A. 16 June 2007: If your not ready then you shouldnt have sex with her, chances are youll regret it later. Just tell her how you feel. If shes truly right for you then she'll understand, if not then dont let her make you feel guilty, stick to your guns. Do whats ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is pressuring me into having sex with him but I know I'm not ready yet.
Q. hiya my boyfriend is really pressuring me too have sex and im soooooo scared he goes, its what he wants i said what about what i want. he said "give me an answer yes or no" i said no and he started being all cold with me and i hate it when he is ...
A. 16 June 2007: If you're not ready, then he needs to respect that and let you go at our own pace. If he cant do that then hes not even worth your time. A person who really loves their partner would never pressure them into sex. Just the fact that hes trying to ... (read in full...)
Help! I don't know which one to choose?
Q. I have to make a choice between a crazy anime-obsessed girl my age who dropped out of high school and doesn't wear her shoes when she works behind the counter at Borders, and the valedictorian a year younger than me who is a little bit taller and ...
A. 12 June 2007: This is a question you need to answer yourself.
Which one can you be yourself with? Which one do you have the most fun with?
you should choose the one that makes you happy.
-Myesha
message me back and tell me how it goes xx... (read in full...)
How do I get a really smoooooooth shave in my genital area?
Q. Im 16 When i shave my vagina it leaves red dots and when i run my hand over my vagina it feels like i havent shaved, its all prickly and hurts.. how can i make it feel and look like there's no hairs there. Also do guys get turned off by a little bit ...
A. 8 June 2007: shaving will onky make it worse. get a bikini wax.
and no most guys dont get turned off by hair, you're supposed to have pubic hair, it means yur bodies matured, no hair symbolizes youth and pre-pubescence.
-Myesha... (read in full...)
One minute I think he likes me, the next I think he hates me. What is WITH him???
Q. This boy in my year has always sort of liked me and at the same always been mean to me. Now one minute he says loves me the next he's being mean to me again. He kissed me three times on the cheek, then said it was a joke/dare. what is with him? ...
A. 8 June 2007: i agree with cd206, it sounds like hes interested but doesnt know how to deal with his feelings, so act like you dont care and hell be intrigued but dont be too aloof. If you act like you dont care all the time then hell feel rejected.
best of l... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I'm "pure"... How can I tell him I've been raped???
Q. im 14 my boyfriend lives far away so when we meet up we are usually soo happy we get...erm...close He wants me to lose my virginity to him, its not i dont want to but first im no where near ready, second im starting to like this other guy at my ...
A. 7 June 2007: I cant even begin to understand your pain, but if you want to get even a little bit serious you should tell him. If hes not able to handle your past pain than hes not the right one...or even a good one. In truth your first time was a rape, he ... (read in full...)
I really fancy this guy at school but I don't know if he likes me back...
Q. hi, I really fancy this guy that i met at school but i don't know if he likes me back and its really annoying me. Last year he went out with one of my friends for a few months which makes it more difficult if i do end up going out with him. Recently...
A. 7 June 2007: Hes already flirting with you which is definitely a good sign, so if you want to show him your interested, flirt back. If you really cant tell if he likes you or not then ask him, i know that sounds totally mortifying but if you do decide to do it ... (read in full...)
She asked my bf to walk her home...can I trust her?
Q. Hi..What should I think when a girl asks my boyfriend if he wants to walk her home? This girl is one of our close friends' girlfriend and we spent about 3 nights out with them since march...and while we know the guy very well, we're not so close to...
A. 7 June 2007: BE EXTREMELY WARY!!! she sounds like the kind of girl whos trying to steal your man but dont make assumptions, continue to be nice just be REALLY cautious when you talk about yourself or your boyfriend. Dont confide in her about you or your ... (read in full...)
She has a bf and we kissed. The next day she acted like nothing happened! Should I make another move?
Q. Don't know where I stand with her. I've been friends with a colleague of mine for nearly a year and a half. She is living with her parents and her b/f and she has fancied me for a very long time. Her b/f is a bit OCD when it comes to her and...
A. 7 June 2007: If shes cheated on all of her boyfriends then dont get involved unless you dont mind being the other guy. If you still want to pursue her than yeah, make another move, sounds to me like shes looking forward to it. However dont expect her to break up ... (read in full...)
I care so much for her! How do I ask her to choose either him or I?
Q. i would like to explain this from the begining if i may. i was in, and still am in the military. i meet a lady a few years back. we started out just talking to one and other pretty often. and to be honest i have no idea when it went to us being ...
A. 7 June 2007: She has to make the decision to get out of the abusive relationship. You really just have to continue being there for her when she needs you. If you make her choose now she'll feel abandoned. Support her in every way possible and she'll remember. ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid if I dont go to the nightclub with him he'll not like me as much. What should I do?
Q. this boy who i really like keeps askin me to go to nightclubs with him but the thing is thats really not my scene as im not really into dance music and drinking and im also too young an im afraid i wont get in. but im afraid if i dont go with him ...
A. 7 June 2007: Tell him the truth. Ask him if hell do somethng you guys both enjoy. If he loses interest in you because you wont go to a nightclub than he isnt worth you or your time.
good luck
-Myesha... (read in full...)
Had unprotected sex and I'm too young to have a baby! What can I do??
Q. I have had unprotected sex and I'm young, too young to have a baby, its been a few weeks and I feel like I am, I'm worried to death because i cannot tell anyone, the thing is it only lasted a few min, and he didn't "come" at all, but pe, is a ...
A. 7 June 2007: Honey you have to go get a pregnancy test. Your mom doesnt have to know, stop buy your local drug store pick one up then use the bathroom there. Then you'll know.
If you cant do this then go to a free clinic or have a friend take you to talk to a... (read in full...)
I think I am pretty, clever and funny...so why can't I attract bf's like all my friends?
Q. im a 16 year old girl, and although i've done stuff with guys i've never actually been in a relationship! it hurts because nearly all of my friends now have serious boyfriends. they all say that im pretty, funny and clever... so why can't i attract ...
A. 7 June 2007: There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. Often times guys are intimidated by girls with all the right qualities. Especially if you're intelligent. If you cant find a guy in your age group than go find an older guy whos a bit more mature. I ... (read in full...)
He watches porn! Do I not satisfy him anymore?
Q. I have been with my partner for 5 years, married for just over a year. Our sex life is great, but he watches porn when i'm not there. We had sex last night, but when i went to work this morning he masterbated. I've asked him about it, he says every ...
A. 7 June 2007: All men do masturbate even if thet are in healthy satisfying relationships. Its an issue of ego and independence and nothing strange or abnormal in a partnership. As for the porn, it all depends on how you feel about porn, if you think its a breech ... (read in full...)
I'm So Confused
Q. My husband serves in the royal navy, last year he went away for 5 months he left when I was three months pregnant and returned 2 weeks before our wedding. We had a lovely wedding, and I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy in November. However I have ...
A. 7 June 2007: It sounds to me like you guys have a good marriage but seperation made him lonely. Did he sleep with them? If he did thats a complete inexcusable breech of trust and fidelity, if not then perhaps you should be a little lenient. I dont mean to ... (read in full...)
My bf of 3 years refuses to attend an important event with me. I have been there for him, in the past...shouldn't he do the same for me?
Q. My boyfriend of almost three years refuses to attend a wedding in my hometown with me. His excuse is that he doesn't want to spend his weekend with a bunch of people he doesn't know. This, to me, spells trouble. The wedding is of my oldest friend ...
A. 6 June 2007: Youre not over reacting at all. Your there for him when he needs you and he should reciprocate. The thing is though, shouting will never get your point across, its almost as if the louder a person gets the less people hear you. From what i've read ... (read in full...)
He refuses to apologize, when he is clearly wrong or offends me. Am I over-reacting?
Q. Hi All, I have been in my relationship for about 3 months now. The problem is that he doesnt feel the need to apologise when he offends me or admit he was wrong. After any quarrel even though he was clearly wrong his replies are that are a...
A. 6 June 2007: You did not over react at all. He messed up and wont apologize, and that indicates serious insecurity about weakness. If he wont apologize for his indiscretions than let him go, and if you want to keep him then you guys seriously need to talk about ... (read in full...)
Could I have missed my period because of exam stress?
Q. I just wondered if any one could tell me if there's something wrong with me or if its just my hormones or stress - i think i've skipped a period i think my last one was in april 20th and i was expecting my period 2 or 3 weeks into may. My period is ...
A. 6 June 2007: Period irregularities are normal, and you can skip a period if you have extreme anxiety. However if your periods are almost always on time and your sexually active, i would suggest a drug store pregnancy test JUST TO BE SURE.
-Myesha... (read in full...)
We've known each other since we were 2! How do I get him to notice me???
Q. I'm 14 years old and I have this best friend who I love so much! its a guy! hes so cute, nice, and funny and he nos I like him... but I want him to like me too... we've been best friends since we were 2. some times he tells me that he likes me the ...
A. 6 June 2007: Fact is babe, if your not sure ask him straight out. You'll never know for sure unless you get a serious answer. On the other hand, if you want to be more than just friends, then you have to show him you're interested. Flirt a little bit, dont be ... (read in full...)
I'm freaking out that I might be pregnant... (but I've never had sex!)
Q. i know im probably completely over reacting but i keep thinking im pregnant i havent had sex at all ever. so why am i thinking this it is making me panick big time is there no other way to be pregnant than having sex ??...
A. 6 June 2007: There is no way to be pregnant if you havent had vaginal sex. Unless you mysteriously managed to get his semen in your vagina, your fine. If you skipped a period thats perfectly normal especially for younger girls, mine have always been irregular so ... (read in full...)
Missed a period but we did was dry hump and fingering! Can I be pregnant?
Q. Me and my bf have been 'fooling around' and im not sure if i could be pregnant. I'm not on the pill. I missed my period last month, so thats why im thinking i might be pregnant, even though we havent actually had sex. Just dry humped. But ive heard ...
A. 6 June 2007: you cant get pregnant unless you had vaginal sex and/or he manages to get his cum (seed) into your vagina, otherwise its impossible. On another note often times girls periods are VERY irregular sometimes i skip a month or have two in one month so, ... (read in full...)
I recently started liking my best friends brother.
Q. I recently started liking my best friends brother. He started liking me too and we started dating. Then my best friend caught on and realised we like each other. Because of the 3 year age gap she was quite angry and now she won't even speak to me. ...
A. 6 June 2007: My suggestion. If you dont want to lose either of them than have a talk with her and ask her what shes really mad about, is it the age difference or is it because you didnt tell her straight out that you liked her brother? if this is the case then ... (read in full...)
I'm 14..is that too young to masturbate?
Q. is 14 too young to masturbate at i was just wonderin ??...
A. 6 June 2007: Not even close to too early, Often times girls start even before they're 14. Its completely natural so dont worry about it. -Myesha... (read in full...)
I must increase my bust!
Q. Right - I'm 18 and I have such small boobs - a 34A - but even some bras seem loose. It always really upsets me! I would just like to go up a size, but I could never consider a boob job! Is there anything I can do? pills?, exercises etc......
A. 6 June 2007: The truth is that the pills and the excersises dont actually work and the ones that work even a little bit have a tendency to make your breasts look misshapen (usually one becomes bigger than the other). As a girl who has natural Double-D's i can ... (read in full...)
Worried that if we stay together her many past encouters with Men will hang over us!
Q. Im 20yrs old. I have been going out with this girl for 6 months now and the number of guys she's bin with really bothers me (around 14). She went to a festival and had unprotected anal sex with some random guy in some forest last year...she has had ...
A. 25 May 2007: If your really into her youll find a way to make it work. But how many previous partners have you had? do they bother her? is it the number or just the fact that your not the first one shes slept with? All you can do is ask her to be completely ... (read in full...)
A month ago, he found out from others that I like him.He hasn't made any move so am I wasting my time ?
Q. Dear Cupid, A little while back, I wrote to you asking for advice on my newest crush, Ethan. Well, now, there's kind of a new problem involving him. I might just be flipping out over nothing, but this is something that's really got me pretty wo...
A. 25 May 2007: If he doesnt know you then get to know him. Start up a conversation, and dont be embarassed that he knows you like him. If you cant be his girlfriend then be his friend, and see if things happen from there. If he doesnt know you then you cant expect ... (read in full...)
My ex is still really angry at me for taking her virginity, when we were both 24...
Q. Hi. My ex is still really angry at me for taking her virginity, when we were both 24. We had been together for about 5 years before having sex for the first time, she had expained she wanted to wait until she was married before having sex. I had ...
A. 25 May 2007: First off it takes at leat two people to have sex (unless your going manual), that means she consented and the loss of her virginity is just as much her fault as it is yours. You asked her to marry you twice! she turned you down but she slept with ... (read in full...)
My BF was sexually abused when he was 6, he is now 17 and we want to have sex but I'm scared he will panic and those feelings will come back again...
Q. Hi i am 15 in 2 weeks, i live in the uk and have been going out with my boyfriend now for 17 months and he is 17. i love him. i never felt like this before and i reali want to settle with him and be with him forever. i really want to have sex with ...
A. 25 May 2007: Talk to him tell him your fears, if sex with you brings up problems from his past reassure him that you can wait for him to fully recover dont pressure him. Let him be in control of the situation. When a person is sexually abused, or abused in just ... (read in full...)
I get the feeling he's only using me for sex...
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 8weeks now and i get the impression he is only using me for sex he says he isnt but thats not the impression i am getting. he wakes me up touching me and everytime that we go out he always touches me in my private ...
A. 25 May 2007: If you think hes only using you for sex, have a day or even a week where your affectionate but not overly sexual and see if you guys have a true foundation needed for a healthy relationship. Can you guys talk or do you feel like you cant tell him ... (read in full...)
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