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My names Myesha aka Myp, Chitza or LaLeila
i became an "Agony Aunt" on Dear Cupid because helping people is something that i love... it gives me great satisfaction to know that advice i might have given could help someone in need.
i currently reside in the bay area, caliornia... u s of a.[YEE!]
im single but i've got my eye on someone :]. i love art, im a painter, sculptor, singer, dancer, designer, entrepreneur and future business mogul lol i love money, not so much for materialistic reasons but for the security of it.... ive been poor [not a good look]. im a compassionate individual but i speak it like i peek it... ill tell you like it is. im extremely self aware, independent and ambitous and i love to listen and be heard so if you want to talk hit me up!!!
Much love and happiness
-Myesha
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I'm in a loveless marriage; should I leave?
Q. Do I abandon a passionless marriage? He loves me, I know -- but he's not in love with me, never has been. And he's trying, he knows we're in deep stuff here. But it's been 20+ years of little romance, an ever-decreasing amount of sex, and such a ...
A. 25 June 2007: If youre not happy, leave. You deseve to be in a relationship where the other person really loves you. The real kind.
-Myesha... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and puberty still hasn't kicked in
Q. help me please i am 16 and still havent hit puberty fully. I have got pubic hair gowing and i have grown in hieght and thats all. my voice hasn't broke and my penis hasn't grown much in lenght has anyone got anything that could help me please?...
A. 25 June 2007: puberty isnt over until youre about 21, youve got plenty of time, your chest and shoulders are still skinny too huh? youll fill out once you hit sbout 18, no worries youre normal. best of luck -Myesha... (read in full...)
One of my breasts is smaller than the other, is this normal?
Q. Hi iam really :S my left breast is smaller than my right is this normal or not.. do i need to go to my doctors to see if i need it up lifting or... HELP???? it hold my self back from bein touch by anyone.......
A. 25 June 2007: when a dude is worked up trust me he wont care and yes its normal. My right ones bigger then my left, and so far i've had exactly 0 complaints. NOBODIES boobs are exactly the same on each side...NOBODIES its physiaclly impossible unless youve had... (read in full...)
I love him but I'm not ready for sex, what should I do?
Q. i am only 13 years old and i am very scared in a way but i love him to death!!!!!! 333 but i think that he really wants to have sex with me :( and im NOT!! ready for SEX!! what do i do????!!!!!!!...
A. 25 June 2007: Im not going to tell you your too young, however i will tell you that if your not ready you need to tell him that, and if he loves you he'll respect your decision. If he doesnt then hes not worth your time and you need to get rid of him. Sex is ... (read in full...)
I'm nervous about losing my virginity but I feel pressured by my friends
Q. Im still a virgin at 14 but recently, all my friends have been losing it and I'm beginning to feel left out. I know you shouldn't give in to peer pressure but they go as far as to say "Put your hand up if your a virgin" and I find only I raise my ...
A. 25 June 2007: Wait to lose it to someone you care about. Wait for that person your totally crazy about who doesnt make you flinch, matter of fact you should want them to touch you. And yes boys do get nervous, sometimes more than girls. As for the peer pressure, ... (read in full...)
How do I hint that I want to kiss him?
Q. ok well i really like my bf and i want to kiss him so bad but how do i send the signs that i want to so that he knows with out me telling him. ...
A. 25 June 2007: when youre close to him tilt your face up close to his, lick your lips, and look at his mouth. He'll get the message. message me if you have any questions =) best of luck -Myesha... (read in full...)
Does masturbating mean I could be ready for sex?
Q. some times i look up pornography because i miss my boyfriend cody and then i masterbate and it make me feel so good inside and then i get these feelings and they make me have these visuals of me and him having sex. and i no that im not ready for ...
A. 25 June 2007: No this means, that you are capale of making a decision on that issue. Your body has matured and since you are now masturbating your body is ready for sex, but you have to decide if your heart and mind are ready for sex. If you think you're not ... (read in full...)
My attractive friend is harming my confidence; she even said I need plastic surgery!
Q. My friend is making me very insecure. She's a very attractive model and tells me because of her "looks, boobs and personality" her boyfriends have never looked at other women, at porn, cheated on her or even thought about other women (how could she ...
A. 24 June 2007: Shes got problems. Real problems. Any girl thats that cocky is trying to cover up for something. Insecurities maybe? not maybe, for damn sure. Anyway, theres no way all of her boyfriends are completely centered on her...NO WAY because men just don... (read in full...)
Is it normal for us to orgasm at the same time?
Q. Every time me boyfriend and I have sex, I am on top. Is this normal, I mean my friends always say they are never on top, and I know that usually the man is on top but my boyfriend doesn't like to be on top, and he doesn't seem to know how to ...
A. 24 June 2007: I think its special when you both come at the same time, thats great. Thats like a whole new level of spirituality in sex. As for positions do what feels good to you everyones different and trying different ways to have sex is fun. You dont have to ... (read in full...)
My Bf said to my friend that he was using me. I need someone else!
Q. im sooooo confused and i need lots of help with this ok its so hard for me to have a boyfriend these days im 13 and going to 8th grade i get lots of boyfriends but im not a whore last weekend i was going out with this guy and i thought he lov...
A. 24 June 2007: Girl you dont NEED a boyfriend. If you want one, find a nice sexy guy, who has potential. Looking for summer flings always ends in disappointment. On another note love takes a lot longer then a few days, unless your talking about puppy love, that ... (read in full...)
I get chills from looking at him when I don't even know him!
Q. I saw this guy at Six Flags, and when i saw him i got the chills and the way he looked at me gave me chills and I cant stop thinking about him or dreaming about him. How do I stop loving a guy I don't even know?...
A. 24 June 2007: Thats not love thats infatuation. If you see him again go talk to him. Other than that move on go meet people or do something else. If theres a future there youll see him again. -Myesha... (read in full...)
My friend keeps cheating on all the boys she's been with! I'm sick of it!
Q. ok i dont know what to do heres the story my friend is dating a guy named cory and she really likes him and he really likes her but she was talking to his friend kyle who she has never seen and she asked him out when cory was at his house and he...
A. 24 June 2007: Stop being friends with her, she seems like one of those girls that has no qualms about stealing the guy you like or obviously cheating on her boyfriend. It doesnt sound like she treats anyone right, so rid yourself of her, people like that are like ... (read in full...)
What's he playing at?!
Q. hi all so im confused ok ive been mates with this guy for a long time , we did sleep together ages ago but decided to put that behind us and stay mates , slept together about 5 months ago and still stayed mates normal mates who didnt sleep to...
A. 24 June 2007: Confront him. Ask him straight out if he wants to be more than friends. Thats the only way youll ever know, dont ask his friends, dont ask your friends, ask him. Tell him how you feel, that your really confused about your relationship with him and ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants me to get rid of all my stuff before she moves in--help!
Q. I need help with this problem. My girlfriend is moving in with me and she is telling me one way or another to get rid of all my home contents left from my last marriage. That means all furniture from the bedroom, TV room, all the kitchen contents...
A. 24 June 2007: I agree with both dr jo and dv1, however it could be shes trying to erase the reminders, of your ex wife.
No woman wants to sleep in the bed her boyfriend and hs ex wife had there wedding nuptials in ya know. The thing is, is that when she move... (read in full...)
We agreed to try for a baby--now he wants me to get rid of it!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years we are also living together. We both agreed to try for a baby--then last week when I found out I was pregnant I told him and he was so disappointed and told me to get rid of it. I was so confused...
A. 24 June 2007: That makes me soo angry. Get rid of him and collect child support, dont waste your time on that asshole.
-Myesha
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I was a virgin and now he wants to be f*** buddies! I'm so confused, please help!
Q. I just lost my virginity early yesterday morning roughly 4am (we were at a wedding before). I really liked him and I met him briefly before. It wasn't sore but I bled a little--I didn't tell him I was a virgin...do you think he might have known? ...
A. 24 June 2007: You didnt do anything wrong, hes just not the best guy to have a relationship with. The thing is you kind of did the whole thing backwards. Since you slept with him before you started an emotional relationship he thinks you want to be fuck buddies, ... (read in full...)
I really like a girl who hates me
Q. I'm 16 and I fancy this girl who is 14 goin on 15 and she hates me so much but I love her and I cant get over her, she knows how I feel as all my freinds asked her out for me even tho I did'nt give them permission. I just got a gym membership so I ...
A. 24 June 2007: Why does she hate you? First off you cant make her love you, she either will or she wont. Second off you have to get her to stop hating you then you have to get her to like you then you have to get into a relationship then you get her to fall for ... (read in full...)
My married friend called me gay and is really flirty with me
Q. hi im 24 yrs old and im definitely straight but.... it started that my other friend said to me on the txt ooo why dont u kiss her ( as a joke because i said i was out with her) and my mate saw the txt and said ok take a pic of us snogging!! i was in ...
A. 24 June 2007: i guess i could sum it up. =) shes married, shes gay, and she wants you. That gives you options, either you can explore your bi-curious side, or you can leave her alone. Just because shes attracted to you doesnt mean you have to reciprocate. ... (read in full...)
I'm lusting after two of my tutors!
Q. Hi, i know it wrong .. but it the chemistry is there... im 24 yrs old just finish college goin back next yr to fin my level 3...my tutors i like 2 of them and they r 44 yrs old but for the last 3 yrs we have done nothing but flirted made sexy ...
A. 24 June 2007: Theres absolutely nothing wrong with having an affair with an older man, you just need to decide which one. If youre really into (whichever one) go for it, youre over the age of consent so whats the problem? best of luck -Myesha ... (read in full...)
Does ejaculating damage my body?
Q. dear guys, i'm 13 ad i am just beginning to masterbate, i have ejaculted once and i dont want to do it again because i don't want to damage mt body, but i crave it so much, i am not a sicko, i just want advice. please help thanks ...
A. 24 June 2007: this is 100% natural, i mean like it wont harm you at all matter of fact your supposed to ejaculate. However eventually when you do have sex, condoms keep that ejaculation from entering the woman, preventing pregnancy. ALL boys masturbate! you are ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my closest male friend.
Q. I'm in love with my closest male friend. For about 4 years now i've felt realy realy close to him and for the past year i've been wanting more that his friendship. he knows i like him because one night i got drunk and told him. he told me that he ...
A. 23 June 2007: If your willing to take the chance, than go for it. Tell him how you feel, if your in love with a person then you cant just be their friend, and youll both only end up miserable if you try to deny yourselves the affection and companionship that ... (read in full...)
Am I average height?
Q. i am 16 and a half years old, and 5 foot 9.74 inches. i feel that all of the boys that i know are taller than me. i know that i am not VERY small, but i can't help but feel that i am below 90% of the boys that i know. Am i of average height?,...
A. 23 June 2007: Guys usually dont officially stop growing until there about 25, so youll be fine. 5'9 isnt short and youll probably average out at about 6ft when you do stop growing. My cousin was about 5'8 when he was 16 and then he shot up to 6'4 so everyones ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that because I'm so shy during sex that it'll come between us. Any advice?
Q. I am really shy when it comes to sex. I like being the submissive one. I don't like be dominant. This was fine, until recently. I am dating this great guy and he wants me to open up and stop being shy during sex. I can understand that he wants me to ...
A. 23 June 2007: Talk to him about it. He should make an effort to make you comfortable about your self during sex, and vice-versa. If your feeling shy then there should be encouragement.
-Myesha... (read in full...)
I'm nervous about how to pleasure him. Any advice?
Q. Hi i have a question for guys and maybe some girls can give me answers as well. Well i have a boyfriend and i'm in love with him and so is he. I'm 13 and he's 15 and we been together for 7 months. Well to give me pleasure he fingers me and licks me ...
A. 23 June 2007: just stroke him, thats a handjob, theres no right way to do it you just listen to his response and youll know.
best of luck
message me if you want to talk =)
-Myesha... (read in full...)
What does a orgasm feel like?
Q. Hi this is a question for girls only cuz i don't think guys can answer this question. Anyways i'm 13 and i have a boyfriend who's 15. And yesterday he was finger banging me but it wasn't the first time. But yesterday was different he got me ...
A. 23 June 2007: you feel like you have to pee when he hits your g-spot. As for an orgasm, when you have one youll know! there will be no doubt. When you have an orgasm it feels like theres a knot in your stomach that keeps getting tighter, and when the orgasm comes ... (read in full...)
I'm overweight and have no confidence left
Q. well im really big for my age im 15 im a size 18 and thats gettin too small for me and i dont have a clue bout how to lose weight.i used to be really vain when i was size 12/14 i had loads of confidence and a bf and everything but as ive got bigger ...
A. 23 June 2007: Exercise everyday for about an hour and dont eat fastfood and you will definitely lose weight. Soda is really bad too, its like liquid candy. Im not saying starve yourself, far from it, just make healthy food choices. Instead of mcdonalds drive ... (read in full...)
Worried about when my period will start--I'm already 14!
Q. I am 14 and I have not started my period yet. I have had discharge for two years and I am wondering when will I get my period since everyone i know has. I have been told I am lucky that I haven't. Can anyone tell me when I will start?...
A. 23 June 2007: Dont worry about it, itll come when your body is ready. My mom got hers when she was 14 and i got mine when i was 11, everyone is different.
-Myesha... (read in full...)
We broke up and he's taunting me but I'm still not over him
Q. I was in a three year relationship and I'm having a really hard time getting over him. I honestly think about him everyday and I can't help but feel lonely without him. I go out with friends but all I can think about is him. He left me for another ...
A. 23 June 2007: Get a new guy. A cuter guy. A richer guy. He doesnt have to be all of those things just different. Even if you dont form a romantic realtionship with him, a guy friend is alwys great for when you need a shoulder to cry on. As for getting over the ... (read in full...)
He lied to me about his age, now I can't trust him.
Q. Hey, This is my first question. Around 9 months ago i met a guy, and since then we've been getting on soo well and i seriously think i could love him. The only problem is, im only 16 and he was what i thought to be 20. I only found out this ...
A. 23 June 2007: get rid of him quick. I smell pedophile. Any man damn near thirty trying to get with a 16 yr old is not a man, he is officially a sick b*stard. My apologies for the language but theres really no other title for a person like that. -Myesha... (read in full...)
I think I'm too thin, what should I do?
Q. hello every1. im a 16yr old girl and i think i am way too thin. (im under 6 1/2 stone eventhough i eat a balanced diet and do ballet) should i go to the doctors and what methods could i try to stop looking skeleton like?...
A. 23 June 2007: if you dont want to be too thin work out and tone up. Notice i didnt say beef up. Ballet's excellent, i dance also. But if you really want to gain weight definitely go to a doctor, who can monitor your body and help you with a proper diet plan thats ... (read in full...)
I feel ugly and unsupported
Q. I am very young and i already loathe my body. i am not only pressured by all the skinny people in the media, but by how all the people in my family are thin and gorgous. i think i have a pretty face but fat thighs and stomich, flat chested and i ...
A. 23 June 2007: i understand where your coming from, puberty is hard. Your body is changing rapidly, and from what im reading i dont think youre getting fat i think your getting hips. Id like to clear one thing up though, thin does not = gorgeous. If youre in tthe ... (read in full...)
Is the CD she sent me a hint?
Q. Hi. I like a Canadian girl who is Jewish, too. I am Mexican. She came to my country once, for work, and we had a very good time together. I think she was flirty to me, to some point, and we have been corresponding ever since she left. This...
A. 22 June 2007: Jeez she couldnt be more obvious. Thats a hint if i've ever heard one. Child of a jewish woman and a mexican man huh? thats cute :) go after her best of luck -Myesha... (read in full...)
I just turned 19 and the girl I am seeing is 17 and a half. Is it illegal to do sexual acts with her?
Q. I just turned 19 and the girl I am seeing is 17 and a half. Is it illegal to do sexual acts with her?...
A. 21 June 2007: Technically yeah. Morally no. If you guys do have sex, i seriously doubt anyone is going to say anything.
best of luck
-Myesha... (read in full...)
She says she isn't having sex until she's 16, and I'm fine with that, but she also said that until then we could just like, fool around. But the thing is we don't EVER.
Q. I'm 15. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 4 months now, and everything is great, except there's no sexual side to our relationship. I know most of you will probably say we're too young, but seriously, it's been 4 months and we haven't done ...
A. 21 June 2007: Maybe shes just nervous, and doesnt want to initiate. Make her feel comfortable, and dont pressure her too much. If and when you guys start making out and she objects to any kind of foreplay remind her that youve respected her decision to wait till ... (read in full...)
Do you think she's just accepted because I asked her 3 times?
Q. there is this girl i fancied for over 7 months now. she is gorgeous! i was scared to make a move because she was much better lookin than me. i asked this girl to cinema, she twice made excuse of bein busy. but out of the blue today she wanted t...
A. 20 June 2007: May be she really WAS busy. If she initiated then its not a pity date. Best of luck. I have a good feeling she likes you.
-Myesha... (read in full...)
I want to make a boy notice me
Q. i want a boy to relieze im alive! HOW DO I ACCOMPLISH THAT? show some girl her love and respond!!!!!!!!!!!...
A. 20 June 2007: Do what irish says. She gives good advice. AND flirt a little bit, he'll never think your interested unless you MAKE him notice you. Talk to him.
-Myesha... (read in full...)
I have such ugly teeth I dont want to smile
Q. I have really ugly teeth. People call me elephant girl bc they look like tusks. it really hurts me inside. and i really like this guy derrick but he makes fun of me too even though he has like the hairiest legs ever so he shouldnt be talking. should ...
A. 20 June 2007: respond to the teasing. If you tell him he looks like a damn gorilla hell definitely notice you and the fact that you stood up for yourself. If you relly dont like your teeth save up and get some braces. My mom worked 2 jobs to pay off hers and it ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't open up to me, should I leave him?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 weeks and all we do is physical things, everytime I ask him about his life we end up arguing. all I know is he doesn't have a good relationship with either of his parents and is in counsuling, I don't know what to ...
A. 19 June 2007: He sounds like hes got a whole lot of baggage and hes not comfortable showing you the contents. If hes not ready hes not ready. Dont pressure him too much just let him know that youre there for him if and when he wants to talk about his issues. Talk ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has never had an orgasm while we're having sex
Q. hi im joshua19 i have a girlfriend, we have sex often but everytime she never has an orgasm and i feel horrible cause i want that for her. what are some tips that anyone can provide for me to help my situation ...
A. 19 June 2007: Talk to her about it. Some girls just dont have orgasms from vaginal sex. Ask her what she likes and how she likes it and youll be fine. best of luck -Myesha... (read in full...)
Sometimes it seems he loves me, other times he threatens me; should I end it?
Q. Okay so i have been going out with this guy for almost 9 months. now ately he's been mean towards me saying stuff like "i'm going to push you down the stairs" and i dont know if hes kidding or not. He says he might really do it. And said if i was in ...
A. 19 June 2007: Get rid of him quick, threats almost ALWAYS escalte to physical abuse. It doesnt matter how much he says he loves you, or even if he really does love you. Relationships like this are how girls end up dead or severely injured physically and ... (read in full...)
He says he likes me but doesn't act like he does
Q. He told me he likes me yet, he doesnt talk to me. We were at our friends watching movies and playing games and everything was awesome, we were holding hands and cuddling and stuff. He said he was gunna call me, but he didnt. Today he was on AIM but ...
A. 19 June 2007: Ask him straight out, thats the only way youll ever know why hes acting so weird. If he changes his story about liking you then forget him but if hes tryin to be hard to get then flirt with him when you see him, and dont try to IM him or call him, ... (read in full...)
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