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writes:My mom's friend has a son. He is 3 years older than me. I see him a lot. Whenever I'm around him, I feel uncomfortable. He always stares at my chest. Should I say something to him? If so, what should I say? Reply to this Question
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reader, [email address blocked] +, writes (9 August 2007):
feeling is understandable same thing happens to me i just call them right out on it and say im not interested dont take it because it is your moms friends son even if it the president you should be respected so just say something it will make you feel a lot better
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reader, TaylorChu +, writes (8 August 2007):
 Oh my gosh yes! Call him out on it. Don't take that behavior from anyone no matter what age they are. When you see him staring say it loud enough for everyone to hear it to further embarrass him. Scream it if you have to, "STOP STARING AT MY BREASTS!" That will show him that you are not something to be stared at or fantasized about it. Make it plain and clear that you will not tolerate that sort of behavior from him. Slap him if you have to. Im that serious. It is very disrespectful of him doing that 3 years older or even 30 years older!
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reader, myp +, writes (8 August 2007):
 If you want to say something then just be really forward, it usually scares them off. Just say what's on your mind..."Do you HAVE to stare at my chest/boobs/tits all the time? My face is north of that region..." or "Why do you keep staring at my chest? Are you really that pervish?"He'll get the point.-Myesha
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reader, jtaunton5410 +, writes (8 August 2007):
 I know that this may be uncomfortable but maybe you hould talk to your mom. Just say that you think he is creepy and what he does when he is around you. Then whenever he come over the next time she can observe as well and see what this guy is really up to. Then of course sh will have a mom to mom conversation and discuss whst is going on. This saves you from having to talk to this wierdo directly. Guys are such horn dogs, I dont think that they can really help it. Sorry darling but that is gonna happen your whole life, at least right now you mom can maybe help or put a stop to this.
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