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*ept21
writes:Hey I'm a 21 year old virgin female, I'm strongly believe in christ, but I'm having a hard time finding a man who can accept and respect that. Any tips????? Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 Kept21,
We understand you go to church for spiritual reasons. A church is certainly NOT what you should think of as a place to get a date. What I meant, and I'm sure the others posters meant that, too, is that you will find a Christian man in the areas where Christian people gather, most likely the church. I'm almost sure you won't find such a man in a bar, if you went to bars (I'm sorry if you do).
Also, maybe you've just been unlucky. You're young, and I'm sure you will find such a man in one way or the other.
I apologize if we offended you in any way.
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reader, kept21 +, writes (1 August 2007):
kept21 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think people misunderstood the question. I'm a christian and when I go to church it is truly to get my spirit fed. I dont look for man in church, just because he says that he is a christian and goes to church doesnt make him one. I believe that my man of god may come in away I would never think.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (30 July 2007):
I like Myesha's answer, and fully support it, too. If you want a Christian, you'll find him in church. Just keep your eyes open; it would be a relationship like any other. Finding such a man would not be a guarantee of a smooth relationship with no problems at all.
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reader, LauraE  +, writes (30 July 2007):
Myesha is right. Just keep looking - and in the right places.
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reader, myp +, writes (30 July 2007):
 find a man at church, best way to do it...
-Myesha
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