I bleed every time we have sex!
Q. My boyfriend and I just recently started having sex and everytime we do, I end up bleeding! I thought it was normal the first time but now I'm starting to think there's something wrong with me because I always start bleeding whenever we try to have ...
A. 19 July 2007: Just to be on the safe side you should see a Dr. However your bleeding could be caused by a poor sexual technique. By this I mean,all women's bodies need to have a sexual warm-up, (Foreplay-lots of hand and lip stimulation to the whole body) before ... (read in full...)
He hasn't totally gotten over past relationships; does this mean he might not be fully committed to me?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months. We have a great, honest, loving relationship. He's been in a few more serious relationships than I have. I know he's still not completely moved on from 2 of them. He doesn't talk to them, or ...
A. 19 July 2007: There lots of men and women who have been in affairs and they got emotionally stuck. And they just can't seem to get out of that emotional rut. Love can also become a mental addiction in the lives of people who have had shattered relationships. And ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend and so does my family but I think I have some lingering feelings for my ex
Q. I am 19 years old, and a month ago i got engaged to my boyfriend of two years. I do love him heaps, but i think i still like my ex boyfrind of 3 years. My family hate my ex, but love my current boyfriend. I dont think i want anything to happen with ...
A. 19 July 2007: It is normal to remember the relationships that we have had over the years,the good the bad and yes even the ugly. Relationships are the life experiences, that we all need to grow in our ongoing maturity. But it would seem that you are having ... (read in full...)
When a guy is in a serious relationship but watches porn and masturbates every day does that mean he is sick and tired of his girl?
Q. When a guy is in a serious relationship but watches porn and masturbates every day does that mean he is sick and tired of his girl, even though he tells her how much he loves her everyday? ...
A. 19 July 2007: All good, healthy relationships have one thing in common and that is taking care of each other's physical and sexual needs. And any, and all, things, that take away from this togetherness will adversely affect the whole relationship. Men's ... (read in full...)
20 years later and I'm pregnant again!!!
Q. Ok, well I have a serious question. I am in my late 30's, been married 20 years, have 2 step sons from my husband's side. Never been on birth control, never used condoms, so for twenty years I have never been pregnant. I had a brief fling 6 ye...
A. 19 July 2007: It seems to me that there was this Mary and Joseph who didn't even have sex, so they say. And a son was born unto them,and his name was Jesus. Now that was of God,wouldn't you say? Your ex-husband may have been infertile, no children. But when you ... (read in full...)
How can I last longe in bed?
Q. I'm with a new a new girlfriend and have started to suffer from premature ejaculation... it is really gettin me down.. How can I fix this?...
A. 18 July 2007: Welcome to the "Club Of Failed Erections" All men, now and then, have those premature ejaculations. It's pretty hard to put you finger on the cause most of the time. But you can be sure that a new gf would definitely be one cause of ED (Erection- ... (read in full...)
Should I find a better man?
Q. I have been married 15 months - I am attractive and have a very healthy sexual appetite. I am attracted to my husband but he just isnt interested.Its devastating as I am 30 and just feel sex is so important to a relationship and is making me feel v ...
A. 17 July 2007: All relationships are like a book, and unless you open that book you don't really know what you'll find. The cover of your book says ME!, ME!,ME!, But not enough to say what's going on in the WE!, WE!, WE! areas of your marital book. You should ... (read in full...)
How do I improve my sexual tecnique when I didnt know I was bad in the first place?
Q. Hello, My girlfriend of 5 and half years has just recently broken up with me (about 2 weeks ago). She said that she no longer loves me, she found a new guy, she doesn't see a future with me, and etc. Anyways, I met her the other day and we w...
A. 16 July 2007: So she spent 5 years with a sexually below level bf, Hah! That's a bunch of BS. You can be sure of that. As I see it you both used each other for 5 years with sex as the bases of your togetherness, sex isn't a very good glue when it comes to ... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell us how to make me have an orgasm?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been intimate for 11 months now and i have not yet received the pleasure of having a orgasm. We have tried many different things and yet it has not happened. We were wondering if anyone could give us any suggestions on a...
A. 15 July 2007: All orgasms are all about Foreplay, that's all the wonderful touchy things we do to each other's bodies.Like caressing, hugging,kising and being there for each other, but not just there in the bedroom. Your vagina is kind of like a closed flower, ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to pay for sex as long as you're very careful?
Q. I am male, who is mssing sex. is it okay to pay for a shag, as long s you are very careful.....
A. 14 July 2007: Well, You could look at it this way. How would you know that it was safe to have sex with a paid partner? It has been said that every woman who has had sex unprotected passs on to every man who uses her all of the relationships that she has ever ... (read in full...)
My wife cheated repeatedly; I gave her another chance but she still sees the men she was unfaithful with
Q. My wife has had sex with more then a few guys on the side. A few were her coworkers. Our marriage was falling apart rapidly because of her infidelity and deciet. One day I had enough of her abuse and threats of divorce so I told her I was looking ...
A. 14 July 2007: Her cheating ways,
have made you blue.
Please! Let me say,
some kind words to you.
You'he gone the mile,
many more it's true.
And all of the while,
Shes been cheating on you.
With lips that lie,
and a heart that's untrue.
It's time to ... (read in full...)
I have very pronounced nipples that are always noticeable; how noticeable is a padded bra?
Q. Can people tell when you're wearing a bra with padding? I have pronounced nipples and need some padding to keep people from staring all the time and the bra is also supposed to "lift and shape" your bust but I'm wondering if it looks very ...
A. 14 July 2007: Gee! If your nipples are that noticeable, and unless you have another good reason to hide them beneath a padded bra. It's your body and so I for one am not about to tell you what you should wear. However as a male I'm a breast lover, as are most ... (read in full...)
Would sex help relax my girlfriend who is stressed? What else can I do for her?
Q. just curious here. This is probably mainly for the girls than the guys. Would you say that sex is a good stress reliever and that it relaxes you when your stressed? If so are there any tips that you can give me that helps you relax more and that can ...
A. 14 July 2007: Perhaps you are having a problem at your communicational level. You ever ask her what's going with her. Seems to me that would be the first place to begin to solve both your problems, Please Note, I said both your problems because if she has ... (read in full...)
Recently he has found out that I cheated on him twice, and feels he can not forgive me.
Q. hi, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 years. Recently he has found out that I cheated on him twice, and feels he can not forgive me, he now thinks that I never loved him at all and that it was all a lie but it was not. I love this boy ...
A. 12 July 2007: Hey! I could forgive you for cheating on me, that would be the easy part of a relationship However there is such a thing as trust. And that is something I would never again be able to find within a renewed relationship. You played with ... (read in full...)
My sex life has gone down the toilet!
Q. Dear cupid... My problem is that my sex life has gone down the toilet. I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years. I'm in my mid 20s and he's in his early 30s. So I dont think it's age. We're both healthy and active and neither of us has p...
A. 9 July 2007: Hi! Love, I'm 80, years young so I don't mind calling you Love. Yes, Sweetheart it is the age, his not your's, that has brought about a marked change in the frequency of coitus. Your bf has what I call "Sexual-Burn-out" And the togetherness of every ... (read in full...)
something for all you soul searchers out there
Q. We always want someone to blame, someone to be held accountable for things in our lives. We rarly take responsibility for our own actions. We turn to the gods, karma and evil out of our control to take responsibility for things we or others have ...
A. 9 July 2007: There was only one man who answered all of the questions of life. Gee! What do you know, He even said he was the son of God,Yes,Even God Himself. But then lots of those so called good folks hung him upon a cross. Because they were serving their own ... (read in full...)
He treats me like crap. What should I do?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been togeather for 6 years. i luv him alot. But i wonder if he really luvs me.He never takes me anywhere or buys me anything. If I ask him for anthing including sex. Its always NO! Whats the big deal, Id do anything for him. ...
A. 9 July 2007: Hi He Treats Me Like crap.
Wish I Knew more about your early years together. And what He was like? Was there any physical love between you? And if there was, could he sexually please you? By Sexual-Pleasure, I mean, could he get an erection, and ... (read in full...)
How do I really know that I made the right decision?
Q. Hi Everyone - your help is needed! I split up with my partner of 4 years over two months ago now. I had been feeling confused over my feelings for him for a good few months before finally ending things. I think I have changed over time and don't ...
A. 9 July 2007: You will have to make the decision to stay in an unhappy relationship where neither of you were realy happy,or move on. We all can give you advice. But when push comes to shove, You'll need to go with your mind and your heart. Please Note That I put ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I'm bisexual and I think he could be right; what if I'm not and he's disappointed?
Q. Hi there ... just wanting some advice. I am deeply in love with the man I am currently with and I hope to be with him long-term.Recently my man suggested that perhaps I might be bi-sexual I dont know if I am or not. I love being with my man but I ...
A. 6 July 2007: Hi! Lots of men and women spend their whole lives in this or that gender role relationship. They tell themselves I'm this or I'm that when it comes to their sexual preferences. And so they live their lives as they see themselves sexually. Then one ... (read in full...)
Do I dump my 2nd family for my 1st wife?
Q. I am married for 13 years with 3 kids, a great family life and friends, I am very successful. Sounds great, huh? I have one issue... I am not in love with my wife, I am done "trying" to love her (yes, we did seek therapy and yes things are better ...
A. 5 July 2007: Your first wife, of five years, wasn't good enough for your successful career So you just used her body to fulfil your other needs, until number two came along. But, low and behold your number-one has became successful in her own rights, And perhaps ... (read in full...)
I cant seem to achieve an orgasm during sex
Q. Im 18 yaers old, I have only had sex three times and I havent had an orgasm yet. Im thinking its something wrong with me. How many times does it take before I can have an orgasm? What does it feel like? Also the third time I had sex we did it for ...
A. 3 July 2007: All Orgasms are about Clitoral-Stimulation, and the G-Spot really isn't too important at this point in your sexuality, later on it will be helpful to understand it's role in your orgasms. You also shouldn't feel that there is something wrong with ... (read in full...)
I am new to the whole relationship thing and have some questions
Q. I am just going to post a few questions at once... just cause i have so many... i am rookie to this relationship stuff so thanks in advance for all your advice... 1. Does a man like to hear I love you often? 2. How can you talk to your bf abou...
A. 3 July 2007: Being a man, I don't really don't need a lots of "I love you's". I can feel it and see it in our relationship.
All of us men are quite different in our mental-make-up,so you'll get use to your partner's mind set.As you both grow into toge... (read in full...)
I fancy my married girl friend--what do I do?
Q. I am a lesbian, and a woman whom has 5 children fancied me but difficult situation nw..? Well, just a brief summary, I met her through my mother as she was friends with her mother-in-law. She is about 32, I am 22. I didn't like her at first...
A. 2 July 2007: You say that both of you are Muslims. And that you are a Lesbian.There will be those who will say: "Go for it". But as you know,even if she is also a Lesbian, and that you are not sure of, The love between you two can never be an open affair. I am ... (read in full...)
Do I dump my 2nd family for my 1st wife?
Q. I am married for 13 years with 3 kids, a great family life and friends, I am very successful. Sounds great, huh? I have one issue... I am not in love with my wife, I am done "trying" to love her (yes, we did seek therapy and yes things are better ...
A. 2 July 2007: Relationships are not always about love when it comes to men, Being as many men never learn to love. We just learn to lust,and we call that love. So as a man, who has been married twice in my 80 years of life. And came out of a broken home. To be ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend read my chat logs...I feel like my trust has been violated!
Q. Hello all, first time so thanks in advance for your thoughts. I caught my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years reading my internet chat logs behind my back... I was really upset and felt like he invaded my privacy (although, in honesty I have nothing to ...
A. 1 July 2007: You say that you love him, But love isn't about having everything our own way, And when you have so called friends on the WeB, who put him down,and you feed into that,if you do. Then Sweetheart don't talk about trust because you don't have very ... (read in full...)
Can a person find love if they suffer from anxiety and depression?
Q. Can a person find love if they suffer from anxiety and depression? Hi, I am a 25 year old male who suffers with anxiety and depression. My main goal in life is to sort out all the problems I have and get my life back on track. Because I have ...
A. 1 July 2007: Can I find love suffering from Anxiety and depression? Can A leopard change it's spots? Sure you could find someone who would like to love you in a mothering way. But to receive love you must be able to give love, I don't mean just the sexual ... (read in full...)
I am a single guy and i think i have fallen in love with a married woman.
Q. I am a single guy and i think i have fallen in love with a married woman who i work with. She has been with us about four months now and she is a very attractive sophisticated lady, and i have total respect that she is married. However i do sence a ...
A. 1 July 2007: WE can fall into sexual lust as a man or woman. But in the male, more so than a female , it's not love but fleshly lust, no matter how you slice it. Both gender can also fall out of common sense to. And should the relation go any further, You both ... (read in full...)
Is a relationship with a third cousin incestuous?
Q. i am in a relationship with my 3rd cousin, am i incest? if i had a kid would it have a birth defect? also if im pregnant how should i tell our family?...
A. 29 June 2007: Hi! If Adam and Eve's children married each other and they did Did God call it sin? NO,NO,No. This same God said "I change not". So if it wasn't a sin against God then, It isn't now. So no matter what the Law or people say, I for one will go by ... (read in full...)
I use lust to advance and get what I want but some can't tolerate it
Q. It seems that lust is something that motivates me or i use to my advantage in getting more out of my life in terms of workplace progress and well being in general. Somehow, some people are not comfortable with this kind of behavior, no matter how ...
A. 29 June 2007: There's nothing wrong with lust as long as it is within the range of social acceptability. There is such a thing as mutual-abuse. Where we use each other for the overall benefit of our Family, our marriage, and also within our employer,and employee ... (read in full...)
YOU CAN HELP: Spread the word about DearCupid!
Q. Hi, I want to ask a really big favour of everyone who uses, likes and has been helped by DearCupid. Help spread the word this weekend, by doing some of these suggestions: * Tell your friends and family about DearCupid * Talk about and ...
A. 29 June 2007: Hi!Andrew:
I'm Like Flower Girl Addicted to your great Website. I have also Suffed the Web, and haven't found any Website that address's peoples problems like DearCupid. myspace, To to me is a constipation of confusion, trying to be all in all to e... (read in full...)
My father is blind and I worry for him since he can't seem to keep a relationship
Q. Hi, I am writing for the sake of my father, who is totally blind in both eyes because of diabetes. He is independent, has a job and can live easily on his own with little help. but in spite of all that, he is very unhappy. he cannot hold a potential ...
A. 29 June 2007: Dear: "My father is blind" There is hope for both of you,if you both are willing to try what I have to tell you. I live in the Philippines, And my wife is a Pilipino. I couldn't ask for a more loving, caring wife. There are lots of women here in the ... (read in full...)
I thought we could make something out of this... Now I feel that I was wrong. Any advice?
Q. Okay, we are not children, I'm 40, he's 45. We met through mutual friends and there is definitely attraction and we have just begun seeing each other. He found my site on Match.com after our first date, and now has created a page there as well. I ...
A. 29 June 2007: All early Relationships are like icebergs with very little showing above the water of beginning togetherness. In your cases, I would like to say,neither of you know very much abot each others likes and dislikes. Sex in bed may be great, but it will ... (read in full...)
I know they say women hit their sexual peak at 40, but my sex drive is driving me nuts.
Q. I know they say women hit their sexual peak at 40, but my sex drive is driving me nuts. I've been off the pill for 2 years, but the surge in my drive didn't happen until about 6-8 months ago so I don't know if there's a connection there. I think ...
A. 29 June 2007: Here's what you do about your wonderful sexuality You Enjoy it and be thankful that you have that sex drive, that lots of men and women would give their eyeteeth to have. When it comes to sexual fantasies, they are healthy, and also perfectly ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems to have a wandering eye for other guys!
Q. Well I have a boyfriend and me being gay there is a lot of shady things said about being homosexual. Well my new boyfriend has been with 15 guys, I'll be number 16 and I feel like he's never really interested but here lately there seems to be signs ...
A. 29 June 2007: Hi! #16 It kind of looks like your bf digs his relationships by volume,not by quality sex. And no one seems to please him. So he'll soon be moving on. And you can always say, Gee! I was #16.... (read in full...)
We're going to sell up, move away and start again, opinions on this would be appreciated.
Q. Hi guys, It would be nice to get some opinions on my situation as it is at the moment please. My husband and I were going through some business and financial difficulties early part of last year and it caused us to lose sight of each other. My ...
A. 29 June 2007: When do you think another woman will come along? And how do you know that they don't have plans to leave you high and dry when your house and Business is sold. Why Don't you do this. Tell your husband that you want all of the Money from the sale of ... (read in full...)
I'm so fed up with my guy right now for not taking any interest in my worries or insecurities
Q. I'm so fed up with my guy right now for not taking any interest in my worries or insecurities, he is entirely blameless for me feeling this way (so he thinks) he won't see anything from my point of view, I was once a cocky confident person, now I'm ...
A. 29 June 2007: When we fish the water deep,
Where many fish abound.
All of the fish we do not keep,
Nor let them hang around.
You caught a Cad it's plain to see,
So why let him hang around.
Throw the Cad back into the sea,
Where better fish abound.... (read in full...)
I fancied a girl who I'm crazy about for 7 months now!
Q. I fancied a girl who I'm crazy about for 7 months now! I think we were good mates but found out she really fancies my best mate. My best mate has already got girlfriend and hates her. She's used me a lot to get to him, my friend told me everything ...
A. 29 June 2007: Hate is a two-edged-sword that not only cuts the one you hate, but it will also cut your own heart if you keep it in your soul. Sure you have been used, haven't we all. So Please be kind and gentle when you talk to her. We all stub our toes on the ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says she has changed and is pursuing new people; I don't want to give up
Q. my girlfriend broke up with me 20 months ago after 28 years together. our friends say that our relationship was better and happier than any they have been around. but she said that the last 5 years that she was not happy and she changed. she had ...
A. 28 June 2007: In any, and all, gender relationships There will always be the possibility of break-ups. I would wonder what your respective ages are. Not that it really matters, When the ass on the other side of the fence looks greener. Some of us go for it. It's ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a penis enlargement....does anyone have any info on this?
Q. Apologies for the extremely long post but I want to get this out the way... it's been worrying me for 4 weeks now. I'm 21 years old, my boyfriend's 23. Recently he's been complaining our sex life's not good enough, even though I think it's good....
A. 28 June 2007: Your bf is only going to spend $$$$ on a penis enlargement that is uncalled for. And here is why. If he will take the time to study the female vagina. And get acquainted with a woman's Clitoris, where it's located and it's role in your orgasms. He ... (read in full...)
Should I go for it and meet her for a date?
Q. There is this girl who I like and I think she likes me. I think she likes me because she says hi to me everyday in school and if I don't say hi she talks to me online and asks me why I didn't. She tells me she loves me. Sometimes I see her flirting ...
A. 28 June 2007: Out of lots of fools have come lots of great men, and women. Who didn't just sit back and dream about the might of beens. They took the bull by the horns and made things happen,true, their plans and goals did't always turn out as they would of liked ... (read in full...)
She keeps destroying me by leading me on!
Q. I'm 16. Like this girl, asked her out to watch a movie, she accepted but keeps changing the day. What should I do? I really really like her, I'm crazy over her but if she makes another excuse I want to say something to make her feel bad. Any ideas? ...
A. 28 June 2007: Hi! "Being treated like Crap" You're the Lollipopman, A sucker, You know what you should be doing, But I'm not sure you got the balls to kiss her off. Here's a part of a song, "And I just keep coming back for more." Guess they wrote those words just ... (read in full...)
How do I really know that I made the right decision?
Q. Hi Everyone - your help is needed! I split up with my partner of 4 years over two months ago now. I had been feeling confused over my feelings for him for a good few months before finally ending things. I think I have changed over time and don't ...
A. 30 May 2007: Hey! You did make the right decision.
I go along with Irish 49, Great advice from a woman who has it together. You would do well to listen to her.... (read in full...)
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