She keeps destroying me by leading me on!
Q. I'm 16. Like this girl, asked her out to watch a movie, she accepted but keeps changing the day. What should I do? I really really like her, I'm crazy over her but if she makes another excuse I want to say something to make her feel bad. Any ideas? ...
A. 28 June 2007: Hi! "Being treated like Crap" You're the Lollipopman, A sucker, You know what you should be doing, But I'm not sure you got the balls to kiss her off. Here's a part of a song, "And I just keep coming back for more." Guess they wrote those words just ... (read in full...)
He doesn't know if he can be with me because his friends would hate him for it...
Q. Just broke up with boyfriend, really like his best friend, best friend likes me, but doesn't know if he can be with me because his friends would hate him for it... he's out of town right now... what should I be thinking? Any hope for something ...
A. 28 June 2007: You don't really spell out what's going on with the break-up between you and your bf. So it will be pretty hard for anyone to give you any advice. You need to paint more of a verbal picture of what is really going on,Ok.... (read in full...)
She thinks I am flirtatious, when, in fact, I am just a very friendly person.
Q. My girlfriend of one year has been rather pissed off all the time lately. I never knew what the problem was, but it seemed to all come out just a few hours ago. Apparently, she thinks I am flirtatious, when, in fact, I am just a very friendly ...
A. 28 June 2007: You have a very insecure gf who no doubt will just become more and more possessive the longer that you two are together.Me I would be moving on into a more stable relationship. My mother was one of those, green eyed,jealous women,who would be ... (read in full...)
She is Jewish and wants me to be circumcised but I want to stay in tact!!!
Q. I am a 22-Year-old guy, and I have been living with my Girlfriend who is 21, for about 8 Months. I absolutely love her. We never argue or conflict. We were made for each other. Heres my Problem: She is Jewish. I am not Jewish and Uncircumcised....
A. 27 June 2007: SO you Want to become a Jew, well you already are as Jewish as the family you are marrying into. See, All of us came from the same Genealogy,namely, Adam and Eve. Guess that make you as Jewish as that whole family,and Them as much Gentiles as your ... (read in full...)
After four years, she's not interested in sex. When I bring it up, she accuses me of only wanting her for sex!
Q. Hi Guys, I'm really hoping someone out their can help me as Im so damn confused. My girlfriend and I have been together nearly 4 years. My problem is that lately (over the past few months) she just doesn't seem interested in being intimite with me ...
A. 26 June 2007: Hi! Confused: You Don't have a problem, She does, and that is what is giving you a problem. A healthy relationship is based on the mutural giving and taking within that relationship. your relationship is out of balance, but you don't want to see ... (read in full...)
I'm kind of embarrassed to ask, but how do I give him a hand job?
Q. Okay, so I've been dating this guy for several months, and he and I definately have very strong feelings fro each other. We were friends long before we were dating, so we know each other pretty well. Lately, we've been getting more...passionate, I ...
A. 26 June 2007: Hey! Seetheart: Why don't you let him show you how it's done, us men have been Jacking-off, Masturbating,early on in our lives. So he should be the one to show you how to do it.Ok. But remember that the penis needs a firmer grip and also stronger ... (read in full...)
How do I make her want to be my girlfriend?
Q. me and my girlfriend were dateing for almost three months, and then we took a break. i still love her very much and really wish to go back out with her. she still loves me too and she even told me that she still loves me, the only problem is she's ...
A. 26 June 2007: When you plant the seeds of love they don't bear instant fruit. But in the warmth of a caring,loving togetherness, You seeds of kidness will grow into a loving, caring relationship. You have watered those seeds with your loving kindness. So my Dear ... (read in full...)
He's worried about the age difference, should I just end it?
Q. i am 16 turning 17 and i met a guy at a party. he is 21 turning 22 in 4 months. we have gone out a few times and i am beggininng to like him alot but i know he is freaked out about the age difference. sometimes he says it doesnt matter but other ...
A. 26 June 2007: Your 're too Young-Girl. And as nologo says: You got your whole life ahead of you. So why rush into an affair, as for age. It really has very little to do with love, as I see it. It is the commitment, that's the glue in any relationship, that makes ... (read in full...)
I'm leaving town so I won't need to see them together. Am I doing the right thing?
Q. for the past few weeks i have been heart broken because i was dumped by a man who has decided to go back to the woman he got pregnant because he says it is the right thing to do because he wants his child to grow up with a mom and dad and not that ...
A. 26 June 2007: Dear Leaving Town; How far can you run and when you do stop. He'll still be there within in your mind. Seeing them together in the flesh or in your mind is Same,O, Same,O. Those Everyone's are right,and sure it hurts. But try to keep that love you ... (read in full...)
We get on like a house on fire theres a spark missing when it comes to sex!
Q. Hi just a quick one. Ive recently started seeing one of my ex's again and although we get on like a house on fire theres a spark missing when it comes to sex. We slept together before we broke up (nearly 2 years ago) but haven't this time rou...
A. 26 June 2007: That Missing Spark In Your Sex-Life Gee! I'm almost 80,years young. And I'm still looking for that sexual Spark. I don't think that I will ever find it either, because it takes an open, two-way-communication- between two people both in or out of the ... (read in full...)
He wants to bring another woman into our relationship
Q. he's asked me to add another women and have a 3some but when i asked him "would he ask for it again?" he said why not. we have our problems here and there. but he's mine. he's been mine for a full year and some. he tells me what about his needs? i ...
A. 26 June 2007: I won't comment on this one,as CommoneSensei and Rhythmand- blues have really told you where the rubber hits the road, when it comes to what you want in your relationship.
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How can I help my old friend out of the rut she's in?
Q. hello everyone i have a problem with my best friend. you see weve been friends since 7th grade now weve been outta high school for a year and all but she is i guess going through this rough patch and i dont know how to deal or help her. you see as ...
A. 26 June 2007: How can I help her out of her Rut? You can't. She has to do that for herself, No one can do it for her. As for her Chlamydie Disease, Well, She will need Medical Treatment for the Disease. You might want to Pull-Up Chlamydie on the Web. ... (read in full...)
I've never had an orgasm even though I've had 8 lovers
Q. I need help, Im, 25 and Ive never had an orgasm , Ive only been in 2 serious relationships but ive been with about 8 guys so I dont know what the problem is?...
A. 25 June 2007: How about a crash- course in Sex 101. It should be of help with your problem. First off you belong to the "One Out Of Two Club" Women who cannot have an orgasm by Penile-Vaginal-Intercourse.And Here is why. With vaginal stroking by a man's ... (read in full...)
He's looking at porn; doesn't he find me attractive?
Q. My husband has been using porn and all of the women he has searched were completely different to me...for example I am older and show sigs of having had my children..My body has stretch marks and scars. He searched thousands of women all of them ...
A. 25 June 2007: Ah! Yes Porn: It has it's place in one's sexuality, Be you young or old, male or female. If your viewing of the porn leads to a more enlightened knowledge of how to please your partner in or out of the bedroom, But it should be a shared ... (read in full...)
I don't know who to choose; my old flame or my new love
Q. i used to see this guy about a year ago which fizzled out as we werent honest with each other about what we wanted from it, so then i got with my present boyfriend. i now have feelings for this guy again and he does for me too. me and my boyfriend ...
A. 24 June 2007: "Torn between two lovers and feeling like a fool" There is a way that you can have your cake and eat it too. And that is in an open relationship, but they really don't work out very well in the long-run. No one can tell you who to chose. That is ... (read in full...)
Ladies..... what do you think of nipple piercings on guys?
Q. honest opinions ladies - what do you think of nipple pearcings on men because I've just got mines done but I don't know what womens' opinions are on the matter?...
A. 24 June 2007: You asked for a woman's opinon about nipple piercing,being as my father was male and my mother was female. That give give me a 50/50 chance to comment, as I see it. So why not put a goldring in the head of your penis. Wow! That will really impress ... (read in full...)
My husband won't take any responsibility for my unhappiness--please help!
Q. I am very unhappy with my husband at this time and I have tried to express how I feel but he keeps saying that 'he is not responsible for my emotions' and that 'he is not responsible for my happiness'. I know it is important in life to find your ...
A. 24 June 2007: It does appear that your husband doesn't know, or care what a man's role is in a relationship. Both Partner's contentment is directly involved in the Loving and the giving of ourselves to each other. And He is dead wrong about not being ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants me to get rid of all my stuff before she moves in--help!
Q. I need help with this problem. My girlfriend is moving in with me and she is telling me one way or another to get rid of all my home contents left from my last marriage. That means all furniture from the bedroom, TV room, all the kitchen contents...
A. 24 June 2007: Hey!The first thing to go , if it were me, would be the Gf. She want's to put a ring in you nose early on, as I see it. So be a fool and do what she wants,and if she doesn't hang around too long, hope you got lots of $$$$$$$.... (read in full...)
I feel like masturbating is putting emotional distance between my girlfriend and I
Q. When i am not near to my girl, i sometime masturbate fantacizing about her. The more i do it, the more it seems to create emotional distance with her. However, i cannot do away without doing it. What should i do? ...
A. 24 June 2007: Gee! Wish, That you would of gone a little more into the details, about why you feel that the big "M" is putting emotional distance between you and your gf. Masturbation is normal, good for both gender and health. the only time that it is a problem ... (read in full...)
Am I average height?
Q. i am 16 and a half years old, and 5 foot 9.74 inches. i feel that all of the boys that i know are taller than me. i know that i am not VERY small, but i can't help but feel that i am below 90% of the boys that i know. Am i of average height?,...
A. 23 June 2007: Hi! Height worrywart. Gee! you are taller than me, And I am only 5 foot 6inches. One's height shouldn't matter one bit, that is unless you want to be a worrywart about it. A person is really what is in his, or her, heart and mind, not how tall we ... (read in full...)
He's been with someone else the whole 5 years I've been with him. Should I stay with someone who has lied to me all this time?
Q. Well im a 26 year old who was with someone who is 39 and we've known each other for about 5 years. we have been together 3 years and i recently got a phone call from a woman who told me they have been together for 9 years. He admitted they were ...
A. 23 June 2007: Cmmitment, commitment commitment that's the name of the Love-Game. It kind of Looks as if you bf's nine year relationship with the other woman, some of those years while he was playing your Lover, has like a bad patch on a tire blown-out. If he ... (read in full...)
Who loses their virginity to two guys?! I'm finding this hard to deal with.
Q. I've been dating a woman for about 3 months who loves sex, and ours is great. But I just found out that she lost her virginity in a threesome with two guys who she then had multiple threesomes with after that. She was 23 at the time and is just over ...
A. 22 June 2007: Well, I wouldn't call 23,youth, nor would I see bragging about losing one's virginity in a threesome very good grounds to continue in the relationship either. There will be those who will say, that your lives began when you first met. Bull! Our ... (read in full...)
My best friend's wife gave permission for us to sleep together as their sex life was non existent and she couldnt be bothered to try and improve their marriage
Q. My best friend's wife gave permission for us to sleep together as their sex life was non existent and she couldnt be bothered to try and improve their marriage. We did this on many occasions and eventually fell deeply for each other , but when she ...
A. 21 June 2007: Dear "Permission to use his body" It does appear that their sex life may be dead, but her possesiveness is very much alive. She no doubt has tried an open relatonship, perhaps, with their childrens well-being in mind. However, In trying to keep him ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend found out he had Chlamydia and I also had to get treated for it.
Q. Hello, ive been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. There is quite a big age gap between us and last year sometime he found out he had clymidiea and i also had to get treated for it. I myself havent cheated on him but that got me thinking has ...
A. 21 June 2007: Dear Wonderwoman. Now someone must of cheated because my medical search says that the only way one can get Chlamydia is by unprotected vaginal or anal sex,That's the long and the short of it. ... (read in full...)
I really need help! I have a real mental problem coping with the fact my boyfriend used to masturbate.
Q. I really need help! I have a real mental problem coping with the fact my boyfriend used to masturbate. I have no idea why but once I asked him if he would do this in front of me and I got so upset that I started crying and I felt so physically sick. ...
A. 21 June 2007: Gee! You got some right-on answers to his Mastubation. However I would just like to add one thing. Why don't the Two of you Masturbate together? Best way that I know of to improve your sexual togetherness. And some times it's the only game in town ... (read in full...)
I wonder when it comes to sex, both intercourse and oral how do you make a woman feel like doing it?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together 3 years now and we have a nice sex life. The only issue is this, early in our relationship she would perform oral sex on me daily and I would maybe weekly on her. Now the tables have turned. I mean she doesn't ...
A. 20 June 2007: Hi! 'Making A woman Do It'. You have a great woman, I would say. However, Your "How do I make a woman Feel Like Doing It"? says quite a lot. First off you don't make people do anything. It seems to me that you have had a three year, "You Indian, Me ... (read in full...)
How can I stop my masturbation habit? It feels like I'm cheating on the girl I love!
Q. I am in great problem.. please someone help me get out of this crap.. i am not able to have a firm control on my mind.. I love a girl a lot. and she too loves me a lot.. now a days because of some problem at her place, we are not able to be in to...
A. 20 June 2007: Hi! Steve. Lets look at Masturbation, Okay. First off it's normal it's healthy and good for both gender.And most of us, engage in Self-Stimulation, Masturbation, of our genitals. The only time that "M" would be a problem, would be when it becomes ... (read in full...)
Do I keep fighting or just move on?
Q. Hi, I'm not sure what to do. Last week my b/f and I split after a year because the distance was too much. However I've been regretting it ever since but we both came to this decision for a reason. If I choose to fight for it then I know its going to ...
A. 20 June 2007: What I see going on with your relationship is a lot of I's,I's,I;s. Don't see any We's, We's, We;s on his part. No relationship is going to work, if you are together, or apart, with out those We's, We's, We's of cmmitment by the both of you.
If I... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was shooting porno... he's stopped but I still have reservations!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and we have a son together. When we first met, he was making porn with a friend. He and his friend got together and took pics/videos of other women in different scenes or fetishes. He was always calling ...
A. 20 June 2007: To The Lollipop Lady. "You are a Sucker", and you are being used by some one who has been into porno,and no doubt he is still is into it. Which is an Addiction just like drugs or alcohol. You Have a sick relationship, but you know that, I can tell ... (read in full...)
He told me he has a new baby and I'm not sure if we should be together
Q. Hi, feeling really confused and full of frustration, let me start at the beginning and maybe someone can shed some light on the situation for me.... I met this guy at my AA meetings and we became pretty good friends, i enjoy doing sweat lodges a...
A. 19 June 2007: Gee! Six weeks with a woman,the mother of his child, in Peru and no sex. If I were the Pope and knew of such a man, Hey! He would be up for sainthood tomorrow. Gosh! Six weeks with the child's mother,and no sex. Hell! I am not even the father of the ... (read in full...)
I can only get semi hard due to stress. What should I do?
Q. im in a relation ship, and we just started having sex. but ive been under alot of stress and could only get a semi and barley keep it up, the only thing i really want to do is pleasure her, is there anything that i can do to get some stuff off my m...
A. 18 June 2007: Hi! Welcome to "The Club Of Sometimes It Works And Sometimes It Don't". There are many things that interfere with an erection. How about when you Masturbate? Do you have a firm erection? And can you then maintain that erection for awhile? When you ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my children, their beloved Grandmother is dying? Any advice?
Q. Hi can someone please help. i have just found out that my childrens grandma is dying my middle daughter loves her so much how do i tell her she will be leaving us. their grandma is not very old and my children are 10 7 5 and 2 how do i handle the ...
A. 18 June 2007: For me, The children who have some idea about death, Oh my Lord! My heart is a river of tears too, that flows into your river of tears.You do need to tell the children that their Grandmother will be leaving soon. The letter from Grandma,even if you ... (read in full...)
She called me to say she couldn't meet me, she was 50 miles away to be with her dad but I saw her an hour later in town!
Q. what do u think is going on? i've been dating my girlfriend a little over 3 1/2 months i planned for today friday 15th June to spend it hanging out together but this morning at 11.40am she text me 2 say she couldn't meet me friday or satur...
A. 16 June 2007: You have nothing really going for you in your relationship, as I see it. Why? Because your Gf didn't include you in her family problems,a sick father. Do you think that she'll ever include you in any other important areas of her life? married or ... (read in full...)
When ever anyone has a problem i always have to butt in, know what happened and try and help. It nearly always makes the situation worse.
Q. When ever anyone has a problem i always have to butt in, know what happened and try and help. It nearly always makes the situation worse. I try not to but i can't help my self. What is wrong with me? how can i stop this? please help!...
A. 16 June 2007: Hi! Makes the situation Worse. To be a good advisor, first you needs to become a good listener. Lots of times people just need to vent their emotional problems,and they already know what they need to do about it. So if they ask you for your ... (read in full...)
I am soooo unhappy and am not in love with my husband any more. What should I do for the best?
Q. HI, need some sensible advice on a serious matter. I'm 29 years old married with a son, problem is over the last year or so i have found myself not having the loving feeling that i should have for my husband, i feel like i've really drifted a...
A. 13 June 2007: Dear Soooo Unhappy. We don't fall in or out of Love, we fall in or out of our marital commitments to one another. And within this marital commitment is where our love for each other should grows and deepen. Sad to say, Most of us go into our ... (read in full...)
How do I know if I am falling out of love? I don't know if I still love him.
Q. I'm a 26 year old female and I thought I met the man of my dreams. How do I know if I am falling out of love? I don't know if I still love him. I want him to be "the one" more than any man I've ever dated. How do I know if he's the right one? I'm ...
A. 12 June 2007: So you met the man of your dreams, but are you the girl of his dreams? Perhaps with him, You were just another notch upon his manhood. That's one of us men's never ending ego trips, but it's the way we are. So what you call love he may just call ... (read in full...)
I have a problem in my life when it comes to girls.
Q. I have a problem in my life when it comes to girls. I have so far faced constant rejection from girls. I had my first gf quite late at 14, and she ended up cheating on me with my mate the day after we got together. When I turned 16 I got another ...
A. 12 June 2007: Welcome aboard the Goodship, "When it comes to girls" At any age neither you nor I are going to understand women. So what are you doing wrong with your girlfriends? Nothing. They all have a mind of their own. However us men too often want to be the ... (read in full...)
How can I stop my mum's life becoming mine
Q. hi all, can anyone shed some light on this or have u been thru this at all. my mum is great, she had 10 children, reared us very well, my dad is an alcholic and bad gambler, they are divoced now, have not moved on, still live in family home, ...
A. 11 June 2007: Wow! Your life kind of looks just like a rerun of my first marriage' where my mother-in-law tried to break up our relationship,and I was a no good so and so. We three lived together and everyting was just like honey,honey. Never knew that my ... (read in full...)
How to cope after a very close death???
Q. Hi Everyone, AskEve here. I just wanted to let everyone know I lost my wonderful partner 2 days ago so won't be on for a bit. He was over in Switzerland on business when he passed away. (I wasn't even with him...) I loved him terribly and now...
A. 9 June 2007: Dear Eve. Sorry to hear the sad news about your husband. Here is how I coped with the death of my wife. I lived each day one day at a time, and those days were the loneliest days in my whole life. I really didn't want to go on with life alone, even ... (read in full...)
I am dating a guy 22 years older than me, we are in love but have problems sexually!
Q. I am dating a guy 22 years older than me, we are in love but have problems sexually, he says it is our age gap, we love each other so what should we do?...
A. 5 June 2007: Dear 22: We have a sex problem, His or your's? So Between the lines, I would say he has Erection Failures, most of us men belong to that club. Here's a great way to keep his male ego in tact, works for me. First off you both get naked, then he ... (read in full...)
He said he loved me..he wanted me back. But I found out..he dating another woman! What should I do?
Q. My ex has been begging for me to take him back for months. I recently found out that while he has been telling me how much he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me, he's been dating someone else, and telling her he was falling for ...
A. 3 June 2007: Your EX doesn't seem to know what he wants outside of the bedroom. Don't see as any of his relationship are going to be anything but sourmilk affairs. The anonymous repy was right on, good advice. Perhaps any woman to your Ex is just another notch ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my children, their beloved Grandmother is dying? Any advice?
Q. Hi can someone please help. i have just found out that my childrens grandma is dying my middle daughter loves her so much how do i tell her she will be leaving us. their grandma is not very old and my children are 10 7 5 and 2 how do i handle the ...
A. 29 May 2007: Dear How do I tell my Children? Why Don't you read to them.
A LETTER FROM GRANDMA
To my Dearly Beloved Grandchildren.
When your mother reads this letter to you. I know that you will be thinking of me with much sadness in your hearts. Plea... (read in full...)
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