I have fallen out of love with the father of my child
Q. hi, i've been goin steady with my boyfriend for 3 and 1/2 years,, we have been living together for a year of that and have a child who'l be 2 in sep.. i loved this guy at one point but now no longer feel the same way and i dont know how to end our ...
A. 2 August 2007: I would wonder If you really know what love is all about. And was it just sex that held your relationship together for those 3 and 1/2 years? And you have now reached that point in your togetherness called, "Sexual-Burnout", or you have found ... (read in full...)
I am 27, engaged, and scared to death!
Q. I am 27, engaged, and scared to death. Here is my story... I dated my fiancé for about 1 year or 2 years in his eyes. He is a pilot in the Navy and gone all the time. He was married for 5 years before he met me. I have always felt he is not over his ...
A. 1 August 2007: Hi! Sweetheart: I know how you feel, was in the same boat at about the same age as you. And Yes! scared to death too. You have lots of questions that need lots of answers. But then only you can answer your own questions with your heart and mind. I'm ... (read in full...)
What should I say to my boyfriend when I am really tired?
Q. Hi everyone. I was wondering if this is a bad thing. So My boyfriend is always touching me in a sexual way, like he will just walk up to me and grap my chest or the other part of me. Well Last night when we went to bed I was starting to fall asleep ...
A. 1 August 2007: When two people are in a relationsip, the key word is "Respect" for the rights of each other. I can see that he is kind of shy in that area, when it comes to your rights. So,NO!You need to set some boundaries early on in your togetherness before an ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend needs to last a bit longer
Q. Someone please help me out. I have been on here before with somewhat of the same question. I have told my boyfriend that I aint satisfied with sex. He dont last long he last maybe less then a mintue sometiems a minute at most. I hate it I just dont ...
A. 1 August 2007: Hi! Wanting to last longer; This may help you to do just that. First off, Only one woman in three will have an orgasm by Penile-Vaginal-Stroking, Intercourse. your gf may be that one woman out of three. So no mater how long you can keep your ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend lied to me about his porn. How can I trust him now?
Q. I'm having big trust issues with my boyfriend right now. We've been together for about a year and a half. The problems all started about a year ago. I found some "questionable" pornographic pictures saved on his computer, which I promptly ...
A. 1 August 2007: You got some good advice from Hellen Help! And it's right on. My first marriage of 38, years was a sexual dud, as we both were sexually ignorant, guess that was the reason that it lasted all those years. The ups and downs, my failed erections to be ... (read in full...)
Recently split from my husband and now he has plastered semi-nude photos of me on the walls of the house. What can I do?
Q. I split from my husband about six months ago and moved out of our house, hoping I could figure out why I have fallen out of love with him. I still go home to help him with the monthly finances, and just to see how he's doing, but about a month ...
A. 1 August 2007: Falling in love and falling out of love as far as a woman goes really doesn't make much sense to me. I can see a man's love for what it really is. SEX,SEX,SEX. Oh!, I'm sure that some women's love is genital-love,like a man's. So in many ... (read in full...)
My mates mom is pregnant...with my child!
Q. Im currently seeing my mates mum. Im 17 and so is my mate, his mum is 32. but last night she told me that she was pregnant with my kid and she wants to keep it. even more she is planning to tell my mate about us. what should I do? Should I tel...
A. 1 August 2007: Okay! Do hope that I got this strieght, You are in a homosexual relationship with your bf, but also have gotten his mum PG with your child. And now she is going to spill the beans. Beat her to the punch and tell him yourself, As that is the right ... (read in full...)
Why does she call me bad names all the time, or why do I get the feeling that she doesn't want to see me happy?
Q. I want to know why my mom is so against me? the reason I ask is because she only has two kids but, your mom is supposed to be there for you when no one is. But in my case my mom never helps me, she always talks bad about me, if I need help with ...
A. 31 July 2007: To answer your question one would need to go back into your mother's childhood and also her young adulthood. What was her up-bringing like? How was she treated within her family? Only you would know the answers to these question, but in knowing ... (read in full...)
Am I a mug for letting it get this far? Does the fact I've been off sex justify him contacting other girls in this way even if he has no intention of doing anything with them?
Q. Would really appreciate an objective opinion or two on this one. I really don't know what I should do. I've been with my boyfriend for four years now, and over the last 6-12 months things have been getting a bit mundane. We just talk about bills...
A. 31 July 2007: I'll make this quite brief, "WALK AWAY SWEETHEART". If you ever had anything going in your relationship it was because of you. And not too much on his part, as I see it. But then if you want four more years of the same Crap, thats up to you. You are ... (read in full...)
Do you think that he would end things with me because I don't have kids?
Q. Okay, I may need a man's opinion on this one. I've been seeing this man for about 2 years. He has three older kids, two in college, one who's married with 3 kids of her own but she lives 1000 miles away. I've never had any kids of my own, though ...
A. 31 July 2007: Why don't you just live in a day to day relationship with your Now-Man. And enjoy the time that you are now sharing together. We can't make someone love us, nor can we make them stay, if they don't want to. Lots of women ask this question, "Why ... (read in full...)
Should I keep shaving myself like this?
Q. Dear cupid hi im 15 and I have a big problem because it effects my looks alot i love the felling of the razor on my skin ans have bein shaving my vagina since pubity i always shave my legs armpits and that but one day when having a bath i fel...
A. 31 July 2007: The beauty of a woman is in her hair. and the removal of her hair takes away from that beauty. It really doesn't matter if that hair is on her head or below her navel.Your hair is much like a lubricant in the area's of You body that have lots of ... (read in full...)
He wanted no contact but I went to him and we had sex! Now he's mad at me..he thinks I have some type of 'sexual hold' on him...advice?
Q. bout 5 months ago my boyfriend of 3 and a half years split up with me - he felt he could not give me the support I wanted and deserved. I was devastated, I went into a complete emotional breakdown. Then all of a sudden another guy came into my life, ...
A. 30 July 2007: When two streams come together and then many more streams also join them. you have a river. And then the river flows into the sea. The stream's water and the river's water mingles with the sea and all are one. However, When two people's lives come ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong of me to want a divorce after discovering other women's pictures?
Q. While my husband was out of the house I discovered that during the past 2 years he has been looking at and saving pictures of other women. These pictures are from a fetish site and some are pornographic. When I confronted him, he lied to me and then ...
A. 30 July 2007: NO! NO! NO! A divorce is not the way out,and it could be injurious to your physical and mental health. And perhaps the last thing that you really want. I watch Porno quite a lot,so as to be helpful to those who are in need of answers to their sexual ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong of me to want a divorce after discovering other women's pictures?
Q. While my husband was out of the house I discovered that during the past 2 years he has been looking at and saving pictures of other women. These pictures are from a fetish site and some are pornographic. When I confronted him, he lied to me and then ...
A. 30 July 2007: So I'm going on eighty years young,and I watch porno,but for a good reason. did your mother or father ever teach you about Sex? I don't think so. Well neither did mine.I use porno sites to enhance my marital relationship with my wife. And also ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend going overseas, can I trust her?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a Girlfriend going overseas for 1 year she is 20 im 27 i told her i may visit her for a few weeks, she told me she wants to go overseas to be independant and work and visit friends. I have been going out with her for 3 mo...
A. 30 July 2007: I would wonder why you remain in a sick relationship, as that is how I see it. But then sometimes we let our Male Ego get in the way of good, old, common sense. You two go together like two left shoes. Yet sometimes we beat our heads against the ... (read in full...)
I'm his wife, yet he loves his first fiancee more.
Q. my husband and i have been married almost 2 years, together for 4 1/2. about a month ago he announced he wanted a divorce. apparently he found the "love of his life" a woman that had been his first fiance, 27 years ago. i was unaware that we were ...
A. 30 July 2007: Hi! Sweetheart: Go with DJ8433 His advice is just what you need. And no way do you cut and run. the house is just as much your's as it is his. So you stay, and if he says the relationship is over,let him get his butt out and go live with his first ... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with a married woman. How do I get over my obsession??
Q. i am obesessed with a woman of 37..i am 57...we were workamates...nearly had sex..i panicked..now all i do is think about her..every waking minute of my life...i imagine her making love to her husband..my question is..how do i get over an ...
A. 30 July 2007: You just keep what might have been as a part of your sexual fantasies, nice to have around when you need it get an erection. You don't say if you are married, no matter. She's married and the last time I look at my Good Book, "The Bible", God hasn't ... (read in full...)
Should I keep seeing my best mates uncle?
Q. i have a problem i could use some advice on. i am 18 and i have been best mates with my best mate for 11 years....... we went to her 33 year old uncles house (who i have fancied for a long time) a couple of months ago and we had to stay there cos ...
A. 30 July 2007: IF being Best Mate With your Best Mate is also of a sexual nature."Note",I said If, Then to be making-out with her Uncle would also be classified as Relational-Infidelity, with a few little,white lies thrown in. You may be throwing away an eleven ... (read in full...)
It's only two inches.
Q. im 25 year old and my problem is that my penis is only 2 inch so i dunno how to please a woman i tryed to have sex with my 1st gf but i couldn't please her nor myself so she cheated on me my question is how can i fix this problem cus now im too ...
A. 30 July 2007: The size of a man's penis has little to do with one's ability to please any woman. Don't believe the Hype about bigger is better,it's just a bunch of "BULL" I will try to keep what I have to say as simple as possible. and you will need to fully ... (read in full...)
Am i being petty when it comes to my brother?
Q. Now a month ago i split from a year long relationship and after a bit of a rocky ride things are settling down after he admitted he had lied a few times during the reltionship. Nothing major, just little things. Which i kinda knew, my instincts ...
A. 30 July 2007: If you had a stranger that treated you like Sh-t, What would you do? You wouldn't give him the time of day. Well neither would I. Even if it were my own brother, or sister, the same would apply. And he or she would in no way be any part of my life. ... (read in full...)
Why cant he be more understanding?
Q. I'm a shy person, always have been. However the other night I went out to a dinner party with my bf and all his friends (who i dont know very well) and of course I was going to be shy, however my bf thinks my shyness that night was just plain ...
A. 30 July 2007: Hey! Sweetheart, your bf is on an ego trip wanting to look good with his friends. And he is the one who is at fault, not you. He knew that you are a shy person. And he had no right to put you into a position that made either of you look bad in ... (read in full...)
He wouldn't use the words "breaking up" or "dumping", but that's pretty much what happened. I'm distraught.
Q. Hi all. I'm new here, and in need of some advice. My boyfriend (my ex now, I guess) and I have been together for 10 months. Things were a bit rocky when we first started dating, in that I knew he was very different from anyone I'd dated and I wasn...
A. 29 July 2007: What would I do in this relationship? How would I handle It? Did you ever hear of just plain old friendship? I was once in a two year,No sex,relationship. And I found it to have been one of the most memorable two years in my whole life. And sex ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend, but I just realized I'm not over my ex
Q. i left my boyfriend we werent happy any more and started seeing a guy id fallen for. that was 6 monhs ago and i love him very much. my ex has a new girlfriend and when he told me i was so crushed i realise i still do love my ex. not cos im jealous ...
A. 29 July 2007: You talk about love as if it were like changing your brand of lipstick. He's okay today, but tomorrow he's a dirty dog. And you are in love with someone new. Perhaps, That is what your love is all about. your bf is old hat, and so you need to change ... (read in full...)
I consider myself heterosexual with strong bi tendencies...
Q. I consider myself heterosexual with strong bi tendencies. My friend Adam is straight to the best of my knowledge, as well. Anyways, we ended up taking E together. First, we ended up making out. By the end of the night, we were naked, in bed, and ...
A. 27 July 2007: The sexual tags that society hangs on people's sexuality is nothing more than cultural crap,as I see it. there is really no such thing as Hetrosexuality or Homosexuality, for both gender are Bisexual's, Who choose who they want to have sex with, ... (read in full...)
I consider myself heterosexual with strong bi tendencies...
Q. I consider myself heterosexual with strong bi tendencies. My friend Adam is straight to the best of my knowledge, as well. Anyways, we ended up taking E together. First, we ended up making out. By the end of the night, we were naked, in bed, and ...
A. 27 July 2007: The sexual tags that society hangs on people's sexuality is nothing more than cultural crap,as I see it. there is really no such thing as Hetrosexuality or Homosexuality, for both gender are Bisexual's, Who choose who they want to have sex with, ... (read in full...)
I love my husband but not the sex.
Q. Hi i am a 32 year old woman married for 12 year to the only man i have ever been with we have 2 children. All my friends fancy him and probably think we have a excellent sex life but the truth is i think its not. I went out with some friends a couple...
A. 27 July 2007: Hi! Married for 12 years: Don't rush into something that you may end up regretting the rest of your life. I'm not about to side with either one of you, as it takes two in or out of the bed to make a marriage work The first thing that I see that is ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says there's no problem but he never orgasms during sex
Q. Dear cupid, i have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 mths now. and each time we make love he never has an orgasm. he does enjoy the sex and he always has an erection when are making love. i am worried is this normal not to have an orgasm?....
A. 27 July 2007: Your Bf says his Delayed Ejaculation, that is what his failure to have an orgasm during intercourse is called. And Yes my Sex Bible does calls it a problem, even when he doesn't see it that way. Delayed ejaculators can bring themselves to an orgasm ... (read in full...)
Lazy, disrespectful men and the problems they cause.
Q. hello my mom has been dating this guy for about 2 years now and im really getting sick and tired of it. He works mon-fri and comes home all tired . But he never does anything. my mom is working 2 jobs right now just to pay his and her rent he doent ...
A. 26 July 2007: There are lots of lazy ,SOB'S, Useless men and women in this world, that's a fact, Yes, it's even a way of life for some people. In the case of your mother, she has the right to being abused as she sees fit. However she may not see it as abuse. And ... (read in full...)
My husband has spent the past 7 years using prostitutes; how can I ever trust him again?
Q. I have been married for 10 years and have 2 small children. I thought I had a good marriage and very loving relationship. Last week I found out My husband has been seeing prostitutes for the past 7 years. He first denied it but eventually confessed. ...
A. 24 July 2007: To really answer your question would take much more Information than just his infidelity. It takes two people to tango, and it also takes two people to make a marriage work. And even so, If I used Prostitutes, and the thought has often crossed my ... (read in full...)
Incest
Q. there are many questions in this site about incest and its okay now this article is really for those people who comment the questions about this subject and mock the person there real people and they have real questions as my mom always sa...
A. 24 July 2007: Lets look at Incest, reguardless if it is purely from a cultural perspective or even a religious one. Only a fool would say that we all didn't had our being out of Adam and Eve's childrens incest. This same God says in the good book, (The Bible), "I ... (read in full...)
I'm married and have been sleeping with a married man I work with; now he's backing off, I can't bear facing him every day
Q. I am having an affair with a married man who I work with. I am also married and whilst I love my husband, I'm not attracted to him and our sex life is pretty non-existent and dull. Recently, a very attractive man at work started taking an interest ...
A. 24 July 2007: It looks like two married people are into not only social, but also religious, NO NO'S. I'm not about to castigate ether of you. There was once a time when I would of jumped on the Bandwagon of condemnation, but then this man said, " If any man be ... (read in full...)
I'm dating my mum's cousin who is 20 years older than me
Q. i have been in a relationship with my mothers cousin for nearly 2 years and she doesnt no and he is 20 years older then me we love each other more then anything but i dont no how to tell my parents as the would go spare....
A. 23 July 2007: Hi! You first off you are at the age of legal consent, so what you do in any relationship is up to you. You don't say to what degree your Cousin is related to you. However it is only the 1st cousin relationship the can induce RGD, or (Recessive ... (read in full...)
Very worried about my husband's spending habit on clothes! What should I do?
Q. Recently I found out my husband spent $7,000 on shirts, T-shirts, undershirts and briefs claiming "they were collectible and have a classic design!". I knew he liked his fashion and clothes, and nothing wrong with that - but taking it to thi...
A. 21 July 2007: Your Husband has a disease, it's called Materialism and the disease comes in all shapes,sizes and forms, from the notch on ones genitals to the car in the garage to the money in the bank. I knew of an old lady who staved to death with 80,ooo dollars ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends objects to my parents' visits... I'm close to telling him to get lost
Q. My boyfriend of two years, we live together, is giving me a hard time, because my parents come to visit and stay for a day or two sometimes 3 with us at our house, we have a spare room, so space is not an issue. They come maybe once a month, then ...
A. 21 July 2007: Your bf sounds like he is empty hearted and empty headed when it comes to your family. No one who is in love with another person comes between them and their family. I live in the Philippines where when you marry a man or woman, you marry the whole ... (read in full...)
I have just found out that my husband has been using chat rooms and talking really dirty...
Q. I have been married for 21 years, but I have just found out that my husband has been using chat rooms and talking really dirty, I think this is called cybersex, I feel like he is being unfaithful and I dont know what to do about it, he doesn't know ...
A. 20 July 2007: Hi! sweetheart; I'm soon to be 80,years young,so perhaps that give me just a little bit of a right to call you by an endearing name, no offense I hope. Yes, It's called cyber-sex, and yes, He is being unfaithful to you, and yes you need to confront... (read in full...)
How can I help my friend here?
Q. I'm 21, and my friend's 19. She got married 6 months ago to a 40-year-old man who she's been with since she was 17 - and said that they married for love not money (he was a nice guy who was a builder, and said he wasn't wealthy, just lives a good l...
A. 20 July 2007: The best help that you can give your friend is what you are already doing,and that is your kindness that she needs in her present situation. I whole heartedly go along with Flower girl. A relationship without complete compatibility is the pits, in ... (read in full...)
Should I just not speak to him from now on, am I getting myself into a hopeless realtionship?
Q. Hi, I need some advice, I hope you will respond to it, ok here goes. I'm speaking to a guy on phone who I haven't really met in person. I started speaking to him on facebook, he added me as a friend because he knew my sister and her friends. He's ...
A. 20 July 2007: First off, I wonder what he has to hide from his family or your's. From the little that you have said, and a lot that his genitals have said. You would be a fool to play with the fire of any man's, go no where, sexual desire. And you are going to ... (read in full...)
What I want to know is how long does the Erythromycin take to get out your system and if anyone has any opinions on whether it would or wouldn't be ok to take this along with the other tablet?
Q. Hi, just found this site so am hoping someone can offer some advice, my girlfriend came home the other night with some viagra tablets! They're called kamagra and wanted me to try them, we have a healthy sex life but anyway I was recently on ...
A. 20 July 2007: You don't mix drugs in any way,shape or form,as that is called polypharmacy, where two or more drugs are taken at the sametime and they can cause physical and mental problems, even death. As for the time that a medication remains in your body, that ... (read in full...)
My mother in law even had the nerve to open our mail...
Q. I have tried to get close to my mother in law, but it feels like she only puts up me because I'm married to her son. She always has something nasty to say, but it is usually when it's just her and I! For example it was just her and I in the car ...
A. 19 July 2007: Gee! your mother-in-law sounds just like my long departed sweeter than honey M-in-L,who stabbed me in the back by way of my wife. Didn't know about it till long after she had passed away. We took care of her needs after we moved out of her home. ... (read in full...)
I warned my ex's GF that he is going to use her, but I am afraid she will tell him I told!
Q. my ex boyfriend is now my close friend and he has told me he is going to use his girlfriend and i said to her have you ever thort he is going to use you? and she said no he isn't like that. and i said he is a user a player and a liar he is ...
A. 19 July 2007: In the first place you call your Ex,who has used you a close friend. Gee! some friend, "I say". You wouldn't be asking this question if he were out of your life, where he should be. Why would you want a user, a player or a liar as a close friend? If ... (read in full...)
I bleed every time we have sex!
Q. My boyfriend and I just recently started having sex and everytime we do, I end up bleeding! I thought it was normal the first time but now I'm starting to think there's something wrong with me because I always start bleeding whenever we try to have ...
A. 19 July 2007: Just to be on the safe side you should see a Dr. However your bleeding could be caused by a poor sexual technique. By this I mean,all women's bodies need to have a sexual warm-up, (Foreplay-lots of hand and lip stimulation to the whole body) before ... (read in full...)
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