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writes:Hi,I have been going out with a guy fot the last year. When we first got together it was brill oh godhe rocked my world, he was sweet but now getting to know him its alot diff....He doesn work so i pay everything (Which doesn bother me really!!), he dosen like when im away from and I miss his calls(he mightn talk to me for a day or so), I have gotten myself into his world so much that i dont want to be with my friends and want to stay with him most nights...I know he is not good for me but god the thought of having him kills me and also i think i would have hard time keeping him away....Any suggestions welcome thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (10 April 2010):
 You already answer you self, you know he is nit good for you. then run.. run as fast and as far as you can... Just simply Run..
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): Leave him. What is he bringing to the table???? He is controlling and manipulative. Quit buying him. You can find someone else who will really love you. He loves what you do for him. This is a form of mental abuse. Get out now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): Assuming 'Having = Leaving' it's just an attachment you have to him but he sounds like an insecure douche. He's a control freak and you have two choices: Either try an assert yourself more in this relationship or leave. Simple as that. If you try to assert yourself and it doesn't work then leave.
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reader, cnith  +, writes (9 April 2010):
 what? I don't understand your question. The thought of having him kills you? So you're with him... why?
He shows you affection and you hate it? Or is he controlling your life, ie. you can't be away from him because he freaks. Can't be with your friends or family? Is he alienating you? Those are signs of an abuser. Walk away.
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