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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi right i have been with my girlfriend for about 2/3 week now. I'm working with her at my cafe alongside with my ex as well.My ex told me still loves me, I became a bit shocked at this. But me and my ex have been flirting in work and that and after work I could not resist to kiss her and I did,I feel really stupid and guilty. I dont know what came over me, She has a Boyfriend as well.What should I do, I can't tell her. I feel such a c**t....
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (24 September 2007):
 well you are just going to have to tell your girlfriend what you did. don't hide it as it will become worse as your ex could use this against you in the future to keep her quite. and your ex is wrong as she has a bf too. you may lose your girlfriend but sorry to say it, its your fault.
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reader, high fidelity  +, writes (24 September 2007):
i have to agree.. keeping an elephant in the room is tough and will get to you. eventually you will even start to act weird around her and the dominoes just kinda fall after that. tell her what you did. tell her you are sorry and tell her that you wont blame her if she leaves you. keep in mind that all of you working together might change. im sure one of you will quit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): yeah, you are a c**t but you'd be more of one to not tell your girlfriend what you did. She has the right to know. I can't guarantee she won't break up with you but honesty is one of the key parts in a relationship. Tell her what you did and explain how sorry you are, then best of luck from there. Oh and learn some self control.
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