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I'm in love with two men! Help me!

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Question - (17 September 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 September 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I think I am in love with 2 men. I have 3 children by 2 different men. My daughter's father recently came back into our lives physically as he kept contact via telephone. After seeing him again, I think I am still in love with him. The problem is that I am with my other children's father, who I care about alot. I feel like I am torn and don't know which direction to go in....HELP!!!???

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2007):

Do what is best for the children.

It's not their fault that they've been born into a split situation and they really need to have priority over the parents' happiness during their developmental years. Your happiness needs to wait until they've had a chance at growing up with stability and loving parents.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2007):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

In response to "Your being an idiot". I AM WITH my other children's father. I didn't say anything about the one I am with now ever leaving prior.

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A female reader, i might be a girl but i can help United Kingdom +, writes (17 September 2007):

i might be a girl but i can help agony auntwell the reason why you like your daughters father again is because you can probably remember the way you guys used to be and being around him brings it all back. i will make a go at being with the guy your with now you have two children with him you want to give that all up for your daughters father who left you. Do you want to cause confussion for the other two. Just give it a go and if you feel your feelings for your daughters father is getting stronger well talk it though.

good luck xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2007):

Do they want too be with you? also they both left you in the first place. Your being an idiot

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