My wife is an automechanic and it's embarrassing!
Q. My wife is an auto mechanic and she also fixes everything around the house. It's kind of embarrassing because my friends always tease me about it. Like once we when on a rode trip with our friends and the car broke down. My wife repair it on 30 ...
A. 9 December 2008: COOL! If you don't want your wife any more, will you post her to me?
Seriously though, what's your problem? You should be proud and happy to have a wife who can fix your car. ... (read in full...)
He has cybersex with women in the Internet! Should I leave him?
Q. i've been married for 6yrs and i always knew that my husband was into porn but i didn't know how bad til i look into his computer.wow i thought he's really into this.but at frist i thought it was just a guy thing that all guys do this.is it?then ...
A. 8 December 2008: Porn is one thing, cybersex is another... When you say "very young teens", how young are we talking? Like illegal young? Because that's another thing again. I think you and your husband have to sit down and talk about this. ... (read in full...)
What did she mean by, "You live like Cinderella"?
Q. Ali (friend) called me yesterday and asked if I wanted to hang out, I told her I couldn't because I was busy cleaning the house for the holidays. Then she replied... "Alice every time I call you you're cleaning. You live like Cinderella" I asked ...
A. 8 December 2008: Sounds okay to me. It's when you're polishing the back of the mirror and separating the left shoes from the rights that you might want to start worrying.... (read in full...)
Boy names that mean miracle or or something along those lines?
Q. Hello everyone! So, my wife is pregnant. We are trying to choose a boys name that would mean "miracle" as if this child is born, it truely would be because of the high chances of a misscarriage happening. We have a girl name already, but yeah... ...
A. 8 December 2008: According to babynames.com, two boys' names meaning "miracle" are Milagro and Pele. A little unusual perhaps but there you are.... (read in full...)
What did she mean by, "You live like Cinderella"?
Q. Ali (friend) called me yesterday and asked if I wanted to hang out, I told her I couldn't because I was busy cleaning the house for the holidays. Then she replied... "Alice every time I call you you're cleaning. You live like Cinderella" I asked ...
A. 8 December 2008: She's probably just teasing you a little. My wife cleans a lot too, whenever I call her up and she's cleaning I shout at her "CLEAN, woman, CLEAN!" It's just a silly joke between us. I wish I were more like the two of you, but there you are. I ... (read in full...)
How do I please my girlfriend?
Q. Hello everyone. I'm 16 and have been with my girlfriend who's 17 for a couple of months now. She's a little more experienced than me, as i've never been in a same sex relationship before. Every time we have sex, she makes me cum, either by going ...
A. 4 December 2008: Do you know what she likes? Do you talk about sex together? Do you know what turns her on? It's not always the same thing for everyone: example, some women absolutely love having their clitorises massaged, others are too sensitive down there and ... (read in full...)
First gay relationships...?
Q. Hi, Here's the thing. About 3 years ago I realised I was bisexual. I've had one relationship since then with a girl, but it was long distance and although I really felt for the girl, it didn't work. Before this i'd always dated boys, perhaps ...
A. 4 December 2008: Start by getting to know ONE of them. It's hard to jump straight into the middle of a group of people. So get to know one or two girls, and they will introduce you, show you around, you'll find out all the gay bars and places to go, and you will ... (read in full...)
A guy in my class has a crush on me, but is very shy, how do I make him comfortable enough to talk to me?
Q. There is a cute boy in my grade , and he has a crush on me. But, he blushes whenever he sees me. How do I get him to atleast say hi?????? ...
A. 16 November 2008: Say hi to him first. He'll probably say hi back. Just talk to him until he's more at ease.... (read in full...)
I want to dress up sexy for my boyfriend... WHERE to get the clothes?
Q. I'm a big girl and my boyfriend loves my curves and has asked me to dress up sexy in stockings and a basque and I'm worried as soon as I walk into a shop that sells them, people are thinking ew look at her trying to be sexy, and I get this feeling ...
A. 16 November 2008: What are you talking about? People in shops are there to sell things. The reason clothes come in different sizes is because women come in different sizes. And curvy women look WAY better in basques than skinny women - get a corset, it will nip in ... (read in full...)
My best friends (females) are together and I've been sworn never to tell anyone!
Q. I'm 13 and I'm really close with 2 of my friends (Since we're into all the same stuff and can talk about anything with eachother!) but they're MUCH closer to eachother to me. Loads of rumours have been going around school that they are lesbian...
A. 11 November 2008: It's normal that you feel hurt - after all, you were defending them and assumed that you knew everything about them, seeing how close you are. The fact that they told you in the end proves how much you mean to them. It's hard for anyone to come out, ... (read in full...)
Is it normal that my boyfriend is still a virgin?
Q. The guy that I am currently dating is 22 years old and is a virgin. I asked him why but he just said that he doesn't know. He told me that he has three girls before. I am wondering if he lied to me about that. Is it normal for him to still be a ...
A. 10 November 2008: 22? That's not especially late. My friend Dave was 26 before he lost his, he wasn't putting it off until marriage, he was an attractive guy, it just hadn't happened and he didn't stress too much about it. He just said that when he was ready, he'd ... (read in full...)
Is my long distance girlfriend cheating?
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship at the moment.. we met in my country 8 months ago and she had to go back to her own country two months ago to continue her studies.. i only decided to come on this because she is ignoring me at the moment and i ...
A. 6 November 2008: Ugh! Long-distance things are so hard because the person literally disappears every time they turn off their phone or go somewhere with no signal. I'm in one too. I go out with my friends and find a bunch of hysterical messages from my girlfriend ... (read in full...)
Does he like me or he's just playing with my heart?
Q. Hi everyone He sent me a text msg and said:" BaBee .. I miss you alot" and then later hetold me that he was just a wrong message. ( he sent it to his gf) I always keep wondering whether he sent me a wrong mesage or it was his plan. He did ma...
A. 2 November 2008: Let it go. The text wasn't for you, it was for his girlfriend. He has made it clear that he's not interested. Leave him and his girlfriend alone and stop reading into things.... (read in full...)
I have bizarre sexual fantasies that disgust me.
Q. I have bizarre sexual fantasies that disgust me. I am very attracted to ideas of being harshly dominated by men or animals. I imagine working as a prostitute or being raped among other things. These ideas horrify me. I even allowed myself to ...
A. 27 October 2008: Everyone, everyone has fantasies. Luis Bunuel put it very well: "When I reached the age of sixty, I finally understood the perfect innocence of the imagination. It took that long for me to admit that whatever entered my head was my business and mine ... (read in full...)
How can I get my friend to back off without runing the relationship?
Q. My boyfriend is an amazing guy. He calls me while im working to leave sweet messages on my phone and would do anything for me. I love him more then anything, but after we started having sex, which i was a virgin before hand, and now i feel like i u...
A. 13 October 2008: If you only just noticed he's been making moves on you for years, he must have been quite subtle about it. If it's never bothered you before - I mean, if you didn't catch on, it couldn't have been that bad - why go stirring up trouble now? You have ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my classmate's eating disorder?
Q. This girl S in my class has an eating disorder. No one really likes her, and I'm the only one in our class who even tolerates her, but she thinks we're friends and always tags along with me at school. I feel bad about it, but my friend came up to me ...
A. 13 October 2008: You aren't enabling her. She has a problem and she's going to keep on doing what she's doing whether you have brownies or not. You did a good thing by talking to the guidance counsellor - between the counsellor and her mother, she is going to have ... (read in full...)
He said I just don't "do it for him". What's going on???
Q. My gay best friend told me he was "experimenting" when he took my virginity! We were both virgins and he told me for months and months that he liked me, I liked him a lot! I was practically in love with him, we used to spend hours on the phone ...
A. 13 October 2008: He's probably been struggling with his sexuality for a while. It sounds as though you and he have a very strong connection... and if you had been a boy you would have been the one. He was probably testing himself to see if he could possibly feel ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I like him, but some other girl is after him! What do I do?
Q. Im not sure if a like a guy. He told me he liked me about a month ago, but i said i didnt know how i felt. Ive met him like 6 times and never felt a spark, but last time i kind of did. We havent met for a while, and weve kept it as friends but k...
A. 13 October 2008: I don't think you like him. The way you're feeling sounds to me like a jealous reaction. He liked you and that was good - let's face it, it's always nice to have people interested in you. If he gets a girlfriend, then he won't be interested in you ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering...is my bf bi sexual?
Q. Hi, I have a very loving relationship with my boyfriend. But recently I've started to think my bf is bisexual, because of some things he says, the way he talks about other guys and the way he acts. I've spoken to my bf about this before and he s...
A. 12 October 2008: Maybe he's bi, or bi-curious. It doesn't really matter too much. If you two are happy together, that's all that counts. Look at it this way: compare bisexuality to liking both blondes and brunettes. Just because you're dating a blonde doesn't mean ... (read in full...)
How do I find out how she feels?
Q. Hi Readers. This is not my first time to ask for advice on dearcupid, but the last time I didn't really get any advice that helped me and my problem... Basically, I'm a woman in my early 20's and am, and have been in love with another female...
A. 11 October 2008: Do you know if she's interested in women or not, first off? Do you know if she identifies as queer in any way? If so, there's nothing to stop you starting to hint around her. If she identifies as straight, all is still not lost. You yourself go ... (read in full...)
Is it illegal to have these pictures?
Q. Hi, I'm 14 and have had a serious girlfriend for 2 years who i really love. during the summer she went to europe and we never saw eachother so every once in a while she would send me nude pictures of her. i am not asking this question because of ...
A. 11 October 2008: Actually, yes it is. Weird, isn't it? This is your girlfriend and you're the same age as her, but yes, you could be prosecuted for possessing child pornography. I agree that it's crazy, but it's happened before. An example: http://news.cnet... (read in full...)
My soul mate is pregnant! What now?
Q. first of all hello there my name is Niko im 17 years old and so is my girlfriend, we have been dating for more than 8 months... i know that she is my soulmate... i knwo that i will marry her.. im sure u will say u cant find a sopulmata at 17 years ...
A. 11 October 2008: Yep, sadly enough the "pulling out" method is ineffective... even if you don't ejaculate inside her, she could still end up pregnant. As you may have found out. First of all, get the test done and find out for sure. This may be a false alarm. Okay... (read in full...)
I need help on how I should kiss for the first time??
Q. I have been on a few dates with this boy and he started to kiss me the other night and I kind of freaked out because I have never snogged anyone before and everyone tells me just relax and you will know what to do because it comes naturally, but it ...
A. 11 October 2008: You probably banged teeth because you were nervous. If you want to kiss him, just relax. Start off by letting him kiss you. Be soft and follow his lead. You'll learn from there. Don't worry about it, you do learn on the job! Practising on your hand ... (read in full...)
My friend is renewing her vows. Do I still throw her a bridal shower and bachelorette party since she's already married??
Q. I was recently asked to be a Matron of Honor for my best friend's wedding next year. However, she got married 5 years ago at the Justice of the Peace. Now she's having a tradional wedding/renewal of vows. Do I still throw her a bridal shower and ...
A. 11 October 2008: This isn't the same situation as usual because she isn't celebrating her last night of freedom, she's celebrating five years of marriage. Instead of the typical bachelorette party (strippers, drunken behaviour etc), why don't you treat her and a few ... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of wrinkles at my age?
Q. I was just wondering if anyone could give me some advice. I have just turned 19. Since I was 16, my skin on my face has shown visible signs of aging, and in particluar, around the eyes and on my whole forehead. Im quite embarrassed about this, an...
A. 11 October 2008: You're using a lot of makeup which is going to dry your skin out and also show up wrinkles. If you're wearing a full base, every time your face moves your foundation will crack, which will lead to looking as though you have wrinkles when you ... (read in full...)
I can't get my girlfriend's casual past out of my head!
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together since 3 months now.I am 26 and she is 24.She's beautiful,sexy,honest and fun. My problem is i cant get over her casual past.It keeps haunting me. She has numerous casual sexual encounters and has tried almost...
A. 11 October 2008: The past is just that: the past. Your girlfriend loves you now, and she's not going to cheat on you. She has had the experiences she needed. Childhood abuse is not something to be taken lightly, and it leaves stains. If she's doing okay now, if she ... (read in full...)
How to ask girlfriend to let me know her plans without imposing on her sense of her own time?
Q. I would like some advice on how to get over my anxious feelings when I'm on my own. In the morning and daytime I'm usually busy with things to do, but when my girlfriend gets out of work I really want to see her. The problem is that she's in a job ...
A. 10 October 2008: I think that her telling you when she'll be back would be more like common courtesy than anything else, but there you are. Why doesn't she want to tell you? She says she feels suffocated? Tell her that it's nothing to do with stopping her having her ... (read in full...)
My bf has really changed recently and I don't know what to make of it...
Q. hey i reali love my boyfriend and i never want to break up with him. he means a lot to me so if im going to receive advice on breaking up then please keep your advice to yourself. ive been with him for 3 years and every moment i spend wit...
A. 10 October 2008: What you need here is communication! Does he know how you feel? You need to talk to him about it. Don't accuse him, just talk to him. Be open, tell him how you feel. The first magic flush wears off pretty fast in any relationship, after that you ... (read in full...)
Does this teacher like me?
Q. ok. so i'm gonna start from the beginning because it's easier. this teacher started at my school, and i fancied him, i didn't say anything to him or anyone else because lets just say he's not the most attractive person going. so then when i fins...
A. 10 October 2008: Sounds like he's overstepped a boundary somewhere. I wouldn't make too much of a fuss about it for the moment, it's not like he's actively coming onto you, he's just sharing too much information. Do like you'd do with anyone else in that situation ... (read in full...)
Is my ex just waiting for me to call, being manipulative so he can weasel his way back into my life again?
Q. What is my ex thinking? I broke up with my ex a year ago, then just emailed him a few days ago (after I had changed my number and email since he was harassing me). I asked if he was sorry for how he treated me (I broke up with him because he was ...
A. 9 October 2008: Why did you email him? What made you decide to pick up the contact again? By asking him the questions that you're asking, you are the one who is putting yourself back into the same old situation. You are trying to rehash all the problems you had ... (read in full...)
Did I really lead him on sending him those messages??? (Guy's point of view is appreciated)
Q. Me and this guy we been talking, getting to know each other. He's been talking about being friends with benefits so here I am trying to get to know him before I do have sex with him and I don't plan to give it up like that. We talk on the phone ...
A. 9 October 2008: If you tell him you want to f***, seems pretty normal to me that he would think that you wanted to f***. That's like telling someone, "I'd like some pizza" and then when they give you some pizza, you say "I don't want this! I was talking about next ... (read in full...)
He displays all the signs of being gay, do you think he is?
Q. I'm a girl. There's a guy in my class that's always hugging other guys and touching them awkwardly. Also, he talks like a girl (he has a guy voice but he talks like how a girl would talk) and sometimes he walks with his hand on his hip. He's never ...
A. 6 October 2008: What difference does it make? Why are you so interested? Doesn't seem like it would be so big of a deal. You could always try asking him. If you don't feel comfortable with asking him, maybe that's a sign that it's none of your business.... (read in full...)
This guy I know online calls me 2-4 times a day! How do I get him to go away?
Q. Well there's this 17 year old guy who i've been regretably chatting to online, he lives local and is insanely obsessed with me! He knows my phone number and often rings (between 2 - 4 times per day) but i never answer as i don't want to encourage ...
A. 4 August 2008: You need him to get the message. You've been hinting politely so far. That won't work. Tell him to get lost.
If he keeps it up, ignore him completely. Block him on your IM thing, never answer his calls... chances are he'll give up.
If he s... (read in full...)
Being a lesbian is my worst nightmare so how do I prevent it?!
Q. So, I'm 17 years old and I'm pretty certain I'm a lesbian. When I was 12 I realised I was bi-sexual, but when I was 16 my feelings for men gradually grew distant. I wasn't happy about being bi-sexual, but I dealt with it, I even came out to ...
A. 30 July 2008: Honey!! Please, stop thinking about it like that. Listen. It's not a bad thing, not at all. I went through the same thing as you did when I was in my teens. I knew I was gay and hated it, thought "How could I be this way?" I felt like some kind of ... (read in full...)
I have boyfriends, but find myself looking at women too. Is this normal?
Q. im really confused. am i straight?! i this normal? im 16 and since i was 13 i have had boyfriends, in real i think boys are very attractive, i always comment on cute guys i see or if im out with my friends and i see someone i like, which is pretty ...
A. 29 July 2008: Don't worry about it. Girls are pretty things, they're nice to look at. There's a possibility you're bi, but it's no big deal. It might just be from sheer aesthetism. Just have fun, and don't stress about it. Nothing's wrong with you at all.... (read in full...)
Why do women keep dumping me right after we have sex?
Q. I have a big problem. Girlfriends keep dumping me after sex. Allow me to explain. I have had a total of 4 proper girlfriends to date. Every single one of them has dumped me just after we'd had sex for the first time. My first girlfriend, who ...
A. 29 July 2008: I have no idea. My advice to you is to call up your most recent girlfriend and ask her what went wrong, and to please be honest with you. After all, eight months is a long time, and you were in love - you deserve the truth. Ask her.... (read in full...)
I don't love my husband any more. Should I leave him?
Q. I have been with my husband for 11 yrs and I think I've made a mistake marrying him and did so too young. He is a lovely man - kind, trustworthy, caring, intelligent... The problem is I just don't love him anymore and sometimes find myself almo...
A. 28 July 2008: You already know what you want to do. All you need now is a bit of courage to shake up your life. You only live once... follow your heart. I'm sure your husband is a great guy, but it's blindingly obvious that you don't want to be there any more. ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend with a female friend of mine. How do I regain his trust?
Q. About 2 months ago I cheated on my boyfriend. I recieved oral sex from another female friend of mine. It tore me up to do it, but I was under the influence. Not that that is any excuse. The whole time I was with her it hurt me so bad to hurt him, I ...
A. 27 July 2008: You can apologise all you want to him, but that's just words. If you really want to regain his trust and confidence, there's only one way. You have to prove to him that you're worthy of it. It's going to take a long time, but you can do it. ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend. Should I tell him?
Q. i cheated on my boyfriend, whom i have been going out with for 2 months. With someone that i kissed about a year ago, it was totally out of the blue and i really regret it now. Should i tell him or not ...?!...
A. 27 July 2008: This is probably controversial advice, but here goes. You only kissed this other boy? Okay. Don't tell your boyfriend. It's not something important, and it will only hurt him. You have to deal with your own guilt here, that way you won't do it ... (read in full...)
Does oral sex tickle for women???
Q. I don't understand...why do some girls feel ticklish during oral sex and others not? I've been with this one girl for about a month and a half on and off and a couple times I got the impression from her body language that she did not want oral ...
A. 27 July 2008: The reason it's tickling her is because she isn't relaxed enough. She needs to be completely at ease before she will let herself take pleasure from oral sex. That's why she was okay with it when she was drunk - she found it easier to relax. It's not ... (read in full...)
Should I go back to ex that cheated?
Q. My ex boyfriend of 2 years cheated on my with his ex of 8 years to whom he had a child and a mortgage with. It wasn't just a one off wither, every time he told me he was going to see his daughter, he was in fact sleeping with her. He even went on ...
A. 4 July 2008: Don't go back. Do NOT go back. It will happen again. Look at what's happening now: it's the same situation as before, but in reverse. He doesn't know what he wants. You know very well that you shouldn't go back. ... (read in full...)
| *owcomehoney's friends
These are mutual friends, so *owcomehoney has
added them and they have added *owcomehoney!
|
