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How can I get my friend to back off without runing the relationship?

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Question - (13 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 October 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend is an amazing guy. He calls me while im working to leave sweet messages on my phone and would do anything for me.

I love him more then anything, but after we started having sex, which i was a virgin before hand, and now i feel like i understand things going on in peoples heads more.

A friend of mine for years has always treated me the same, but now I see he has always been making moves on me.

What can I do to stop this without losing his friendship and my relationship because my boyfriend and him are close friends?

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A female reader, howcomehoney France +, writes (13 October 2008):

howcomehoney agony auntIf you only just noticed he's been making moves on you for years, he must have been quite subtle about it. If it's never bothered you before - I mean, if you didn't catch on, it couldn't have been that bad - why go stirring up trouble now? You have known each other for years, your behaviour has never changed, there is no problem. You are with your boyfriend and you love him, and you don't need to do anything.

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