Girl I am dating asked me if I want to see sex tape of her and a guy from college, and says her ex-bf liked to watch it! What do I make of this???
Q. Aunts, can you please give me some perspective of this please. I have been dating this girl for like 3 months. she is gorgeous, 26, very sweet. I know she has a number of bfs in the past and she's experienced with guys. But i dont let that intimid...
A. 12 May 2011: Oh dear how awful. I wouldn't put up with this. I'd be devastated if I even knew that my guy had a copy of something like this. ... (read in full...)
How do ladies who need a larger bra size cope with finding the sizes they needs?
Q. ok so my bra cup size and overall size is a little larger. Would a push up bra make me look too much? And bigger than they really are? Does anyone know the largest size that Victoria's Secret make in bras? Or any other bra company that makes br...
A. 12 May 2011: Hello,
One idea is look for a small local shop where you can get measured by an expert then she can give you the best advice for your needs. Normally the small shops attend more to customer requirements and know their trade. ... (read in full...)
Have I been masterbated to the point where my output is now being affected?
Q. Have I been trying to masterbate too many times every day? Now I am wondering how much masturbation is too much masturbation? Usually I masturbate four times a day. But now I have reached the point where i can barely ejaculate anything anymore and ...
A. 12 May 2011: Hello,
Oh, I think you are masturbating too much. Could you not cut back and see if anything changes. Is once a day ok? I think.... (read in full...)
If we're just friends why does he kiss me like this?
Q. i am not sure if this guy likes me we been talking and he says that we are friends but we do kiss. he says he dont want to lead me on but than again he still kisses and flirts with me?...we both got out of relationships so we ended up talking to ...
A. 12 May 2011: Hello,
You seem quite friendly with eachother so i think you could easily mention that you are "not comfortable kissing like this outside of relationships." Then when this has been said, you could move onto the possibilities of more. But, ment... (read in full...)
Should I stop replying to my ex's texts?
Q. It's been two months since my ex and I broke up. We broke up because we had some communication problems which we both believe we could fix, though we decided we both don't want a relationship right now. He has said he wants to give us another ...
A. 12 May 2011: hello,
This guy is not where you need to be. Don't keep up the communication because it is a waste of time. He's on drugs and you can't travel that road with him. I know I wouldn't. ... (read in full...)
What did I mean to her?
Q. Sorry for my grammar. I met a girl recently online and for a few weeks we literally spent half the day talking to each other and watching movies etc. We got close very fast and I got strong feelings for her very fast. She returned them and ev...
A. 12 May 2011: Hello,
Cut all ties now. Forget about what she is thinking, no one knows what anyone is thinking. You took the role of a subservient and allowed her to call the shots. Therefore she did and walked all over you. This was by not contacting you, bein... (read in full...)
I've given him 30 days to decide if it's her or me. Am I being fair?
Q. I started seeing a new guy about 4 months ago. In the beginning he made it clear to me that he wanted to take it slow and not rush into anything. So of course we were both still seeing other people, and I appreciated the time. As things have pro...
A. 12 May 2011: Hello,
Thank you for follow up. I just wanted to add that the baby was conceived while you were both dating so the child will always remind you of that. I do believe he is leading you both on, in fact he may have already told the mother about you.... (read in full...)
I've given him 30 days to decide if it's her or me. Am I being fair?
Q. I started seeing a new guy about 4 months ago. In the beginning he made it clear to me that he wanted to take it slow and not rush into anything. So of course we were both still seeing other people, and I appreciated the time. As things have pro...
A. 11 May 2011: Hello,
My suspicious mind tells me he is with both of you as his girlfriends. i just find it awful that he started dating you yet was active with the other girl. Obviously unprotected at that. I dont want to be hard and i say this with "love" but ... (read in full...)
My LDR has put me on hold, what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for five years, much of which has been a LDR, because I have been working on my doctorate and he is unable/unwilling to move for it. This Spring he started getting weird about me moving back and saying that ...
A. 10 May 2011: Hello,
You need to move on. You both don't have the same priorities i'm afraid. Who in their right mind would set a demand to throw the Doctorate away? If I were you, i'd put all your energy into this final doctorate year and don't compromise with... (read in full...)
Does this mean I am being dumped or what does this man mean?
Q. I am 50 years young and a have been a widow for 2 years. I have start dating . So I meet this man 5 months ago who has been divorced for three years, he has two children age 16 and 13, he spends a lot of time wiht them, becuse the X wife's job ...
A. 10 May 2011: Hello,
It could be the initial stages of him checking out. On the other hand, he may just be letting you know he has things to attend to and won't be fully in contact for the moment. Obviously he has the two children as priority. I would wait for ... (read in full...)
Will sex hurt the second time if I haven't done it for awhile?
Q. If you wait a couple of months before having sex will it Hurt like if your losing your virginity again and will you bleed ? ...
A. 10 May 2011: Hello,
There may well be differing opinions. Yes it could hurt again and yes there may be bleeding. But there may not!
If you are not relaxed then it may not be as comfortable for the first few times. However, love and trust go a long way and ... (read in full...)
My best friend of seven years didn't want me at his 21st birthday party!
Q. Hey guys, I am going to be as brief as possible, because I don’t want to take up your time. Basically, my friend turned 21 last week, he had a party with his flatmates, people from his course and a girl he has had a crush on, but he didn’t invite m...
A. 9 May 2011: Hello,
I feel he wanted to make a move on this crush girl so didn't want you around. Possibly didn't want to hurt your feelings or he didn't want your presence to confuse things. Obviously, it was his party so he gets to say who comes. Howe... (read in full...)
Stunningly beautiful girl, 28, never had a relationship: red flag??
Q. Dear Aunts: I met this girl who seems real nice, sweet and down-to-earth from Europe (Poland). She seems to like me, flirts a hell of a lot, and I been thinking of asking her out. She is stunning, does some modeling, is here on a work visa. On...
A. 9 May 2011: Hello,
The question you need to ask yourself is, "is she looking for a way into the USA?" If you both hit it off, then you may never truly know if she loves you or if she is using you as a means to gain a Visa through marriage. That would be my r... (read in full...)
I accidentally gave him the wrong number and I don't think I will ever see him again! Help!
Q. I started out in my first job a couple months ago and I met this guy called max who I ended up working really closely with almost every night and we became good freinds till it sort of became obvious neither of us wanted to be..Just freinds..how ...
A. 9 May 2011: Hello,
Go to the work place you just quit. He must still be working there. ... (read in full...)
I see him every day and it hurts so much that I have been told to stay away!
Q. I became good friends with this guy we told each other everything. it then became something more, but we both had partners which was wrong i know. i broke up with my boyfriend because we weren't right for each other he never found out about the fact ...
A. 7 May 2011: Hello, It's smart to stay away now. He chose to get back with his girlfriend. That was what he did and he didn't chose to stay with you. It's best to leave things alone now. Especially as the girlfriend has asked you to keep away. Don't let thin... (read in full...)
LDR's mom doesn't know about me just yet but I thought about sending her flowers for Mother's Day
Q. Hello all! I have an LDR boyfriend whom Im visiting in a few months. His mom will be told about us mid-May, but with mother's day coming up, I've been considering sending her flowers. The thing is, I've mentioned it to him and he thinks...
A. 7 May 2011: Hello, Don't send the flowers. Read Tisha's answer. It's a lovely thought but wait until Mom knows about you. I'm not a lover about parents not knowing etc but obviously that is another story. Share with us if you need! Good luck. ... (read in full...)
I really like him, but I am afraid he will be turned off when he sees me naked.
Q. im 18/f im about to have sex with my best friend whom i have very strong feelings for. The thing is, im a virgin and hes not...and the last girls he's slept with have been extremely thin with models bodies. i weigh around 57kg and im not very ...
A. 5 May 2011: Hello, Just a follow up to what you added....Why can't you be together now? Why is it very soon? Any reasons please?... (read in full...)
This guy is complicated! Do I spend the weekend with him and have sex, with no strings attached?
Q. This guy is complicated! Do I spend the weekend with him and have sex with no emotions or strings attached? Here's the short story.... We met a couple months ago, went out a few times, he works out of town and we text everyday. I was...
A. 5 May 2011: Hello,
Oh come on! He is not a good catch at all for you! He just wants sex. He pretends he needs to be rescued but wants no strings sex. Dump him and run lady!... (read in full...)
I really like him, but I am afraid he will be turned off when he sees me naked.
Q. im 18/f im about to have sex with my best friend whom i have very strong feelings for. The thing is, im a virgin and hes not...and the last girls he's slept with have been extremely thin with models bodies. i weigh around 57kg and im not very ...
A. 5 May 2011: Hello,
Is he just a friend?? I do ask this because he may have ideas that you will both have sex for fun and then move on to another girl. Just be aware. He will be your first as well so just make sure you are not being used. ... (read in full...)
If it is just friendship, why is he sad?
Q. i met this guy and he says we are just friends. We had sex twice but we keep reminding we are just friends. My feelings for him have died down to friendship level and now he keeps asking me have i told any of my friend girls about him. I'll say ...
A. 5 May 2011: Hello,
He obviously enjoyed your sexual pleasure together. But now things have sort of eased down a bit, he may feel he wants more and is sad you are not as interested as before. I think you both need to really find out where you both are with thin... (read in full...)
Should I try for this job again?
Q. Any advice much appreciated with this. I am currently looking for a job at the moment...not easy. I have heard about a job where I live at. The thing is I got offered a job at this place about this time last year. I said I would take it but at the ...
A. 5 May 2011: Hi, Yes, go for the job. It's well worth it. Be clear and honest and explain exactly that you needed to do college last year and now you are fully committed to the lady's job. This sounds good to me. Good luck. :)... (read in full...)
How do I get to see my long distance girl?
Q. I can say that I am 100% in love with this girl because I've never met her in person. I'm 17 and I turn 18 in May, which is soon, and she just turned 15 this Feburary. She lives in NY and I live in CA. I want to be able to know for sure if I love ...
A. 5 May 2011: Hello, I'll just deal with the financial side to this. If you want to meet her then find out if you can stay with your family living in NY. If you can, then you need to find the price of the airline ticket plus spending money. When you know wh... (read in full...)
Finding out my ex is engaged has just torn my world apart!
Q. So my ex and I have been broken up for over 7 months now, back in September, and she started dating her new boyfriend almost a week after ending things with me. She said that she met him when she was with me, however some mutual friends say that she ...
A. 5 May 2011: Hello,
It wouldn't matter if she got engaged a week after or ten years after, it would still hit you like a thunderbolt. Bottom line is she moved on.
We could all talk about your LDR and if she was with him then etc etc etc. But don't go there. ... (read in full...)
She has stopped texting me, what does it mean?
Q. I told my classmate that i like her but through text only. She said that she only likes me as a friend, and after that she stopped texting me. What does it mean?...
A. 5 May 2011: Hello,
This means...Thanks but no thanks. You have NO opportunity here with this girl. Forget about her and look for other potential partners. Take care.... (read in full...)
I am obese and therefore have very low self esteem and self confidence...what should I do?
Q. Hello I am a 25 year old guy. I am about 5'8" tall and weight around 220lbs. By medical standards that is obese! Probably the first thing that you will tell me is "lose weight!" well, I should and I am trying right now. However, I feel very u...
A. 5 May 2011: Hello,
You ask what you should do? OK, then I would forget about the bars and clubs that make you feel uncomfortable. Just concentrate on your weight loss. As your weight goes down, you will feel much better and better. You see, the thing caus... (read in full...)
Do you lose your virginity if you get fingered?
Q. Do you lose your virginity if you get fingered?...
A. 4 May 2011: Hello,
No, it is sexual intercourse when you lose virginity. ... (read in full...)
We broke up January. Now I can't seem to control my urge to have sex. How can I control it better?
Q. my boyfriend and I broke up and have finished our relationship in janruary. i have been going out with friends and i have also slept with 2 people since my boyfriend and i broke up and i feel so bad about it. however i just seem to be wanting sex ...
A. 4 May 2011: Hello,
It is possible you feel sad and alone without knowing it. Therefore you seek comfort in sex and intimacy. However, the intimacy is only temporary to ease your sadness. Similar to a rebound relationship. It's hard I know, but take time out ... (read in full...)
If a guy has sex with a girl, does that mean he loves her?
Q. If a guy has sex with a girl does that usually means he loves her? Also If he didn't love her how can guys have sex with a girl without having deep feelings for them? Thank you just curious....
A. 4 May 2011: Hello,
I would say no because people do one night stands, go to escorts etc. ... (read in full...)
What are natural ways to grow a larger penis?
Q. Ok, this is my question. I am 15 years old and I have a 7 inch penis. Is that normal? Is that small or anything, cause I'm kinda worried it'll stop growing. What are some natural ways to grow a bigger penis? Anything useful will help!!! :) Thanx...
A. 4 May 2011: Hello,
Seven inches!!! That's well above average. I believe average is between 4inches and 6inches. You wouldn't want to go bigger than 7. ... (read in full...)
What's the secret to attracting a woman?
Q. Please tell me what REALLY TURNS ON A WOMEN. What gives her that spark to feel so attracted she'll jump into your arms?...
A. 3 May 2011: Lots of MONEY!!!! ha! No, honesty, cleanliness, being natural,interested in her and sharing and talking about her day!..............then lots of money!(only joking with the money) ... (read in full...)
Would you be so kind as to comment on my poem?
Q. I'm entering a poetry contest can peeps tell me what thy think bout this poem thanks xx to be with you is all i desire, with out you my hearts on fire, my hearts in pain ,bleeding,aching for you, only in my dreams u luv me 2 . m battling ...
A. 3 May 2011: Hello,
Yes, it's a romantic lovey poem. Just friendly poetry advice...(she says.....)...you rhyme 12 12 12 12 12 OK. that's ok. So in the poem the even numbered line always rhymes the previous odd number. This is a basic device. However, your mete... (read in full...)
Doe it mean he's trustworthy if he wants to be your Facebook friend?
Q. Simple question, if a guy you're seeing wants to be friends on facebook, is this a good sign that he is genuine? Because i think that if were friends on there, then he is honest about not having a girlfriend or dating anyone else. Like he doesn't ...
A. 3 May 2011: Hello,
I would say just don't over analyse anything. You are seeing him so he adds you as a friend. That would be a natural progression as you both "know" eachother. But, only treat it as someone you know adding you. Don't read into it being anyt... (read in full...)
I live with her, I love her but I'm afraid if I tell her it will ruin our friendship
Q. Hi there, I've been living with this girl for almost a year now. I actually also work with her as her supervisor. We get along great, hang out in work, talk a lot at home and we even go out sometimes with her friends. Over the past few days, I...
A. 3 May 2011: Hello,
This is a difficult one. If you ask and be rejected, you wouldn't want to be her friend. Surely not!!!! It's all or nothing really. The risk of asking puts the job atmosphere, home, and everything else at risk. So....you need to find out ... (read in full...)
I want her to pick me but she always choses the wrong guy
Q. i love this girl weve hang out a lot she has mixed felings she said that she only love one guy but she cant see him . but i think shes afarid to get hurt again she seems to get all the worng guys i do love the girl neaver felt this way with any one ...
A. 3 May 2011: Hello,
The problem for you is you hang out with her but she doesn't see you as boyfriend material. If she did, you would be dating her and no other guys would be in the picture. It's the friend zone I'm afraid. No one's fault, it's chemistry and ... (read in full...)
If you give a blowjob are you still a virgin? Is he?
Q. If you give a guy a blowjob are you still a virgin? And is the guy still a virgin too?...
A. 3 May 2011: Hello,
My understanding is sexual intercourse is when you lose your virginity. ... (read in full...)
I’ll respect that she’s happy with her BF, but I’m upset that I have lost a good friend.
Q. Me and this women from work used to get on really well spending lunch together etc. I saw her i few times out of work. she has a boyfriend which i dont think shes happy with, i started to get feelings for but didnt make a move because she had ...
A. 2 May 2011: Hi, Yes, you knew she had a boyfriend yet you asked her out!!! So, the friendship you had has now gone. She is avoiding you because it's awkward. You were pals, but asking her out overstepped a boundary. Let her be now and just carry on and hop... (read in full...)
LDR b/f wants us to have sex when we meet!
Q. Okay, so I really don't know how to start. I'm having a long distance/online relationship with a guy whom i'm supposed to meet in July. He is a really great guy, fun to be around and a really nice person. The only problem is that were not on...
A. 2 May 2011: Hello,
Just wondering....have you met him yet at all? I wonder because you say he is fun to be around. That implies you have met. If you haven't seen each other for real then You could not know how he is. Online, phones, texts are a lot diff... (read in full...)
Will my ex like the personalized gift or be annoyed?
Q. hi im trying to get back with my ex girlfriend. we broke up almost 3 months now. not a bad break up, i mean we didnt had a fight about it. i didnt contact her for a while until last thursday. i still love her. i decided to send her My M and M's ...
A. 2 May 2011: Hello, It will all depend on the context of how you broke up? Did you leave her? Or she left you? etc. Why did you both break up? This has a direct affect the success of what you are trying to send her. ... (read in full...)
Am I still a considered a virgin if I got fingered...?
Q. Okay. Im 15 and I was just fingered for the first time. My question is, am I still considered a virgin even though he did finger me?...
A. 2 May 2011: Hello, My understanding is losing virginity is through sexual intercourse. ... (read in full...)
Not sure whether I am right or wrong in this situation...
Q. I feel really upset right now and don't know whether I am justified in feeling this way. Yesterday (for the royal wedding) my boyfriend and I (been together 15 months) got invited to my cousin's bbq. Meanwhile he also got an invite to attend...
A. 30 April 2011: Hello, I don't think it was anyone's fault really. You see, by doing the two parties, you both tried to please everyone. He was at his friends and enjoyed the time,(they are his friends) and he was probably compromised by having to leave them. He... (read in full...)
How can somebody can talk to you the sweetest words on earth and dump you only a few minutes later?
Q. Hi all, I'm really confused and would appreciate every bit of help in understanding my current situation. I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. Things were never easy between us, as he was still in a dysfunctional (as I thought) relation...
A. 28 April 2011: Hello,
I'm afraid he was already with someone so was just using you. Obviously had his pleasure and then left. But, he is not a nice person and you truly are better off without him. Take time to lick your wounds and then move on. ... (read in full...)
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