Does an ultrasound carry the father's name?
Q. I want to know something about baby ultrasounds. When a copy of the ultrasound is printed, does it carry the name of the baby's father on it? ...
A. 14 July 2011: Not in UK. The records will only be of mother. ... (read in full...)
I don't hate my ex anymore and want to congratulate him on having a baby, how should I do this?
Q. Today I read a question about a guy that calls his gf names and wont let her eat til he says its ok. It made me feel sad and horrible for her because thats what my exbf did to me but he was badder. I treated him so good but he would always find ...
A. 14 July 2011: Hello,
Thanks for follow up. I count 6 aunts against contacting him and 1 for contacting. I believe you were going to contact him anyway so that's your choice. Hope all goes well. ... (read in full...)
I cant deal with her mindgames any more! Should I let the relationship diminish, or finally answer her calls and let her carry on behaving this way?
Q. My girlfriend and I 30 and 26 respectively. We just hit the year milestone on our relationship July 11. I haven't verbally spoken to her since two days prior to my bday when she unofficially broke up with me June 27. Anyway I haven't desired to call ...
A. 13 July 2011: Hello, It's time to let this one go. You are tired of this now and she is just playing with you because she isn't interested or doesn't give a damn. A LDR of 90 miles can be a nightmare with this begaviour. Don't contact anymore. She has broken u... (read in full...)
I don't hate my ex anymore and want to congratulate him on having a baby, how should I do this?
Q. Today I read a question about a guy that calls his gf names and wont let her eat til he says its ok. It made me feel sad and horrible for her because thats what my exbf did to me but he was badder. I treated him so good but he would always find ...
A. 13 July 2011: Why bother? You were treated badly so why even bother to acknowledge him? I can't understand why you would want to wish him well. Things have now ended and he has his baby. Let this all go. ... (read in full...)
I thought it was normal to masturbate?
Q. so the other day i was playing never have i ever with my friends. we are all 15 and we are like the more popular girls in school. a few have them have had sex and everyone else has been fingered. anyways someone said "never have i ever mastraba...
A. 13 July 2011: Totally normal at 15 and normal when your a lot older. All OK. ... (read in full...)
He misunderstood my texts and now wants to break up with me!
Q. On Monday Fourth of July, I sent my bf of 8mths. a text saying I was drinking at a friends house and that her bf was there. So my bf thought right away that I was cheating that I was with a friend of my friends bf. But the thing is it was a joke I ...
A. 13 July 2011: Let it go now. He was probably tired of things and these texts helped him make the move. Let him go yourself now and move along. ... (read in full...)
Girl is into me, now is really quiet, almost absent!
Q. I met this woman that I think is fabulous. Mutual attraction right off the bat. before long we exchanged numbers, and for several days, she was all in my business, calling me every day, from early in the morning to noon, and then late at night. she ...
A. 12 July 2011: Hello, A difficult one. A sort of a rebound situation all in one week. Very keen then hardly anything. So, I think you need to wait a few days, she already knows you like her, and then see if she contacts. If not, send a small text and say, "I ... (read in full...)
Should I go to his party?
Q. I have been invited to a surprise birthday party for a guy I have known for several years. He has had feelings for me for a long time and has often tried to tell me by asking my friends how I feel and writing me letters. I do not reciprocate his ...
A. 11 July 2011: No don't go. Far too uncomfortable. Say you are meeting family at this time. Or, washing your hair?... (read in full...)
Should I meet him? Long distance relationship advice needed
Q. I have met online a guy 8 months ago. He lives in Northern Europe, me in the South (distance 2200 km). Nothing serious at first, just flirting, sharing music and photos of each other. Age difference about 20. He owns a big garden and, as I live in a ...
A. 11 July 2011: He doesn't sound very mature. I certainly wouldn't go over to meet him. In any case, the fact you haven't spoken much leads me to believe he may have found someone else. ... (read in full...)
Ex wants me to help her with repairs around her house, and is furious because I said I would charge her for it! Does that make me a jerk?
Q. I dated a girl for a while. In that time, I did a lot of things for her. One thing I did was help around her house. I am very handy and once worked for a plumber. I mowed the lawn and did repairs. We broke up two month ago. It was a bad breakup....
A. 11 July 2011: Hello,
I wouldn't bother if I were you. She is using you for free work as she has run out of options. When you mentioned the money, she suddenly showed her true personality. Don't bother now. ... (read in full...)
BF not a virgin and I know it shouldn't bother me, but it does
Q. I met my boyfriend just over two years ago but at the same time met someone else who I liked better. So I told my boyfriend that I couldn't see more happening between us than friendship. We didn't communicate after that. A few months later, af...
A. 11 July 2011: Hello,
It may bother you because you can sort of picture everything and then the imagination takes over. You don't say if this girl he dated took his virginity. Perhaps you wish you had dated him in the first place and then he wouldn't have met ... (read in full...)
My long-distance bf was supposed to come and see me today after being away for 6 months...and he hasn't shown up!! What do I do now??
Q. My LDR boyfriend was supposed to come and see me today, after having worked away for 6 months. He was supposed to be getting the train to me this morning; however, his phone has been switched off all day, he is not answering my texts (I know he ...
A. 11 July 2011: Hello,
Thanks for follow up. OK, that sounds a good idea from you. Wait a couple of days and see if he contacts. That will make you feel better. But, yes he could have contacted you any time he wanted on Facebook. Also, isn't it a bit of a coin... (read in full...)
Is it strange to walk in town when no one else does?
Q. i have a tendency to walk through town. many people that know me find this strange because no one else does this activity. also i can not drive simply for the reason that i am not very good at it and would most likely be dead if i atemtet to do so. ...
A. 10 July 2011: There is nothing wrong with walking. I love it. Don't worry what others think. Buy a small pedometer which counts your steps as you walk and you could always tell people you do it for health and fitness if it makes you feel better. ... (read in full...)
How is it that love doesn't find everyone?
Q. How is it that anyone can find love, but love doesnt find everyone? If theres someone 4 everyone, why is it that some never find anyone?...
A. 10 July 2011: I don't believe in that there is someone for everyone. It's only a myth or an old wive's tale. Some people "never" meet that special person. Maybe the person didn't exist, maybe they turned a different path and never met, maybe they were born too ... (read in full...)
Do you think he sees us as more than just friends, if so, how do I let him down gently?
Q. hi everyone so here,s my problem i have been friends with a man for about a year now we meet up a couple of times a week on his nights off from work and mine the past couple of times we have arranged to meet up i have had to cancel due to a lot ...
A. 10 July 2011: Well, his text asking about a boyfriend leans me towards believing that he is sounding things out for more. He is probably interested and is finding out if you are available. In these situations it is best to be honest. If he asks you to be his ... (read in full...)
My gf's vagina seems "loose"; does this mean she is not a virgin?
Q. I have a girlfriend who i love very much..she told me that she was a virgin (she never lie to me + i've known her long ago) but last time when i fingered her, my finger was loose as if she had had sex several times and feels no pain...could it be ...
A. 10 July 2011: She says she is virgin so accept this. As for the looseness, perhaps she enjoys what you are doing!... (read in full...)
How do I break up with her kindly?
Q. Ok, I'm a little reluctant to post this as I'm "the bad guy" in the piece, but I could really use some advice. I've been seeing someone off and on for the past few months and I need to end things with her. She really likes me and, despite my tryin...
A. 10 July 2011: Hello,
I did this to someone by email a number of years back. A real bad and cowardly thing to do. I just couldn't do it in person and figured that once they got the email they would "know" and I could just hide at home. Bad thing to do so I don'... (read in full...)
Why did my g/f chose her friends over me on her birthday?
Q. Hello, I just turned 25. My gf (been dating for about a month or so).....didn't hang out with me on her birthday. I think she hung out with her friends. I feel kinda down......I hung out with my cousins instead. I really don't have that many f...
A. 10 July 2011: Hello,
It's only a month so don't worry. It;s too soon for her. However, next year will be different.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have sex 4 times a day?
Q. This is the second man I've ever slept with. My husband and I had sex four times a week tops during our whole marriage. This man and I have sex more than four times a DAY if we can. I just want to know if it's normal or if it means he only wa...
A. 10 July 2011: I take it you are having an affair. Not a good thing. There must be problems with your marriage. ... (read in full...)
Will he ever call me again?
Q. I have been knowing guy for sum years, we had a bad breakup, he recently came back into my life, he got me pregnant to soon, so I aborted, we still involved with each afterwards, he don't have to much conversation. but like to do stuff wit me and my ...
A. 10 July 2011: He sounds like he drifts in and out of your life so I would say he will be in touch. But I wonder if he will ever be around permanently. He tends to run away and then come back. ... (read in full...)
Does he like me even though we have a long distance relationship?
Q. Last year I spent my sophomore year at a boarding school in massachusetts where I met this guy who was then a senior. We took the same fitness class where he would always show some sort of interest in me, especially when most of my friends caught ...
A. 10 July 2011: Sounds very flirty to me. Move it on and suggest meeting up for a coffee. If he goes all quiet then just delete him. But, he may wish to meet up. ... (read in full...)
I am 24 and planning to lose my virginity to a prostitute. Any tips for a first-timer?
Q. Well I'm 24 and still a virgin and really tired of waiting. So I'm looking into losing my virginity to a prostitute in a few weeks. It's legal where I live and weekly STD testing are mandatory for prostitutes. I've given up on finding a girlfr...
A. 10 July 2011: Hello,
You are set to go through with this so i hope you really enjoy your experience. My only tip for you would be to tell the lady it is your first time. Working ladies are fully experienced with virgin boys so don't feel worried to tell her.... (read in full...)
My long-distance bf was supposed to come and see me today after being away for 6 months...and he hasn't shown up!! What do I do now??
Q. My LDR boyfriend was supposed to come and see me today, after having worked away for 6 months. He was supposed to be getting the train to me this morning; however, his phone has been switched off all day, he is not answering my texts (I know he ...
A. 10 July 2011: Hello,
LDR relationships need both to grab every opportunity to meet up when possible. If you are in the area or coming to Town then naturally you should both want to meet. He has blown you off before and now seems to be doing it again. The phon... (read in full...)
Is this guy I am dating online just stringing me along?
Q. So. I've been seeing this guy online for about... five months now. We get along great, and find each other very attractive. He's quite a bit older than I am, and while he's single, he has children (never married). He does his work early to talk...
A. 10 July 2011: Hello,
He seems to be treating you with less and less respect. Signing off and ignoring you and not chatting if the roommate is there. I believe you should pull this now and just don't bother. We need someone to care and to enjoy talking and show... (read in full...)
Opinions on beards please!!
Q. Hiyaaaaa, Well this isn't really a problem more off a personal opinion and preference! I don't do art as a subject anymore but I recently bumped into my art teacher and saw him with a beard!!!!! So guys why would you guys grow a beard or ...
A. 8 July 2011: Hello,
Nope, I can't stand facial hair at all. I always think people with beards are hiding from something. But only my opinion!... (read in full...)
The ex--does he still like me or is it just about sex?
Q. My ex boyfriend and I have broken up since two months ago and right after we broke up he dated this girl then dumped her a month later. Then after a month went by he started talking to me again and wanted to know if i would like to mess around ...
A. 4 July 2011: You are just being used here. He gets the sex without the responsibility of a relationship.
If he was really interested, he would be dating you for proper. ... (read in full...)
She has my shoulder to cry on but I'm afraid she'll go back to her ex
Q. i met this girl and is in love with her but we're just friends, we have been friends for quite some time. she had a bf when i met her and now they broke up few weeks ago. we talk a lot and lent her my shoulder to cry on. problem is, i really want to ...
A. 4 July 2011: Hello,
A tricky one here, you may have fallen into the friends zone. But you may not have. Don't start telling her how you feel. Wrong move. Just be there for her and do what you are doing. Don't do it to just try to get her as a girflfriend, just... (read in full...)
I love her but she has a boyfriend, what do I do?
Q. VERY strange situation, I have asked numerous people for advice and they are all just as baffled as I am. So at my job, there is a girl who has been coming in for about 2 years now. We began talking a little over a year ago, exchanged numbers and ...
A. 4 July 2011: Hello,
Just to add to my post....Do not start telling her how you feel. Wrong move mister. That will end in disaster. thanks.... (read in full...)
After 6 months of friendship, are his feelings changing?
Q. hi all, I met this guy and we got close then lost contact for a few years. We got in contact again about 6 months ago and have been talking and occasionally meeting up because we live a long way from each other. There is a lot of flirting involve...
A. 3 July 2011: hello,
Yes i do think he is interested. The only problem i see is the long distance and how you both would cope with this. But, see what happens and keep contact if you want this. ... (read in full...)
Should someone be given a chance if they have mental illness?
Q. Hey all, I need a reality check... I was with a girl from Sep 07 to May 09, living together... The good times were fantastic but I think she has some personality issues, unresolved anger, etc... that basically put me into a "fixing" her role ...
A. 3 July 2011: You want a reality check so i say get real and stop wondering about her. She moved on regardless of her divorce. You have no way of communicating, all those ties were cut long ago so if I were you I would let this all go. ... (read in full...)
We spent a night in a hotel and now no contact...please help!
Q. Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles, i have a bit of a confusing situation in my mind. Recently ive been talking to a guy who i became very close to, he always text me 'good morning beautiful' every day and we stayed up til at least 2am most days just ...
A. 3 July 2011: This one is a mystery. He invested a lot of money in the hotel and then just goes AWOL. Very odd. You say there was no intercourse so was there any reason why considering the other things that took place? I felt sure you was going to say intercourse ... (read in full...)
I love her but she has a boyfriend, what do I do?
Q. VERY strange situation, I have asked numerous people for advice and they are all just as baffled as I am. So at my job, there is a girl who has been coming in for about 2 years now. We began talking a little over a year ago, exchanged numbers and ...
A. 3 July 2011: I believe you are her friend at work. Try not to confuse things, friends at work, friends outside work. She enjoys your company and has fun with the smoking and texts. That's all I'm afraid. As you said she is very serious with her boyfriend. Let ... (read in full...)
After 36 years married male friend found me. Now what?
Q. There a guy that in high school we were cloe and wanted to get involved but slowly drifted apart after goin to college. He's married and I am widowed. He has been looking for me. Surprise he found me. We have talked on several occasions and ...
A. 3 July 2011: Hello,
As hard as it may be, i would let this go now. By dipping your feet in the water you could begin an affair with this man. it may start slowly and friendly but all of a sudden you may get in a position where you start having deep feel... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend ashamed of me?
Q. Well ive been with my girlfriend for about 3 years, it's weird she never brings me around her house, never wants to have sex It comes to a point were I have to literally ask her if we are ever gonna have sex or not.. Its sad She broke up with me...
A. 3 July 2011: Hello, You have a nice job and a nice car yet you continue to put up with this rubbish. The whole situation you have is awful and this girl is treating you with no respect. Don't hang around, throw this in the rubbish bin. Why put up with this? Pl... (read in full...)
Can I make my man's penis bigger?
Q. hi am a 21 year old woman and i have a problem my fiance have a small pennis and i real love him so much we are getting married by december what am i suppose to do?is there anything that can help to grew up his pennis?please help me....
A. 3 July 2011: NO. As far as I'm aware you can't make a penis longer or thicker. But you love him and you love what he is all about, his person, his humour, his body. Why worry for this change? ... (read in full...)
Why do people smoke and drink?
Q. Why do people smoke and drink and enjoy it? I know this sounds stuck up, but I honestly cannot understand how people can not only enjoy but also become addicted to this nasty-smelling, nasty-tasting, just plain foul stuff... I have been sh**-faced ...
A. 3 July 2011: Hello,
Cigarette smoking is drug addiction.
Tobacco has the nicotine so the person becomes quickly addicted. The cigarettes and smoke are the way the nicotine is taken in. If there were not nicotine in the cigarettes, they would be pretty u... (read in full...)
Does playing hard to get work and how can you do it?
Q. hi all can someone please answer this question does a woman playing hard to get with a man she really likes work and how should i go about it? thanks ...
A. 3 July 2011: Hello,
It is a risk. Some guys just ask or hint once. If they get anything other than a "yes" or green light then they are off. I was very keen once on a guy and he emailed me about a film/coffee. I replied "ok" pretending to be all innocent and ... (read in full...)
Devastated after going though his phone ....
Q. was with my man for 2 years until he left me in may 2010 as he had met someone else although we kept in touch.2 months later we started meetin up as friendsm him sayin she was out his life,and he had only done it to push me away.We were gettin on ...
A. 3 July 2011: You are being played. He gets the two of you. Time to move on and leave this behind. There is no future for you here. None whatsoever. ... (read in full...)
Why is Divorce Ok? I am put off if I find a person is divorced.
Q. Im asking the question: Why isnt it shameful to be divorced? Why would anyone admit it? to me it makes the person look selfish and non commital really.. I have to admit it puts me off a person quite a lot. What does everyone else think? ...
A. 3 July 2011: Hello,
Divorce can be a life saver for some people. The wrong guy in a marriage can destroy every ounce of anything in your whole life. Sometimes, divorce is the best option. Life and choices and people change. As for yourself, I would ask why this... (read in full...)
She hasn't been reaching her "max climax" and it's starting to make me feel bad!
Q. So me and my gf talked about our previous sex lives. I was a virgin for our first time and she was not. She told me her previous boyfriend was able to make her reach her "max climax" most of the time they did it. For me she she said that im able to ...
A. 2 July 2011: Hello,
A lot of your worries here are comparing yourself to her last boyfriend. :( This is spoiling your fun with her. Remember, this is your first sexual girlfriend and you are excited and you should be enjoying things and having pleasure. I don'... (read in full...)
She says she wants to be friends but I feel like she is blowing me off all the time!
Q. So, dated this girl a while back, but I always tried to keep in touch. She said she wanted to still hang out and stuff, but she never initiates contact.(none of my friends ever contact me, not unless they need something or something bad has ...
A. 2 July 2011: hello, Ok, you don't want her as a friend, you want her as a girlfriend. That is what you need to understand. If you accept this then realise that she isn't into you. Don't hang around for emails and crumbs of texts and communication. It's all a wa... (read in full...)
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