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How can somebody can talk to you the sweetest words on earth and dump you only a few minutes later?

Q.   Hi all, I'm really confused and would appreciate every bit of help in understanding my current situation. I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. Things were never easy between us, as he was still in a dysfunctional (as I thought) relation...

A.   28 April 2011: Hello, I'm afraid he was already with someone so was just using you. Obviously had his pleasure and then left. But, he is not a nice person and you truly are better off without him. Take time to lick your wounds and then move on. ... (read in full...)

I saved up all year to see my LDR girlfriend and now she wants to come here!

Q.   i have a massive dilemma. so im in a ldr relationship with my gf. and weve been talking about me going to see her in the summer for about 5 months. she lives in america i live in england. im on a gap year. so it comes to 3 weeks before the trip and ...

A.   27 April 2011: Well, you see that's a problem because you had dreamt of meeting up in the States and just before you made it a reality(bought the ticket), she then changes her mind. I just have a doubt here because she seemed keen while things were internet ... (read in full...)

What does this mean? Has he blocked me on MSN?

Q.   Hi This is a question about msn really. When i first met my bf we talked lots on msn every night we werent seeing each other and it progressed to skype about 5 months ago. Now and again i pop onto msn to see if he's added anyone and check him ou...

A.   27 April 2011: Hi, I don't know if you can do the blocking on MSN but I sure think he is ignoring you for some reason. I think you will have to send a short message to ask him how's things? Hannah.... (read in full...)

She said she will never have feelings for me, but I cant stop believing! Help!

Q.   The story goes like this. There's this girl I really like, or love at the present. We knew each other 1 year ago. At that time, she just broke up with her boyfriend but then they patched up. At that time, I felt I was so close to have her and became ...

A.   27 April 2011: Hello, You are firmly in the friend zone and you always will be. Not her fault, not yours, just the chemistry and all that stuff! You never will be her bf because of this. The best thing to do is to move on and distance yourself from her and look... (read in full...)

I saved up all year to see my LDR girlfriend and now she wants to come here!

Q.   i have a massive dilemma. so im in a ldr relationship with my gf. and weve been talking about me going to see her in the summer for about 5 months. she lives in america i live in england. im on a gap year. so it comes to 3 weeks before the trip and ...

A.   27 April 2011: Hello, To the poster...Am I right that you have already paid £400 for a non-refundable airplane ticket? Hannah.... (read in full...)

Can I win my ex back after he said we're over and he no longer loves me?

Q.   Hi, i am confused. My ex and I started a long distance relationship 10 months ago and we only meet each other every 1 or 2 months. we never know each other before that, hence we skipped the friendship part and got into relationship very quick...

A.   25 April 2011: Hello, It sounds pretty definite to me that he has shut you out of his life. He has said this. One chance you could take is to "go missing" for a while and see if tries to contact or find you. While you are always around and hoping he will back off... (read in full...)

Is it worth it to keep up this long distance relationship?

Q.   I've met this guy online about 5 months ago and he was very sweet and caring. He's a couple years older than me and although we've never met he tells me he has very strong feelings for me. He lives in New York though and i live in Arizona. Its very ...

A.   25 April 2011: Hello, He sounds very controlling and I see red flags in your situation. You haven't met OK? So you would both have an immpression built upon from phones, texts and internet. So you simply "cannot" know eachother or love eachother the way being wi... (read in full...)

Married lover says he can't move because of his kids. Do I walk?

Q.   l have being seing a married guy for nearly a year who lives 400 miles away and who still sleeps with his wife but they dont have sex we talk every day and text all the time . We have met up four times and slept together on two occasions x he says ...

A.   21 April 2011: Yep!!... (read in full...)

He doesn't know how to break off with his 19 year old g/f to be with me!

Q.   First,let me start with my mistake. I started an affair before I decided for sure to leave my husband of 9 years. Husband is a good man, but we married at 19 and my feelings have changed. I love him, but no longer in love or desire him. We have a 6 ...

A.   21 March 2011: This is a total disaster for everyone. i simply don't believe him and his story. It is two affairs to start and now it's a mess. And I wonder if he really is in love with you. So I would just leave things now. It's not gonna work lady! ... (read in full...)

He's quite shy and I prefer the man to make the first move?

Q.   I've started seeing a boy, but we're not going out... yet. He's quite shy and I always prefer to let the man make the first move, which means that our relationship isn't really progressing. I do want to be with him but I'm not too sure what to do ...

A.   22 February 2011: Hello, Just a thought, but if you prefer men that make the move and things are not progressing much, then you could ask yourself the question of "is he the type of man I am attracted to?" Of course, you may hint a little and then things take off... (read in full...)

For the past 4-5 months I've been irritable, impatient, angry, and eating comfort foods. How do I combat this?

Q.   Hello all, For the past 4-5 months, I don't know why, but I am getting very impatient with everything. Impatient and Angry. I have a bad attitude towards everything and my eating habits are out of control. I'm rude to my parents and other fa...

A.   21 February 2011: Hello, I would go and make appointment with a doctor and describe these things to them. They can help and identify if anything is wrong. Hannah. ... (read in full...)

I'm I just the rebound?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for over 5 months now and we’re at the stage where we really start to get to know each other. He talks about his ex-girlfriends constantly, whenever we hang out he always brings up at least one of his ex-girlfriends and ...

A.   21 July 2010: Hello, The constant talk about these past relationships does lead me to believe he is doing a self therapy type of healing. (without knowing it possibly.) However, I'm wondering how long since one of these break-ups happened et?. Was it rece... (read in full...)

I regret not giving him my virginity. We broke up so how can I get him back?

Q.   My boyfriend has left me for another girl, as i did not satisfy him sexually. We have been together for 9 months and all i have given him was 2 blow jobs which i did reluctantly. His last attempt to have sex with me was rejected by me. Thereafter he ...

A.   18 July 2010: Hello, It seems clear he wanted you with sex. He didn't get it so he pushed off. If you try to get him back, it will cost you your virginity and then he will probably go back to his now girlfriend. You would then give him the ego of boasting abou... (read in full...)

A question of condoms...

Q.   hey i had a question and i was hoping you could help if a guy has a condom on and it doesnt break could she still get pregnant. ...

A.   12 July 2010: Hello, Well as said the condoms are not 100% but they are "generally" very effective. It would be a very very slight risk. Obviously, when he takes it off, he would be away from you. However, condoms are very good to practice safe sex. Always use ... (read in full...)

I have been waiting 17 months for him to leave his partner and move in with me!

Q.   Well I'm in great need of help and advise, I'm 23 I have a good job and my own place, here's where the problem starts.. I have been seein this guy now for 17 month he's 10 years older than me but he acts the same age we get on so well when we're ...

A.   5 July 2010: Hello, He will NEVER leave his partner. NEVER EVER. Trust me. This site is full of this type of question and the same responses as these help advise the poster. I'm sorry, but you need to get out of this quickly and run to the hills! Hannah. ... (read in full...)

Semen in his boxer shorts!

Q.   i have been with my boyfriend for 18 mths now he has lied about his past to me ie sexual partners ect, a few months back i found a pair of boxer shorts behind the tv unit in our bedroom with small semen stains in them, but just about a week later he ...

A.   1 July 2010: Hello, I think it's just he was masturbating or leaking. But strange place to leave his dirty undies!!!! Hannah. ... (read in full...)

Should I write a letter to end things with him? Or just forget about it?

Q.   Hi I had dated this guy and because of some things on both our parts , we kind of broke up. I tried very hard to work things out but he would always be mean to me, so I decided to accept that he didn't want the relationship back, but everytime I ...

A.   26 June 2010: Hello, He is a married man and i would suggest has no intention of any kind of divorce. He will feed you any line to keep in contact when he is bored. I would run away and never bother to contact him again. (my opinion) Hannah ... (read in full...)

Since we slept together he has been in touch less

Q.   dear all... i have been chatting and phoning a guy for the last 2 weeks....every day...at length.. and we met at the weekend....the date was great... and we both said we wanted to meet again.... we did sleep together and it felt very natural.......

A.   26 June 2010: Hello, Any more news on this? Did he keep in touch? Hope things are well, Hannah. ... (read in full...)

Why is he locking himself in the bathroom with his laptop?

Q.   This guy and i have been together for over a year now. i thought everything was going fine. now he locks himself in the bathroom with his laptop. is he cheating or am i just paranoid?...

A.   26 June 2010: Hello, I think he was just masturbating. Don't let things get too broken. ... (read in full...)

Why is the man I am having an affair with behaving this way?

Q.   Could someone please explain what this guy is doing to me,by the things he is saying. Well for starters he is married and we have been having an affair on and off now for 30yrs, with some breaks in between. I know his wife but only on a very cas...

A.   11 May 2010: I just hope that you never wake up one morning and realise you wasted 30 years of your life on him. ... (read in full...)

Is this guy a player or what?

Q.   hello, its been a while now that iv been texting a guy who is 6 years older than me. when he first txt he wanted to know if im single. today i found out that he has a girlfriend and a baby boy. he always ask me out but iv refused till now. should i ...

A.   11 May 2010: Hi, You refused and now you know more about him so why you want him??? Dont waste you time on him. He has a gf and a baby!!! Hannah. ... (read in full...)

Since we slept together he has been in touch less

Q.   dear all... i have been chatting and phoning a guy for the last 2 weeks....every day...at length.. and we met at the weekend....the date was great... and we both said we wanted to meet again.... we did sleep together and it felt very natural.......

A.   10 May 2010: Hi, hmmmmm, I'm not sure at the moment. You will have to wait for about another week or so. See if he asks for another date? See if he responds more? He could be just enjoying the moment and thinking over things....speed, timing etc. If he doesn... (read in full...)

Did my boyfriend get my colleugue pregnant?

Q.   My boyfriend of 8 years cheated on me with one of my close co-workers at work, all three of us work together. And we have hung out together on the regular. But now the girl is pregant she's saying its 50-50. she not sure who the father is? I don't ...

A.   4 May 2010: Hello, I cant tell you what to do but I would be devastated that he cheated regardless of whether this girl is pregnant. And you work with her so she is a constant reminder to you that he cheated. I'm so sorry but I'd have to leave him. I just coul... (read in full...)

Will he ever forgive me and take me back?

Q.   On May 5th my boyfriend of 2 years dumped me. I feel like my wold has fallen apart, can't eat or sleep and the doctor has me on 3 types of tranqulisers.. Another couple that we had associated closely with split up 4 weeks ago - he just wasn't in l...

A.   13 May 2009: Hello, Oh how heart breaking. i am sorry. I'm suspicious of this female friend and Uncle Phil beat me to it. Is there anything not adding up there at all??? Why would she have said what she said? Coincidence? I'm being suspicious. Please, ... (read in full...)

I'm heartbroken, confused and don't know what to think or do

Q.   My boyfriend who is in the middle of his divorce decided to go away for one week to Europe after finding out I had gone on a date several months after we started dating. At that time, December 08/January 09, he had been acting standoffish, distant ...

A.   11 May 2009: Hello, Just add....If I understand correctly, he contacted on the plane and day one also. But now it's only day 2 so that doesn't seem a long time? Am I right? He may be finding his feet at the moment? Please, i'm not making light of your sit... (read in full...)

Getting back deleted history on the computer?

Q.   Dont know if any of you out there can help but i have been wondering how can you get back things that have been deleted on the history on my computer?...

A.   6 May 2009: hello, I think you can because I've seen the police on the news take people's computers for investigations. I think the harddrive would have a memory of every movement ever on the life of the PC. The problem is finding someone that is able to unlo... (read in full...)

Am I too short, as a male?

Q.   I went on two really great dates recently with a girl I met at my college through a friend. It seemed as those we connected in every way. After the second date things seemed to fizzle out. I wonder why until a friend on mine told me that he had ran ...

A.   16 April 2009: Hey, Her opinion doesn't speak for every woman!! Just because she likes taller men, it doesn't mean every girl likes taller men. She has a shallow attitude. Remember, it is the person, the nature, the whole package! Hannah xx ... (read in full...)

Should I contact him? Was he just telling me lies?

Q.   I have been seeing this man for a few months. Everything was going so well. We talked about making things official and moving to the next level.Which he he brought this up first and i told him how i felt about him and i only wanted to date him. No...

A.   9 April 2009: Hello, I'm so pleased! I bet he was upset and was messaging another dearcupid site too! I hope we all helped. Hannah xx... (read in full...)

Should I contact him? Was he just telling me lies?

Q.   I have been seeing this man for a few months. Everything was going so well. We talked about making things official and moving to the next level.Which he he brought this up first and i told him how i felt about him and i only wanted to date him. No...

A.   8 April 2009: Hello, Ooh I do sympathize. A week is a long while to not be in contact seeing as you had just made promises together. You have every right to feel disappointed with him. Firstly, Is he OK? Is there a way you could scramble your number and call ... (read in full...)

Can I lose my virginity through masturbation?

Q.   i am frmo a very closed mined cluture and i am geeting married in a couple of months i used to masturbate when i was young and sometimes till now too...we are not allowed to have sexual intercourse i ned to know if masturnation can cause me to ...

A.   8 April 2009: Hello, No, masturbation may tear your hymen. You lose your virginity when a penis enters your vagina. Plain and simple. xxxx... (read in full...)

Should I contact him? Was he just telling me lies?

Q.   I have been seeing this man for a few months. Everything was going so well. We talked about making things official and moving to the next level.Which he he brought this up first and i told him how i felt about him and i only wanted to date him. No...

A.   8 April 2009: Hello, Let me re-cap on this as there sounds as if there is confusion....you were seeing a guy for a few months. He asked, if possible to become bf and gf. He wanted this, you agreed. Both wanted this. Now he hasn't been in contact for a week. ... (read in full...)

Would he notice if I am a virgin?

Q.   Ok every guy i kno thinks im not a virgin but i am. They think im not because the way i act. I hang out with alot of people who arent virgins.They asked me if i was and i said no.I was scared what they would think of me. so i went along with it but ...

A.   8 April 2009: Hello, I'm gonna guess that yes, a guy will know if you are virgin. It could depend if he is sexually experienced though? You may bleed a little, be nervous and not relaxed enough. Try to do it with someone you care for and trust though. You will... (read in full...)

14 yo and wants to know how to masturbate

Q.   I'm 14 and I want to no how to mastervat! please help ...

A.   6 April 2009: hi, Hold your penis with your thumb and forefinger, rub it up and down. You may need to put some baby oil on your penis and make sure you have some paper tissues handy to collect the little droplets of sperm. xx... (read in full...)

He's too nice and its annoying me!!

Q.   Hi, this sounds sooo stupid but its been really bugging me for so long. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 yrs and he really is the nicest person...i swear he is a saint! Nothing is never any trouble for him and he never has anything ba...

A.   12 March 2009: Hello, There isn't a day goes by when I don't think of my "nice guy" that I dumped nearly 15 years ago :( He was everything i'd never had before so I got scared and kept trying to push him away. I'd never realised guys could be like this before a... (read in full...)

Should I worry about being circumcized?

Q.   im an 18 year old guy from Australia, i was wondering if i could have some uplifting advice on being circumcised....as i am. i worry about what a girl will think if i am..should i worry if i am circumcised or not?? ..and my mates always crack jokes ...

A.   9 February 2009: Hello, Well to be honest, it is fine being circumcised or having a foreskin. It really will not make a difference to girls...well, I am not bothered either way. Possibly, in the UK the majority of boys are not circumcised so that is probably... (read in full...)

Were on a break, am I being played for a Fool?

Q.   Let me know what you guys think. I've been going out with a girl for 9 months yesterday. When we had been together for 3 months we feel pregnant, we decided to abort it due to certain issues one of them being money. She then started to becom...

A.   23 January 2009: Hello, You sound a really great guy! Is there any way you could force yourself to go into a "no contact" mode. This will fish her out and hopefully she will miss you and start questioning what she is doing. She asked for a break so give her what... (read in full...)

How do women feel about a foot fetish man?

Q.   Hi, I'm 32, male and I have a foot / leg fetish. Not every pair of feet, you'll be relieved to hear, but the first thing I notice in a woman is her feet, shoes, whether she's wearing stockings/tights, etc. I know it sounds weird, but I was wonder...

A.   16 January 2009: Hello, I think it's cool! My bf touches and smells my shoes, socks and slippers. I find it very loving when he makes a fuss of my feet and toes. Cool!! xxx... (read in full...)

Can she get pregnant from this?

Q.   okay well i fingered a girl on new years and i think i might've gotten sperm/cum on my fingers and i am scared for her she is freakin out and does not know what to do ...

A.   9 January 2009: Hello, It is all about temperature. If your sperm was placed inside her vagina and kept it's temperature then there is the very very slight chance. I doubt it very much though. Hannah xx ... (read in full...)

Going to Ireland--can anyone give me advice?

Q.   can some one tell something about ireland becasue i hope to go there for short hoilday...

A.   7 January 2009: Hello, Northern or Republic? x... (read in full...)

How much does a guy plan to spend on a girl on the first date?

Q.   Honestly, I want a guy's opinion on this one! How much does a guy plan to spend on a girl on the first date? And how fancy of a place or settle for a quick bite to eat and not let her super size?!? LOL. Say you both met online (dating site) an...

A.   6 January 2009: My starting price is 50 dollars...;) Seriously, if she likes you, she won't be too worried.....coffee is fine. xxx ... (read in full...)

He's masturbating in his sleep and says he can't remember doing it!!!

Q.   I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about a month now. We have previously dated for 4 months last year and have decided to give it another go. Everything is going fine, much better than the last time, except there is one thing that kee...

A.   6 January 2009: Hello, Yes, it does sound normal to me. I sometimes get woken up by his rubbing the thing and he really is asleep doing it. I've come to accept it and just giggle or help him out! I probably do things that wake him up as well that I don't kn... (read in full...)

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