I have an erection every time I approach my girlfriend, is this embarassing?
Q. ive gt the problem whereby everytime i try to get close with my girlfriend (im 17 nd she is 16) i feel i can't because little johnny pops up. what should i do this is realy annoying for me and embarassing ?????????????...
A. 2 June 2008: Hi,
It's your age and sounds normal to me. When I was dating at around your age I remember guys being aroused like this. It's natural, and I was flattered when I realised what was happening!! H xx ... (read in full...)
I put my hand down his pants. What should I do next?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been dating for about two months now or so and i realize this is probably moving super fast but he and i were making out long before we were dating, something you should probably know we are both underage and not super i...
A. 2 June 2008: You say you are under age so I am rather concerned to give you advice as to what to do. However, your profile says 16-17. Let us know your age first perhaps?
take care, H xx ... (read in full...)
Can I forgive after he cheated and got a girl pregnant?
Q. How do you forgive your husband after he has cheated. And made a baby with another women during your marriage....
A. 30 May 2008: Sorry I couldn't have a future with this guy either. All the posters are right and I'm with them all on this. Think about STDs as well. I wonder how many times he shagged her to make her pregnant. Don't put up with this. Read Waterloo Sunset's post, ... (read in full...)
Is she rejecting me? She said our friendship was more valuable than a relationship!
Q. My dreams are finally coming true, I finally got the girl I like to talk to me! We are so close, to each other, but she said this "Our friendship is more valuable then a relationship, I like u but id rather be ur friend" is she rejecting me? What ...
A. 29 May 2008: It does sound like she is rejecting a relationship. (if I was into a guy, I wouldn't risk saying that!) So, you want more and she wants friends. In my experience, I've wasted time waiting and hoping for someone to change their mind. (they never ... (read in full...)
She's only 15 and I'm 18, would dating be a problem?
Q. I have liked his girl for a long time and we became best friends. We even had some feelings for each other. The thing is she's only 15 and im 18. I just wanted to know if that age gap is too much to date her. and if it is, does anyone have a good ...
A. 28 May 2008: Yes, all ok but as previously mentioned, be careful of the sex side to things. When she is 16 it doesn't mean you have to jump into bed! Be responsible and she will respect you. H. ... (read in full...)
How fast is too fast?
Q. HI , i met someone we get along great, he lives an hour away. We have been together a months. We are both finalizing our divorces but have been separeated for over a year. He said he wants to move to my town to be close to me and probably with me, ...
A. 28 May 2008: Seems a bit fast to me. You will have to slow it down to the pace that you feel comfortable with. However, slowing it down may push him away. That's a risk for you but it's no good just rushing in. The divorces can make people lonely and scared of ... (read in full...)
She accepted my lunch invite, does that mean she wants more than friends?
Q. Hello, First i'd like to start off by explaining background. I've liked this one girl (lets call her Annie) for about a year now, and just recently i've been really really into her. A couple days ago i worked up the courage to ask her to a friendl...
A. 25 May 2008: Best thing to do is to arrange the lunch and see if there is any spark between you. It may be friendly polite or she may want more.....Remember though, make sure you arrange where to go,(have back up plan if this falls through) know the time, place ... (read in full...)
Do I get pregnant if I finger myself?
Q. do i get pregnat when i finger myself....
A. 24 May 2008: Of course you don't! A penis does that job! (trust me!!!) H. ... (read in full...)
How can I make my boyfriend fall in love with me?
Q. i have a bf but dont understand how to make him like me even more i dont see him often except for everyother weekend maybe you could tell me how to make him fall in LOVE with me. any spells or potions? lol jk p.s he already likes me bunches...
A. 24 May 2008: We don't have control over that I'm afraid. Romeo and Juliette fell in love, Tristan and Isolde used a potion and Liz Taylor and Richard Burton never fell out of love really. Let the god's decide...it's not for us to call. Hannah xx ... (read in full...)
He said he liked me, then broke it off... please help!
Q. Hi its me again i know i go on about this i forgot to say an extra detail the bloke said to me on the first night, that he really liked me that i was his girl now and he didnt want me going out with any other men. THEN 2 DAYS LATER...
A. 24 May 2008: Sounds like a control freak to me....or at least the beginnings of one. Stay away...I've got a few T-shirts of those kind of guys....stay away! Hannah xx ... (read in full...)
I broke up and now I want him back!
Q. I need help ! I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago.. he was such a great person but things between me and his mom went wrong and i couldnt take it anymore.. He kept begging for me back but I just couldn't stand his mom and I kept refusing.. ...
A. 24 May 2008: He tried but you kept rejecting him. He was probably very hurt so he gave up and has now moved on. That's closure. Now he has this new girlfriend, you have lost your control over him. That could be the root of your problem.
Hannah. ... (read in full...)
Why won't he call me, we were so close, its been a month!?
Q. Hi I posted my scenario earlier. I recently met a guy about 3 months ago, and we started dating. We got extremely serious within a week, we started living together, eating together, sleeping together, going to school together, going to his friends ...
A. 23 May 2008: Wow, eating, living and sleeping so soon!! That was fast, fast, fast! He obviously has issues to deal with in his personal life. Also, he may have re-evaluated what had gone on between you and wanted to slow things down or just simply go cold ... (read in full...)
He's a millionaire but won't give me money for a deposit, how can I make him regret this?
Q. I am a 25 year old female who has been involved with a married man for 3 years. We have an okay relationship, I dont ask him for much or expect much from him at. I respect his private life, and know where not to cross the line. He is a millionaire, ...
A. 23 May 2008: The reason he is a millionaire is simply because he doesn't give his money away! If he was to give it to any Tom, Dick and Hannah(?)he would be broke like the rest of us!!! If you want a car, you are going to have to raise the down yourself!! I ... (read in full...)
I'm stringing him along before I end it, is this wrong?
Q. I've figured out I am being strung along and I think I will just string him along. I've stopped the sex and have become unpredictable and unavailable. He doesn't seem to like that much. Am I wrong for doing this for a few weeks before I end it?...
A. 19 May 2008: End it now. Don't stoop as low as him. Always keep your standards. H. ... (read in full...)
I asked her out on a date but she didn't respond, is this a no?
Q. I asked her out on a date but she didn't respond, is this a no?...
A. 19 May 2008: How did you ask her? Text, email, phone, in person? H. ... (read in full...)
Should I send her this email telling her that I'm sorry if I pressured her? She's still hung up on her ex!
Q. hi i met a girl a few weeks ago that is still a bit hung up over her ex. he slept with someone behind her back but its her first bf and they've been together for years so she finding it hard to get over him. anyway we both like each other and...
A. 19 May 2008: I believe you should wait for a while and not be in touch with her. You are a little too available for her and are creating no challenge. Let her be for now and see if she initiates things.......H. ... (read in full...)
What do you do if he is not attracted to you?
Q. what do you do if you like a boy but he does not like you. My name is lola and i need boy help...
A. 19 May 2008: Lola, The short answer is nothing. You say he doesn't like you so why like a boy that doesn't like you? Do you know for sure that he doesn't? H. ... (read in full...)
It's been two weeks since I heard from him... I'm confused!
Q. I recently started dating a guy 2 months ago. We immediately hit it off and started spending a lot of time together. About 2 in a half weeks ago, he ended up moving out of the state back to his parents house since his brother had been murdered about ...
A. 16 May 2008: Two weeks may not necessarily be a long time considering what happened in his life. When I lost my mother to cancer, I was all over the place for a number of weeks and many things that I loved and liked were put on the back burner. Be patient for a ... (read in full...)
I fell for him, we've agreed to be just mates, but I'm still upset!
Q. advice if you were in my situatuion, iv know this guy for 2 years now, we'v always got on really well, and latly we got really close, i fell for him and i like him with all my heart, his parents even used to be friends with my parents when they were ...
A. 15 May 2008: Hello,
Have you told him how you feel?? Tell him and see what happens. If you know for sure that he doesn't want you, then friends will be difficult as you will have to live through knowing about his girlfriend. He only said he liked someone else... (read in full...)
If someone cheats on you when they are drunk, does that mean it's intentional?
Q. If someone cheats on you when they are drunk does that mean its done intentionally? My boyfriend has cheated on me when he's drunk, but when he's sober he would never......what does this mean? Can people that have cheated change as well once they ...
A. 14 May 2008: Think about if a guy uses violence on you when he was drunk. But when sober, he is a darling. Would that excuse him? H.... (read in full...)
His cum tastes awful, what can I do?
Q. Im sure many girls have this problem, but its really starting to bother me. I dont mind giving my boyfriend oral sex, but its the end that i literally CANNOT DO! the smell, the taste, just makes me wanna gag, ive asked friends and most of them say ...
A. 13 May 2008: Just as a thought...is he cut or uncut? Sometimes the foreskin may hold smells or whatever! uggh! Make sure he is clean to start with! H. ... (read in full...)
I can't seem to stop masturbating...
Q. I am a 15 year old guy, and I am a pleasure addict, I like to ''play with my self.'' I dont know why but I look up porno on the internet and masturbate, I do it like 5 times a day or less, I just stay at home and do it in my bathroom or my room, I'...
A. 13 May 2008: There are a lot of masturbation questions today!! You are young though so enjoy your pleasure! H. ... (read in full...)
Do I have a masturbation problem?
Q. well ever since age 14 [15 now] iv been having irges to have sex so when ever i do i masturbate ,but the thing is i constantly do it like 3 or 4 times a day is that natural,also y does it come out in small amounts ?...
A. 13 May 2008: It's sounds a lot of times so I would think you are using all your sperm up! But you are young at the moment so enjoy your pleasure! H. ... (read in full...)
Is masturbation murder?
Q. well as u all know ''sperm'' is pretty mutch something alive ,i mean it turns into a human if u have sexual intercourse with a woman ,well if people masturbate is it a sin ,as my freind said it ''mastubation is murder'' then he followed on ...
A. 13 May 2008: No it's not murder! Just enjoy and make yourself pleasure! H.... (read in full...)
Is a 4" penis sufficient?
Q. I am with 4" penis is it sufficient for sex?...
A. 12 May 2008: Of course it is sweetie!!
My partner is around that size and we're both very happy together! Try not to put too much emphasis on size OK!
My first love was about 4 so please stop worrying!
xx... (read in full...)
Four women are pregnant because wearing a condom is against my religion. What should I do?
Q. Let me explain. My girlfriend and I enjoy an open relationship where we each sleep with different partners from time to time. She's pregnant at the moment. It was unplanned. That would not be a problem only for the fact that there are four other ...
A. 28 April 2008: This seems bizare what's going on. I'm sure sex is only allowed inside of marriage if you are Christian or R.C.
Anyway, step back and look at what's happening....you have FOUR girls pregnant by you! You are having your "pleasure" and now see wher... (read in full...)
How can I get in touch with this guy I really like? I have no contact numbers for him.
Q. Well i met a boy 6 years ago and we were quite good friends, i've not been able to speak to him for 3 years, but still really fancy him. I have got no contact numbers or address or email for him, how can i contact him? I met him on holiday and it w...
A. 11 April 2008: Who is this Beth anyway? A girl his age? A friend? Why does she keep seeing him every year? H. ... (read in full...)
How can you tell is a guy is not a virgin?
Q. how would you know if the guys are already not virgin?...
A. 11 April 2008: There's no way really apart from signs of inexperience....not knowing how it goes in, nervous, very quick to cum, rushing to put it in. Although, a sexually matrure woman will have "an idea" that a guy is virgin. H. ... (read in full...)
I have no problem erecting but I can't "finish"-Help!
Q. I am 21 and when i have intercourse i cant get off. I dont know what is wrong with me but when i have sex i have no problem getting it hard and ready but once i start i just cant orgasum. The girls that I am with usually have to stop before i even ...
A. 4 April 2008: Different positions/angles can help? By the way, 14 inches sounds huge! I'd be too scared to know what that is in METRIC!!!!!! H. ... (read in full...)
I want to know if there any proven method of increasing penis size.
Q. I am a 20 year old male in good shape and healthy. But I have a small penis! It measures 5 inches when its erect, and when it isnt its about 2 inches. I've only had sex a couple times, and with this last girl I dated she refused to have sex with ...
A. 30 March 2008: In answer to your question....no, there isn't any proven method! If there was, it would become like viagra....loads of guys would want a piece of it!!!!! I certainly haven't had my ruler out when I've dated guys! I won't patronize you about size ... (read in full...)
Do you think he's gross to like me?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl, well I'm almost 14. Recently since I've been on msn, someone added me on their list. I accepted them because I might know the person. I asked them who they were. He said his name and that he was 26. I told him I was 13. Don't ...
A. 25 March 2008: NO NO block him!!!!!!! H. ... (read in full...)
How do I know if the baby his exgirlfriend is having is his?
Q. Hiya .. Well I have been seeing this boy for over 3 months now and I am crazy about him !! Its just that his ex-girlfriend is pregant? And shes almost 6 months pregant and they both finished the end of july start of august. I just want to know is ...
A. 25 March 2008: Just wait for the DNA test if there is one. I'd be rid of him before that anyway. Wake up!!!!!! If he has done this to an EX, then you will be next on his list!!!!!!! H. ... (read in full...)
Am I being to particular...this guy is perfect but he smokes.
Q. I've met the most fantastic fella: handsome, kind, intelligent and funny. I'd love to nave sex with him-but he smokes. Am I being too particular?...
A. 24 March 2008: Hi,
From what I understand about smoking, it becomes more psychological than physical. So, if you shout at him or give him ultimatums it will not help at all. Try to gently talk to him about it. Remember, don't pick at him, he probably no more want... (read in full...)
We both cheated but he impregnated another woman and must take fatherly responsibility, where does this leave us, should I marry him??
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for the past four years now. We used to live together in Colorado but had some relationship issues and I moved home to be with my family in Maryland. We have actually managed a decent relationship and fly to see ...
A. 24 March 2008: Hi, In later years, your boyfriend's child will always be a constant reminder that he made another girl pregnant. The child and then adult, will always be part of your life as you are married to his/her father. Christmas, birthdays, christen... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my alcoholic boyfriend or leave?
Q. i have got a alcholic boyfreind i have been with for 3 years had a kid with him with is 18 months old what shall i do should i stay with him or shall i leave him cause he is drinking more than what he did when i first got with him ...
A. 21 March 2008: Drinking at an increased rate only goes one way........Downhill.
Health, happiness, violence, money, assets, mates(?) are all risks. I don't know your feelings or love for this guy, but be warned. I personally couldn't stay too long with an exce... (read in full...)
Will there be enough room?
Q. mE and my boyfriend want to start having sex-our 1st time but we will only have a single size bed to start on.Will we have enough room to do it properly?...
A. 21 March 2008: Long ago, it was room enough for me! ;) H. ... (read in full...)
Do you think I should stop texting him altogether and wait till he texts me?
Q. Hi guys I hope you can help me with this. Ive been seeing a new guy for about a month and we have usually met up twice a week. Things are going really well apart from one thing. He used to live in the same place where i am in college but now he has ...
A. 21 March 2008: HI,
He doesn't seem to be doing enough for me to want this relationship/friendship. It could have been him moving away to another area....not your fault. Don't analyse the ifs and buts of all this, just slacken off now and see if he contacts you.... (read in full...)
I need closure, how long should I wait before calling him again?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years ago broke up with me about 2 weeks ago, because he said that i did not support him. he refuses to give me some sort of closure, and i have tried everything: i wrote him a letter, i have tried to call him and i have ...
A. 21 March 2008: Hi,
Just let it go now. He gave you closure. You said this was one of your options so that's it. You have it. You may wish to send him a small note to wish him good luck for his naval career etc. H. ... (read in full...)
Should I try to forget her or is there any hope to get her back?
Q. Well my name is chris. I broke up with my gierlfriend a week ago because I couldn't stand watching her treat me with much less interest and attention then she used to do. We were 2 and ahalf years together and during the last 2 months fighting and ...
A. 21 March 2008: Hi,
Leave it for now and just give yourself and her some space. Don't send notes of "I'll always be here for you" etc. (i would see that as needy) Just take the pressure out of everything and see how you feel in a couple of weeks. Let things cool... (read in full...)
Shall I ask him out or not?
Q. I have this male friend, who basically blew me off wen i asked him out, and he started goin out with my friend but recently he has been ringing and texting me, and flirting with me like crazy and its almost like he wants to ask me out but thinks ...
A. 21 March 2008: No, not again. If he is interested let him ask you.(you can say NO remember!) Just beware in case he is playing games with you to boost his ego. H. ... (read in full...)
How do I show her I love and care about her? I want her back!!!
Q. My girlfriend of two and a half months just broke up with me because I'm not good at showing her that I love her. I love her with all my heart, and she loves me. She's so good to me, I really believe she's the greatest girl I've ever met. I ha...
A. 21 March 2008: She doesn't sound the one for you at this stage. She's mad at your previous relationship and has made you suffer by finishing with you. Don't do anything now and see if she comes round. H. ... (read in full...)
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