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We broke up, but will there be a second chance??

Q.   Me and my girlfriend split up after 3 and a half years of being together, with a 4 month break up in between. The first time we broke up, she broke up with me and she contacted me on my birthday telling me how she felt about me, after a month of ...

A.   13 August 2011: One way forward is to resolve those unresolved issues. That is a positive start. ... (read in full...)

Hes dumped me 3 times, how do I get over this?

Q.   My ex dumped me 3 days ago... And i can not stop thinking about it. I didnt think there was anything wrong this time. He has dumped me 3 times... Each times he distances his self from me. Deletes me from facebook. Stops texting me. Then comes back ...

A.   13 August 2011: Don't keep taking him back. This causes you the stress. He is not the guy for you. Now, delete him and get rid of his contact information on your phone and everything else. ... (read in full...)

Broken hearted after break up with married ex boyfriend..

Q.   I met a wonderful man online and we became friends on an online game. I know some people are going to judge and thats ok. We all make mistakes, I never in my life had any interest in a married man and he never cheated on his wife until he met me and ...

A.   13 August 2011: He was a liar all the way. This wasn't a real relationship and you probably grieve the loss of something that wasn't real, just fantasized. Because you were getting over a tough 3 year break up, this man came along and pushed all the right buttons. ... (read in full...)

How can I get him to come home earlier and actually notice that I exist?

Q.   My husband works late every night (like 10pm ish-he is supposed to finish at 7pm). We have a 1 year old and I have been on maternity leave then made redundant so I am now a full time mum. My problem is the fact that I get no help from my husband ...

A.   12 August 2011: I'm curious as to why he comes home so late when he is supposed to finish at 7pm. I'm suspicious. Do know any reasons why he keeps coming home so late?... (read in full...)

We cant go anywhere because he used to go to these places with his ex!

Q.   My bf and I live in a small town, so there is only one cinema, one shopping cnetre etc. Now his ex also lives in the same small town (whereas I am from another city). Because him and his ex used to go to the cinema, shopping centre, coffee s...

A.   12 August 2011: Oh dear! I shall repeat so I'm not misreading it..."TEN years?" This is a very restricted relationship and certainly isn't fun for you. After ten years he now has conditioned himself to not use the Town. So, if you move to another place then sure... (read in full...)

My boyfriend had sex with a girl when we broke up for only 2 days!

Q.   I just found out that my boyfriend went and had sex with a girl once when we broke up for only 2 days. Technically he didn't cheat but it feels like it. He never told me, I had to find out from another person months later. He told me he regretted it ...

A.   12 August 2011: Two days was like lightning to sleep with another girl. He obviously had it in his mind before you broke up. You have a loss of trust and this affects you. So, you will not be happy staying with him. Ther pain of leaving or the pain of staying. ... (read in full...)

Will my penis still grow at 19?

Q.   This is a pretty embarrassing question but can my penis still grow at 19? I just turned 19 and my penis is exactly 5 inches. I know that is somewhat average, but it just feels really small to me. I've read a lot of studies and statistics and MOST ...

A.   11 August 2011: You are a fantastic size. I hope you will believe us all here. Really. Your size is perfect for a lady. My partner is less than 5 and I have been with a lot smaller and they were very pleasurable too. So, I hope you will find comfort in our words. ... (read in full...)

Am I being selfish in expecting him to come away for weekends without his elderly mother?

Q.   Hi there I could really use some advice here. I have just turned 40 with 2 grown up children. I was single up until 3 months ago when i met this nice man. To give a bit of his background, 3 years ago he split up with the mother of his child, at th...

A.   11 August 2011: Is there any way a compromise can be reached? I understand where you are coming from but I also can understand things from his perspective. Obviously his mother went through a lot with losing her husband through the illness and he wants to comf... (read in full...)

Every time I have sex with my new boyfriend, I can't help but cry because I still think of my ex...

Q.   I've been going out with a classmate of mine for about 2 months now, and we've been sexually active lately. Now, a couple months ago I had a terrible breakup with my ex for 2 years. I've known my ex longer than that because we were originally best ...

A.   11 August 2011: You are clearly not over your first boyfriend and taking "love and affection" from another man. Sadly, you now know this doesn't work. It doesn't work because of how you are feeling. Sadly, you will have to tell your new boyfriend that you are not ... (read in full...)

Male advice please: Why wont he tell his family I exist? Is he taking me for granted?

Q.   hi, i've been seeing my bf, who i love and feel he loves me, for a year now. My problem is that he is such an extremely private person that he won't introduce me to his family, let alone even tell them i exist! To add to this, he lives with his ...

A.   11 August 2011: Interesting. It seems he may have issues that he doesn't want to tell his family he is in a relationship with a girl who has a son. It seems he wants two seperate lives, one at home with his family, then another in a family. A year is a long time to ... (read in full...)

My ex suggests having a sort of FWB relationship and I don't know how I feel about it

Q.   Is it possible to remain friends and have sex with a man you love deeply and have spent many years with while moving on? He never cheated,or physical abuse but was very unhappy with himself and no matter what I did could not prove the the tr...

A.   11 August 2011: He just wants someone to have sex with. Don't sell yourself short and be used by him. All or nothing. Either full relationship or walk away. ... (read in full...)

I cant get rid of the evidence!

Q.   Hello, This is soooo embarassing but basically my mum has been away for a week and so is my dad so my boy friend came round and had sex. However when he climaxed the semen leaked onto my bed and there is now a large yellowey stain on my covers, ...

A.   10 August 2011: Soak in soda crystals, rub with vanish, buy a top brand washing powder and wash at high temperature. In future, lay a towel underneath when making love. If this doesn't work, how about spilling a little coffee on it? Coffee stains would be better ... (read in full...)

Dating 2 weeks and already there are problems

Q.   So I just started dating this girl 2 weeks ago and already there are problems. We met a year and 7 months ago when she was dating another guy named Hunter, and even though I reaaly liked her, I wasn't going to try and break them up. So they dated ...

A.   9 August 2011: Yes step down. You would only be her rebound. Step down and dont become part of their problems. ... (read in full...)

So many questions about this guy....anyone care to help?

Q.   so I need some help I guess... story goes I met this guy at a Christian retreat. he was the sweetest thin in the world. everything I want and nothing I don't. a Christian, which I just love his dedication to his faith. I'm extremely physically ...

A.   9 August 2011: Hi, How confusing. He seemed the perfect guy and did all the right things then nothing. The perfect catch which makes it so confusing. I know how frustrating this is. He cooled off for some reason. If he had a girlfriend then I doubt he would ha... (read in full...)

Fell for him at a spiritual retreat, he's married, how can we pursue this?

Q.   Hi all, I met this guy last year during a spiritual trip, and I fell for him completly. I thought he was my soulmate but then found out he was married. He seems to be in a loveless relationship. I am so willing to pursue him, and also I think th...

A.   8 August 2011: He WILL NOT divorce anybody. He is NOT in a loveless married. He is looking for an affair. He says about Facebook because he knows his friends and wife read it. Do not fall into this trap. Please please save yourself from years of sadness. ... (read in full...)

I don't understand his text message

Q.   I received this text off a guy. But this was part of the text. It said "I feel bad coz I enjoyed the flirting with you and that's why I haven't been talking to you..." What did he mean??...

A.   8 August 2011: Yes, he probably has a girlfriend. In any case, don't let him play games with you. If he does have a girlfriend, delete him. ... (read in full...)

He never texted me back! Give up?

Q.   Went on a date wedensday night with a guy I really liked and its now sunday night and he never texted back should I give up on him?...

A.   8 August 2011: I don't know about giving up yet. Have you texted him since? Why not send a short text, "Hi, what's up?" or something like that. It just puts you in his mind. If no reply then yes, give up. ... (read in full...)

It is a crime to upload sexy picture and could they be found on the internet later?

Q.   i want to upload some racy pictures on net of my girlfriend..dey arent nude but are sexy showing a little bit of cleavage here and there.. my questions are 1)i am from india and so is it a crime to upload pictures of my gf on net 2)is it safe and ...

A.   8 August 2011: Oh no. You shouldn't do that. You will lose her trust. You could have anyone in the world looking at those pics and masturbating. ... (read in full...)

I've developed feelings for my friend's 16 year old son, how can I make this go away?

Q.   Well here goes : i'm just 40 (look about 30-32-so i'm told)n seem to be having a mid-life crisis!! I've lost over 6 stone and feel great. Background: I'm married with 2 young children and a lovely caring husband who is the same age. Problem: ...

A.   3 August 2011: But you are married. You have a husband and family. Please don't throw this away. The 16 year old obviously enjoys your company and probably gets excited when he is with you. But please try not to encourage things anymore. It would be best to see ... (read in full...)

Is this cheating?

Q.   Is it cheating to make a profile on a dating site and chat to singles,with the intent of meeting? I cought my gf doing this and she said it was just to pass time, because she is at home all day doing nothing (I'm the only one that works). What...

A.   3 August 2011: Yes it is. She is on the site looking for another partner. She is trying out things and if she connects with someone, she will meet up. ... (read in full...)

I love my colleague but he is married! What can I do?

Q.   I made love to my workmate but now i feel so down and bad, he is married but wherever his wife comes to work i feel so bad. I feel so embarrassed and i want to quit the job and stop looking at him for a life time. What amazes me is that he does not ...

A.   3 August 2011: He doesn't mind because he gets pleasure with you and his wife. Don't be surprised by this. He gets to girls. You need to stop this now and then move forward with your life.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has a 19 year old pregnant girl on his hands. What next for our relationship?

Q.   So, things are bad and I find myself wishing I hadn't started this mess. I am crazy in love. I have been with this man for 9 months now and I spend almost everyday with him. Needless to say, I'm attached. He is also in love with me. Problem is m...

A.   3 August 2011: He obviously cheated on you. Some people like to dress it up as a mistake but really he cheated on you and had unprotected sex. Also, you now have the baby that will always always be a constant reminder that he cheated and made this girl preg... (read in full...)

We broke up a year ago. Is it time to move on?

Q.   Me and my ex split up a year ago after 5 years!I split up wiv him as we were arguing a lot! We stayed in contact an even went away together for a weekend.I said I didn't want a relationship with him, I later found out he took someone else away for ...

A.   2 August 2011: Yes. He has made it perfectly clear there is not a future for you both. That is it. Time to move on. ... (read in full...)

Penis size worry - (4 inches)

Q.   Hi Girls, can you please tell me if 4" size is ok for marriage it means 10cm is it enough to satisfy a woman? I know its not a micro penis but it is making me insecure and please advise which position is good to satisfy a woman with a 10cm penis ...

A.   2 August 2011: All OK. Around 4 to 6 are average. 4" will definitely satisfy a woman. The missionary would be good for this. ... (read in full...)

Should I consider us over?

Q.   The guy I've been seeing for the past 3 months has been kind of distant. I moved to a new city for work. Now I'm about an hour away and we haven't really had the break up talk. He doesn't pick up calls and he doesn't answer texts reliably. I ...

A.   2 August 2011: Yes I think this is finished. He has moved on. Don't waste any time on him. Let things go. ... (read in full...)

Should I hang on and wait to see if she comes back?

Q.   I have been texting this girl for 4 months. We got close, saying all those words. Then she became distant, finally breaking it off. She is going through a divorce. Kids involved. Should I try to hang on. Just texting, no actual contact yet....

A.   2 August 2011: I would just wait and see if she texts you. That's all you can do. If nothing in about 2 weeks, you could of course send a text to wish her well. I think things have closed now anyway but I think its worth a text. ... (read in full...)

If we are just "friends", why did she get all dressed up to go out with me?

Q.   Dear Agony Aunts, I know this girl and I like her, but she said she just wants to be friends. I was heartbroken at first but then said to myself, I like her enough so why not just be friends. So we made an arrangement last week to see a movie...

A.   18 July 2011: Hello, The friends things could be a problem for you because you obviously want more. If you want more from a girl then don't hang around in this situation wondering about things. No kiss or flirting all points to a platonic arrangement. Perh... (read in full...)

How do I start to gather some self respect and finally break all ties?

Q.   I have been with my married lover for 3 years. Over the years he has hurt me terribly and blamed it on 'being weak'. He has lied through his back teeth and it has gotten to the point were I'm struggling with everything he says. I am madly inlove w...

A.   17 July 2011: Hello, The female anon is right, I feel sure I remember a similar post about this a while back. Like I say, you need to make a decision that you will leave and then stick to it. Never doubt your decision. All the pain leaving is much less than the ... (read in full...)

I can't figure out his feelings towards me

Q.   hi heres my problem i like this man but he has been very hurt before he says he doesnt want a relationship as he has just split up with someone after 10 year nearly a year ago now i really like him we started seeing each other for 2 month and it was ...

A.   17 July 2011: Hello, So after the 10 year relationship he was with you for 2 months and broke off. This sounds very much that you were his rebound. However, I don't like the idea athat he is watching you etc. That is creepy. He has too much to deal with and... (read in full...)

I am so hurt, why do I let him do this to me?

Q.   We've been seeing each other on and off for a few months. We've slept together but he still doesn't want to be in a relationship with me. He keeps coming in and out of my life. It had been a month and out of the blue he contacted me again. I'm ...

A.   17 July 2011: Hello, He keeps coming back for sex. You are his reserve or fall back girl. That's why he keeps coming back. He has no interest in any relationship because he gets what he wants anyway when he feels like it. You need to cut this one out of your... (read in full...)

He pretended to be young, when really he is a 44 year old man! What should I do?

Q.   hi ... i'm a girl 18 ... i met some guy on on internet on a 3D game ..he told me his name is Paul and he is 18 ... i loved him ...he shown me some pic for young boy pretending its him.. after being his gf ... in some night he told me he is Ahmed ...

A.   15 July 2011: Hello, He is a very creepy person. Delete and block everything that moves. You do not know anything about him. It all could be a web of stories. Please delete and block. ... (read in full...)

Did I do something wrong? Or was he just not ready?

Q.   I've been dating this guy for about two months and our relationship has taken a relatively serious turn recently, as we both feel a very strong connection to one another and have even dropped the word "love". However, my guy has me a little puzzled ...

A.   15 July 2011: Hello, All OK in my book. Let things just naturally progress. From what you say he could well be virgin and that is great. He most probably hasn't released in the presence of a woman many times if not ever. So, I would just let things carry on as t... (read in full...)

Am I still a virgin? It didnt hurt or bleed!

Q.   This is very confusing and sometimes i think am still a virgin. i had sex with my first boyfriend and i did not bleed nor did it hurt. is this normal? i told my friends and they said am either abnormal or my boyfriend's dick was too small or wea...

A.   15 July 2011: Hello, As So Very Confused says you are no longer a virgin. I did bleed, but we are all different you know. I suppose, some do and some don't. But in any case, you are no longer a virgin. ... (read in full...)

Dating a guy with a child: Good or bad idea?

Q.   I've recently met a guy and we hit it off, so have planned a few dates over the next few weeks. We have been texting daily and getting to know each other better, and today he told me that he has a son. Now I have never dated anyone with a ch...

A.   15 July 2011: Hello, Thank you for follow up. Yes, he has the child evry weekend which is good. However, just remember that when you are dating or getting serious he will always have the child at the weekend. You will not have the "freedom" that newly dati... (read in full...)

Dating for a year and never gone on a "date" yet!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. We get along fine and time with just ourselves is great. We have never gone on a date yet. I've tried to plan 3 but always something came up with my bf and the date would be called off. Afte...

A.   15 July 2011: Hello, Yes, he is hiding you away i'm afraid. I wonder if anyone actually knows about you from his family. The Facebook situation says it all I'm afraid. He doesn't want people to know about you. I wonder if he has many photos of you together? Just... (read in full...)

I'm 24 and still a virgin, is this normal?

Q.   Hi cupid, I'm a "straight" guy age 24 and im still virgin.. is it normal? ...

A.   14 July 2011: It's normal. Nothing to worry about. ... (read in full...)

What is his problem?

Q.   Basically I don't know what's wrong with my friend. We used to be so close but things have changed. I don't get what's wrong with him. Last summer it was the first time he started flirting with me and I told him not to. So he avoided me for ...

A.   14 July 2011: Hello, He fancies you and you don't see him that way. Therefore, he pulled back. He doesn't want a friendship, he wants you as his girlfriend. You don't want that so he doesn't invest time in you anymore. Don't expect him to ever be just a frie... (read in full...)

LDR boyfriend wasn't interested in sex this time. I don't know what to do!

Q.   Im really confused about my boyfriend. We have been in a LDR FOR 6 months. I had not seen him since february until he came and stayed with me on tuesday. I was expecting it to be amazing but Im really disappointed. We had sex, and the first time was ...

A.   14 July 2011: Hello, I just got suspicious here and wondered if he had another girl. I don't know this and I'm only being suspicious. It's just that he seemed keen for the first time but then pulled back. I wonder did he get a touch of guilt or confusion? But p... (read in full...)

After I told him I was a virgin he doesn't talk to me anymore! What is going on?

Q.   I met this guy at a basketball court he seemed nice meaning as he introduce himself to my mom,so any ways we decided to kik it the next day with his friends in the night on a hill,it seemed to go okay and wed write eachother on facebook but after he ...

A.   14 July 2011: Hello, How strange. Some guys would jump at having their potential gf a virgin. Let it go now, you have probably had a lucky excape with him. Be proud and don't think being a virgin spoils anything. ... (read in full...)

Dating a guy with a child: Good or bad idea?

Q.   I've recently met a guy and we hit it off, so have planned a few dates over the next few weeks. We have been texting daily and getting to know each other better, and today he told me that he has a son. Now I have never dated anyone with a ch...

A.   14 July 2011: Hello, Putting aside all the positives about the guy, if it bugs you that he or any future date may have children, then you need to accept this. It is how you feel. While things are at the initial stage, think through this. I fully appreciate that... (read in full...)

Does an ultrasound carry the father's name?

Q.   I want to know something about baby ultrasounds. When a copy of the ultrasound is printed, does it carry the name of the baby's father on it? ...

A.   14 July 2011: Not in UK. The records will only be of mother. ... (read in full...)

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