I can never talk to my LDR boyfriend anymore and I may be pregnant!
Q. My boyfriend and I are in a Long distance relationship only a 2hour drive away. Were almost at a year in January but have been friends for 5 year going on 6. These past three months he's hardly talked to me but he doesn't stop completely. One ...
A. 3 November 2011: Hello,
The first thing to do is to have a pregnancy test and check your body. Make an appointment with your medical doctor and make sure YOU are in good health and if you are pregnant.
With regards to your LD boyfriend, he has indeed gone ver... (read in full...)
I'm 6 weeks pregnant, against abortion and the guy is no longer interested in me and has a girlfriend
Q. 6 wks pregnant and worried about our relationship? Is he done with me now? What should I do? I'm 18 and have been in college mostly interested in singing only interesting thing about college is this guy I'm highly attracted to. We had hooked up...
A. 3 November 2011: Hello,
Yes, you have already had the advice on what to do from pinktopaz. There are two seperate issues.
1. You are pregnant.
2. Is he interested?
You will have to deal with being pregnant first and tell this man that you are carrying his chi... (read in full...)
I want to be the girl he fell in love with. What to do now, after messing things up completely?
Q. I am looking for some advice from all of you. So far I have used this forum quite a few times and got very sound advice. Thank you! My LD boy friend and I had a massive fall out last night. So much so that he said if I carried on it was over. ...
A. 2 November 2011: Hello,
How far are you (distance) living apart? Is there a chance of a meet up? Thanks.... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to tell someone you think they have narcissism?
Q. I have been reading some information on narcissism and am pretty sure this is what my husband has. He thinks he's better than everyone else and will only talk to people he deems good enough so can be rude to other people. He thinks only about ...
A. 1 November 2011: He's a bully. There is more than self'regard with this man. He barks his orders out, chooses who he wants to talk to, rude to others. Yet I bet there is a load of people that are pleased he doesn't talk to them. Maybe he drinks, maybe he smokes, ... (read in full...)
He said I can't get pregnant because he didn't cum
Q. My boyfriend broke the hymn in my vagina and didnt wer a condom after he broke it he put on a condom he said You cant get pregnant as he didnt come is that true?...
A. 9 October 2011: He was obviously aroused to start so there is always a chance of pre sperm. In future insist on condoms only or no sex. It is much safer and protects against pregnancy and STi's. ... (read in full...)
Let me give you the tools to beat 'Retro jealousy' I now possess them!
Q. I write with excitement and hope that my experiences might help others that have had similar problems. You may remember a post I made back on the 15th Oct 2010 titled: Girlfriend was a prostitute and slept with over 350 men before I paid for h...
A. 8 October 2011: What a great post. I truly wish you the best and hope your lovely lady is doing well with her and your little girl. xx... (read in full...)
If a girl is slow to reply to your messages, does this mean she isn't interested?
Q. If a girl is slow to reply to your messages, does this mean she isn't interested? I went out with a girl this week and we seemed to have a really nice night together. It started timidly, but then we relaxed and enjoyed our evening. It even ended ...
A. 8 October 2011: Hello,
Yes, the only way you will find out is if you call her. Try the call on Sunday and see what happens. If you get the voicemail or she doesn't answer then that is because she knows who is calling and doesn't want to talk. It's worth a call... (read in full...)
Is masturbating nasty? Some girls say it is. Girls don't like me
Q. I am 29 year old i have been single for 5 years now . Girls dont like me because i am stocky and they say that i am ugly . Is masturbateing nasty? because i do it every night . I started doing it when i was younger. Don't girl...
A. 8 October 2011: Yes, some girls do masturbate. And for you, it is your choice and there is nothing nasty about it. You enjoy and have pleasure. Don't listen to what these girls say. Start meeting other more mature girls. ... (read in full...)
I've been there for her. Yet she doesn't want others to know about me. Is there anything worth waiting for in all this, for me?
Q. what does my ex want from me? my ex and I broke up years ago, we decided to stay friends, but it seem to me at cost. it seem ok at first but i began to wonder, over the years, she dated other people, and so have i. but i think i put myself in toubl...
A. 8 October 2011: Yes, you do really need to lose contact here. This is not a good thing to have in your life now as it is fraught with these problems. ... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing by breaking up with my boyfriend?
Q. I'm breaking up with my boyfriend today, and I just need some support that I'm doing the right thing. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. In January we moved in together. He and my other roommate really didn't like eachother and ...
A. 7 October 2011: What if you spoke to him about the drinking,smoking and pornography? Tell him about how it affects you and also your church values. See what his response is. Listen to how he handles this. Perhaps he could begin moves to stop the drinking and to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is taller than me, and I don't know how to kiss him!
Q. Ok so i'm 13, never had my first kiss, but i have a boyfriend in 8th (i'm in 7th). We have been together for like 2 days but i know the kiss is coming sooner or later (dont judge). I'm a shortie 4'9" and he's 5'8" big diffrence to me. To get the ...
A. 6 October 2011: Hello, well it might seem a problem but kissing is romantic and you both will find a way. I dated a lovely 6feet8 guy and he used to have to stoop to get under my street door at my flat. We both used to laugh at this and he used to stoop in and out ... (read in full...)
I didn't want to move too fast and now he thinks I'm not interested!
Q. hey, i am a female and i am a little confused. i went out recently with a young man after two weeks of knowing him. he kissed me on my neck. ears and caressed my thighs and nipples. I don't know want happened but i was wet all over and almost had ...
A. 16 September 2011: Is he still calling? Are you still dating? Why you think he doesn't want you?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants our LDR to be an open relationship...
Q. My boyfriend and I had been dating about three months when our relationship became long distance due to circumstances beyound our control. It's been three months since I had to move, and we've only been able to see each other once since then. ...
A. 16 September 2011: No he just wants it his way. I'm afraid it could be the end of the road for you both now. I do suspect he would be with other girls regardless purely from the way he has suggested things. Its either an agreement that you both be open or neither. ... (read in full...)
How do I stop feeling a tiny bit betrayed about LDR boyfriend's actions?
Q. Yesterday evening, my LDR boyfriend from on the Continent met up with one of his female friends for a bite to eat and a couple of drinks. For a laugh, they decided to sneak into the place where he works since they weren't too far away and he has a ...
A. 15 September 2011: Hi,
Well he told you so that is a big plus. However, by telling you it has now got into your mind and it will be difficult to shake off. It could be totally innocent, it could be the start of gradually ending things. Ldr are played out in the mind... (read in full...)
Attracted to damaged/broken girls
Q. Ok, at 20 I know i'm young for this whole sort of thing. But i realise i seem to either attract or am automatically attracted to somewhat broken or troubled girls. At first glance. You would not be able to tell (heck, my brain can't tell, if it ...
A. 15 September 2011: You Sir are a rescuer. You function one to one by rescuing girls. You attract them because they look around for a helper and find one in you. When you have served your purpose, they have no need for you. So, ask yourself why you need to rescue ... (read in full...)
I love him and want him back, but he seems so happy.
Q. My ex boyfriend broke my heart and im still hurtinf so much from it, hes the only person i want no one could ever replace him, but he seems to so happy at the minute he keeps putting status's on facebook about how happy he is and how well his life ...
A. 13 September 2011: Nothing. You have now broken up. The best thing to do is to delete him, cut all contact and begin to get over him. Time will help you-it really does. However, you won't get over him if you keep checking his profile updates. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend just told me she wanted to be friends out of the blue. What should I do?
Q. Dear cupid.Am kind of confuse about my relationship right now my girlfriend wokeup one morningand told me she don't want a boyfriend any more that we can just be friend and noting attached to it. I ask her the reasons but she never gave any ...
A. 13 September 2011: OK, she wants friends which means she has broken up with you. So, what you do now is say, "I don't do friends" and then walk away. You may be surprised at the effect this has. In any case, if you go for the friends then you will barely see her ... (read in full...)
He left money for me on the bedside table and left without saying goodbye
Q. Hi I met a guy at a festival and we had really good sex so we arranged to meet up again back home. We live different sides of the country so we met in the middle and got a hotel for the night. I was aware that this was just sex however what hap...
A. 13 September 2011: Well, you both hooked up. He just viewed things as a night of passion, paid his half for the hotel and then went back to his hometown. He deleted as he has now finished with things. Casual is not for me but look back on things as fun, exciting and ... (read in full...)
I did not know he had a girlfriend! Should I tell her he had sex with me?
Q. I never thought I would be the "other woman." I had broken up with a boyfriend after finding out about his infidelity. Since then I had gotten a new boyfriend and moved to a different city. However, my new boyfriend didn't work out, and my ex h...
A. 13 September 2011: Don't bother. Just get rid of him from your life, delete and then block on Facebook. ... (read in full...)
From start to finish in 4.5 months?
Q. I'll keep this short as possible. If a couple met and dated 4 1/2 months (long distance) then got married and had a kid within a year...what are the chances it wt wil. Work? Please help...thanks...
A. 13 September 2011: I just read the follow up. Very doubtful that will work.... (read in full...)
If a girl lets you do things for her, does it mean she likes you?
Q. I met this girl and she asks me to drive her places, and I helped her move. I also help her out by giving her advice. My best bud says if a girl is always looking to you to help her with stuff it means she likes you. I am not sure though. I really ...
A. 13 September 2011: Hi, She likes the things being done for her! There is no hard rule on this I'm afraid and we are all different when it comes to friend or lover or boyfriend or husband. I'm not too sure about saying how you feel because I've been shocked a few ti... (read in full...)
Virginity, sex and relationships
Q. Good evening, I have thought of something that rather disturbs me and has for quite sometime. I'm currently 22 years old and I'm a virgin. I know I shouldn't feel embarrassed by it, but it seems that virginity is lost in highschool to th...
A. 13 September 2011: Hi,
There is nothing great about losing it in a worthless fling. I got duped at 17 on holiday and never saw him again. I felt the loser by the way. You should get to know a girl first and not place a big emphasis on the sexual side. Get to know... (read in full...)
Job search etiquette -- did I screw up?
Q. I have been stressing out over a job i really want and didn't hear back from. Turns out they want me to come in for a second interview. I didn't have the best of luck today though..i have some vmails saved due to personal reasons and business..i ...
A. 13 September 2011: Hi,
You are stressed about getting this job so you are analysing every minute detail. That's normal. I had a job interview once, changed shoes, tights, top about 3 times, looked in mirror, changed hair style, changed it back, changed make-up, chan... (read in full...)
From start to finish in 4.5 months?
Q. I'll keep this short as possible. If a couple met and dated 4 1/2 months (long distance) then got married and had a kid within a year...what are the chances it wt wil. Work? Please help...thanks...
A. 13 September 2011: There is no way of knowing. There is no strict rule. But they did LDR then married then made a baby so things look good so far to have done this. ... (read in full...)
Would u have sex with someone if they promised a job?
Q. would u have sex with someone if they promised you a job or if theyd support you but you were a virgin...
A. 12 September 2011: Never. No way especially as it steals the virginity too. Please don't if you have been offered. ... (read in full...)
Can this LD relationship work?
Q. I have fallen for a girl in another city, about 100 miles away, we both drive so I guess its not to much of a issue, the real issues are I work 60 hours a week, she has a ex bf who is always in the picture, she has a 2 yr old. she is 4 years ...
A. 12 September 2011: Hi,
The distance would be fine for an LDR. Modern cars, trains etc make it easier. Couple of hours drive etc. Adding a little to this, ask yourself if you want to get involved with this psycho ex? He will obviously have rights to see his daug... (read in full...)
Why, when I reach out to her does she still blank me out? Seems I cannot do anything right with her?
Q. I suspect the possible answers to this one, but just want to be sure. A friend of mine, not spoken to her since July, I made all the effort, it wasn't given back. I sent her a letter last week as I heard it was an anniversary that wasn't too p...
A. 5 September 2011: Well, she has obviously pulled away. I doubt we will ever know the real reasons. We could guess a few things but it could be anything. One thing to remember though is that if you know you have done nothing wrong, then it is her issues. She has her ... (read in full...)
Why, when I reach out to her does she still blank me out? Seems I cannot do anything right with her?
Q. I suspect the possible answers to this one, but just want to be sure. A friend of mine, not spoken to her since July, I made all the effort, it wasn't given back. I sent her a letter last week as I heard it was an anniversary that wasn't too p...
A. 5 September 2011: It is hard to say, Did you ask to date her before July? Do you have feelings for her? Are you hoping she will be a girlfriend? Or, if you are just friends, did you fall out? I'm asking these questions as they will add to our possible advice. Thanks.... (read in full...)
She asked me to put lipstick on her
Q. This girl i really like asked me to put her lipstick on her and at the time i thought she just asked me because she didnt have a mirror and thought i could do it better but does it mean more than that? and i said i wouldn't trust myself in a jokey ...
A. 2 September 2011: Oh you should have done it! That's a very intimate thing to do to a girl. Wait for the next flirt. Then enjoy!... (read in full...)
We were having great dates and then.... utter silence for 2 weeks!
Q. Hi there, Ok I know this has happened to some women before but it has not happened to me. I was seeing what seemed like a great guy, we were going out on dates, meeting each others friends. I even met his brother. I am 30 he is 28. We ...
A. 1 September 2011: Just reading on from the theme of the weekend, did he know you were going away and what were his thoughts? I do find it a little strange he would check out due to your weekend away. I think you could get in touch and ask why he hasn't been in touch. ... (read in full...)
I cant get over the fact I'm not going to be her first kiss!
Q. I've never been kissed. My girlfriend has. We met in person, now long distance, it has been almost a year. She was kissed years ago, and it still makes her feel used to me. It hurts so bad, and I am so depressed. I've waited my whole life for h...
A. 17 August 2011: Hi,
Is a kiss just a kiss or more? Like sleeping together? Early 20's you would expect a girl has made love before. Perhaps you have built up a picture and image of your girl due to the long distance. We all can imagine an ideal person from a dist... (read in full...)
How can I make sure my lover's wife found out about us without him knowing I did it?
Q. I am having an affair with a man from work. I am single, he has been with his partner for about 5 years and they have lived together for one or two years. We worked very closely together for over a year. he had feelings for me throughout this ...
A. 15 August 2011: I made a promise to myself a number of years ago that I would never help someone to break up another marriage/partnership. My word to you is he has a partner so he is not available. She may have fertility disappointment so please don't add to her ... (read in full...)
It started as a joke but things have changed
Q. Hi guys. so I have a problem and really need advice because its eating me up completely! so im 21 and im a student. and me and a friend were on an online dating website about a week ago just looking and we decided to make me a profile. I gave a f...
A. 15 August 2011: In the circumstances, because everything is fake, I would close your account down and don't contact him. It's 5 days, it's not the end of the world. Close the account now and move on. That way you have stopped things quickly. Let things go. ... (read in full...)
Should I just keep talking to my ex to help her? Or cut her off completely?
Q. Hi. I broke up with my girlfriend a month ago (we're not getting back together, don't suggest us to) but she's been really depressed and miserable without me. She's always been depressed, but she's even worse off without me. I'm very worried abou...
A. 14 August 2011: Delete everything and stop contact. She is OK. She has other guys. You are not responsible for her. ... (read in full...)
How can I deal with this online guy who seems to want nothing but sex?
Q. Okay so I met this guy online through a dating site, he seemed nice but never really spoke about himself much, which always bothered me, then we chatted online with web cam but he wouldn't let me hear his voice at first, later he told me he doesn't ...
A. 14 August 2011: Just delete his details and don't contact anymore. He is not suitable for you. There are a lots of other people on those sites to communicate. Just delete. Problem solved. ... (read in full...)
She didn't keep in contact to arrange our date. What should I do??
Q. Hello, So I met a girl a few weeks ago at Comic Con. We met there in the morning, had lunch together, hung out throughout the day, and even ended up having dinner together with a few of her friends as well. I contacted her a few days later a...
A. 14 August 2011: At the moment all you can do is wait to see if she contacts. She was the one that said she would contact but she didn't. I would say, leave it until Tuesday and then send a brief hello text. If nothing after then, just forget things. ... (read in full...)
Does this girl like me romantically or just being friendly?
Q. My question is does this girl like me in a slightly romantic way? BACKGROUND: So I work for a library, and this lady who frequents the library is always looking at me smiling and finding something to chit chat about. I'm oblivious to flirtation so ...
A. 13 August 2011: Yes definitely interested. She gave you number, asked about your plans, invited you, talked to you. Yes. Now it's over to you to contact her. If you do decide to miss the invite make 100% sure you then immediately suggest another meet up within a ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl and I thought the feeling was mutual...but she's cold and distant now
Q. Hey guys, I've posted about this before, and it's been a long and really confusing past few months. There's this girl, who I met at a party, then we ended up becoming friends. She's kind of different to other girls, and she's kind of unpred...
A. 13 August 2011: She changed her mind. Don't ask her friends about her and don't believe the "busy with exams" rubbish. She went overseas and then no longer wanted to text, talk etc. don't look for reasons as there probably aren't any. Just accept that she has gone ... (read in full...)
I love older women .i want to have sex with one but HOW do I interest one?
Q. I'm attracted to older women.. ok so i'm 19 yrs old and i love older women..like i think they are so hot..my friends make fun of me but i tell them the truth ..i just love them like i want to have sex with one..but I don't know how to get one inte...
A. 13 August 2011: Yes, sign up to an internet dating site. Then contact the ladies in your proposed age band, say 40 to 65, and start talking to them and find out if you have any common ground. Be polite and as you are normaly and see what happens. Good luck and be ... (read in full...)
ARE men really turned off by virgins?
Q. Why are men turned off by virgins? What is it about virgins that scare men?...
A. 13 August 2011: I have always thought men have been turned on by virgins. When younger, I remember a few boyfriends being rather sad that I wasn't. So, from experience, they were sad their girlfriend wasn't. ... (read in full...)
We broke up, but will there be a second chance??
Q. Me and my girlfriend split up after 3 and a half years of being together, with a 4 month break up in between. The first time we broke up, she broke up with me and she contacted me on my birthday telling me how she felt about me, after a month of ...
A. 13 August 2011: One way forward is to resolve those unresolved issues. That is a positive start. ... (read in full...)
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