He's masturbating in his sleep and says he can't remember doing it!!!
Q. I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about a month now. We have previously dated for 4 months last year and have decided to give it another go. Everything is going fine, much better than the last time, except there is one thing that kee...
A. 6 January 2009: Hello,
Yes, it does sound normal to me. I sometimes get woken up by his rubbing the thing and he really is asleep doing it. I've come to accept it and just giggle or help him out!
I probably do things that wake him up as well that I don't kn... (read in full...)
Advice from experienced taller, big foot skiiers wanted please!
Q. My husband and I are going skiing for the first time. We have a package that includes rental hire which includes boots. My husband is 6ft 7 and wears size 14 UK shoes. I am very concerned that we may get there and there could be a chance they are ...
A. 6 January 2009: Hello,
Yes, you need to do this well in advance before you travel. My bf is a 13(48 euro) and we always arrange a pair through our travel agent or we phone the actual hotel/resort. Any sizes from 12 to 14 are considered outsizes. And i know that... (read in full...)
She never told me that she had a boyfriend!
Q. This is going to be a little long. I met this girl in one of my college classes. The flirting started when every time she would walk pass, she would turn around make eye contact and smile at me. Most of the time she would end up sitting near me ...
A. 19 December 2008: Hello,
Yes, you got her number from friends...that was a bit creepy. Really, her friends shouldn't have given you that. When you text her, it may have worried her so she didn't reply. that was the time to leave it. Then a few months later when you ... (read in full...)
What do you think he's trying to tell me?
Q. hi ..l just met someone online and we r gettin along so good so far then when l told him l will be leavin myspace then he replied back to me sayin tht ( u cant leave me and l need you ) !!! now what is he tryin to tell me ??? does he like me or mo...
A. 19 December 2008: Hello,
Yes, as per deejuliet, he is teasing and having fun and saying......"don't go...please don't leave" It's friendly fun at the moment with teasing!!! xxxx... (read in full...)
Do nice guys finish last?
Q. hi, A girl I met at uni a year ago now are really good friends. Last month I asked her out but she said that she just wants to be friends and that is all that she wants from me. So just now she is seeing someone. Her flatmates don't und...
A. 17 December 2008: This reminds me of 15 odd years ago when I was dating a nice guy as you put it. I put him in the friend's category after a few months but still took his gifts, cards, xmas presents that followed. Still knew he would call, care, take me out etc.
O... (read in full...)
Are doctors used to silly questions like this? Should I ask?
Q. I am looking for some female advice, I am thinking about going to the doctors just to ask if everything is ok "down below", I have always felt a little unsure if I am "normal" and I was just wondering if doctors are used to "silly" questions like ...
A. 28 November 2008: Hello,
All OK. This is all confidential...talk about all concerns with regards to your health. Please never be afraid to ask your GP what you feel are silly questions....you can ask your GP about all concerns...down below, poo, sweating, eyes, ears... (read in full...)
He's a virgin????
Q. I love my bf and everything he does. Yeah the band teach! I got over the thing with him and Starla. He asked me if I ever wanted to have kids with him. I'm 21 and he is 38. I really want to but I am in college and he has band and all his other ...
A. 23 November 2008: I don't believe a word of it. Total rubbish. It will cost YOU your virginity. xxx... (read in full...)
When is too soon to be committed to someone after a divorce..
Q. Ok I've been separated from my husband that I was with for 10 years and have 2 children with for 6 months. It was my choice and I have never felt better since. I've been over it, since the day he walked out the door. I have dated 2 rebound guys ...
A. 23 November 2008: Hello, If you feel you are ready then tell him you wish to take things slow. He may want more too fast, but that is the chance you take. See how things go slowly. xxx ... (read in full...)
Is my penis length natural?
Q. Hii. I am wondering if my erection is normal. First of all I guess I should tell you my age, its very embarrasing. I am only 13 years old but my erection is 6-7 inches. Is that normal? I've looked at multiple length charts and all of them said ...
A. 17 November 2008: hello, Yes, within 4 to 7 would all be what you call normal. xxx... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid I need help badly..
Q. Dear Cupid, I need help. I have meet this man whom I thought I could have a relationship with, how very wrong I was... after 3 weeks into the relationship he told me he was married with 3 children, he told me he plans to leave his wife after xmas,...
A. 16 November 2008: Hello,
Big red flag from me I'm afraid! Think that it took him 3 weeks to tell you he is married. Certain things you bring up in conversation as the relationship moves along but being married needs to be said from day one. He didn't say.
If yo... (read in full...)
Do you think he will be able to tell I am a virgin at 25? He has a bad reputation too...
Q. I need some advice, any gratefully welcome. I am a 25 year old virgin (yes 25), I have never ever had a boyfriend (never), I don't really know why it just never happended, anyway, a guy who works with me has started to show an interest and we ...
A. 14 November 2008: Hello,
By all means accept if you like him.
As he is leaving in January, this may be a fling or something and it will cost you your virginity. You say he has a bad boy rep, so he will probably "guess" you are either sexually inexperi... (read in full...)
My first time was great...is there something wrong with me?
Q. hey. urm, well here goes.. me and my boyfriend have been together now for 7 months, im 16 and he is 19, we decided today to have sex for the first time, my parents are out until sunday so we had a free house, and it went pretty well, exept ive ...
A. 14 November 2008: Hello, Sounds perfect to me! A super guy to treasure and a beautiful way to lose your virginity. xxx ... (read in full...)
I feel like I should just move on, but I can't!
Q. Hello everyone. We are back together for few weeks after a major fight. Since then, we don't meet each other much. She always missed my calls and not calling back. She said she is busy with her work. She works at night but recently, she sa...
A. 14 November 2008: Hello, From what you describe she isn't interested. Don't play into this game of missed calls, invisible online, busy, working and all that rubbish. Just don't contact anymore and delete her. The anon below was very accurate with their post. al... (read in full...)
Should I be more open minded and not show him that I'm jealous and interested?
Q. The man I'm dating likes to go out together when he has time and he likes to communicate but he doesn't say to me about a serious relationship. He has told me that he doesn't want a commitment and he just wants to have good time. Although I am ...
A. 14 November 2008: Hello, Sorry to say walk away. I read moongoddess and she is correct. This may go on for a long time with this man and you will hope and hope and hope.....but he won't committ. I don't like all this friend sharing and games either. Have fun... (read in full...)
My penis size worries me
Q. I am 22yrs old n a virgin. My penis is just 4.5 inches long. This worries me very much. Please honestly tel me if i would be able to satisfy a girl sexually with my penis? Is there anything i can do to increase its size? Is it normal? i masturba...
A. 13 November 2008: Hello,
The news is all good...you will be able to pleasure a girl, pleasure yourself and also make girls pregnant. Try not to wonder about size and making things bigger, there are other things that girls look for and penis size is not some... (read in full...)
Step by step blow job instructions?
Q. My boyfriend want me to give him a blow-job but i dont know how. Can anyone explain it to me....like step by step please! thanks so much!!...
A. 13 November 2008: Step by step information??? I'm blushing already! xxx... (read in full...)
If I masturbated before, do I still count as a virgin?
Q. if i masturbated before do i still count as a virgin? i don't know if i've had an orgasm. i really like the way it feels to masturbate, but when my boyfriend asks if i'm a virgin do i tell him yes? i do it almost twice a week. ...
A. 13 November 2008: Yes you are virgin. Generally speaking, the definition of being a virgin is someone that hasn't had sex before. Therefore, until a penis has penetrated you, you are still a virgin. xxx ... (read in full...)
Should I call or text him? I want us to be friends.
Q. ive broken up with my boyfriend of over a year for various reasons. mainly the fact that i felt more like we we friends. he also did things that were strange, like calling me from a private number, and lied to me at the start of our relationship...
A. 13 November 2008: Hello,
If he took it very badly I doubt very much he will want to be in touch as friends. Go ahead and text, he may say "yes, that's fine."..........and never contact you again. Happened to me anyway. xxx... (read in full...)
I had sex with her, she is due to give birth soon, don't know if it is my child, what to do?
Q. o, i slept with my brothers girlfriends sister and she is due to have her baby next month, however has not mentioned it could be mine as she now has a boyfriend who has admitted he doesnt think it is his? Do I approach her? What do i say?...
A. 12 November 2008: Hello,
Yes, a DNA test. When the baby is born. Obviously, you worked out the times you had sex with this girl. What is interesting is the current bf reaction that he doesn't think her baby is his. He must have serious doubts to say this and must... (read in full...)
Losing my virginity...
Q. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 21, we've been going out for over 4 months and we are both still virgins. Tomorrow we've decided to go all the way but I'm scared it will hurt and that I won't know what to do can anyone help me please. I love him and it ...
A. 11 November 2008: Take it slowly really. It can hurt, well at least mine did, and be prepared for the bleeding. Perhaps use something to protect the sheets or mum and dad will find out!!!!!!!! Good luck, xxx... (read in full...)
Why does a man's penis sometimes get hard when someone puts a finger in his anus?
Q. Why does a man's penis sometimes get hard when someone puts a finger in his anus?...
A. 11 November 2008: If you manage to press another button in there, he will do something else as well...xxxx... (read in full...)
If I can't get a hooker, how can I stop being horny?
Q. im constantly horny, and im not 18, i cant just go and get a prostitute. what should i do?...
A. 10 November 2008: Hello,
It's best to masturbate lots of times throughout the day. xxx... (read in full...)
I'm really worried! What exactly is making my erection disappear?
Q. ok, im 17 and i have a girlfriend who is 16 and we've been together for a year now, we've had lots of foreplay but whenever we've tried to have sex, whenever i've tried to put on a condom on, my erection disappears. i've definately been putting the ...
A. 7 November 2008: Hello,
Blackroses sums it all up perfectly. It's simply the pause in the moment and you are not alone with this. I've seen lovely strong bananas turn into little tiddlers during this act of putting the condom on. One tip...buy extra condoms and ... (read in full...)
Women's comparrison of sex partners
Q. Hí. I've been reading around and found some answers wich i consider a little scary. I read that women always remember previous sex partners and compare current partner with them. So i have a double question about this for women: 1.- Wich's the re...
A. 6 November 2008: Hello, Just to add to Talktoomuch answer..I was with a guy once and he was inexperienced, nervous, terrified in fact and yet, when we had finally managed to "get there in the end" he thanked me. Yes, he thanked me and it has stayed in my thoughts... (read in full...)
I was ripped off before - do I risk going through the same thing again?
Q. Two months ago I met someone who treats me really well, says he loves me, is gentle and kind etc etc etc. He lives around 70 miles away and stays with me 2 nights a week whilst he is off work. I go to his flat 1 night a week when I can (I have a ...
A. 6 November 2008: Hello, No, too much of a risk for your daughter and equity. Also, Don't keep going for bullying men. You know the signs so kick them into touch! xx... (read in full...)
Is she testing me after 8 months of nonsense?
Q. Hi Everyone, I have been dating this girl (# 1) (28 years old) for 8 months. Months ago she basically said only friend status. Days later from that she went on vacation and I met another women. I dated her (lets call her # 2) for a couple mon...
A. 6 November 2008: Hello, Yes, Passionatelynumb and Mandy have answered this for you. I'm sorry for you that I have to agree too. You will drive yourself mad with trying to be with her and you never will. Either friends or No Contact I'm afraid. xxx... (read in full...)
We didn't break up on bad terms, so why won't he talk to me?
Q. Hey everyone. I've had something on my mind now for a little while now and thought I'd get some insight into what other people may think about it! Well, basically the back story is that I recently broke up with a long-term bf (2.5years). For...
A. 5 November 2008: Hello, Although I can't offer any real answers a similar thing happened to me. I was with a guy for around 6 months, very close, friendly. I had so much respect and days out and evenings out, dinners, gifts. You name it! I decided to cool ... (read in full...)
We had sex and haven't talked since!! I don't understand her.
Q. So I met this woman, we went out a couple of times, spent the night the first night (only to third base, my decision. yes, I'm a guy!) In the morning she asked me to come back over that night (watch tv). I did. For the next week I get 3-8 texts/day ...
A. 29 October 2008: She may have taken you as a challenge, 3rd base at first which could have been odd for her, so she wanted to get you to go further. When she had had sex with you, the challenge had gone. Afterwards, she may have realised she was far too easy and ... (read in full...)
I suspect my husband is having an affair with his old girlfriend!
Q. hi think my husband is having an affair with his old girl friend who he has a son with hes 21yrs,I did ask him and he said no way she phoned him to ask about advise on buying a house and he only phoned her 5or 6 times so he said, i found his phone ...
A. 28 October 2008: Hi,
Could you hire a private detective? Have a look on the internet at UK companies and see how much their rates are?
If there is something going on, they will find out for you. Hope not though! Take care, Hannah. ... (read in full...)
Hypothetically speaking: should I have my baby boy circumsized?
Q. hypathetically speaking, if i were 5 months pregnant, and just found out i was having a boy... Would it be smarter to get him circumsized and why??? if i dont curcumsize him now, can he get it done later in life if he wanted to?...
A. 28 October 2008: Hello,
Just had a look at wikipedia.org/circumcision.
There are links to "for" and "against" at the bottom and these contain articles. I found one article an interesting read, "benefits to women", so although I am pro-male circumcision, it's bes... (read in full...)
Hypothetically speaking: should I have my baby boy circumsized?
Q. hypathetically speaking, if i were 5 months pregnant, and just found out i was having a boy... Would it be smarter to get him circumsized and why??? if i dont curcumsize him now, can he get it done later in life if he wanted to?...
A. 28 October 2008: Hello,
Hey poster, don't worry! you are right to ask this question if you are unsure or want help or advice. Never feel afraid to ask questions on here!!!
There is a difference of opinion naturally on circumcision. I had posted as I saw it and a... (read in full...)
Hypothetically speaking: should I have my baby boy circumsized?
Q. hypathetically speaking, if i were 5 months pregnant, and just found out i was having a boy... Would it be smarter to get him circumsized and why??? if i dont curcumsize him now, can he get it done later in life if he wanted to?...
A. 27 October 2008: Hello, I say yes. I had my two boys circumsised and now they are both happy teenagers. I wanted them both circumsised simply for hygenic reasons and cleaning when they were babies. So it is a yes from me! Hannah x ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to lose your virginity with your clothes on?
Q. I was wondering if I have on my clothes and I come into contact with a male who has on clothes as well and I feel his penis kind of touch my vagina is that losing the virginity?I was in pain afterwards but there was no bleeding.I was emotional and ...
A. 3 September 2008: You could probably have had your hymen broken this way. But losing virginity is when his penis is inside you without you both wearing clothes or panties. x ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he talk to me anymore?
Q. why dosent he talk to me? ive been seeing this guy for about 7 months through college. we have recently got back together after i dumped him becuse i wasnt happy. when we are together he dosent no what to say and we never talk, i no hardly anything...
A. 2 September 2008: Hello, Why do you want to be with him then? He doesn't seem like fun!!!!!!! Hannah ... (read in full...)
If I give him space is it possible that he will come running back to me when he's sorted his head out?
Q. me and my boyfriend have recently split. (i ended it cos he wasn't making me happy). He just came out of a 3 yr relationship when we got together (about a month after they split) so I guess he was on the rebound. I still really like him so if I give ...
A. 1 September 2008: Hello, I think there is every chance he will be back. It was amicable, friendly and a "good" parting. Give him his space and be prepared for the initial quiet period. Then, why not drop him a line to say hello. Hannah. ... (read in full...)
I have anxiety about him needing space and time to gather his thoughts! What now?
Q. This past Friday, my boyfriend and I had a stupid argument. It started over my feelings about money. I asked him to buy me something and he related to me that he wasn't sure if he would have enough to get it. I caught an attitude because of this and ...
A. 1 September 2008: Hi,
Just give him his space and wait for him to contact you. That's all you need to do. Plain and simple.Hannah ... (read in full...)
Do you think I made the right decision on backing down in the relationship?
Q. Ok so me and this guy are in a relationship, both of us are with other people as well. My guy just found out that his mom has cancer so I thought the best thing for our relationship would be for me to back down. He is all his mother has and with all ...
A. 29 August 2008: Hi, Well I'm trying to work out what you gain from backing down. I would talk to him, offer your support and tell him that he has your support and you want to work through this with him. If he needs time out or time alone with mom then give it ... (read in full...)
Is it fun to watch a girlfriend have sex with another guy?
Q. im thinking about asking my girlfriend to have sex with another guy while i watch. is this fun?...
A. 21 August 2008: Yes, ask her first about Ex boyfriends and see how you feel then....it's a free country though! Hannah xx... (read in full...)
Should I keep messaging my long distance boyfriend?
Q. Hi posted a question a few days ago now about wanting advice about a guy i was seeing who relocated. Basically i spoke to him this week on the pc and he logged off !! He hasnt been back on since what gets me is he seems to have taken what happened ...
A. 21 August 2008: Hi, Yes, the previous advice sounds the best! For some reason, something tells me he was already looking for an out and your glass of wine gave him it. How sad and how hurtful to simply disappear like that. As already said, make your own closure.... (read in full...)
What does the future hold for me and my ex?
Q. What does the future hold for me and my ex? We have now been split up for 4 months! We got together in January this year and we were in love, although it was a long distance realtionship we made it work and I honestly thought he was the 1 and ...
A. 20 August 2008: Hi,
Perhaps send him a letter to thank him for his friendship and leave him an open invitation to stay in contact. He may respond well. Hannah... (read in full...)
Poll: how long after initialising the break up, does a man make contact again?
Q. Just a simple question for statistical purposes to compare with the real life events around me: If a man initiated a break up, how long did it take for him to make contact again, if ever, to apologize, do the friends speech, get back together, e...
A. 20 August 2008: Some don't! I felt sure one would contact me again but he never did. So i got on with my life and a year later realised he still hadn't contacted. boo! Hannah x ... (read in full...)
| *annah76's friends
These are mutual friends, so *annah76 has
added them and they have added *annah76!
|
