My crush hit on my childminder the other day...but I want him! How do I resolve this?
Q. I had a baby recently and a guy who was a good friend of mine (well my crush) who wanted to go out with me back when I was preg..in fact he wanted a sexual relationship with me at the time but it never happened between us..anyway I met him the other ...
A. 29 November 2010: Thank you for the update! I think it's pretty clear now that he and your au pair are interested in one another. I know this must have been quite hurtful for you. You seem like a very nice, caring person... but there's a point when you have to... (read in full...)
Should I let my ex know I want him to feature more in our daughter's life?
Q. I had a love child with a married man and she is now 2 years old. It was a mistake but shes here to stay and is a lovely kid. He has never met her but we live quite close and she will go to the same school as his 4 year old. He has seen us in town ...
A. 20 November 2010: I see your point in wanting to keep the affair and child a secret. Honestly, I don’t see how this can be kept a secret forever. If you could be 100% certain that his wife and son would never find out about this, I would say... keep it to yourself. ... (read in full...)
Should I let my ex know I want him to feature more in our daughter's life?
Q. I had a love child with a married man and she is now 2 years old. It was a mistake but shes here to stay and is a lovely kid. He has never met her but we live quite close and she will go to the same school as his 4 year old. He has seen us in town ...
A. 20 November 2010: That must be so painful to see him around town with his family. I can't speak for others, but personally, if my husband had cheated on me and fathered a child... I would definitely want to know!
And when I put myself in your shoes... I have to ... (read in full...)
Should I let my ex know I want him to feature more in our daughter's life?
Q. I had a love child with a married man and she is now 2 years old. It was a mistake but shes here to stay and is a lovely kid. He has never met her but we live quite close and she will go to the same school as his 4 year old. He has seen us in town ...
A. 19 November 2010: You likely feel a bond to him because he is the father of your child, but from what you have told us, it doesn’t sound like he feels the same way. If he truly cared about you and your daughter, he would have had the decency to support you through ... (read in full...)
This female friend of his is sticking her nose in where its not wanted! What can we do?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about 10 months now. When we met for the first time, he was with a friend who was a girl, and she had made a comment to him that "he was going to marry me someday". Anyway, as much as that was a cute comment, I ...
A. 19 November 2010: That’s good to hear that you spoke with your boyfriend about the matter. He sounds like a great guy! I hope he does say something to this so-called friend of his. I think it would be wise for him to cut her out of his life entirely, and delete ... (read in full...)
Should I let my ex know I want him to feature more in our daughter's life?
Q. I had a love child with a married man and she is now 2 years old. It was a mistake but shes here to stay and is a lovely kid. He has never met her but we live quite close and she will go to the same school as his 4 year old. He has seen us in town ...
A. 18 November 2010: If he hasn’t made a single effort to meet her by now, it’s unlikely that will change. It’s as if he has completely blocked her out of his mind because she represents a threat to his current family.
He should have told his wife about the affa... (read in full...)
Office gossip about my boss and me! What should I do?
Q. i am having problems with this women at work she has started spreading lies about my boss and i that my boss and i are having sexual relations via texts which isn't true and that i'm wanting to sleep with my boss its gone around the workplace, and i ...
A. 18 November 2010: Initially, I was concerned about your situation... but then I noticed a few things that were bothersome. First of all... you claim to be 41-50 years of age... yet your post is in all undercaps and lacks any punctuation. I'm in my 30's, and the ... (read in full...)
We're back together and he's dating other women too!
Q. My boyfriend is dating other women. We've been together (on and off) for 6 years now. He told me that he's involved with others a few months after our relationship started and I always thought that when we'll get to know each other he'll stop. He ...
A. 18 November 2010: This is truly sad. Why would you waste another second of your life with someone who makes you miserable? You are still young!!! This man will never commit to you. He views you as a weak doormat that he can use and benefit from when he isn’t out ... (read in full...)
Long lost love child.
Q. when my husbands father passed I found out he had a 19 yr old daughter. I have two small children with him, and my parents and my whole family think these are his first kids. Whats worse is being around his family after the fact. Nobody has said ...
A. 18 November 2010: I think the most troubling aspect about this situation is that your husband was able to withhold this information from you for so long. Personally, that would eat me up alive! You knew he had a previous marriage… so why would it matter if it ... (read in full...)
If I have a go at this course a third time, will it look bad on my transcript?
Q. Hello everyone .. i'm 19 attending a community college for a 2nd yr now and i'm studying to be a physical therapist and for now i'm doing my basics but .. i'm having a hard time with anatomy and physiology.. i failed the 1st time i took the course ...
A. 17 November 2010: Don’t give up!!! When I got out of high school, I went to college, but spent little time studying… but excelled in the social arena! LOL. As a result, my grades were pathetic. I took some time off and moved back home. Once I got my priorities ... (read in full...)
Long lost love child.
Q. when my husbands father passed I found out he had a 19 yr old daughter. I have two small children with him, and my parents and my whole family think these are his first kids. Whats worse is being around his family after the fact. Nobody has said ...
A. 17 November 2010: It’s never good to keep secrets… especially ones this big. Somehow, it will rear its head in the future. For that reason, you may as well deal with it now, rather than later. Were you dating or married to your husband when he got this other woman ... (read in full...)
Should I let my ex know I want him to feature more in our daughter's life?
Q. I had a love child with a married man and she is now 2 years old. It was a mistake but shes here to stay and is a lovely kid. He has never met her but we live quite close and she will go to the same school as his 4 year old. He has seen us in town ...
A. 17 November 2010: Does his wife know that her husband had an affair with you? If so, does she know about your child?... (read in full...)
Should I ask him out again?
Q. Ok so I've been dating (not bf/gf just dating) for 7 months now (yeah..i know) and everything is good..we normally spend Fridays together hang out, movies, bowling..whatever! Recently like within the past 2 weeks he's been acting a bit different ...
A. 17 November 2010: Honestly, this doesn’t sound good. If you have been dating for 7 months, and he still doesn’t consider you his girlfriend… I would highly suggest that you move on.
Also, the fact that he has blown you off two Fridays in a row… tells me he may h... (read in full...)
This female friend of his is sticking her nose in where its not wanted! What can we do?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about 10 months now. When we met for the first time, he was with a friend who was a girl, and she had made a comment to him that "he was going to marry me someday". Anyway, as much as that was a cute comment, I ...
A. 17 November 2010: I feel for you! It does appear that she may have a crush on your boyfriend. How old is she? She seems a bit immature… although, some people never seem to grow out of the drama phase. And if you don’t mind me asking… how old is your boyfriend? ... (read in full...)
My crush hit on my childminder the other day...but I want him! How do I resolve this?
Q. I had a baby recently and a guy who was a good friend of mine (well my crush) who wanted to go out with me back when I was preg..in fact he wanted a sexual relationship with me at the time but it never happened between us..anyway I met him the other ...
A. 16 November 2010: Ok, so he DOES know that you were interested in him. What about the au pair? Did she know you were interested in this man? The fact that she tried to hide her cell phone, tells me she either knew or suspected you liked him. The part that bothers ... (read in full...)
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