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Hi everyone completely new here...I am a very young 37 year old woman who has had a lot of experience of heartache unfortunately...

I have recently been in a very turbulent and unstable relationship...I have a lot of wisdom and a very kind heart so i have been told...I live in england...And currently single just out of a relationship...I love music and horse riding and i am a very sociable friendly person...I am very understanding...But know when to stick up for myself...

Do want help and advice, but not pity. But how do I better handle my battle with being obsessive and narcissistic ?

Q.   Hello i am an obsessive co-dependent in love with a narcissistic. I am a kind loving person but try to also control everything.(so no one gets hurt) Anyway my question to everyone is how can i stop letting him hurt me? He couldn't care less whil...

A.   13 February 2011: Hi there... And yes i am very familiar with the type of addictive relationship your talking about... This is very very difficult as in these type of relationships the 'rollercoaster' is quite impossible to get off...or so it seems All i c... (read in full...)

How can I forgive him for all the hurt he has caused me?

Q.   Well, I posted a question yesterday, but I didn't give many details, so I shall give them now. Three and a half years ago, my boyfriend and I started dating. We were both 17 then and we had been each others firsts. We've always been happy toget...

A.   13 February 2011: Hi there... And wow, I'm so sorry your going through such a tough time at the moment... All I can give you is my take on this and my point of view. Don't worry, I'm not going to suggest you break up with him as I know the way your feeling righ... (read in full...)

I've been dumped by someone I was seeing for a while and its hit me like a lead weight. Help!

Q.   I've been dumped by someone I was seeing for a while and its hit me like a lead weight. The reason being becuase I dont know why he's dumped me. Lastnight we were fine, today hes told me its over. He wont say why. Ive spent all day thinking about ...

A.   12 February 2011: Hi there... And yes this is a toughie...I am going through the same thing at the moment and its really really hard so i know how you feel... All i can tell you is you have to go through this bad time to get to the other side...Thats wha... (read in full...)

The merry goes 'round and 'round, but does he only want me when he can't have me?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend 3 years on and off. In the past lots of stuff has happened... The good and the bad. He regularly goes off me, and starts speaking to others girls and leaves me in the dark, then whenever I leave him... A week later he ...

A.   11 February 2011: Ohhh I so know how your feeling... This is exactly the same thing that was happening to me recently with my ex... All i can tell you is even though you may adore him and cant seem to get off this mad rollercoaster you gotta try...Thats what... (read in full...)

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