What can I do to make her realise that my life isn't really one to envy?
Q. ok at the weekend there me and my friend sort of had a heart to heart. I had went down to her house to get ready to go out and we had a bottle of wine as usual, then we sort of had a conversation which left me really ocnfused. She just came out wi...
A. 26 November 2009: Just talk about her... Encourage her a bit and make her see she can do anything. Her life isn't over just because she settled down a bit early.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Is this guy actually interested or not?
Q. I met a guy on the bus exactly a week ago Basically, something that happened on the bus made me laugh and I really couldn't stop laughing! We were squashed up at the front of the bus as it was rush hour so there wasn't any seats. Anyway, he laugh...
A. 25 November 2009: He's probably just been busy. Or he's a serial killer and has been sent to prison. Or he's caught swine flu. Who knows!!
You shouldn't be pinning all your hopes for happiness on some random guy you've spent exactly 5 minutes with.
If you want a... (read in full...)
Christmas gift for the boyfriend?
Q. I'm having a difficult time deciding what to get my boyfriend for christmas ,, any suggestions??? Thanks x ...
A. 24 November 2009: You don't give a budget or any information so I suggest a pony.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
What can we do about his troublesome ex-wife?
Q. My boyfriend and I are living together happiness. Our relationship has been so good. He make me so happy and change my whole life with alot of joy. which I never had before. when he got a new job then his ex wife found out where he work. So she ...
A. 24 November 2009: Get a restraining order.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Only 23 and already slept with 40 men, I cant stop cheating!
Q. iam a 23 year old woman who had slept with about 40 men and am not proud of it, but i cant seem to stop and i need help, i cant stay faithful to one man coz i have a six year relationship that is terrible and my partner cant seem to care and dont ...
A. 24 November 2009: So dump your boyfriend.
Find some self respect and then find a man who will treat you better.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I want my mom to move out once I get married!
Q. Hi, I love my mother and we have been through a lot together. Now that I am getting married I want her to have her own place becuase sometimes things get a little ugly with us. Sometimes she doesn't respect my boundaries and treats me like a...
A. 24 November 2009: The fact you've given her a deadline is making this feel forced, even though she herself wanted this to happen one day anyway.
She's scared that the wedding day will come, she'll be on her own, you'll be with your new husband and you'll forget a... (read in full...)
Could I get lead poisoning from drinking from that can?
Q. i'm 5 months pregnant and this morning i opened a can of juice after the first drink i realized it tasted weird and through it out. now im worried about lead poisoning and im also waiting 4 my obgyn 2 call back. any helpful and comforting advice ...
A. 24 November 2009: Unless you were drinking lead paint out of that can there is nothing to worry about.
Juice and aluminium cans both contain No lead.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I would love to have a threesome with two BBW's!
Q. My question is a bit of a different one. How can I convince two BBW's (Big Beautiful Women) for a threesome.. My story started in 5th grade a long time ago.....(70's ) We we in line going to recess and we were lined up girl boy girl etc in a c...
A. 24 November 2009: You could ask her again, and agree to do some of her fantasies in return.
But if she still says no, then you have to chose, your fantasy or your wife.
It's not fair to cheat on her.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How do I get back my 9 inch penis?
Q. When i was a youmg man i was blessed with being well endowed with a 9 inch penis. I had no complaints and lots of complements on its size. A couple weeks ago i overheard my wife over the phone to her phone say that she missed my 9 and thinks it had ...
A. 24 November 2009: The main reasons for shrinkage is age, fat, and use of drugs.
Drop some weight, and just accept that things go with age.
There are a million other ways to please your wife.
And ignore all the ads, they are all lies to get your money.
Go... (read in full...)
What can I do to make her realise that my life isn't really one to envy?
Q. ok at the weekend there me and my friend sort of had a heart to heart. I had went down to her house to get ready to go out and we had a bottle of wine as usual, then we sort of had a conversation which left me really ocnfused. She just came out wi...
A. 24 November 2009: I think it's not your life she envies, she wasn't saying that you have it easy compared to her.
What she meant was that she is jealous of the WAY you live your life. Also you are free while she is tied down with kids and everything.
You are... (read in full...)
How do I get my self-esteem and confidence back after all life has thrown at me?
Q. When I came to this site, I was rock bottom in life. After going through so much adversity, in my life my self esteem plummeted. After visiting this site, I learned that so many man and women are going through similar problems and issues. My ...
A. 24 November 2009: It's a bit like asking "what can I do to recover from a big injury?"
The main answer is to give it time. You will heal on your own but you can help it along by not stressing the injury and being good to your body as a whole.
So the answer to yo... (read in full...)
Should I give my ex another chance?!
Q. I have broken up with my boyfriend because he can not decide who he wants - me or this other girl. Should i give him another chance or not? ...
A. 24 November 2009: I wouldn't.
I think you will always be worried that he will be wondering about his options after this.
What's to say he's not going to go off and do this again over some other girl.
He's hurt you so why should you forgive him?
Good Luc... (read in full...)
Whats the first step after releasing yourself?
Q. I'v just realised the boy Iv been crushing over and been trying to get over for about 2 years isnt really ALL THAT. So now that I feel Im officially over him, what do I do know? I realise, I focused my life around him. How do I live without him...
A. 24 November 2009: You basically need to find yourself.
At 13 - 15 you are just finding out who you really are and really want to be in life.
So spend some me time on yourself. Think about what you like doing, and what kind of person you want to be. What kinds o... (read in full...)
How much do fertility treatments cost?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been trying to have a baby for about a year now and i don't seem to be getting pregnant.Is there something I should be taking or doing..?? Does anyone know how much it cost to have his sperm put inside me for a better chance ...
A. 23 November 2009: You can get fertility monitors from most chemists.
They aren't expensive and they can tell you what day of the month it's best to have sex on.
Also you should both get to a doctor and get checked out there.
Plus eat healthily, don't smoke, ... (read in full...)
Squirting problem...
Q. I'm 42 and for 9 years while having sex I will squirt. I would like to know if this is normal and if there are other women with this problem?...
A. 23 November 2009: No it's not a problem, yes it's normal.
If you search for squirt on this site you'll find it's actually quite common.
Many girls come on here asking how they can learn to do it, so as long as it doesn't bother you too much then just chill out a... (read in full...)
I would love to have a threesome with two BBW's!
Q. My question is a bit of a different one. How can I convince two BBW's (Big Beautiful Women) for a threesome.. My story started in 5th grade a long time ago.....(70's ) We we in line going to recess and we were lined up girl boy girl etc in a c...
A. 23 November 2009: Well the first thing you need to do is talk to your wife about it. If she says no then frankly, it's tough luck for you.
If she says yes then look for another girl TOGETHER.
As for where to look there are all kinds of dodgy sites, or the be... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wont have sex with me anymore
Q. My girl(24) and I(21) have had a, ON and OFF dating history over the past 3 years but over the past 11 months we have been realllly serious. When we got back together (11 months ago) we used to have sex alllllll the time, im talking like 4-5 times a ...
A. 23 November 2009: I am really glad you can see how to make things nicer for her, and I'm sure you will find she'll make things nicer for you in return.
It's the littlest things like just going up and hugging her and kissing her neck and telling her she's beautifu... (read in full...)
To divorce or not divorce...?
Q. to divorce or not to divorce?? me and my wife of 4 years have talked about our marriage (we already have a 1 year son) which has been a fine marriage in every think except sex. Throughout the years of our marriage we only had sex about 15-20 time...
A. 23 November 2009: Ah this is why I don't believe in Not having sex before marriage.
If she is happy for you to have a lady on the side, and you make her feel loved and wanted in all the other ways then you should be fine.
Happiness is the most important thing ... (read in full...)
Do you think I'll grow to be over 6 foot tall?
Q. Hi... everyone I'm 18 years old and I have adolescence problems about my height, I'm 5 ft 10 inches but i dunno if i'm tall or short from other people's points of view, but I do want to grow more so i wanna know... will my height grow a bit more ...
A. 23 November 2009: You are not understanding what I am saying.
The height of a man is not important. Some women like very tall men, some like short men.
In general a girl will want her man to be a little taller than her.
It is different for every girl... (read in full...)
She covers herself up during sex and I have no idea why!
Q. I am in a relationship with my partner for over 9 years now, everytime we are having sex she is always covering her breast and folding her hands round her chest with her eyes closed, never allow me to kiss her, I find it difficult to make her ...
A. 23 November 2009: It's obviously a body issue that she has.
Why not skip the part of foreplay where you take her top off. You can keep your t-shirt on too.
Or you could always go crazy and try talking to her about it and re-assuring her about how sexy you fin... (read in full...)
Why does my fiance keep hiding the fact that he's been in touch with his ex wife?
Q. Hi, I am getting married soon to a man whom I love very much. He is older than me, but it does not affect us. My problem is his ex-wife. He has always been a little quiet about what went on with them. Doesnt say much. I have a problem with him...
A. 23 November 2009: I think you can tell him that you know he's lying and you don't care that he's spoken to her, but you are upset that he's lied.
If you do it in a calm way and just ask WHY he feels he has to lie to you then you can sort this out.
It's bad that... (read in full...)
Can anyone suggest some exercises I can do to make me last longer next time I have sex?
Q. I really need help. I've suffered from premature ejaculation for ages. When I was with my girl we'd have sex about 3 times a week and that went on for 2 years until she broke up with me. I literally last about 10 seconds when having sex. As s...
A. 23 November 2009: http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/prematureejaculation.htm
and this one is also good:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/sex_and_sexual_health/probs_prematureejaculation.shtml
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Do you think I'll grow to be over 6 foot tall?
Q. Hi... everyone I'm 18 years old and I have adolescence problems about my height, I'm 5 ft 10 inches but i dunno if i'm tall or short from other people's points of view, but I do want to grow more so i wanna know... will my height grow a bit more ...
A. 23 November 2009: 5'10 is not short.
And as for the best height, well it's about an inch and a half taller than the girl you want.
It is unlikely that you will hit 6 feet tall, but that really doesn't matter to anyone but you.
Unless you plan on dating a gir... (read in full...)
How can we get to grips with these terrible rows we're having? I know it's just pressure...
Q. I am having terrible rows with my partner. We have got to the stage where we row about everything. He is a really nice man with children from previous relationships and in the main is fair and decent. Try as I might I don't like the fact that he ...
A. 23 November 2009: It sounds like as much as you might like him or love him, he's just not boyfriend material for you.
I know I wouldn't go out with a man who could never spend a weekend with me. I know what children mean so I just avoid them.
He may be lovely so... (read in full...)
Is he looking for a family or mother?
Q. Thanks for all the help. Ok so I have been dating this fellow for a year. As of three months ago he moved into my house with my son and I. I do think it's a bit fast however he lives a hour away and was here evey-night anyhow.. Most of his st...
A. 23 November 2009: You've already talked to him about this. You told him in advance what was expected and then when you told him off for being inconsiderate, he's told you that you should work around him.
Well no, I agree that you should not have to change when he ... (read in full...)
To divorce or not divorce...?
Q. to divorce or not to divorce?? me and my wife of 4 years have talked about our marriage (we already have a 1 year son) which has been a fine marriage in every think except sex. Throughout the years of our marriage we only had sex about 15-20 time...
A. 23 November 2009: Why on earth did you get married if you aren't attracted to her????
If she thinks she would be happier as a single mum with you as a friend then yes, divorce may be a good option. Then she can find someone who wants her and finds her beautifu... (read in full...)
I realise just how much I'm growing to like this woman but what do I do now?
Q. So I have been hanging out with this graduate student from a local university for a few weeks now. She lives right above us and we hang out off and on. The past two nights, we stayed uo late chatted about each other and the same again last night, ...
A. 23 November 2009: I say just talk to her about it...
Just ask her "So you know how you have a significant other? Does this mean you are pretty much taken?"
If she says yes, then you know you are just friends and if you start getting serious feelings for her... (read in full...)
Is this a normal kind of "fetish" if you could call it that...?
Q. Hey everyone, So, the other day my friend asked me what it was that women found attractive in men. He had asked me for specifics and so I gladly proceeded to list those men I found attractive, and for what reasons. Upon completion, my frien...
A. 23 November 2009: Why are you so against the fact that you like something?
It's not like you just can't bare to be near a guy who has a face... it's just a thing you like.
This is like you saying "I've found I prefer chocolate bars with nuts in... WHAT CAN I... (read in full...)
How often per week should a couple have sex?
Q. Ok since this has been a reoccuring theme on this site of late, I would like to settle once and for all, how often per week should a couple have sex. My theory is: 3 times combined with 3 times asking how her day was and back/foot rub. And one day...
A. 23 November 2009: Seriously?
You want to turn your sex life into a mathematical formula?
As a woman, I have to say that maths is possibly THE most UNSEXY thing.
If I knew my husband was counting up how many times he'd had to pretend to listen to my day,... (read in full...)
Day trip to with my boyfriend in Montreal. Any suggestions?
Q. My boyfriend and I wanted to spend the whole day together in late December in Montreal. I wanted this to be really special as we don't get to spend much time together. Does anyone have any suggestions on both indoor and outdoor activiti...
A. 23 November 2009: My advice is to get in touch with the tourist information place but in general not to make a master plan.
Have a few ideas for what you might like to do, and think about what you might like to do for dinner... but apart from that why not just see... (read in full...)
I can't see a future with her, but I'm torn!
Q. I started seeing this girl who I have known since high school but we have been out of touch for about 12 years. She is a single mother and from the beginning I didn’t feel ready for a committed relationship. But I always liked her and still decided ...
A. 23 November 2009: Single mums always make for very complicated girlfriends.
I think you are VERY right in keeping your distance from the kids. I also have a male friend who had to tell a 4 year old who adored him that he was never going to see him again. I don't th... (read in full...)
Family or Lover? Torn between both.
Q. Hi, I have fallen in love with a married men. He isn't happy with his marriage and wants to end it but it's complicated. We want to be together more than anything, but our relationship wouldn't be accepted by most people, I'm 22 and he's 60. Oth...
A. 23 November 2009: Well I can't tell you to abandon your family in good conscience as you break up this man's marriage.
It can be as complicated as he likes but the fact is, he's not leaving his wife.
If he's not happy he needs to sort his life out and get sing... (read in full...)
Help me decide... what should I get my boyfriend for Christmas???
Q. Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for three years, but we've been completely together since March 21st. We always talk about how we're going to have a kid, and a house, and everything. We're both 14, and we do no what true ...
A. 23 November 2009: You don't give ANY info about what you both like or what your budget it.
All this is, is a defensive rant to try and justify the fact you want to get him something nice.
Just get online, search for unique gifts to do with the stuff he's into.... (read in full...)
My friend has gotten cynical and bitter! What can I do to help her?
Q. My best friend has been acting very weird lately. She has just gotten back from being overseas through volunteer work and she seems very moody. She'll have these random outbursts. For example, tonight I was downloading something on her computer and ...
A. 23 November 2009: Have you asked her straight out "What is up with you?"
It sounds like something happened while she was away, and she probably needs you more than ever right now.
You may be sick of dealing with the symptoms of all this but if you can get to t... (read in full...)
How do I proceed to go out with this guy... and how is my ex going to take it?
Q. Hello, I was just hoping some people would have some advice for me on a subject. So I had the FINAL/6th breakup with my bf about 2 weeks ago. 6 breakups in 6 months because he was so immature, a liar and a control freak. I have been emotiona...
A. 23 November 2009: I'm not quite sure what you are worried about.
If you ex calls you then reject his calls.
If he texts you then ignore the text and delete it.
If he comes round or is weird in any other way then tell him to leave you alone or you'll call the p... (read in full...)
Our relationship seems so one sided!
Q. I have recently met a guy,who expressed some interest...though I approached him first (at the uni night club). I would very much like to get to know him, and while it was his idea to swap numbers and he has been lovely to me(and the fact that we...
A. 23 November 2009: Well you've spoken to him about it and he's made it clear he's not interested in making effort because he doesn't expect this to go anywhere.
So it's up to you whether you want to keep chasing him and trying to make up to him for what ever he ... (read in full...)
How do I change myself so he stops taking me for granted?
Q. So I've been with my boyfriend for over 8 months, everything's great and I love him very much. The problem is, when we started out, he'd call and text me all the time, take me out, buy me little gifts just because, but recently that's all stopped ...
A. 23 November 2009: Well look, you can't just sit and say "treat me better or I'm walking" because that's a lie.
Yes you are with your first love and you can't see yourself being with anyone else right now but you have to see that when you are an adult THE most imp... (read in full...)
I told her I seen a woman naked from porn and now she doesn't trust me!
Q. Okay, well, recently my girlfriend of only one month has become extremely upset with me. Why? Personally, I think it is because she is very over emotional, but many girls are. I care very much about this girl, much, muchhh more than any other girl ...
A. 23 November 2009: Yep, the anonymous person is right. You have a very bad attitude and I wouldn't trust you as far as I could throw you.
Personally, I think the reason she doesn't trust you is because you are a liar, but then many boys are.... oh wait is that unf... (read in full...)
Should I not ask girls for their phone number?
Q. i am having girl problems. i think i have a problem, i asked two different girls for their phone numbers last week and one was a flake and the other did not respond to my text. i don't understand because i could tell both really like me and even...
A. 23 November 2009: Well you know the answer already.
Ask her if she wants to meet up for a coffee / see that film / fly a kite / go to the zoo / what ever.
Arrange a day that's good and then SWAP numbers.
I'm very careful about who I give my number out to, a... (read in full...)
Are there any home remedies for oral yeast infections?
Q. I have a oral yeast infection on my tongue. I have used a full tube of gel for it and am well into a liquid stuff I put in, swish around and swallow BUT it isn't getting any better, it is getting worse. I have reduced my sugar intake, avoided ...
A. 23 November 2009: If it's an ongoing thing and it's resistant to the cream, then it could not be what you think.
Go to the doctor and get it checked out.
Just make sure it's not something worse.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wont have sex with me anymore
Q. My girl(24) and I(21) have had a, ON and OFF dating history over the past 3 years but over the past 11 months we have been realllly serious. When we got back together (11 months ago) we used to have sex alllllll the time, im talking like 4-5 times a ...
A. 23 November 2009: If every time you want to have sex with her you beg and nag for it, it's no wonder she feels like it's a chore.
Do you want the sex, or do you want to make love to her because you care about her so much?
And what would she say in answer to the... (read in full...)
Not attracted to obese boyfriend.
Q. I have been with the same guy for three years, we are both in our 40s. When I met him he had just lost 140 lbs through diet and exercise and was running marathons. A big part of my attraction to him was admiration for having lost all that weight and ...
A. 23 November 2009: It's the same with any health problem when it comes to a relationship.... In some cases on here it's depression, in your case it's obesity.
It all comes down to the same thing.... You don't want to be with him but you don't want to dump him for ... (read in full...)
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