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*endymillar
writes:I have broken up with my boyfriend because he can not decide who he wants - me or this other girl. Should i give him another chance or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009): Give him another chance?? He doesnt even know if he wants you or not. No, you're not giving him chances, you are basically offering yourself to wait around for whatever his whim feels like on that particular day. Treat yourself with some self respect and walk away.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 November 2009):
No. If he loved you enough, he wouldn't fancy the other girl. Why not find a guy who does love you? You'll feel fat better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009): Hi. The fact that he cant make up his mind between you and this other girl doesnt say much about his feelings for you, does it! I wouldnt give him another chance.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (24 November 2009):
I wouldn't.
I think you will always be worried that he will be wondering about his options after this.
What's to say he's not going to go off and do this again over some other girl.
He's hurt you so why should you forgive him?
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (24 November 2009):
 I cant really see it's your choice until he has made up his mind. If there is someone else he likes then it's his choice who he picks and it's your choice as to whether you take him back (if he picks you)...but do you really need a boyfriend who is playing games with your affections?
You have broken up with him, so I would focus on your self and appreciate the fact that you have a long life ahead of you and many many other choices to come. Don't let someone else define who you are by their crappy behaviour...step away and choose a better path for yourself.
Aunty Em xxx
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