When is my next period due?
Q. wondering if someone can help tell me when i am due on my period and how long my cycle is. also, what a cycle is, is it the day you come on your period to the next time you come on? right so, i came on on september 13th and came off on the 18th sep...
A. 15 October 2009: Take a pregnancy test then!!!
Go to the doctor if you are worried!
I get the feeling you are much much younger than it says here. Talk to your mum and go to the family planning clinic.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
When is my next period due?
Q. wondering if someone can help tell me when i am due on my period and how long my cycle is. also, what a cycle is, is it the day you come on your period to the next time you come on? right so, i came on on september 13th and came off on the 18th sep...
A. 11 October 2009: 28 days on from the 13th of September is today!
So you should be due on in the next few days if you are normally regular.
If you haven't come on by next weekend then buy a pregnancy test.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
We are talking about marriage, but he can't tell me he loves me more than his best friend!
Q. So I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year now. His best friend is a girl. They have been friends since they were 13 and now are 27. They have hooked up a few times during their friendship, even cheating on one of his girlfriends which he ...
A. 11 October 2009: Well it seems that he is willing to marry you but you know where you stand, you are always going to be her equal, and not his number 1.
So it's really not about justifying your behaviour or changing things.
This is the situation, and i... (read in full...)
Does this mean I'm not a virgin anymore?
Q. me and and mah boyfriend were at his crib....nd we thought we were ready so he put it in just a little nd it hurt so i told him no nd he took it out.....so am i still a virgin or not?? ...
A. 10 October 2009: You had a penis in you, so in the most technical sense, you have lost your virginity.
However, he may not have broken your hymen, so you may still be a virgin in the physical sense.
It's not nice to be in the middle so make a choice about wha... (read in full...)
When is my next period due?
Q. wondering if someone can help tell me when i am due on my period and how long my cycle is. also, what a cycle is, is it the day you come on your period to the next time you come on? right so, i came on on september 13th and came off on the 18th sep...
A. 10 October 2009: Go from the first day you came on, count forward 4 weeks and that is when you are next due.
The AVERAGE cycle for a woman is 28 days but every one is different so you could be longer or shorter than that. It can also be a little different every mo... (read in full...)
How can I prevent an erection in my boyfriend?
Q. How can I prevent erection in my boyfriend? well I do not wanna sex with him right now..but we just ouch eachother on the clothes..evrytime I touch it.his penis is getting harder and he physically hurt.. so what should I di to prevent this erection...
A. 10 October 2009: Unfortunately, you cannot get physical with a guy and not have him get an erection.
Boys and Men get turned on and hard VERY easily.
However, if it hurts him then something must be wrong.
Where does it hurt? If it's round the top then he ma... (read in full...)
Can my girlfriend get pregnant if I didn't release sperm during sex?
Q. Can my girlfriend be pregnant if i didnt release sperm during sex, and can i tell if she is if it happen in june. ...
A. 10 October 2009: Yep.
Get her a pregnancy test.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Does he want to have a child with me now?
Q. im 16, my boyfriend is 18, we have been together for 4 months, but we have known eachother for almost a year. when school ends in june, he will be leaving for college and enlisting in the navy. yet, we want to keep our relationship together. he says ...
A. 10 October 2009: Sorry but bollocks.
I'm an army wife and I don't have kids and me and my hubby have been through 2 tours of Iraq and one of Kosovo. He stays with me because he loves me and I love him.
The girl here on camp who has 4 kids has a husband who chea... (read in full...)
My husband moved out to pursue employment. Any tips on how to get through this?
Q. My husband moved out 3 weeks ago to "pursue" employment in another state. He left me and our two daughters (11 and 14) behind to finish school year. He has hated where we live and his being unemployed really took a toll on him. He said he feels ...
A. 10 October 2009: It does sound like it could well be genuine, and what he says is true.
I think you just need to remind him gently that you need some reassurance that he misses you and wants to carry on in this marriage.
Jobs are very important to men, I spoke ... (read in full...)
Sinuses all screwed up after deep-throating?
Q. I am bi, and I just recently deepthroated a guy one morning. The next morning, when I woke up, my throat was sore, and my sinuses were all screwed up. Now, everything is recovering slowly, but my nose is still running, and my vocal cords are a bit ...
A. 10 October 2009: Just asked my hubby who's a paramedic.
He says streptococus bacteria basically live in any area where there's urine and it's warm and moist.
So his penis is going to be swimming with the stuff and you shoved it straight on to your tonsils.
... (read in full...)
What's the point of a relationship?
Q. i need to know whats the point of a relationship? after being dumped, cheated on, hurting others, and my obsession with romance. ive lost my way and reasons why a relationship is so important...
A. 10 October 2009: A relationship is the icing on the cake of your life.
Yeah icing is great and makes the whole thing taste sweeter, but it's not the MOST important thing. You can have a REALLY nice cake with no icing at all.
Get your life in order and if you... (read in full...)
I don't know whether he's a perv or maybe he likes me?
Q. Well, today in the morning an old friend of mine came by to help me with math and I thought it was very kind of him to do so. In fact I learned a lot from him, but somehow we ended up slacking off. Then all of a sudden he pops a random question to ...
A. 9 October 2009: He's pushing his luck so he can get his hands on you.
He's coming on to you.
I think he was trying to find out what his chances were of getting sex or at least some sexual action.
You may need to have a chat with him and tell him that you ar... (read in full...)
Does being too nice drive women away?
Q. Along time ago my mother told me I was too nice to women and this is why my relationships never last.I have been married two times.The first about 5 years and the second about 9 years..I have had a couple of girl friends after this but nothing ...
A. 8 October 2009: Of course your mother is going to say you were too nice!!
She's hardly going to turn round and tell her little boy that he's a controlling, jealous, abusive, cheating, mummy's boy. Mum's just won't do that, even if you were like that.
If you ... (read in full...)
How can I get back with my girlfriend?
Q. Hi, I went out with this girl for about 2 weeks, she was like my best friend before, But she stil is now. The reason we broke up was because it was really awkward, but that was mainly due to my friends being twats. So it was like awkward in the w...
A. 8 October 2009: Well you have to fix the problems before you can get here back.
What's to stop your friends from ruining it again?
You need to get your life in order and then when you can show her that you will take it seriously and be able to see her without ... (read in full...)
He lied and cheated, so why is he in contact with me now!
Q. Can you help me understand this? My ex-boyfriend and I broke up two years ago. We were together for two years. After we broke up, I found out that he'd lied and cheated multiple times! Anyway, we continues being friends. We live in differen...
A. 8 October 2009: It makes him feel less bad about himself if you carry on seeing him.
Plus he knows you are there as a plan B if he ever wants easy sex. You've forgiven him enough to be his friend so he thinks you are stupid enough to sleep with him or give him... (read in full...)
Why didn't the nurse ask me more questions?
Q. I've just come home after having my flu jab done... What i was wondering: ever time I've had it done so far I have always been asked if im on the pill, if I'm pregnant/ if there is a chance of being pregnant, if I'm allergic to eggs or if I've been ...
A. 6 October 2009: Call the GP's office tomorrow and ask to speak to the nurse. Hopefully you'll get a different one and then you can talk to her about it over the phone.
It's ALWAYS better to be safe than sorry so use condoms for a while until you get the answer t... (read in full...)
I'm really frustrated that I'm a virgin at 20 when I had the chance to lose it to a really hot girl when I was a teenager!
Q. Dear Cupid, hi. long story short. back in the 7th grade, a girl asked me out. this girl was hot. big boobs, nice glowing skin, nice butt. she was one of those girls that was very sexual and flirtatious with the boys. anyway, she wanted to go out w...
A. 6 October 2009: I had the chance to go on a really great roller coaster when I was 15 but I didn't. Now I'm regretting the fact I will never be able to go on roller coasters again...
Does that make sense? I'm sure you're asking yourself why I can't just go and b... (read in full...)
I'm angry a scan did not detect my mother's cancer. what do I do?
Q. My mother died of lung cancer the end of August this year - it was not detected until after her death. For the past year she has been going to the doctors complaining of text book symptoms. She had a scan in April which came back clear. After her ...
A. 5 October 2009: Report it.
I'm not sure if there is a medical council in America. We have one in the UK that licences doctors and can punish them if they miss things.
I'm not sure if in America you just have to sue them. You can always give the cash to char... (read in full...)
How can I drop hints I might be pregnant
Q. how can i drop hints to my mam i might be pregnant because i think i am because i am late on my period and my stomach is growing also i am going to the loo alot please help i have no one i get home schooled and the nearest town is 50 miles away...
A. 5 October 2009: Well considering you have no one you've managed to get pregnant..... That normally takes 2 people.
You just have to tell her.
If she's home schooled you then she's been in charge of your sex education and she's not done a good enough job.
B... (read in full...)
Two guys, only in love with one but can't get rid of the other, what shall I do?
Q. Ok this is rather complicated and i am really stuck with it... Ive met a guy (boy 1) nd he is really sweet he asked me out and i said yes. But, there is another guy hu loves me(boy 2), i like him but not in that way and he tld me tht the only thing ...
A. 5 October 2009: You're aware that his friend is probably lying to you?
His friend is probably actually him trying to hurt you for hurting him.
Call his parents and see what the truth is. And if it does turn out to be lies, then tell them what he's been threat... (read in full...)
How ridiculous is this??
Q. Me and this guy I like have been mates for years and we've been flirting for a couple of months and everyone said he liked me, so I finally got up the courage to ask him out and he said he couldn't be with me because I was white and it'd be too ...
A. 4 October 2009: Did you not notice while you were mates with him that he had racist views and was an idiot.
Sounds like you've had a lucky escape in that you've seen his nasty side before you wasted any time on him as a girlfriend.
Tell him you'll save him ... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of my 'easy' label?
Q. When I was 13, I became sexually active with my brother's 18 yr old friend. He didn't force me but he did presure me and say things like if I loved him I would do it. Since then I have been sexually active with several guys. I always go out on ...
A. 4 October 2009: Well if you want rid of the label then stop acting like that.
You need to STOP having sex with guys.
You need to get some self respect and say no to these guys and then you'll find a guy who respects you and actually LIKES you enough to spend ... (read in full...)
Is 9 years too much of a gap?
Q. hi everyone i like this girl who i don't know i know that i should go up to her ask her out but she is 9 years older than me and i am fine with that but i know that some people think it's not right for people to get together and are a good few y...
A. 4 October 2009: The chances of her being impressed by some little teenager using a chat up line are ZERO!!
If you want her then get to know her.
But to be honest, I don't fancy your chances.
Talk to her and be her friend, see what happens.
Good Luck!! ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to instantly respond to my emails?
Q. it takes my male friend over 2 weeks to reply to my emails, sometimes more. He says it's because of his job. He works in a hotel as the manager, but I just can't get my head round it as he works in an office with a computer. I end up emailing him ...
A. 4 October 2009: He clearly just doesn't do email.
So stop using it. Phone him text him or send him some post.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Should I give up on my abusive boyfriend?
Q. My bf has broken up with me for the 2nd time now. He would always abuse me. Now he wants me back again. My head is telling me not to take him back because he will just abuse me again and I will end up in the same horrible position I was before, if ...
A. 4 October 2009: Your heart is an idiot.
You know that this is such a cliche it's ridiculous.
"He says he's change!" "But I love him!!" "He's making me feel bad if I say no."
Listen to yourself and wake up.
This guy knows how to twist you and make you do... (read in full...)
How do I get a man to want me and not my body?
Q. hey i have a problem i am really lonely although i get alot of attention from guys they all just want sex from me and i dont want to have sex until im either married or in a serious relationship but all my friends tell me to keep a guy i have to ...
A. 3 October 2009: Most guys in this day and age will want sex, so your options are to get married pretty soon into the relationship, or accept that you are going to have to look for a LONG time to find one who believes in no sex before marriage.
It could well be ... (read in full...)
How do you reconcile differences and live w/ the unresolvable? How do you know the person is worth it?
Q. (Mod Note: Two questions in one.) How do you reconcile differences and live w/ the unresolvable? How do you do this w/o feeling that you have compromised your values to be w/ someone? How do you feel intimacy and attraction to your partner by ag...
A. 3 October 2009: I'm not over 35 so I can only answer the top few questions:
Don't put up with unsolvable problems. If a relationship is not right then it is not right. Love is replaceable and there are other guys out there who will not have the same problems... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's self esteem issues turned me off of him, now I just want to break up with him
Q. Hello, So about fiveish months ago I met an amazing guy (my boyfriend), attractive, nice and caring. A couple weeks into actually dating each other he would make comment's every now and then like “you’re beautiful, are you positive you like me". I w...
A. 3 October 2009: Yeah, this guy seems to not quite be 100% mentally healthy.
It's this kind of guy that can often turn very nasty and try to put you down as a way to keep you with them.
I'm really glad you've seen through him early on and realised this is... (read in full...)
I don't want to go through with the arranged marriage for me!
Q. please help i am 19year old girl and my arranged marriage is getting closer and closer i am terrified and dont want to go through with it. i come from an indian family and my dad is very traditional and believes everyone in the west sho...
A. 2 October 2009: If you are in the uk then you can call this number.
0207 008 0151.
It's a government group set up and designed to help people being pressured into marriage against their will.
It is illegal in the uk for your parents to put any kind of press... (read in full...)
Madly in love and she just got engaged to someone else!
Q. hi everyone this girl who i'm madly in love with has just got engaged. I think about her all of the time and everything that i see reminds me of her. i would like to tell her how i feel but i know that if i do it will just be complicated betw...
A. 2 October 2009: Yep you really have messed this one up. But we all do stupid things like this in our teens.
In general if you like a girl you have to tell her up front. So she doesn't think you are her friend and trust you with things when in reality you are not ... (read in full...)
After 5 years the relationship is so boring!
Q. Hi I've been with my boyfriend for about five years now. The relationship has become so boring. We do not do anything like go out to a movie or dinner. We just stay at home. He's pretty cold to me too. No cuddling or kissing. We don't even ...
A. 22 September 2009: Well you are either in a rut that you can get yourselves out of, or the relationship has run its course.
Staying in and doing nothing can kill any relationship.
The first thing you need to do is sit him down and tell him you are not happy an... (read in full...)
I would love to have a boyfriend and have sex...
Q. I'm 24 and I still live at home with my parents and brother. I've not had a boyfriend since I was at school and I am still a virgin. I'm very shy and don't go out much. I would like to have a boyfriend and have sex. What should I do?...
A. 22 September 2009: Well since you say you don't go out much, the first thing you should do it go out more.
Make some friends, join some clubs or a gym, be friendly, get chatting.
You need a life first of all and a boyfriend will come along after that.
Good Lu... (read in full...)
He's amazing but registers on dating sites. How do I get through this?
Q. i've been with this guy for over ayear. he totally shows me that he loves me and my kids. i'm totally inlove with him and would marry him. but he recisters on dating sites. that sems to me like he looking for something better. he says its nothing ...
A. 22 September 2009: You should get past this by realising this guy is using you.
Is this all you really think you are worth?
Tell him to bugger off and register on all the dating sites he wants.
You want an actual man who knows how to treat a lady, rather tha... (read in full...)
I'm looking for some clarification when it comes to dating...can anyone help?
Q. I've been out of touch with the dating world for years now. Now I'm completely over my ex and getting out there dating guys, but I'm not quite sure what the usual expectations are when dating. I'd love some clarification on any or all of these ...
A. 22 September 2009: It's very different depending on where you are in the world...
Americans like to see lots of people at the same time and then pick one and have a serious sit down talk about it, and dump the rest.
Sounds like a nightmare to me!
In the UK... (read in full...)
Does he think I'm a freak?
Q. i started throwing up in the middle of the night and intense pains in my abdomen, i started freaking out cus i was alone and started calling pals at 3 in the morning...i also called this i guy id been seeing and know for three months. the next day...
A. 22 September 2009: Calm down there!
If he's going to get freaked out by the fact that some people have personal things going on outside of office hours, you really need to ask yourself why you are bothering.
Everyone gets ill. Just tell him you were ill.
Me... (read in full...)
What can I do to patch things up?
Q. My girlfreind brok up with me a few months ago now and I dont know what to do. I still Really love her and need to find a way to get back with her. The issue is i made stupid mistakes when she dumped me, I talked about how she was a hypocrite ...
A. 21 September 2009: If you want to make it up with her then you just have to talk to her. Get her alone and tell her how you feel. Tell her you are sorry and want another chance.
If she still says no then you just have to move on.
Spend time with your friends and... (read in full...)
We fight because I don't like the decisions he makes!
Q. Hey there, i have a problem that i would really like advice on. My bf and i tend to fight alot and i know why i just dont know how i can fix it, and i take blame for the fights. I try to change him into being the perfect bf that i want, but i kn...
A. 21 September 2009: You have to accept that if you are going to date a teenage boy then he is going to act like a teenage boy.
You can't act like his mother and try and bring him up into a nice young man.
You just have to deal with the fact that at his age, he w... (read in full...)
Hormones are way Out...Why?
Q. For the last fortnight i feel that my hormones have been out of sync. I am the type of girl that needs to be brought of her shell in the bedroom with my boyf of 6 months but these last few weeks I have been wild and horny alot, so not like me. M...
A. 21 September 2009: Looks like you are heading out of puberty and into that lovely balanced phase.
Puberty can stretch from 11 to 21, so you are probably entering the last phase of changes, all the icing on the cake as it were.
There is nothing there that sound... (read in full...)
He wants to know every single thing I do and if I don't tell him he goes in a mood...
Q. I need some help, my husband seems to want to know every little thing I am doing and when I don't tell him as I am busy doing something he will go out in a mood. He has been known to go to my mum and say all sorts so she rings me having a go at me. ...
A. 21 September 2009: I advise you get really tough right now and scare him so much that he REALLY thinks twice about acting this way.
Next time he goes in one of his moods you tell him you have had enough of this. You didn't sign up to marry a controlling monster ... (read in full...)
She's got a boyfriend but desires me
Q. I met this girl this summer. I'm extremely attracted to her. We have a lot of sexual tension or some sort of desire for each other. It's a radiating energy that we feed off. I've been single and met a lot of girls over the past 5 years but this one ...
A. 21 September 2009: Well if she wants to be with you then she'll dump him.
If it was just a crazy night of fun then she'll stay with him.
Just accept that some things are perfect at the time, but not going to happen in the big picture.
Have that night as a ... (read in full...)
My Ex Keeps Threatening My Girlfriend
Q. Hello Aunts, Hi got a problem and its i mean shes been bugging me for a while.My X wont leave me alone.We broke up 8 months ago.I have a new girlfriend and i love her to bits but my x keeps threating her.i hate her so much.ive never le...
A. 21 September 2009: Well you are young so if it's happening at school, report her for being a bully.
If it's happening not at school then ask your parents to tell her parents that harassment is a crime and you don't want to get the police involved but you will if ... (read in full...)
Partner has too many friends and it makes me jealous and insecure
Q. my partner has so many guy friends she says she knows them she tells me theyre just friends i trust her but im naturally insecure it hurts i want the attention im jealous am i being selfish? am i thinking wrong? what should i be thinking?...
A. 21 September 2009: I think you need to talk to her about it. NOT complain, simply say that it makes you a little bit jealous when she has all these guys around her.
Ask her for a little bit of reassurance when she is around her guy friends so they and you are remi... (read in full...)
Boyfriend pushing me to get a breast lift
Q. I am 20 and my breasts have been sagging since I was 18, when I lost a lot of weight. My boyfriend has for quite a long time been asking me(frequently) if I could get a breast lift done in the future. As of now I don't have the money but should I ...
A. 21 September 2009: If you want surgery at some point in your life then that's up to you.
I know it's something I may well consider when I get a bit older and have more cash as mine have been big and are starting to head south now I'm hitting my later 20's.
... (read in full...)
Two guys, only in love with one but can't get rid of the other, what shall I do?
Q. Ok this is rather complicated and i am really stuck with it... Ive met a guy (boy 1) nd he is really sweet he asked me out and i said yes. But, there is another guy hu loves me(boy 2), i like him but not in that way and he tld me tht the only thing ...
A. 28 June 2008: Well don't dump boy 2. Just start dropping things into the conversation so he knows it is never going to happen.
Thinks like "You're such a nice guy. I don't know why you don't have a girlfriend. What do you think of Sally?" Only obviousl... (read in full...)
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