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writes:I met a guy on the bus exactly a week ago Basically, something that happened on the bus made me laugh and I really couldn't stop laughing! We were squashed up at the front of the bus as it was rush hour so there wasn't any seats. Anyway, he laughed at how much I was laughing and said 'that tickled you didn't it!' and when I had calmed down some seats had become avaliable so I moved away from him to sit down.We got off at the same stop and we were walking next to each other when he just started talking to me, firstly he asked if I lived in the area and then we were just talking for about 5 minutes about general stuff about ourselves. I told him where I worked and he said he'd stop by sometime. He asked me my name, and my last name and I asked him his. We did seem to 'click' when we were talking, I didn't feel uncomfortable around him at all.I know really I should have asked for his number but at the time I just assumed he would come in to see me. Well its been exactly a week and he hasn't been in. Because he hasn't come in does that indicate his not interested? I keep thinking through reasons he hasn't come when he said he would... Did he decide he didn't really like me but wanted to be nice? Is he nervous to come in? Has he forgot where the shop I work is? [Although I did explain where it was and he seemed to know.] Maybe his being working and hasn't had time?Im really disappointed he didn't come in. Im 19 and never had a boyfriend before, and I quite liked him. His 22, lives near me, and was just my type. Perhaps im just not his...?
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reader, DiamondGirlx +, writes (25 November 2009):
 I agree with emilyanswers, you havn't even known him that long he could have been lying to you, he might no have really been from your area or like she said he could have been a serial killer (joking honest).
I think it was just one of those days where you pulled a bloke thats all, i mean imagine if u did ask for his number after just meeting him he might of thought you were too desperate or something.
Think of it this way if you pulled this guy on a bus you most probably could pull more when your our with friends or something.
anyways hope you find sum1 soon Best of luck D.Gx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 November 2009):
Maybe he thought you were interested in him. And that's a shame, because you did seem to get on. But we men aren't great at seeing the signs. And yes, maye he was just working a lot. If you see him again, get talking once more and make sure you get his number! He doens't know you're not his type because he doesn't know you! I'm sure you're disappointed, but smile. You're a great girl, and even if this guy isn't the one, there will be another out there.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (25 November 2009):
He's probably just been busy. Or he's a serial killer and has been sent to prison. Or he's caught swine flu. Who knows!!
You shouldn't be pinning all your hopes for happiness on some random guy you've spent exactly 5 minutes with.
If you want a boyfriend then go out and meet some guys. Get your friends to introduce you to their male friends and join some new clubs and things to meet new people.
Good Luck!! xx
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