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We both like each other, but she is stressed and busy. What shall I do?
Q. I'm currently extremely confused at this situation: Me and this girl i really like went on a date to the movies and it went extremely well. We were totally comfortable around eachother and she kept messing with her hair and mine, kept touching my...
A. 12 August 2008: I would leave her alone for a while and if she texts you then text back but only if SHE TEXTS YOU FIRST!
i can understand why it would be a problem at the moment if you were togetehr as i guess you wouldn't see much of each other and when you did ... (read in full...)
I am having trouble getting over her past. Help!
Q. My girlfriend has a sexual past, as do I. But for some reason hers bothers and haunts me. She's lived a much different life than me. She just got divorced about 2 years ago, and has been with 5 guys since. My mind can't stop picturing her past, It ...
A. 12 August 2008: You need to BELIEVE taht it was all in the past and that she is with you now, no one else and that she's changed since then like you have
I know it's easy to say but you need to try to forget about it completely and realise that things like that... (read in full...)
I accused my boyfriend of cheating, but I was wrong. How do I get him back?
Q. i recently accused my boyfriend of cheating on me when i later found out he wasnt now he isnt talkin to me i cant live without him how do i get him back? please help...
A. 12 August 2008: Uh ohhh
Obviously you really need to apolagise and do a lot of grovelling
He's obviously very upset and hurt by your accusations
You need to tell him how much you love him and say that deep down you knew he would never hurt you
Don't go too ... (read in full...)
Out of a relationship into another, right or wrong ?
Q. isit ok to go straight out of a serious relationship into another, personally i feel that theres nothing wrong with it but you must make sure your ready to be into another serious relationship, but id like your opinion please give me your awnsers...
A. 12 August 2008: What made you get out of you're first relationship?
Because if it's quite a silly reason then what makes you think you wont feel the same about this other girl?
You're quite young to be having a 'serious' relationship, so maybe take some time out... (read in full...)
I'm too embarassed to take my top off in front of a girl...
Q. im to embaressd to take my top off in front of a girl and im not sure what to do with it ? i have been working out latley and i was previously a boxer so i do still do skipping and spend time weight lifting and on my punchbag, but it dont seem to ...
A. 12 August 2008: Girls wouldn't be too worried i can asure you
well......as long as you're not like 20stone or something! lol
but it seems that you're not
Personally i don't really study a boys body, i take them at face value
and just think, if a girl doesn't lik... (read in full...)
I think I'm ready for sex but part of me is thinking I'm too young... am I?
Q. I'm 12 years old and have been thinking about sex for a couple of weeks and i really want to try it and no i'm not a slut/slag or whatever you want to call it so my boyfriend who is 3 years older(been with him for a year and totally in love ...
A. 12 August 2008: You are too young and i would seriously wait
If your bf loves you then he'll wait and it will prove your love for each other
Sex isn't great anyway so your not missing much!!!
People would have so much more respect for you if you wait and trust me... (read in full...)
How do I handle this mean girl at school?
Q. Please help me...there is this girl in my friendship groupe and she realy hates me. TO my face she is lovely but I know behind my back she is constantly bitching. Sometimes she will drop random snide comments in front of everyone which embarres me. ...
A. 12 August 2008: Jealousy
She sounds as if she's just jealous of you so really you should feel quite proud knowing that whatever she says about you is a lie and a way to make her feel better because she might prefer to be in your shoes
Don't let some silly girl rui... (read in full...)
How can I deal with my ex?
Q. Hi, i was in a 7 year relationship with someone i really really loved. I did everything i could for him, while he attended school and just when ever he didn't have anything. He would never do anything with me at all. He always acted liked he was ...
A. 12 August 2008: i understand that you want the best for your daughter right?
Well if you think she is in danger when she's around this evil woman then you can stop her seeing her and even come to an agreement that she doesn't see your daughter.
But even though w... (read in full...)
Will a holiday romance work? I really want to change my life!
Q. I met a really nice boy on holliday and spent the whole week with him, im now back home in England and can't stop thinking of him!! Im going down to see him in a couple of weeks as he lives down near London. I really like him but don't know how he ...
A. 15 July 2008: I feel exactly the same with a rumour about me I went to a 6th form party when i was in year11 and at the party i got drunk and kissed one of the boys but people have said i let him do more to me on the sofa!!! I know i didn't because i wern't... (read in full...)
What pet names can you call a guy?
Q. A guy calls you 'baby, huni, sexy.' But what can you call a guy? ...
A. 15 July 2008: errrrrr i hate boys calling me things like babes, bub and hunny
it's THE most off putting thing ever
I call boys sugar or sweety pie because it makes me laugh and they always know i'm not benig serious when i say it
why on earth you'd think abou... (read in full...)
I am small chested, and concerned with my image, any advice for me?
Q. Well this is going to sound akward, but anyways, we were on a school trip a while ago and everyone was wearing vest tops and obvoiusly you could see the shape of there breasts and stuff - okay so that sounded totally strange! but I dont have much of ...
A. 8 July 2008: Padded bras have saved me!
Also i used to put bronzer between the two boobs and also on the rounded part at the top which makes then look a bit fuller... (read in full...)
People are making fun of me because my dad died
Q. hi my dad has died 5 years ago every one makes fun off me because of this what should i do ????????????????????????????...
A. 13 June 2008: They probably just don't know what to say
But still, what they are doing is unexceptional
Tell an adult
Try to ignore them even if it is hard, they are the people who aren't going to grow up with respect and pride trust me... (read in full...)
How do we 'play' a guy who's a real player??!?
Q. Okayy. Me and my friend have a problem; this guy keeps trying to get in every girls pants he approaches, tries to kiss EVERYONE, and he is just being a plain player. We need revenge. How do we play the player? Loveee, Project Hairspray [PS....
A. 11 June 2008: I would love the answer to that question too!
Personally i seem to always get the players but i've kinda learnt how to play them back
I just flirt with them and their mates which makes me laugh if they're all interested and then just leave them all... (read in full...)
Does he like me more than a mate?
Q. heya peeps does this guy like me more than a friend should do? theres this guy i know and hes really shy but he speaks to me loads when i see him.His dad kept teasing him coz we spent an hour on the phone and he doesnt apparently spen...
A. 10 June 2008: Awwwww he does sound quite cute actually!
It seems as if he likes you!
He may just be annoying you to get your attention because he has nothing to say at the precise moment?
Ask him if he likes you, he might say no but actually mean yes though b... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity. I'm ready...
Q. I am a 16 year old teen who lives in London, I am actually from India and I am not used to talk to girls that much I am finding hard to talk to a girl, but I really want to have sex with a girl, I watch too much porn and ready for everything. I ...
A. 10 June 2008: If you find it hard to talk to a girl then how are you going to find it having sex with her?
Find yourself a nice girl who you can feel relaxed around but take it slow, you may think you're ready but when it comes down to it.....you're probably not.... (read in full...)
Lost my virginity but it still hurts... Why?
Q. please i need help!! me and my boyfriend have only just started having sex and we've had it about 7 times together. Now i was a virgin until now...and for some reason it still hurts every time we have it! i dont enjoy it and it sometimes bleeds...
A. 31 May 2008: Relax
The same thing happens to me
I bleds the first two times and it still hurts a bit now!
Now as Aunt letty said- Do lots of foreplay!
And go gentlely at first!
The pain will ease eventually
good luck =]... (read in full...)
When your boyfriend plays video games for hours and hours a day does it turn anyone else off?
Q. When your boyfriend plays video games for hours and hours a day does it turn anyone else off? My boyfriend and I live together, and he is always on, and when he isn't doing that it's porn. His love of video games is so juvenile and puts me in a...
A. 28 May 2008: It would really bug me! i hate video games and find it so annoying when i'm round someones house and they are playing it!
I would tell him how you feel about it or distract him another way, if that doesn't work then don't give him what he wants unti... (read in full...)
Information about the first time needed!
Q. Dear Cupid, Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we haven't been sexually active. We are both virgins and plan on having sex together soon. My problem is, since I've never had sex, I dont know much about it. So I wan...
A. 24 May 2008: I personally don't think it's that great
But i have only been with one person and was quite dissapointed!
It hurts a bit but only to start off with so tell him to be gentle
It may be a bit awkward and clumsy but it will get better and easier
Afte... (read in full...)
Any ideas for asking her without making it obvious?
Q. I think I like my friend. She used to be in my lessons 2yrs ago than we went different schools. We meet often randomly walking past. Recently. Think I like her. I don't know if she does. She smiles alot, laughs n likes my personality but she is a ...
A. 23 May 2008: Add her on msn or something if you don't want to ask her out personally
But if she's a nice person then even if she does reject you i doubt she'll bring you down to the ground
Be brave!!... (read in full...)
How can I tell her she's pretty without leting her know I like her?
Q. If a girl says she looks bad in her picture what can I say positive to make her feel good without being corny or giving signs that I like her???...
A. 23 May 2008: Trust me, the more compliments the better!!
All girls love receiving them, so don't be hesistant because i doubt she'll say 'errrr that's sooo corny don't ever say anything like that again' lol
Just say something like 'don't be silly i think yo... (read in full...)
Crap first time.
Q. I'm not the most articulate person, so forgive me if this is a bit poor. When i was fifteen i lost my virginity, to this day i regret it and if i could turn back time i would. Basically it was a really bad experience with a girl that i wasnt eve...
A. 23 May 2008: Ilost mine at 15 too
I slightely regret it as it was with someone who i've only met once and has slept with more people that you could count on both hands and feet!
But it doesn't really bother me, you'll learn to move on and although you'll n... (read in full...)
I like her sooo much, but I'm confused by this!
Q. Okay, im now a junior in highschool, and ive liked this certain girl since my freshman year, i dont know why, but i do soooo much. I got a job at a grocery store, and then she started working there, but the twist is that she started talking to one ...
A. 23 May 2008: Tell her how you feel
You'll never know how she feels otherwise
If you don't want to do it to her face then you could tell her over msn or something???
If she doesn't feel the same then at least you can move on... (read in full...)
He broke up with me for no reason, but I still want him as a friend! Help me understand!
Q. Okay, well I just graduated from high school, and I was dating this guy, since freshman year, and in the middle of this year, he just broke it off. No reason, nothing, he just ended it. It shattered my heart, and it feels like its in so many peices ...
A. 22 May 2008: You're still very young and un experienced with 'love' I've been in love with someone for 2years, ill never stop loving him but i just can't see the point in waiting for him anymore. Anway, you will get over it, you always do! But it may take a wh... (read in full...)
Has anyone got any tips for how to cope with exams?
Q. This year, I've had several GCSE's that i'm taking a year early, and have felt immensely stressed. Has anyone got any tips for how to cope next year, when I've got 12 exams? Or how do you deal with stress? ...
A. 22 May 2008: Take a day off, then the next day revise, take a day off, then revise the next day etc
That's how i cope although i only have 6 exams!!!
Also.....get at least 8hours of sleep each day! (it helps trust me)... (read in full...)
My family is happy for me, but my boyfriend is freaking out and hasn't told his parents I'm pregnant!
Q. I am 21 years old and I just found out I'm pregnant. My family is happy for me, but my boyfriend, who is 20 is freaking out. He won't tell his parents because he's scared of their reaction. Is there anything I can do to help him with this? ...
A. 22 May 2008: Give him time but gently pursuade him to tell them and tell him that it's a good thing that you are pregnant and that his parents will think so too... (read in full...)
I met him on holiday and miss him so much. Any advice out there for me?
Q. Hi i met this guy on holiday about 4 years ago, only for a week and really liked him, he made me feel special and i have never felt more myself and confident and alive. He was about 3-4 years younger. I was kind of in a relationship, and i knew he l...
A. 22 May 2008: I 'fell in love' with someone when i went on Holiday, theres still not a day that goes by without me thinking about them even though it was nearly 3years ago, i'd do anything to go bac and see him, i had panick attacks and couldn'r stop crying when ... (read in full...)
Is my penis a problem?
Q. Hi, I'm 22 years old and still a virgin. One of the reasons for this is that I have a complex about my penis. It's slightly twisted and has a small curve in it. I was wondering if this would be something that would put girls off or that they wou...
A. 22 May 2008: it's normal
but if you do feel really uncomfortable about this then maybe the duvet would help your confidence?... (read in full...)
Should I feel guilty for wanting to sleep with him before marriage?
Q. Hi, i would like some advice.Im a 25 year old catholic virgin and have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now-we are both in love and plan to marry.I have always wanted to wait i was married before having sex and my boyfriend is so loving and unde...
A. 22 May 2008: WAIT
I would, it will be worth it in the end as it's something you've felt strongly about, i mean what's the rush?
(it's not that good anyway) and i felt stupid and knew i should of waited when i lost my virginity, i wouldn't want you to feel the... (read in full...)
I get turned on my female sex... is there something wrong with me?
Q. i get easily turned on by watching 2 girls have sex. but i'm not a lesbian!!! is there something wrong with me or is this normal?...
A. 22 May 2008: Theres nothing wrong with you
i bet lots of people your age will be feeling the same as you are just beggining to explore your sexuality
I wouldn't worry about it... (read in full...)
This boy slapped my bum, what should I do?
Q. Today i was walking up the stairs in my school when suddenly a boy slapped me on the bum! I turned round to see it was a year seven (i'm in year eight) who also happens to be my cousin's best friend! My cousin is also in year 7, and he is real...
A. 21 May 2008: I think you should just ignore it.....he probably wont do it again but if he does and it really starts to get to you.....then do it to him back!! He'll probably be quite shocked and wont do it again!... (read in full...)
One moment my BF acts like we are a couple, the next he doesn't want to know, why?
Q. hi people! ok so here's my problem. I'm currently going out with my boyfriend and I love him to bits! He says he loves me the same, more than anything he says. We mess about you know talking about sex and what have you and some days he's like "I l...
A. 20 March 2008: I soppose he may be just seeing if you'll go running back to him saying you'll do things, but i would do what he said and just stand there then he will eventually come round and he should respect you more. If he seriously did love you then he ... (read in full...)
My friend 'got off' with somebody...what does it mean??
Q. My friend came back from the cinema a couple of days ago saying she had got off with a boy i know. At first i thought it was sex but shes only 13 and it was in the cinema so its unlikely to be that!! I really want to know what it means though. S...
A. 20 March 2008: no no no
this means kissed, as in snogged, not just a peck on the cheek
i would personally justify this as cheating... (read in full...)
How can I get my family out of the house for a while?
Q. How can I get my parents and brothers out of the house for a few hours while I invite my girlfriend round? My mum has said before that if I wanted to bring a gf round then to ask her and she'll disappear for a while but theres no way she'll do that ...
A. 3 January 2008: its best to be honest with her
trust me!
she'll only go mad otherwise, if i asked my mum to leave the house she'd defanately refuse!
she only cares about you and thats why she's giving you lectures.
Anway why does everyone have to be out the ho... (read in full...)
If you've just finished, but he says he loves you, is having sex with him the right thing to do?
Q. If you were seeing some one for quite a while and total in love but still a virgin and really thought he was the one to do it with... however you have just recently finished because of certain circumstances but he told you he still loved you... is ...
A. 3 January 2008: no its not the right thing to do!
Your virginity is the only thing that is yours and you can only give it out once, would you really want to give such a precious thing to someone you're not even with?... (read in full...)
Is there any danger of me contracting an STI?
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend today for the first time. (We were both virgins before). I'm happy about it, except from one thing. We didn't use protection because it wasn't really planned. If I go and get the morning after pill tomorrow, should...
A. 3 January 2008: you should defanately get the morning after pill as soon as you can
if he was a virgin then no you couldn't of caught an STI
Next time though use a condom so you wont have to worry!... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin with spots. Will this put the boys off me?
Q. I am a 15 yr old girl and i have been single for around a year now. i feel its the right time to get a boyfreind but there are non anywere and i feel none will like me because i am a virgin and i have spots which i feel put them off me. i dont have ...
A. 3 January 2008: trust me there is always at least one nice boy wherever you go, you just have to find them!
To do this you have to be confident, im a virgin but my current bf and the ones before didn't mind!
If it did put a boy off you then they wouldn't be worth... (read in full...)
Afraid my friend is anorexic
Q. I'm really worried about a friend of mine, she is becoming obsessed with what she eats. She has started writing a 'food diary' with what she eats every day, I looked at it and it has things like 'half a bowl of soup', 'half a mars bar' etc. I'm ...
A. 12 November 2007: Well i personally wouldn't ask her about these things yet.
I would give her a lot of compliments about the way she looks
She may just feel down about herself
but if it does get serious and she starts loosing weight then aske her about it, but in a... (read in full...)
My bf broke up with me, feeling humiliated I was successful while he was not. How do you forget your first love?
Q. Dear Cupid my boyfriend broke up with me for a reason that is way unbelievable, his reason was I had a future and his life was a trash, because of this I humiliated him, but then I apologized; after this I heard from my friend that he was cour...
A. 3 November 2007: You will slowly get over him
try not to speak to him until you are completely over him
also try avoiding seeing him
if you seek reven ge then he will think that you still like him and it will look a bit sad and desperate
show him that you're not ... (read in full...)
Rape victim wants to be thought as virgin
Q. Hey. When I Was 13 I Was Raped By A Guy And His Friends 3 Times And I Didnt Tell AnyyOne About It Although I Wish I Had Of Doe But Its Too Late Now. Well Any Wayy When Me And My Friends Are Talking About Boyfriends And Stuff At School They Alwa...
A. 17 October 2007: you can either tell them your past and hope they can deal with it or not tell them and just tell them that you're a virgin
if it was me i would just say i was a virgin but then before having sex i would tell my partner what had happend, so at leas... (read in full...)
I'm 14, he's 17, is it wrong to date?
Q. Hey.. Im a 14 year old girl.. and in love with a 17 year old guy.. He feels the same way about me. We care for each other, and I personally could ever love anyone more then I love him.. We both want a future together, but some people deem it a...
A. 12 October 2007: i don't think its illegal, but i do live in the UK.
If you want to date this boy then just go for it!
As long as you know he's not going to use you or hurt you, because if you think he will then he's not worth it in the long run
You're ta... (read in full...)
How can the world's tallest hobbit (me!) get the girl?
Q. I am a very down to earth sweet young man with big dreams and aspirations. I am also built like Buddha. I can't seem to find a decent girl out there who will accept me. I'm not 100% sure of it but really really feel like girls judge me based on my ...
A. 3 October 2007: To be honest theres nothing wrong with jack black look wise!
Just be confident in the way you look and girls will like and sense that and could even come and talk to you!
Finding someone takes time, it doesn't just happen
... (read in full...)
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