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How can the world's tallest hobbit (me!) get the girl?
Q. I am a very down to earth sweet young man with big dreams and aspirations. I am also built like Buddha. I can't seem to find a decent girl out there who will accept me. I'm not 100% sure of it but really really feel like girls judge me based on my ...
A. 3 October 2007: To be honest theres nothing wrong with jack black look wise!
Just be confident in the way you look and girls will like and sense that and could even come and talk to you!
Finding someone takes time, it doesn't just happen
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His new gf is so rude to me...what does she want from me??
Q. Im so confused! Me and my boyfriend broke up for i dunno maybe a week or so and now hes got a new girl. We both chose to remain friends in hopes that theres still a chance that something will happen in the future (hes 15 im 14) well there is only ...
A. 3 October 2007: IGNORE HER!
she is obviously jealous that you went out with him, she may feel as if you may take him off of her, she is just protecting herself by getting hurt by hurting you!
If you can't confront this girl then talk to your ex about it
If you ar... (read in full...)
My fiance wants to wait two years until we're married! Isn't that too long?
Q. My fiance to get has told me to wait for 2 years from now so that we can get married,Isn't that too long.Advice please....
A. 3 October 2007: You are going to be together for all your life!
No two years isn't long, also if it didn't actually work out (im not saying it wont) then you will feel much better b/c you didn't marry him and spend a load of money!
He may not have enough money at... (read in full...)
My military bf is going on tour soon and I'm a nervous wreck!
Q. my boyfriend and i really love each other. We have been together 1 1/2 yrs. He is in the army - work is very important to him. He is going on tour soon and I'm turning into a nervous wreck, but he doesn't seem to understand. I am getting nervous if ...
A. 3 October 2007: Basically, if he loves you then i doubt he'll break up with you, y would he if he will see you again soon?
Don't woory about it, he could even be thinking the same as you are!
If it's really bothering you then you HAVE to talk to him about it, im s... (read in full...)
I started feeling weak, I was trembling, my legs felt like jelly, my head feeling really heavy and I felt as though I was going to faint...
Q. Hi There! I don't know quite how to explain this! But within the last hour, for at least 10 minutes I started feeling weak; I was trembling, my legs felt like jelly, my head feeling really heavy and I felt as though I was going to faint! I'm stil...
A. 28 September 2007: Slowly start eating more and more, if you don't then you will most probably faint or lose a lot of weight too quickly!
I know it's hard, i have a problem with fruit and vegetables, i have to force myself to eat them but after one bite then im sick... (read in full...)
I cry b/c I know I can't have him; if love is so great, then why do I feel pain and suffering?
Q. I know this might seem strange, but I think I'm in love, even though I'm 15. The guy that I love just turned 18. I like him for who he is, not because he's Mr. Whatever. I would take care of him; I would do whatever I could to help him. Every night, ...
A. 28 September 2007: Have you told this boi how u feel?
U should
If he doesn't like you then although it's hard, u need 2 forget about him.
You will move on eventually... (read in full...)
This guy swears he was my first, but I remember my kids' dad being my first! I feel as if I'm going insane!
Q. Iam in touch with a guy i used to date when i was 15 yrs old. Recently, he told me he was my first. I have no memory of this he tells me he started to enter and I stopped him as I was bleeding. But the thing is, I remember my first true experience ...
A. 26 September 2007: Well, you remember who your first is, and you always will
You're not going insane
This man just was probably trying to wind you up!... (read in full...)
I'm torn between an older man and my fiance, what do I do?
Q. ive been with my fiance for 5 years but over the last few months ive been seeing a man that is 11 years older than me, he is single but im falling for him or should i say i already have and i dont know what to do. i dont wanna hurt any one but...
A. 26 September 2007: You've been with this man for 5years!
I shall say no more =]... (read in full...)
I started feeling weak, I was trembling, my legs felt like jelly, my head feeling really heavy and I felt as though I was going to faint...
Q. Hi There! I don't know quite how to explain this! But within the last hour, for at least 10 minutes I started feeling weak; I was trembling, my legs felt like jelly, my head feeling really heavy and I felt as though I was going to faint! I'm stil...
A. 26 September 2007: Eat something!
R u hot?
I have this problem
If this carries on then go and see your doctor.
You may have high blood pressure
If you start to feel this again then breathe deeply, in through your nose, out through your motuh and sit down with yo... (read in full...)
How will I know when I'm ready to have Sex with him?
Q. hiya all i have been with my bf for a month now and we have dun pretty much everything apart from have sex.We are both still virgins, and he seys hes ready to have sex and hes being really good about it and is not pressuring me at all, but how will ...
A. 26 September 2007: A month, thats a short time!
I'd wait a bit longer, as you need to trust each other, and what's the point of having sex with someone who is just going to leave you after? (im not saying he is going to leave u)
Anyway, you'll know when you r ready,... (read in full...)
How do I get over my crush, for real this time?
Q. I've come to a decision. I'm going to try to get over my crush of three years. Yet I've tried so many times. Once I think I'm over him, he shows up out of the blue and it starts all over again. The only signs I've ever gotten to show he likes me...
A. 26 September 2007: well do you think there could never be anything more than just friends?
Have you told him how you feel?
If not then tell him! You never know, he could feel the same, or even give it go with you.
If not then you have to get rid of everything t... (read in full...)
Very confused by his mixed messages
Q. I don't really know what to do or how to feel. There's this guy at my school who I really like. I think he likes me too, but I am confused because he sends me mixed messages. Sometimes he's really friendly and wants to be close to me a lot, but ...
A. 25 September 2007: At this very moment in time, i feel the same with a boi i've liked for over a year!
And to be honest i haven't got a clue what to do!
Boiz r weird these days, it sounds as if he may like you, and it's kinda of good in a way that you didn't let into... (read in full...)
I like Michael Jackson... but my friends take the piss!
Q. HI,im back lol after the update on my last question which i stupidly put as an answer i think lol anyways i have yet another question **so glad i found this site haha** anyways ive been a michael jackson fan for like,well for ever -since i was 5,...
A. 25 September 2007: I luv michael jackson tooo
And yes i fort he was quite good looking until he had all that surgery! Darling, you can like whoever you wanna like, just don't listen to anyone if they say nasty stuff!
When ever i hear 'You rock my world' by michael ... (read in full...)
Is it possible this guy likes me?
Q. recently, i joined a guitar class. there is this guy i think i like. he is 4 years older than me and in polytecnic. he likes the clerk at the centre. i dont want to tell him i like him because i am scared he will not like me and i would be too ...
A. 24 September 2007: Hmmmmmmm, these reasons you've given me show that he likes you, but it possiably might just be as a friend. 4 years older than you so that makes him about, 15 right?
That's quite a big age gap at your age.
Personally i wouldn't get involved... (read in full...)
Does the colour of hair have an impact on a girl picking a guy for a boyfriend?
Q. does the colour of hair have an impact on a girl picking a guy for a boyfriend?. I have ginger hair and iv never had a gf. i know im not as confindent with girls as some of my friends are. ...
A. 24 September 2007: Well i soppose it does in ways
Imean you wouldn't want to be seen walking down the street holding hands with someonw who has blue hair would u?
It's all about reputation.
Don't worry about it too much, when a girl likes you, she wont worry about ... (read in full...)
I have no success with women. Any advice please?
Q. Hey everyone, I have to resort to these matters, because it has long surpassed what my best friends can do and I don't really think I can hold my mentality for much longer. My problem is, as it's probably common in here, I have no success with ...
A. 24 September 2007: C'mon darling
push yourself to talk to these lovely ladies!!!
I'm sure that when you make the first move, they'll make the second!
And you wont mess it up! I promise, us girls will help you out with the conversation, i promise. ok?
Just take a c... (read in full...)
I couldn't be pregnant because of this, right??
Q. Hi, a couple of weeks ago, me and my boyfriend were at my friends sixteenth. Me and him went upstairs, and were having dry sex, but my knickers were down and his boxers were off. He didn't go inside me, but his dick was there and came. afterward...
A. 24 September 2007: Yes you could
but it's a very slim chance
I mean, a man ejaculates thousands of sperm, but not all of them pass on and reach the egg, it olny takes one, most just sorta, well, die!
So it is very slim because he didn't actually go inside you w... (read in full...)
Do I try and get back with my ex boyfriend?
Q. ive been single for 2 months now and ive thought about getting back with an ex boyfriend from 4 years ago so i got in touch with him and all he said was he didnt know what he wanted but my friend told me to say to him why not just give it a go and ...
A. 24 September 2007: Why do you even want to get back him?
You split up right?
You haven't spoke or seen him for 2 months?
Do you only want to get back with him because you're lonely?
You split up for a reason, don't try and get back with him unless you actually rea... (read in full...)
I have no success with women. Any advice please?
Q. Hey everyone, I have to resort to these matters, because it has long surpassed what my best friends can do and I don't really think I can hold my mentality for much longer. My problem is, as it's probably common in here, I have no success with ...
A. 24 September 2007: Just be yourself
Flirt more, don't act too friendly
Compliment any girl you talk to
Smile a lot
Ask her about herself
Also don't judge a girl by her looks, she could be just what you've been waiting for!
Don't wait for the girl to come and tal... (read in full...)
Do I shave for first time sex?
Q. I want to have sex for my first time . But i want to know if i should shave my pubic hair ? Should i shave it all of ?...
A. 23 September 2007: Erm well, to make it look attractive yes you could tidy it up a bit
But it's up to you if you want to shave it all off
I do know that most boys like a 'shaven haven' though!
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How do I approach this girl?
Q. This is a follow-up to a question I posted earlier this month. The girl I have fancied for a year still has a boyfriend, but I've now realised that I LOVE HER. I'm dertermined to chat her up and tell her my feelings but when I see her, I lose my ...
A. 23 September 2007: She has a boyfriend!!
If you told her how you felt it could even make things worse for you and her as im sure that after having a boyfriend for a long time, she's not going to break up with him just because you like her too. Love is a pretty stro... (read in full...)
Is this guy just messing, or is it for real???
Q. ok... i have a guy at college.. he looks at me and when i look at him he smiles or even shows me wat he did from cross the room.. he always sits in a place where he will be able to make eye contact with me.. and when i started talking to him he was ...
A. 23 September 2007: Well it sounds as if he likes you, all the signs are there. Maybe he's just waitng for you to show some sort of affection before he does anything e.g. ask you out. Or you colud even surprise him by asking him out first! Only if you like him of ... (read in full...)
How can I stop thinking my boyfriend has cheated?
Q. What do you do if you suspect your boyfriend who you have a perfect relationship has cheated... but they swear on everything they didnt? How do you deal with this? I cant see him doing it, but I cant help but continuisly wondering 'what if' even tho ...
A. 23 September 2007: What evidence do you have to support what you are saying? If this boy says he's not cheating, then believe him, making a relationship work you need to have trust within each other. Just keep telling yourself that he's with you, no one else, he wants ... (read in full...)
I love him, he has some family and health problems and it's difficult to talk as he's not allowed to call.
Q. were both 14 ok his parents are divorced, his mom's in another city while he lives here with his dad who's currently getting another divorce separating him from his 2 brothers; hes having trouble in school his best friend turned against him with...
A. 23 September 2007: Well whatever you do don't talk about his parents or anything that is putting him down, he wont want to be reminded.
Basically just have a normal conversation with him, help him forget about his troubles.
Also everyone loves smiley people, so when ... (read in full...)
My daughter reported me to Social Services
Q. hi my 15 year old daughter has but social servies on me, she is saying that i don't love her and that she don't wont to come back home to me. she had run away alot of time but not done this before. to try and help i asked my family to let her stay...
A. 23 September 2007: Well your daughter wouldn't of done this for no reason
She might have felt that she didn't belong @ home, maybe you treated other siblings better than her? Or you never told her you loved her? Or moaned @ her for petty things? These are reasons why ... (read in full...)
Wondering if a good friend of mine is gay.
Q. Alright, so I'm just wondering here if a good friend of mine is gay, I'll try and make this breif... He's been going with a girl for a couple weeks, and he tells us (the guys he hangs with) that he's doing stuff with her... But the other night ...
A. 22 September 2007: Well i've just found out a good friend of mine is gay when before he has had a few gf'z, i always knew he was gay and that going out with girls were just cover ups but you can't call your friend gay just because he's 'rejecting' this girl, you need ... (read in full...)
I'm sleeping with a boy who is not my bf, how can I sort out who I like and what to do?
Q. hi. im 15 and have been with my boyfriend now for just over a year but i think i have fallen out of love with him already, we have been sexually active for 7 months and i have got to admit we are alright in that department but i just cant love him ...
A. 22 September 2007: Please don't keep this cheating going on! Your bf needs to be told, even if you are dumping him, he needs to know how you feel and what you've been doing, it will hurt him though. You're only 15, you're too young to be settled down but then again ... (read in full...)
Should I shave "down there" for him?
Q. I'm 15 and I wanna let a guy go down there. I want to shave but I don't because I don't have the right equipment and I don't wanna pay the consequences. The boy I'm planning it with really likes me and I like him and I know he really does because ...
A. 22 September 2007: Yes you should shave, even if not all off, some of it
If you do shave though you probably will come up with little red blotches down there
but it's normal
trust me
You don't have to shave but if it makes you feel comfortable then do it.
Don't do... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a guy to "babe watch" even being committed?
Q. Is it normal for the guys to go out and " babe watch" even if the guy is in a committed relationship? also, why does it upset so much when he looks at other women? should I tell him how I feel? of should I just let him look and say nothing?...
A. 22 September 2007: You shouldn't worry at all
it's quite normal, really
just tell him how you feel about it though, maybe he'll then keep his thoughts in his head.... (read in full...)
I love him, he has some family and health problems and it's difficult to talk as he's not allowed to call.
Q. were both 14 ok his parents are divorced, his mom's in another city while he lives here with his dad who's currently getting another divorce separating him from his 2 brothers; hes having trouble in school his best friend turned against him with...
A. 22 September 2007: It sounds like you are the only perosn here supporting this poor boy. Of course he's stressed, it sounds as if he's having an extreamly rough time with going through two divorces! No one will know how bad it is going through something like that ... (read in full...)
If I could I'd express my love to him now, but 14-15 is a bit young to lose my virginity, is it not?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are soo in love, we've been together for almost a year [11 months and 22 days] And we've discussed having sex for the past few months, i am not pressured at all and we're very matture about the subject. We've discussed contrcep...
A. 22 September 2007: If he loved as it sounds like he does as he is not presuring you then he would wait. Yes 14/15 is young, too young. Im nearly 16 and refuse to have sex until im in a stable relationship and im 16, because what's the point? Theres no rush at all, ... (read in full...)
Does he like me or is just using me?
Q. Hi i'm 13-14 years old and there is this guy i've like for 6 years and he always hugs me and stuff and even feels me and touches me etc sometime he kisses me anyways everytime he does that i like it but he then goes on about other girls who he ...
A. 22 September 2007: 6 years is an awfully long time! You see i've been in love with a boi for 1yr and im losing my mind! Anyway, if you do seriously like him, you need to tell him you can't keep on liking him without him knowing because then nothing will ever happen! ... (read in full...)
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