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Lost my virginity but it still hurts... Why?

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Question - (31 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 May 2008)
A female Australia, anonymous writes:

please i need help!!

me and my boyfriend have only just started having sex and we've had it about 7 times together. Now i was a virgin until now...and for some reason it still hurts every time we have it! i dont enjoy it and it sometimes bleeds a little!!

what is going on...?? will the sex get better eventually? and what can we do...I do to help it??

thank you very much! :)

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A female reader, Emaz help United Kingdom +, writes (31 May 2008):

Emaz help agony auntRelax

The same thing happens to me

I bleds the first two times and it still hurts a bit now!

Now as Aunt letty said- Do lots of foreplay!

And go gentlely at first!

The pain will ease eventually

good luck =]

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A female reader, Aunt Letty United Kingdom +, writes (31 May 2008):

Sex can hurt for any number of reasons. Try enjoting foreplay for a long period before you have sex, this will ensure you're naturally lubricated and should help a lot. Condoms, and even a lubricant (that's safe to use with condoms)can help, as can relaxing and unclenching your muscles. Generally, the more you have sex with a partner the better it gets. However, if it continues to be painful and you continue to bleed you should speak to your doctor.

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