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Am I making too big an issue about this birthday event?
Q. a friend is having a birthday party..and one part includes her paying for a few of her friends to take a pole dancing class..i have taken the class with her but i am just not that good at it..i can't really do the spins or anything etc...i didn't ...
A. 21 April 2010: you're all friends right? no one cares how bad you are, they'll still love you afterwards! just make a joke of it and just dance around the pole. ive been pole dancing before and i know how hard it is, you need strong arms and a lot of sessions to ... (read in full...)
Is eight guys too many?
Q. this is kind of stupid to ask but i just want to know people's opinion (go easy please :P) i am 18 and over the last 2 years i have had sex with 8 guys. is that too many? does that make me a slut? only 3 of the guys was i in any sort of relationship ...
A. 21 April 2010: the average people you are meant to have sex with in your lifetime is something like 14 (im not sure if thats male or female) but everyone i know would hit that within a few years. It doesn't matter how many people you've slept with as long as you ... (read in full...)
Is height a problem when it comes to a relationship? Should the man be way taller than the woman?
Q. Hi everyone! I'm 5'5 feet tall and my husband is only about an inch taller than me.whenever i stand next to him i feel like i'm bigger than him! or we are the same height.he's thin too.and im average.So even when posing for photographs,i tend to ...
A. 25 January 2010: It shouldn't really be a 'problem' and if you love them then it shouldn't matter either. Personally i couldn't date anyone shorter than me but as long as they are slightly taller thats ok... (read in full...)
15 and pregnant, please help!
Q. im 15 and pregnant. im 5 weeks in and when i told my mum and dad they were furious. and they said they wouldn't support me. my boyfriend dumped me and said he wouldn't help either. so im thriving on my own and i am deciding whether to keep or not ...
A. 25 January 2010: In this day and age many kids are having kids and although it probably weren't what they had planned for their life, they are coping. It's up to you whether you feel that you can give up everything you knew e.g going out and having fun with your ... (read in full...)
Am I over reacting or is the age different too great?
Q. ok...well i just started talking to this guy and hes so sweet and i feel like we have been connecting but then i realized hes 27 and im 19. is there too much of an age difference or am i just overreacting? please help...just say its fine or i ...
A. 25 January 2010: I'm 17, my ex is 23, the one before that was 26 and i was 16 and my current bf is 29 which is just slightly too old for me but you can't help who you fall for :) It's not the age that matters, but how you feel and how they are as a person... (read in full...)
How old do you have to be before age doesn't matter?
Q. How old do you have to be before age doesnt matter? Im 22years old and i really like a girl who is only 17, 5years is a big difference at this age i think, although she doesnt act or look 17, i feel as though we are the same age but i know when we ...
A. 20 January 2010: I'm 17. My ex was 23, the one before that was 26 and my current boyfriend is 29. It depends on the person whether they think age matters or not as as you can tell....personally, i dont lol although i do think 29 IS too old but you can't help who you ... (read in full...)
I don't know whether or not to tell my ex that I lost our baby last week or not.
Q. I dont know whether or not to tell my ex that I lost our baby last week or not. He was awful the way he broke up with me and told me not to contact him again. It was only in the very early stages of pregnancy and i didnt know i was pregnant...
A. 1 December 2009: I had a miscarriage the same day i found out the father to it had cheated on me. I didn't tell him about losing the baby until a year and a half later. It ate at me everyday up to when i told him. I wrote it in txts so many times but just never ... (read in full...)
He's involved, wants nothing to do with love but is offering sex
Q. Hi, and wow I cannot believe I'm asking the internet for advice but here it goes: A few days ago [maybe even a week] I met this fantastic guy. Thing is, he is a bit older than I am and already has a girl friend. Here are the problems with the...
A. 26 November 2009: This will be hard but basically i think you should stop talking to him. The feelings will go after a while and nipping it in the bud now will stop any worse heartache after he's used you, took your virginity and gone back to his gf. Their ... (read in full...)
Why aren't you girls sexually protecting yourselves?
Q. This isn't directed to any asker in particular, but I am becoming increasingly concerned, and unfortantely, though I try to withold judgment, I do experience anger, in both my personal life and with askers on the site, who are both aware of ...
A. 25 November 2009: Girls have children at a young age because they think it might make them less lonely as more grown up. I think that teenage hormones play a big role in this and can mess up their minds. Some girls will be on the pill but 'accidentally' miss a few to ... (read in full...)
Does the number of x's at the end of a message mean anything?
Q. Hey, Id just like everyones opinion on this very controvertial topic! Now everyone says 'dont be silly and count the number of x's; nobody uses that as a way to say if they like someone.' But they do. Atleast everyone did a lot when we were younger,...
A. 17 November 2009: i always without fail put 4 kisses just because that's my lucky number. I think that if you have several kisses then it may be that they do like you or that they are happy with the conversation... (read in full...)
I can't orgasm unless I am thinking of my fantasy!
Q. me and my boyfriend love eachother and have been together for almost a year. everytime we have sex its good and i enjoy it, but i can only seem to orgasm when i think of this fantasy, it leaves me feeling guilty after because i should be thinking of ...
A. 17 November 2009: I can't orgasm with my boyfriend at all but i get close when i think of him as someone else. I know it sounds bad but i guess as long as they don't know then it's ok. I think that a lot of people do it....secretly lol... (read in full...)
How long will my boyfriend stay in jail for assaulting me?
Q. am 17 years old and i was dateing this guy who is 19 years old. we currently brok on saturday. because the police arrested him for hitting me on the street i guess people saw him hit me so they called the cops so they arrested him becasue i am a ...
A. 17 November 2009: Obviously this 'man' doesn't care about u or his unborn child. Get out of this so called relationship, have your child and carrying on your life without him unless you want to be living in fear of when he will next hurt you. He's done it once he ... (read in full...)
Why can I only remember my bad dreams?
Q. Why when I have a good dream I cant remember it but when I have a bad I can? I would like to remember the 'really good ones' but of coarse the bad dreams are more clear than possible?...
A. 16 November 2009: I usually have the same thing. I think it may be because bad dreams usually have more feelings in them as well as more action so while you're sleeping your mind may be scared of this dream which might make you remember it in the morning. I prefer ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend. Should I confess?
Q. I cheated what should i do? I got back with my ex last tuesday and i cheated on him last night. We only dated a month the first time we went out then broke up. it was never anything serious but this time it was starting to seem like it might be...
A. 16 November 2009: Ermm personally i wouldn't, only because you haven't been together long. Mayve you shouldn't even be with him as you've split up with him before and cheated on him this time round. I think that if you cheat on someone then it proves that you don't ... (read in full...)
Should I hide my emotions from my boyfriend?
Q. Hi im 18 and sometimes i get emotional and i just want to cry my eyes out cuz either im happy or mad and have no other way to let it out. But i dont like to do it around my boyfriend because i think he might think that i am a cry baby or somethin...
A. 16 November 2009: I think that sometimes you need a good cry. It depends on if you feel comfortable crying infront of your bf because of course he'll ask why you're crying and if you don't actually have a reason then you might feel a bit embarressed of silly. Only ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a baby and I don't. What do I do?
Q. Im 18 and im in college and my boyfriend is 20 and he wants a baby. Now i dont think he ready for one and plus i want to wait but he dont. I love him so much that i dont want to loose him. So everytime we get on that subject and i say no he gets mad ...
A. 16 November 2009: Is it a stable relationship? Are you able to support a baby financially? Do you have support from family and friends? Do you have a place to live for the baby to grow up? These are things you need to consider. You shouldn't have a baby to make him ... (read in full...)
I prefer older guys! Should I hold off on dating?
Q. this may sound bad but im 16 and i've noticed lately that im more atracted to guys in like there late late teens or like 22, so like 18-22... i just ind guys my age anoying and inmucher....i just want to find some one to cuddle with and feel safe ...
A. 16 November 2009: When i was 14 i was with a 25year old, hmmmm i know it sounds slightly wrong now but at that age i was mature and could handle it and ever since then i've never been with anyone my age, they are always at least a few years older so i understand how ... (read in full...)
I just turned 18 and thought my mom would trust me with my boyfriend now, but she doesn't!
Q. Okay, so around october I started dating this new guy that I'm dating now. Last thursday I turned 18. In my mind I thought this would change things a little bit. So I asked my mom if I could help my boyfriend move into his moms house. My mom said no ...
A. 16 November 2009: I went through this sort of thing but i was much younger, me and my mum used to fall out everyday over it and i realise that i should of talked to her about it and reassured her more. She doesn't really care what i do now when it comes to boys ... (read in full...)
Why do we like falling asleep on the phone together?
Q. hey everyone, i know this is gnna sound weird but i have a question; me and my boyfriend love sleeping on the phone with each other. when we talk at nights and we are about to fall asleep we dont say good night and hang up we tend to fall asleep on ...
A. 16 November 2009: Aww that's cute. I did that once with an ex but only because i was so tired lol it may be because you like the feeling that he's close to you, that you can hear him breathing even though he's not there with you. I think that i'd like to do that with ... (read in full...)
What are "bang bang" shoes?
Q. What are "bang bang" shoes as in that n-dubz song where she says "you left me standing in my bang-bang shoes" And where can I get some? lol x...
A. 16 November 2009: haha it just means really really nice, like designer and really sexy. You know the time where you see an item of clothing you automatically fall in love with and you think it's amazing? Yeah it's like that....but with shoes. I love that song lol... (read in full...)
Is it acceptable for a man to hit his girlfriend when she stands up for herself against unfair accusations of infidelity?
Q. Is it normal (or acceptable) for: -a man to accuse his girlfriend of infidelity for more than one year? -for the woman to raise her voice and shout, after one year of being falsely accused and asked the same question over and over and over ...
A. 16 November 2009: Leave him. If he can do it once he can do it again. He doesn't even seem sorry for doing it. If a man raised his hand for me i'd leave stright away, it's not acceptable under any circumstances. It doesn't sound like a great relationship anyway with ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about sleeping with my boyfriend. Any advice?
Q. I want to sleep with my boyfriend but I am not on the pill nor do I want to go on the pill, but I am worried that by just using condoms that I will fall pregnant, he says he will be careful but I'm not sure....
A. 15 November 2009: You have to be on the pill for 7 days for it to work, just to clear that up. It's not effective straight away because it takes a while for it to get into your system properly. I don't trust condoms at all as i've had many experiences where they have ... (read in full...)
What should I get my bf for christmas?
Q. Well we all know xmas is nearly here. me and my bf have been going out for 2years now i really dont know what to buy him for xmas im 15 his 16 ive brought him a silver chain for his bday last yr ive brought him a canvas of us, teddys n that but can ...
A. 10 November 2009: I'm doing a stocking for my bf and i'm gonna put in it little things like mini fragrances and aftershaves, socks, boxers, alcohol, a mini selection box (lol)and novalty stuff things like that, this is an easy idea because you can buy a few things ... (read in full...)
Do girls draw a line between "it doesn't matter" and "too small" for a guy's size?
Q. Girls, would you think that there's a line that separates when a guy's penis size "doesn't matter" and when it's "too small"? Some girls have told me that it doesn't matter to her, and some just flat out told me it's never gonna work. (mine meas...
A. 29 October 2009: I went to an Ann Summers party yesterday and learnt that the girls 'G spot' (not the clit) is 2inches inside the vagina so hearing this i would think that as long as a boy was 2inches then it wouldn't matter right? No, bigger can be better depending ... (read in full...)
Should I let her past bug me?
Q. I found out that the women that i am dating for 6 mths has had 22 men in her past,some where relationships of 1 to 2 yrs in length but most where only a few mths in length and then she tells me that she has had 4 one nite stands.She is 35 yrs old ...
A. 29 October 2009: No it shouldn't bother you, i've slept with 9 people in just under 2years which is 'apparently' average for people where i live, just know that there are people out there who are much worse! If her past doesn't worry her then it shouldn't worry you... (read in full...)
How do I tell her I have a thing about feet?
Q. So me and my girlfriend love each other very much and I trust her a lot, enough to maybe reveal my secret to her. I have foot fetish, she has the cutest feet I have ever laid my eyes on, and she makes it so I can't keep my attention off them some ...
A. 27 October 2009: i have a foot fetish :) i would just start kissing and stroking her feet and see what she says first then tell her.... (read in full...)
He has a child with another women and I don't like sharing!
Q. Im sharing my boyfriend with other woman and im not happy because she has a child with him. What should I do? I love him so much I dont want to loose him....
A. 9 October 2009: I have EXACTLY the same situation, i can't stand having to share him, he gets along with his ex and they go out for meals together and she even pays for his car insurance! When he stayed round hers because it was their sons first day at school i ... (read in full...)
I don't like my knees I think they are ugly!
Q. Hey. ok my problem is pretty weird. Any lets get to it. Im 14, And i dont wear anything that shows my knee's. is there something wrong with me cause i think my knee's are ugly and i get embarrassed by them if people see them i mean its fine ...
A. 22 September 2009: I have a huge scar on my knee, at first i hated it and when i wore shorts or dresses people always point it out and go 'errrrr whats that!' but it may sound strange but i now love my scar, it reminds me of the inncident where i got it and when ... (read in full...)
He won't dump his ex or "put a ring on it", should I move out?
Q. Last year I found out he had been emailing his ex the whole 2 years we had been together. I wouldn't have minded if not for the fact that he made me sever ties with all ex's and male friends from my past. He had been accusing me for months of ...
A. 20 September 2009: Don't you just hate men sometimes? They are so hard to understand! lol well i think you should confront him about this in a calm way so don't have a go at him, just ask him and see his reaction, if he's extremly upset and gets very angry then yeah ... (read in full...)
Is 8 years too big an age gap?
Q. Hello, I'm a guy who just turned 25 last week and have started dating a brilliant girl who is only 16, 17 in a couple of months. Is this too big an age gap for a relationship? I've known this girl for a few months and she has had the hots for me ...
A. 8 September 2009: Personally no. I've always been with older guys, when i was 14 i was with a 25year old, when i was 16 i was with a 26 year old and my current bf is 22 (im 17), i don't think i've ever been out with anyone under the age of 20 just because i think ... (read in full...)
Am I too big up top? My partner said I could do with losing a little weight!
Q. Hi, Guys, can I ask you a question I am a size UK 8, I think a US size 6 on my bottom half, my top half is a 34D UK size Is this good, I mean am I too big up top??? 34 D, good size or too much??? as my partner has said maybe I need ...
A. 7 September 2009: You should only change yourself if you feel uncomfortable or dislike something, don't let others especially your partner push you to change yourself, he should love your size no matter what. ... (read in full...)
I've found pictures and messages on his mobile but I cant confront him because I was sneaky about checking his phone!
Q. my partner has an ex which he is in touch with as they have a daughter together .. i have been into his mobile phone without him knowing and found a pic of a female ... why ?.. i also found a message from another female . i dont think he is cheating ...
A. 7 September 2009: It dpends what sort of messages of pics they were, if they were friendly ones with no flirting then don't worry about it but if they were more serious then confront him. You had to have a reason or doubts to check his phone and betray his trust him ... (read in full...)
I'm so confused about the way relationships work...
Q. Hey im so counfused about everything how relastionships work How they start Where do couples go or do usualy I never had a proper relastionship and im 17!!! I have no answer and watching my mums relastionships didn't help me the way I am now I am...
A. 5 September 2009: Theres not really a right or wrong answer but heres the basics- Usually you'll meet through friend or out at parties n things like that, then you'll get chatting meet up a few times, have you're first kiss and then start 'seeing/dating' each other. ... (read in full...)
Why can some women be so cruel and man hating?
Q. Hello i would like opinons first from the guys have you experenced this secondly from the girls do you treat guys like this and why. I was out the other day saw some beautful women many of them so decided to talk to a few i had a beer so decded ...
A. 5 September 2009: If some random man came up to me and started speaking 2 me then i'd have my guard up stright away, you know, just incase he was gonna mug me or was just an idiot lol i would speak to them to be polite though. Most woman are not exactly 'man hating' ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex but don't want to get pregnant
Q. well im in love with my boyfriend verry much and he lives in texas he is comming down to see me next summer and we planed on making love but im afraid i have done it b4 but now i can get pregnant and i realy want to with him but i dont know what to ...
A. 23 August 2009: You shouldn't fall pregnant if you use contraception correctly. Go to your Doctor.... (read in full...)
What's the most important thing in a relationship?
Q. Pls what is most important in a relationship that would make the best for marriage? is it the time they share together, the shown love or the spending? for i know poverty is not a choice, and also some know how to show love while others dont though ...
A. 23 August 2009: trust... (read in full...)
Can I trust him? He's telling other girls he wants to be with them!
Q. I been this relationship for 2yrs now,, in the first couple of months we had some problems or at least i had some problems with him. such as his bm called my phone and then another time a girl called my phone talking bout they been together for ...
A. 23 August 2009: i would personally split up with him, i couldnt stand that, that is still cheating. It will b hard but its better for you and you're child. You dont deserve that... (read in full...)
Should I get his name tatooed on me or is it bad luck?
Q. I'm a 22 year old female who is in a very serious and committed relationship with a 32 year old male. I really love him and he loves me we are unable to be with one another physically because he is behind bars. I cant see myself with anyone e...
A. 30 March 2009: I'm also with someone behind bars so i totally understand you feelings there.
With the tattoo personally i wouldn't do anything unless you're married, if you're married then you both believe you will be together forever. If you do get one done then... (read in full...)
Is it safe to be nude at a tanning salon?
Q. well this doesn't really relate to sex or much of what this site goes over but i was wanting to know if tanning in a place with tanning beds is safe? As in is there camera's or anything like that. and with my penis is it safe to use a tanning be ...
A. 24 March 2009: I always go on sunbeds naked and I go on them regularly. Nothing will happen unless you go on for too long then you might get burnt. I'd advise only going on for 6 minutes at the most each time. Yes, spray tans are much safer but as long as you d... (read in full...)
Advice on romantic weekends please!
Q. I want to plan a romantic weekend for my girlfriend. Any advice as to where mountains, ocean, lake, or city. What are some fun/ romantic activities we can do on the weekend trip? Ladies what makes a romantic weekend special for you...
A. 3 March 2009: Paris
lol my favourite place in the world
if you can't afford to go away away then just go sit on a beach at night and watch the stars with a bottle of champagne and a picnic, i love doing that :)
i hope you have fun!... (read in full...)
Planning a wedding and I'm not even engaged - have I gone crazy??
Q. Am i crazy? im 16 and do have a boyfriend of almost a year and a half. this may sound crazy but we have spoken about SOMEDAY getting married, when we're about 22, 23. on saturday i went to a wedding and since then [today is tuesday] i have l...
A. 17 February 2009: omg haha i've recently been doing the same! Thinking about my dress and a nice horse and cart and church and stuff! Naa it's just normal stuff, as long as you don't start making proper plans then its fine!... (read in full...)
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