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*kimx
writes:I liked this boy for ages, I was like in love with him. I slept with him and things didn't work out. After that he started seeing another girl, but she had a boyfriend. He found and stopped seeing her--now she is seeing the boy I like. To get back at her, I was going to sleep with her now ex-boyfriend, but I still like the boy she is with now and I think he likes me but she wont let him go what should I do? I can't help myself--I'm going to make myself look like an idiot. Reply to this Question
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (3 July 2007):
 Nobody is stuck to someone, he has the mind to leave her, he can leave her if he wants to. And if he really does, just wait and give it time. He might do, tell him how you feel if he acts on it then good on you! If he doesnt theres nothing you can really do, and i wouldnt carry out your plan because i agree with playgroundcops you can get labelled a really unpleasant name and once you're stuck with it, you're stuck with it love.
Hope it works out. :] xxxxx
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reader, Playgroundcops  +, writes (2 July 2007):
Admitting it is half of the problem.
(I can't help myself--I'm going to make myself look like an idiot. )
You already have the answers just trust yourself.
BTW... sex to get back at someone????????? Yup, give this guy a free roll in the hay. That'll show her.
This kind of thinking just creates problems. You'll constantly be surrounded by drama, thinking like that not to mention being labled a unpleasant name.
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reader, sarcy24 +, writes (2 July 2007):
 I agree with Yummy Mummy. Don't sleep with this other boy. Give it all a bit of time and things will smooth out. Things are always very highly emotionally charged when you are young and each day is very different so just take each day as it comes. He will soon tire of this other girl but he won't want you back if you have been cheapening yourself and sleeping with other boys. Honestly every day is different - just give it some time.
All the best. xxx
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (2 July 2007):
 Don't have sex with someone to get back at her. You'll just make youself look easy and a bit of an idiot.
If the guy really likes you and not her than he will leave her in time. She can't make him stay in a relationship with her. Also if you sleep with her ex the guy you like might not think much of you for it. Just give the situation some time to play out.
xxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2007): Well, you tried before and it didn't work... Stop wasting your energy and feelings on someone who is not interested to have you as a girlfriend. Stop wasting your energy and self-respect trying to get back to the girl through sleeping around with her ex-; it will only hurt you. Spend some time loving and caring for yourself, and move on. If the guy gets interested, he will run after you. But then, you might have grown out of him anyway!
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reader, flower girl +, writes (2 July 2007):
 So if you can see you are going to make yourself look like an idiot by doing this what is the point, all you are going to achieve by doing this is make yourself feel bad.
If he likes you he will be with you, she has no hold on him and it's not a case of she will not let him go if he wants to go there is nothing she can do about it.
He will have alot more respect for you as well if you don't sleep with her ex just to get back at her.
Revenge is not always as sweet as it might seem.
Take care.xx.
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