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| Latest articles: Dear Teenage me
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18 March 2015: Dear Teenage Me As it stands, I am just about to turn 20 which means soon I will be waving goodbye to my teenage years. But, what journey it has been. This probably won’t seem a lot to some people but to me is moving on to the scarier years, t...
What does a kiss tell about a person...
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18 May 2008: Now this may sound rubbish but this is how you can tell how the person likes you, by the kiss they give you! Kiss on the cheek mean you are friends Kiss on the hands means i really like you Kiss on the lips means i love you Kiss on t...
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My cousin proposed to me, I want to say yes, but what will my family say?
Q. When i was 17 my cousin came down to Texas from Georgia for a family reunion and when she got there she came up to me asked me to go for a walk down one of the trails that led to the river. Somehow she knew exactly where she was going and we stopped ...
A. 4 August 2010: Well you know what if you're happy thats what is really the most important thing, hope everything goes well for you! All the best.... (read in full...)
My cousin proposed to me, I want to say yes, but what will my family say?
Q. When i was 17 my cousin came down to Texas from Georgia for a family reunion and when she got there she came up to me asked me to go for a walk down one of the trails that led to the river. Somehow she knew exactly where she was going and we stopped ...
A. 2 August 2010: In my opinion this just spells trouble, it could lead to you having alot of trouble with your family and issues with your relationship in the future.
If she is your first cousin the what you are doing is extremely wrong however anything over sec... (read in full...)
What do guys find attractive in girls?
Q. hiya ok, this a question for you guys out there. What do you find atractive about a girl?? Skinny? Even if she is pretty she has to be thin?? You wouldn't mind if she was a bit more "padded"?? please give me your opinion?...
A. 25 November 2009: ...I know that I'm not a guy but I know the answer you might get alot from this question. No guy likes the same thing, there's not like a textbook were it's all written down (wish there was). However every guy likes something different in woman you ... (read in full...)
Does X plus naked pics on pc equal no relationship?
Q. I love my boyfriend very much. We've been together just over a year and i honestly dont know what id do without him. However, lately he's been less committed than I. He took his ex out for drinks then went back to her place and I found half naked ...
A. 25 November 2009: Talk to him honey! All of what you have just told us say it all to him, he needs to hear it.
Sit him down have a one to one chat get everything out in the open and the air cleared with him and take the next step from there x... (read in full...)
How can I makeout properly with her? And any good songs for me to play on the guitar for her?
Q. I now have a girlfriend and I really like her. We have kissed, and tried to makeout but that didn't work. We started, but then we bumped lips and teeth and it stopped. How can I makeout properly with her? And what are some good songs to learn on ...
A. 25 November 2009: I'm just going to keep my answer short and simple. Practise makes perfect x
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Is that considered sex? Am I still a virgin?
Q. if a guy stuck his penis all the way in my vagina but he just stayed there and didn't move. like there were no thrusting or humping motions, is that considered sex? or sexual intercourse? am i still a virgin?...
A. 25 November 2009: Yeah its considered sex since he did actually penetrate you. Yeah agreed sounds like you have had really lousy first time. ... (read in full...)
I want to protect my friend. Should I tell the school nurse about her (who just happens to be my mum!)
Q. Hey, just a 'quick' question. This one's not about me thank god. Basically, one of my friends got completely wasted and ended up losing her virginity at 14 a couple of days ago. I've been sworn to secrecy, but (always a but) I have a small problem ...
A. 25 November 2009: Talk to her first before anything else and get her to try and talk to someone. If all else fails then you have to tell someone as if she gets addicted to this lifestyle it could potentially ruin her life.
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Christmas gift for the boyfriend?
Q. I'm having a difficult time deciding what to get my boyfriend for christmas ,, any suggestions??? Thanks x ...
A. 24 November 2009: Oh yh get a pony lol!
Nahh jokes. Get him something that he like maybe a aftershave or a t-shirt. Or you could go really personal and make something or even better get him something that symbolisies you's as a couple like...umm...say get a moment... (read in full...)
I am constantly catching a cold, how can I build my immune system?
Q. Hey This has absoluetly nothing to do with relationships or anything like that but I do need advice or I might go mad. I keep getting the cold all the time like literaly I have had it twice in the last two weeks, I mean you would think I would ...
A. 26 May 2009: Thank you looks like I'll be stocking up in vitamins then, well I guess if it helps then it's worth it.
Thanks to everyone that gave me advice you have helped me alot! Maybe I won't get another cold till winter now lol *fingers crossed*... (read in full...)
I am constantly catching a cold, how can I build my immune system?
Q. Hey This has absoluetly nothing to do with relationships or anything like that but I do need advice or I might go mad. I keep getting the cold all the time like literaly I have had it twice in the last two weeks, I mean you would think I would ...
A. 24 May 2009: the surgical masks don't work and I would look seirously weird walking around wearing one of them.
Avoiding them doesn't work believe me I have tried.... (read in full...)
I am constantly catching a cold, how can I build my immune system?
Q. Hey This has absoluetly nothing to do with relationships or anything like that but I do need advice or I might go mad. I keep getting the cold all the time like literaly I have had it twice in the last two weeks, I mean you would think I would ...
A. 24 May 2009: I actualy mean it is my friends that are giving it to me, like it one of them catches it then the chance is I will get it to. I just want a way to try and stop that from happening.... (read in full...)
I am constantly catching a cold, how can I build my immune system?
Q. Hey This has absoluetly nothing to do with relationships or anything like that but I do need advice or I might go mad. I keep getting the cold all the time like literaly I have had it twice in the last two weeks, I mean you would think I would ...
A. 24 May 2009: No it isnt hay fever I know because I get that aswel and take my hay fever tablet ever day, so it can't be that.... (read in full...)
Last night I had sex and we forgot to use protection, what do I do?
Q. last night i had sex with my boy friend. and well let's just say it wasn't that great and the worst part about it was we forgot to use protection of any kind what do i do if i get pregnant i will be in so much trouble i am only a freshman i know i ...
A. 9 May 2009: Just use the morning after pill you can get it over the counter. But you will have to use it soon as the sooner you use it the more effictive it will be.
I would take your scare of being pregnaut as warning and just remember to use protection is t... (read in full...)
Where do I put my hands and how do I stand?
Q. hi when your boyfriend puts his hands up your top, how should you stand, where do you put your hands on him? i feel comfortable with this btw, but i just need some advice lol thanks xxx ...
A. 4 December 2008: How about putting your arms round his neck and gently kissing him, but it what ever you feel comfortable with... (read in full...)
My Best Friend's parent hit her and I swore to secrecy - what can I do?
Q. My best friends parents hit her, and I really need someone to talk to about it, but I swore to her not to tell anyone. She won't do anything about it, won't tell anyone or anything and it's driving me insane. I can't tell my mum because she'll want ...
A. 3 December 2008: Would you feel worse telling someone and breaking your promise or your friend getting hit again ?
I think you are a good friend to try and keep this secret it shows you are trustworthy.
However you need to step and talk to your friend, conv... (read in full...)
I just had my hair cut and I HATE IT!!!
Q. Well... This probably will seem like a really dumb problem.. but I need help. It's not really a relationship question either, but I hope you can help anyways. About a week ago, I went and got a haircut, before I went in, my hair was down past my...
A. 2 December 2008: Thats great new!
Im glad your feeling better and happier about your hair now!
x
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Do I break it off with him, and follow my heart?
Q. Hi. Well rhe story is my boyfriend who has on occasion because of drink and drug problems hit me and been very aggressive. Due to my loyalty towards him as he was a friend and I helped him of off heroin, I can't seem to leave him to self destruct. ...
A. 1 December 2008: The question is do you still love your boyfriend ?
If yes then stick by him and help him get better IF you can see a future.
If no then thats it answered follow your heart, he is making you feel unloved and the other guy is. You are looking ... (read in full...)
Is brown discharge normal?
Q. hi, i was wondering if anyone would be able 2 tell me if brown discharge is normal? im 2 scared 2 go 2 doctors:( i also keep gettin tummy aches only when i wake up i get this :( ...
A. 1 December 2008: Talk to your mum about it, if you havnt started your period it very well may be that.
I understand why you scared about the doctors as its quite embarrassing to go about something like that.
So talk to your mum or a close relative or frie... (read in full...)
Pointy boobs and big nipples - is it okay to have boobs like mine?
Q. My boobs are pointy and my nipples are big. I have small boobs already so neither of these things help at all. i have never seen anyone with boobs like mine. I want a boob job but i'm only 16. My boyfriend says they are fine but sometimes when we ...
A. 1 December 2008: There is no person in the world the same everyone is totaly unique. If every person was exactly the same the world would be really boring.
So dont worry be confident in yourself, you are great as you are!
Take care x... (read in full...)
My little sister is flat chested, and embarrassed, is there anything that can help?
Q. hi i'm a lil worried about my young sister, she's 16 and got her period last year but she's still flat chested, i mean really flat! i was nothing like her when i was her age, but i was chubby while she's sooo skinny! she's always embarrasse...
A. 1 December 2008: Chicken fillets are a good idea but then again some people may be worried about wearing them, like scared incase one of them fell out.
So maybe a safe option of good quality well padded bra may just give her and lift and a confidence boost.
Hop... (read in full...)
Brown discharge...
Q. I'm 15 and I haven't started my period yet, but I have been having a discharge for a about 2 years I think but the other day my discharge went from white to brown... what is this from and what can I do to make it not brown?????...
A. 30 November 2008: About two years before you start your period you normaly get a sort of white discahrge. So the fact that it has now turned brown I think that you period started.
So if I was you I would talk to a parent or someone close about it.
Good Luck x... (read in full...)
How can I cheer up?
Q. i feel so stressed out its un believable, i just feel so annoyed and under pressure with school and stuff. I also feel so useless, and like nothings ever going right it feels like if im not here it will be better :/ please help on how i can cheer up...
A. 30 November 2008: Think positively about stuff and try not to get put down by all the little things.
Try taking a nice long relaxing bath and thinking about nothing at all, or pamper yourself and make yourself feel good and whole lot better.
Have a good n... (read in full...)
How can I shift these spots?
Q. This is irritating me. I know this has nothing to do with relationships, but I need help. I've tried everything but my spots just won't go away. Everynight and morning I rub a spott cleansing lotion on my face. Every other day I wash it. And occ...
A. 29 November 2008: I recently asked a question really similar to this oto n how get rid of spots.
They are just they most irrating thing so i can understand what you mean.
People gave me great advice on trying out natural products rather than onces like clear... (read in full...)
Should I wait to go to the hospital or do I go now?
Q. I have searched the web trying to find an answer to my question. 7 days ago I was almost at the end of my period. Went to work as usual, but when I came home there was no string??!! I tried to find it, then I was questioning if I used one or not. So ...
A. 29 November 2008: There is a good chance of infection and you are always better than being safe than sorry.
So if i was you i would go to the hospital now.... (read in full...)
Does it sound like I'm pregnant?
Q. Hiya everyone, Im really worried for the past 3 days ive been off college sick with the stomach bug, but ive also having doubts that im pregnent since i saw somone else post about a stomach bug yesterday, Anyway ive been sleeping with my guy for ...
A. 29 November 2008: You need to take a pregnancy so you can find out for sure.
I would take more than just one test to be absolutely sure if you are pregnaunt or not.... (read in full...)
I'm nearly sixteen and I'm so scared of having sex,
Q. Hello, I'm nearly sixteen and I'm so scared of having sex, although I haven't got a boyfriend, the thought of it just scares me. If I got into the situation, I wouldn't have a clue what to do, it's not like I ever have boyfriends or stuff because my ...
A. 29 November 2008: There is no point in worrying about it, you obviously not ready to ave sex just yet.
The more you worry the worse you anxiesty is going to get.
So wait until you have found the perfect guy for you and when you feel ready because then you wont be ... (read in full...)
I just had my hair cut and I HATE IT!!!
Q. Well... This probably will seem like a really dumb problem.. but I need help. It's not really a relationship question either, but I hope you can help anyways. About a week ago, I went and got a haircut, before I went in, my hair was down past my...
A. 29 November 2008: Yeah hair extentions are great but cost a abosulte forture, my hair is curly aswel so maybe instead of hair extention for christmas you save up for a pair of really hot hair straighters, as the hotter they are the better they will be at straigting ... (read in full...)
Does anyone have a good cure for getting rid of spots?
Q. Well does anyone have a good cure for getting rid of spots. I tried alot from freederm to clearisal, its like sometimes my skin its really clear and I barely have any spots. Then like a week later i have loads and just can't get rid of them. ...
A. 28 November 2008: ok im definately going to try lush products what other products are good for spots apart from the face mask.
Is there any like good face washes or soaps ?... (read in full...)
I embarrassed her. Does this mean we are thru ?
Q. Me and my girlfriend got drunk tonight we ended up making out. One thing lead another and I pull off her shirt but it stuck to her bra strap. me being quite drunk pulling harder thinking it would come with it. But some padding fell out. I said " ...
A. 9 November 2008: For a girl that is probably one of the worst things you could have said.
She might dump you however as you were both drunk you may be ok.
But you need to apoligize alot, she will feel really embarrassed so maybe buy her a gift or something to ... (read in full...)
My parents are splitting up! What can I do to stop them?
Q. My parents are going to split up! :( i don't know how to keep them together ...... please i need help........ x ...
A. 9 November 2008: Sadly there isnt anything that you can do, there obviously wernt happy together so have decided to split.
It will take time for you to get used, and at first it will be hard.
But it just something you have to try and cope with.
Take Ca... (read in full...)
I've never had sex, but I'm not getting my period. Is this normal?
Q. Hi everyone. I am 14 and I got my first period in December. Most were on time but I haven't had a period in 4 months. Is this normal or should I be worried (I have no had any form of sex or sexual acts)?...
A. 8 November 2008: I agree with emily answers it could be something to do with your weight.
When you first start your period its really irregular and will take a couple of yrs to become regular, or sometimes you may just have a irregular period.
Dont worry ab... (read in full...)
Am I expecting too much wanting my best friend to stick up for me?
Q. Quick question for you: Am I expecting too much in that I want my best friend to stick up for me? I'll explain a bit more. At school we are in a group of 7, but of that seven me and this girl both agree we are best friends, however one girl in the ...
A. 8 November 2008: Well see i thought part of being a best friend is that you stick up for each other.
Im really lucky i have 4 best friends and we hang about with each other, we always stick up for each other.
Its fair enough that sometimes she may not want to ... (read in full...)
He's obsessed with me and won't stop asking me out!
Q. This boy in my school has had a crush on me for ages. He keeps asking me to be his girlfriend, I keep saying no but he wont give up! At the start it was kind of cute, but its become like an obsession of his. He asks me at least 5 times a day. I ...
A. 7 November 2008: oh well at least you tried, sorry it didnt go to well for you then.
If it persists you still need to have a heart to heart talk with him and say your not interested.
Good Luck x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend just told me that he was gay before he knew me...
Q. Hii there. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 and a half years. We love each other to pieces. But the other day he sat me down and said that he wanted to get something off his chest. He told me that before he knew me he was openly ...
A. 7 November 2008: Maybe you just need to time to adjust
you have been together nearly 4yrs and i think you give it a chance.
But if this all starts to get t much maybe it would be time to let go.
In your heart you will know.
Good Luck x
P.S. uncle phil i s... (read in full...)
He's obsessed with me and won't stop asking me out!
Q. This boy in my school has had a crush on me for ages. He keeps asking me to be his girlfriend, I keep saying no but he wont give up! At the start it was kind of cute, but its become like an obsession of his. He asks me at least 5 times a day. I ...
A. 7 November 2008: Would it honestly do you any harm to try going out with him for just one night.
You never know you might like him out of school, and if you dont you can say i like you as a friend, and he stop asking you out as you already been out with him.
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I accidentally kicked him in his "family jewels" and now he won't talk to me.
Q. My boyfriend and me went a party together yesterday. We got separated during the party. I didn't feel so I texted him saying I'm home. On the home I felt someone grab behind and I thought someone trying was kidnap me. I kicked him in family jewels. ...
A. 6 November 2008: There is only one thing you can do and thats apologize to him... (read in full...)
It was a silly joke that went too far and now he wants to date me.
Q. Okay, So I Was With This Guy Brad For Nearly 3 Months, But I Broke Up With Him 2 Weeks Ago. I've Had A Thing For His Mate Mark For 2 Months, But I Knew It Would Never Go Anywhere, As Mark Doesn't Like Me, And He Is Brad's Friend. But He Has Always ...
A. 6 November 2008: I agree if you andy is the one that you liek then why did you snog Mark ???
You need to decide who you want then let that perosn down gently, saying that you really want to stay friends but nothing more.... (read in full...)
I woke up with blood in my underwear, what's going on?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby. I have been noticing my stomach getting bigger and so has he. But Wednesday morning I woke with a bit of blood in my underwear, it only lasted till like now Friday morning at 4:00. Plus it's 19 ...
A. 6 November 2008: Yeah i agree i would go to the docotors as soon as possible... (read in full...)
Why does my genitalia smell like "onions"?!?!?
Q. This is for all you girls... or maybe guys if you know the answer. Down in my special area I used to smell ok, different but ok ya know? But lately I've noticed I've been smelling like onion! It makes me want to throw up! Is there any way to fix ...
A. 6 November 2008: Try just making sure you wash properly down there, as alot of bacteria can build up and make it smell pretty bad.
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The condom split - what should I do?
Q. i have a question that is really worrying me. i am 16 and my friend is 17. we are both gay and have been friends for the past year. we have also been sexually active with each other since a short time after we met. we just recently started ...
A. 29 October 2008: i would go to the doctor and get checked out just to be on the safe side... (read in full...)
How do I save my friendship?
Q. hi my boyfriend dumped 4 months ago we were only going out for 2 months but im still crazy about him. It feel really low, i don't want anyone else i get offers but refuse eventhough i know i can't get him. He's always on my mind. I think i am in ...
A. 28 October 2008: Why not try even talking to him about it ?
Or a close friend you just need to get this off your chest and not keep it all bottled up inside as that in the end makes you feel worse.
Once you startt to feel abit better slowly rebuild your friendsh... (read in full...)
Is there a cure for shy?
Q. Hello, my question is how can I cure my shyness? I am very shy and, my main problem is I just don't know what to talk about. I know it seems weird, but when I see someone I just say hello and I'm really stressed about what I should say next. I kee...
A. 28 October 2008: Believing in yourself i think its a good cure, as i used to be really shy and have no convidence.
But i started to believe in myself and have a positive attitude and has my i became happier with myself my convidence grew and my shyness slowly star... (read in full...)
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