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writes: My boyfriend and me went a party together yesterday. We got separated during the party. I didn't feel so I texted him saying I'm home. On the home I felt someone grab behind and I thought someone trying was kidnap me. I kicked him in family jewels. Realizing I just attack my boyfriend who just innocently trying gave a kiss on the cheek. His friends were there too laughing their heads. He haven't talk to me since. What Should I do? I felt so stupid.
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reader, BlondeBabe x  +, writes (6 November 2008):
 There is only one thing you can do and thats apologize to him
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reader, mustaine6 +, writes (5 November 2008):
he was trying to be sweet and romantic, you were trying to defend yourself. its noones fault, but hes still gonna be annoyed about damaging his pride...just tell him your so sorry and theres no way youd have done it if you new it was him, then ask if you can still have that kiss? lol
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reader, guillaume +, writes (5 November 2008):
 Hi,
Think about it...you were alone and suddenly someone was "attacking" you. At the time, you had no idea what was happening and you needed to protect yourself. That's why you went for his testicles. That would be a natural reaction from any vulnerable person.
He obviously lost pride from his friends and upset by this. For you, apologise for hurting him but explain you got scared and didn't know what was going on.
Looking back, you have a right to defend yourself as hesitation could have been crucial. take care, G xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2008): Tell him you thought he was a attacker and it's never a good ideal to creep up on a girl like that in the dark. Say sorry but if he keeps ignoring you, it's his lost.
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reader, Emilysanswers + ♥, writes (5 November 2008):
It's wasn't exactly clever to run up and grab a girl unannounced at night. I'm glad to know you can defend yourself.
However, you did hurt him and in front of his mates.
Even though it was an accident and a mis understanding I think you should take the blame and grovel so his ego is not so dented.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2008): You made an innocent mistake. All you can is apologize and be sincere. It wasn't too smart of your boyfriend to run up behind you like that though. Perhaps he'll approach you in a different way next time?
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