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female
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*ecretls
writes:I love my boyfriend very much. We've been together just over a year and i honestly dont know what id do without him. However, lately he's been less committed than I. He took his ex out for drinks then went back to her place and I found half naked pictures on his computer of an 'internet friend'. This got me concerned so i looked at his phone when he was out of the room and i found he'd been texting a friend saying that he has been tempted to see what else was out there, but that he was happy with me and knew he shouldnt ruin it. when iv spoken to him he's promised he hasnt cheated and i believe him.I really do love this guy, and although he says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, I am incredibly insecure and now find it difficult to believe him when he says he loves me.Should I stay with him?
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reader, BlondeBabe x +, writes (25 November 2009):
 Talk to him honey! All of what you have just told us say it all to him, he needs to hear it.
Sit him down have a one to one chat get everything out in the open and the air cleared with him and take the next step from there x
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reader, michelle411  +, writes (25 November 2009):
 well i myself had a relationship like that. i have not been with him for over 3 yrs now, but i thought that i was gonna be with him forever. i would find naked pictures of other girls on his phone and i actually did catch him cheating on me more than once. i was one of the hardest things i had to do in life but i am a stronger person from that experience. it's really up to u if u want to stay with him, but i know that it was very hard to break away from him. like i said it's up to you if u want to keep having ur heart broken, when this was all done i thought that my heart would never feel the same, but now i am all better. i think that if this continues you should break it off until he can decide what he wants b/c u can't make someone stop what they are doing unless they see the hurt it's causing you, and if he doesn't see it obviously he doesn't love you fully. good luck with this relationship, just stay strong and positive
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